Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba athetha ntoni amaphupha akho? Ngaba uphuphe ngezinto, iimeko okanye iintshukumo qala ngonobumba A? Chonga iphupha lakho kunye nokutolikwa kwala magama aqala ngesi sikhamiso, kuba ukwazi umyalezo wawo kuya kukunceda wazi ukuba yintoni ebangela ukuba uphuphe. Ukufumana intsingiselo yayo kuya kuba luphawu lokwazi ngaphakathi kuwe ukuba kukuhambisa ntoni kwaye ufuna ntoni.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ubucwebe bungenye yezinto ezifunwa kakhulu ngabasetyhini, kunye namadoda amaninzi, ngoko ke ukuphupha akuqhelekanga. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, namhlanje siza kugxila ekuphupheni ngamacici, okanye yintoni efanayo, ukuphupha ngamacici.
Akukhathaliseki nokuba ezi zibekwe ezindlebeni, okanye kwamanye amalungu omzimba (njengokugqobhoza), kufuneka wazi ukuba zinentsingiselo kwaye oko kuya kuxhomekeka kwimeko ozifumana ukuyo ephupheni kunye nohlobo lwamacici, okanye apho ubeka khona.
Ihlala icingelwa ukuba yinyani phupha malunga nebhokisi liphupha elinentsingiselo engeyiyo. Ukuba kutshanje kuye kwafuneka ujongane nokusweleka kwesihlobo okanye umntu obaluleke kakhulu kwisangqa sakho sabazana, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba uphuphe olu hlobo lwamaphupha. Ngoku, ukuba ingqondo yakho ikubonise ibhokisi ngendlela engaqhelekanga, intsingiselo inokuba bhetyebhetye.
Kwinqaku lakutshanje siza kuchaza iinkcukacha ezahlukeneyo malunga nentsingiselo ye- iphupha lakho ngebhokisi, ukuze ube nokuyisebenzisa kwimeko yakho. Iingcali ekuchazeni amaphupha azisoloko zinxulumana nokuphupha iibhokisi ezineebhokisi ezingalunganga. Inokunxulumana nothando lomphuphi lokwazi ngakumbi malunga nehlabathi eliqhelekileyo, ngokugqitha kwimida abantu abangayaziyo, yokuphanda kwinqanaba elitsha. Ukutolikwa kuyafana nokuba nini uphupha amangcwaba ebusuku, okanye nini uphupha ngokufa.
Namhlanje uya kwazi ngokweenkcukacha Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha imoto kuba kuninzi ukucacisa ngayo. Imoto (okanye imoto njengoko yaziwa njalo kwiLatin America) yile ezona ndlela zisetyenziswayo zothutho kuluntu lonke. Intuthuzelo, ukhuseleko kunye nesantya ekubonelelwa yimoto siphezulu kakhulu kwezinye izithuthi, yiyo loo nto isetyenziswa kakhulu, yiyo loo nto kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba namaphupha ngenye yazo, ngakumbi ukuba ungumlandeli weemoto .
Okokuqala, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba andinakukucacisela ukutolikwa kwephupha ngaphandle kokuqhubeka, kuba kuqala kuya kufuneka uhlalutye imeko apho iphupha lakho lenzeka khona kunye neemeko zakho. Umzekelo, ayithethi into efanayo ukuba i-subconscious ikubonisa ngokwakho ukuqhuba imoto entsha (njengeFerrari), ukuba uyangqina ingozi yemoto apho isihlobo sasihamba. Uyayibona?
Wanna uyazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ukubulala? Kwimeko apho, qhubeka ufunda eli nqaku. Ukubulala kwenzeka rhoqo emaphupheni ethu xa siye sabona ukuphanga okanye ukuphanga kwaye siziva sisoyika, kunye naxa sibona iindaba kumabonwakude okanye kwiphephandaba kwaye oko kuyasichaphazela.
Ngamanye amaxesha, kwindibano yentlalontle, ingqondo yethu isifundisa ulwaphulo-mthetho ngendlela ebonakala ingekhoyo. Okokuqala, kufuneka kuthiwe ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko zakho zangoku kunye nemeko yesiqwenga, ukubulala kunokutolikwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ukubulala umntu omaziyo akunantsingiselo ifanayo nokubulala umntu ongamaziyo okanye isilwanyana. Ngamanye amaxesha, ungulo mntu utshutshiswayo (fumanisa Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha bendileqa), abafuna ukumbulala. Bekutheni ze bandidubule? Sisiphi isiganeko ebomini bam bokwenyani esinokubangela la maphupha amabi?
Ebomini, kukho izinto ezininzi umntu ngamnye aya kuba nazo ngaxa lithile; enye yazo ubuhlobo. Kungako kunjalo phupha nabahlobo kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kwaye into yokuba ixhaphake eluntwini ichaza ukuba kukho intsingiselo emva kwayo. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni? Kweli nqaku uza kwazi atolikwa njani la maphupha, kodwa kuqala kufuneka ucacise ezinye iinkcukacha.
Uhlalutyo kunye neempendulo zahluka kakhulu kuxhomekeke kwimeko yephupha, kuba alifani ukuba i-subconscious ikubonisa Abahlobo odlala nabo kwaye wonwabe naboUngathini xa ikufundisa abahlobo bakho basweleke kuba ubakhumbula. Ke ngoko, kuyafuneka ukuba uyifunde ngocoselelo kwaye uthathele ingqalelo imeko yakho, eya kuthi ibe nefuthe kwisiphelo osifikelela esiphelweni.
Ezi zinto zinamaphiko zongamele ukuhambisa umyalezo kwaye Iphupha leengelosi inokuba neentsingiselo ezilungileyo nezingalunganga. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, inani lakhe linxulunyaniswa nococeko lomphefumlo, kunye nokukhuselwa komntu, kodwa kukwakho neengelosi ezingenangqondo. Ndityhila zonke iimfihlelo ezingezantsi.
Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iinyosi? Iinyosi zizinambuzane ezithi banendima ebalulekileyo kuluntu. Ubusi ababuvelisayo kwimingxunya yabo sisondlo esinamandla esisisebenzisa kwizitya ezininzi. Ziququzelelwe kwisakhiwo esiyinkimbinkimbi sokukhupha impova kwiintyatyambo kunye nokubumba ubusi, banako nokuzincama ukukhusela ubomi benkosikazi yenyosi.
Njengoko sihlala siphawula, intsingiselo yephupha iya kwahluka kakhulu ngokusekwe kumxholo onxulumene nayo, ubuntu bakho, okanye imeko yakho. Iya kuba nokutolikwa okwahlukileyo ukuba sifumana enkulu incindi yobusi, ukuba ziyakuluma, ukuba zingena emzimbeni wakho, ukuba ziyaphila okanye zifile, ubukhulu bazo, iintlobo zazo, ukuba ziboniswa nezinye izinambuzane (umzekelo, ngeembovane). Zonke iinkcukacha ziya kukunika ukutolikwa ngokuchanekileyo.
Yikholwe okanye ungakholelwa, naliphi na iphupha linokutolikwa, nokuba kungaqhelekanga kangakanani. Le yinto eyenzekayo ebantwini xa phupha iinaliti. Ngokubanzi, intsingiselo yayo inxulunyaniswa nokungahambi kakuhle komphuphi. Izikhonkwane ziluphawu lokuhlaba, iintlungu kunye nosizi ezenzeka kuthi umhla nezolo. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka uyazi loo nto amaphupha aneenaliti ayahluka ngokomxholo apho zithiwe thaca khona, kuba ayifani ukuphupha iinaliti ezininzi eziza kunamathela emzimbeni wakho kunokuba unesikhonkwane ezandleni zakho kwaye uthunga uzolile esofeni ekhaya.
Ngokwezibalo, zezona ndlela zokuhamba zikhuselekileyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kodwa ingoyena nobangela wamaphupha amabi kubaphuphi. Kule nqaku ndicacisa ngokweenkcukacha kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha inqwelomoya. Akusiyo mfihlo ukuba uninzi lwethu luthandwa liphupha izihlandlo ezininzi ebomini. Inkqubo ye- moya sisithuthi esichaza ukutolikwa okuhlukeneyo ukuba i-subconscious ikufundisa ulele.
Nangona kunjalo, Iinqwelomoya azinakubalulwa ngentsingiselo enye sifana nephupha kuba ngekhe siphazame. Zininzi iinguqulelo ezinokwenzeka kwaye ndiza kukuxelela nganye nganye, ukusuka kwelona generic ukuya kwelona liphupha lichanekileyo, ukuze ke ulwazi oluchanekileyo uluchaze kwimeko yakho.
Kule nqaku Siza kukubonisa ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuphupha amanzi nengcaciso yalo nganye. Amanzi yinto ebaluleke ngaphezu kokuphila, umzimba womntu ubunjwe ngamanzi, ukuba ube ngama-70% ngokuthe ngqo, sinokuthi kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuphupha amanzi kunokuba neentsingiselo ezininzi kuxhomekeke kwindlela esibona ngayo ephupheni lethu kuba inokuba lisibekele, licoceke, likhuphe, lizolile. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba asiphuphi into enye xa sibona amanzi amileyo, ukuba sihamba kuwo okanye ukuba ayabila, olu hlobo lokwahlukahlukana kwamaphupha kunokusibangela ukuba sithandabuze, sijoyine ukuze ufunde ngakumbi.
Kweli nqaku uza kuyazi nzulu intsingiselo yokuphupha ukuba isigcawu sikuluma. Siyaqhubeka sithetha ngezigcawu, elinye lamaphupha aqhelekileyo kuzo zonke iintlobo zabantu, ukusuka ebantwaneni ukuya kubantu abadala. Namhlanje ndiza kugxila ekubambeni, kuba amaxesha amaninzi i-subconscious ivusa le mifanekiso kuthi kwaye asazi ukuba kutheni le nto isenzeka. Ngaba i-arachnid ikhe yahlutha emzimbeni wakho ngenjongo yokuluma? Ngaba yenzekile ngokwenyani okanye ibiyiphupha nje elibi? Waziva njani xa uvuka ephupheni? Ngaba ukutolika kulungile okanye akulunganga, kwimeko Ukuluma? Qhubeka ufunda kuba apha ngezantsi ndiza kukuxelela zonke iinkcukacha.
Apha siza kugxila kubungakanani, oko kukuthi, Ithini ingcaciso ukuba zizigcawu ezinkulu okanye ezincinci. Namhlanje ndifuna ukuphanda ngesihloko abaninzi abasibuze kum. Ijongene izigcawu, eso silwanyana sahlonitshwa kakhulu ngamasiko athile kodwa sagxothwa phantse kuwo onke amaNtshona. Kwesinye isithuba ndicacisile ukuba yintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ngezigcawu, kwaye kuxhomekeke kumongo, ukutolikwa kokugqibela kwahluka kakhulu. Ngaba wakha waziva ngathi izigcawu kumaphupha akho amabi zazinkulu? Mhlawumbi zazincinci? Ngaba ububazi ubungakanani kwaye ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi malunga nephupha? Qhubeka ufunda, kuba apha ndiza kukuxelela zonke iinkcukacha.
Las oonomeva luhlobo lwesinambuzane esifana kakhulu nenyosi, ke ukutolikwa kwephupha kuya kufana. Ihlala inxulumene noloyiko esiba nalo ngenxa yezinambuzane, kwaye sinoloyiko lokuba inokusebenza kuthi. Kwakhona, ukuba sifumene ulwamvila lwamva nje, oku kuya kuchaza iphupha. Ngoku, sinokufumana olunye uhlobo lokutolika ngokunxulumene phupha ngoonomeva.
Ukufezekisa eyona nkcazo ichanekileyo, kuyakufuneka ukuba kukhunjulwe ezona nkcukacha zavela ephupheni. Ayizukuphinda ifane nokubaleka kukanomeva, ukujika ubulale. Usenokumbona emane encwina incindi yentyatyambo (kule meko, kuya kufuneka uyifunde intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeentyatyambo). Ukucacisa amathandabuzo akho, senze ukhetho lweyona ntsingiselo ixhaphakileyo.
El Ilayisi kukutya okuqhelekileyo kwimimandla ethile yaseSpain, njengeValencia. Kwimeko apho utyelele kwezi ndawo ngeentsuku / kwiiveki zokugqibela, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba nephupha elinxulumene noko. Njengoko sele sibonile, unamaphupha ngokutya okuthandayo akukho nto ingaqhelekanga ngayo. Ngapha koko, ukuba ubuyithanda irayisi, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba siphuphe ukuba siza kuyizama kwakhona. Kodwa, kuthathelwa ingqalelo ukuba irayisi inezinye izinto ezisebenzisayo (umzekelo, iphoswa emitshatweni ukubhiyozela umanyano phakathi kwabantu abatshatileyo), kubalulekile ukuba uhlalutye ngokweenkcukacha kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha irayisi.
Kule nqaku ngentsingiselo ye- phupha ngengozi, Siza kuhamba phezu kwawo onke amathuba ngokunokwenzeka. Kukho amawakawaka eendidi zeengozi: imoto (okanye imoto), isithuthuthu, inqwelomoya, uloliwe ... hayi kuphela ukugcwala, kodwa zinokuba zezasekhaya: ukophula umlenze, ukuwa, ukubola. Ngayiphi na imeko, la maphupha ahlala eneentetho ezingalunganga ezinxulumene ne uloyiko lokusilela, Ukufa, ngokuqhekeka kobudlelwane kunye neengxoxo.
Iihagi zi, ecaleni ko ukwanga, Olunye lweempawu ezinkulu zokusondelana nothando. Nangona kunjalo, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ube ngumntu onothando ukuze phupha ukuba bakwange kuba, nangona enyanisweni inentsingiselo ecacileyo, ephupheni inokuchazwa ngeendlela eziliwaka ezahlukeneyo.
Okokuqala, ukuba ukhulelwe akukho nto uyoyika ukusukela, nokuba bangathetha kangakanani, amaphupha awangqinelani kwaye ngenxa yoko ukuphupha ngokukhupha isisu akuthethi ukuba uza kukhupha isisu. Eli phupha livela ngakumbi xa uhamba ngexesha losizi, uxinzelelo, ukuba uziva ngathi ulahlekelwe yinto exabiseke kakhulu kuwe. Eli phupha livela ngakumbi kubafazi abaneminyaka eli-15 ukuya kwengama-50 ubudala. Ukuba kutshanje unamava abuhlungu apho uphulukene khona nosana, ngokuqondakalayo i-subconscious kunokwenzeka ukuba idlale kuwe ngelixa ulele.
Namhlanje ndikuzisele ityala elingaqhelekanga, kuba ndiza kutyhila kuwe ukuba yintoni i intsingiselo yokuphupha ngezixhobo, loo nto isebenza kokubini ukugcina umntu omsulwa kunye nokuthatha ubomi babo. Amaphupha ahluke kakhulu kuxhomekeke kubuntu bethu kunye nomxholo. Ngesi sizathu, abantu abaninzi baziva benesidingo sokwazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini oko baphuphe ngako.
Zininzi iintlobo zesandi esinokuphazamisa ukulala kwethu kwaye sithathe inxaxheba kuzo ngokutshintsha ngokupheleleyo umxholo. Le yimeko ye phupha ngee-ambulensi. Ulele, ngequbuliso enye ihamba ngesantya esipheleleyo kwaye njengoko zivakala kakhulu uyayiva kwaye i-subconscious yazisa ibali elitsha.
Le yinto eyaziwa ngokuba liphupha elinomxholo. Nangona kunjalo ukufumana i ukutolikwa ngokuchanekileyo kweeambulensi, Kubalulekile ukuthathela ingqalelo ezinye iinkcukacha ezinje ngeemeko elivela kuzo iphupha elo. Ngokwesiqhelo ichaza loo nto ungumntu onethemba, kwaye uziva ngathi ungaphaya kwawo nawuphi na umzuzu ombi owoyisileyo.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi yintoni kuthetha ukuphupha oonomadudwane, Apha uya kufumana zonke iinkcukacha. Sonke siyazi ukuba oonomadudwane sesinye sezilwanyana ezinobungozi kwindalo, ngakumbi oonomadudwane.
Xa unonomadudwane ekubetha, kufuneka ukhawuleze ubone ugqirha ukuthintela iintlungu kunye neengxaki zokuphefumla. Nokuba kuxhomekeke kwindidi ixhoba lingatshabalala. Njengoko unokucinga, ukuba unomadudwane uvela ngendlela, ngaphezulu kwephupha oza kuba nalo liphupha elibi. Kuxhomekeka kwimeko ebonisiweyo ngobo busuku, uya kuvuka ngolunye uluvo okanye enye. Yonke into iyahluka ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni zininzi naonomadudwane abakhulu, ukuba zifunyenwe kunye nezinye izilwanyana ezinje izigcawu, amaphela okanye iicentipedes. Kuxhomekeke ekubeni ingaba bayaphila okanye bafile, okanye ukuba uyakwazi ukubabulala, kwimeko apho intsingiselo intle. Zonke ezi nkcukacha kunye nezinye ezininzi ndizityhila apha ngezantsi.
Iphupha lamanzi acwebezelayo Liliphupha elixhaphake kakhulu kunokuba ungacinga ekuqaleni. Ngenye imini ndikucacisele ukuba yintoni i Ukutolikwa kokuphupha ngamanzi acocekileyo, kwaye nangona isenokubonakala ifana, inomahluko wayo. Into esinokuyithetha kukuba naliphi na iphupha apho amanzi akhoyo kuthetha ukuba sicinga ngezinto ezibalulekileyo ebomini ezinje ngeemvakalelo, uloyiko kunye neemvakalelo. Ukuliqonda ngcono eli phupha, ndiza kukubonisa olona khetho luqhelekileyo, ukusukela Intsingiselo yokuphupha amanzi acwebezelayo Itshintsha ngokuxhomekeka kumxholo nakwimood yakho.
Umzekelo, ayifani iphupha lokuhlamba kwi umlambo ogcwele amanzi acwebezelayo (umele uxolo) ukuba nomnqweno wokukwenza (efuzisela ixhala). Kuxhomekeke kwinto endikuxelela yona ngezantsi kunye namava akho, unokufumana isiphelo esifana nephupha.
Zininzi iintlobo zeentambo zesigcawu, ngenxa yoko amaphupha aneenkoliso zokutolika. Kwakhona, ezi zilwanyana zinemilenze esibhozo, ezinamehlo asibhozo zinokwenza izinto ezahlukeneyo. Inye inentsingiselo yayo. Ukuba i-subconscious yakho iye yakubonisa yona ngelixa ulele, ungafuna ukwazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngezigcawu. Kule nqaku siza kukubonisa zonke iinkcukacha.
Ngokubanzi, ukuphupha isigcawu, ngaphandle kokuba yi-tarantula, kuthetha ukuba usebenza nzima ukuze uphile. Umzamo wakho kunye nokuzinikezela kuya kuvuzwa ngokuchuma ngokwezimali, izixa ezilungileyo zemali kunye nemeko eqhubekayo yolonwabo, bobabini kunye nomsebenzi. Kwelinye icala, ukuba unetyala elisalindelekileyo okanye ingxaki ngomthetho, oko kuthetha ukuba uya kuba nengxaki yokuphumelela kwiimpikiswano.
Ufuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni Ngaba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amanzi amdaka? Kwelinye inqaku esele sichazile intsingiselo yokuphupha amanzi acacileyo. Le molekyuli ibalulekileyo yenziwe ngeoksijini kunye nehydrogen yinxalenye yendalo. Sinayo ngoku emzimbeni kwaye sihlala nayo mihla le, ke kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba namaphupha ahambelana noko.
Ngokwesiqhelo, amanzi acocekileyo kunye nekristali abonisa imiqondiso elungileyo, ukucoceka komphefumlo nentabalala. Inkqubo ye- amanzi amdaka Ufuzisela okwahlukileyo: ubumnyama, ukungakhathali kunye nokungazinzi. Fumana ngezantsi kwazo zonke iintsingiselo ngokweenkcukacha malunga neli phupha, kunye nendlela yokuphelisa amaphupha amabi ukuba unayo.
Ukuba ulwalamano olonwabileyo noluzinzileyo njengesibini, okanye ukuba utshatile, kunokwenzeka ukuba ibambe umdla wakho ukuba uphupha uthando lwangaphambili (funda ngakumbi malunga uphupha ubuyela umva ne ex yakho), okanye ukuba ngephanyazo uthandana nomntu ongelontombi yakho okanye isoka lakho. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, ezi ntlobo zamaphupha zibonakala rhoqo kunokuba ungacinga, nokuba ubuneminyaka emininzi uhlala neqabane lakho.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba awutshatanga, inyani yokuba phupha uthando ineendlela ezininzi zokutolika. Kodwa ukuze uhlalutye ngokuchanekileyo intsingiselo yento oyixelelwe yi-subconscious, kufuneka ukhumbule iinkcukacha zomxholo, imeko yakho kunye nenqanaba ohlala kulo namhlanje.
Iphupha ngalinye linentsingiselo eyahlukileyo, yiyo loo nto ndifuna ukucacisa ngokweenkcukacha ukuba yintoni le intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeeringi. Mhlawumbi kubonakala kucacile, nangona kunjalo, le ndandatho ineenguqulelo ezahlukeneyo kwilizwe lamaphupha kwaye inokuveza izinto ngawe ekusenokwenzeka ukuba awazi. Ngokwesiqhelo ubucwebe neeringi zihambelana namandla, kodwa zininzi iinkcukacha endizokubonisa apha ngezantsi.
Iphupha ngalinye lihlabathi elahlukileyo, kwaye kwenzeka okufanayo nangamanzi, kuba ukutolikwa kuyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko. Kule nqaku ndityhila zonke iintsingiselo ze phupha ngamanzi acocekileyo. Ngokubanzi, ukuba siphupha amanzi acocekileyo, siphupha into efanekisela ukuzalwa ngokutsha, ubunyulu kunye namandla.
Kodwa le yeyona ntsingiselo ixhaphakileyo, kuba kuxhomekeke kwimeko kunye neemeko zephupha, ukutolikwa kunokwahluka ngokupheleleyo. Ingaba amanzi ashushu, okanye ayabanda kakhulu? Kwaye ayifani ukuba ngamanzi azolileyo njengeglasi okanye iphuli ngokungathi ngumsinga, umlambo obalekayo, okanye Ingxangxasi yamanzi acocekileyo.
Iphupha lokuhamba inokuba nentsingiselo enzulu. Nangona ngokuqinisekileyo ngaphezulu kosuku olunye lobomi bakho kuya kufuneka ukhwele ikhetshi kwaye ngenxa yeso sizathu kubonakala ngakumbi ukuba ngaxa lithile uyakuphupha enye, ngakumbi ukuba ukhe wavalelwa okanye ukuba ubandezeleka ngenxa ye-claustrophobia.
Le meko inokuhlala kwi-subconscious yakho kwaye ichaphazele kakhulu umgangatho wokuphumla kwakho. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha eli phupha alinanto yakwenza ne traumas okanye iingxaki ezizuzwe njengelifa kwaye asazi ukuba kutheni. Apha siza kuzama ukufumana intsingiselo yaso.
Abantu banamaphupha amaninzi kwaye ngalinye linentsingiselo yalo, ke namhlanje ndifuna ukukucacisela ukuba ungatolika njani intsingiselo yalo phupha ngomntuKungakhathaliseki ukuba ngumntu othandekayo, umhlobo, osebenza naye, intshaba okanye umntu ongaziwayo ongazange wambona ebomini bakho.
Ukuba uye wothuka ukuba unayo Ndiphupha ngokuhlatywaKuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba baninzi ngakumbi abantu abanayo. Eli phupha liqhelekileyo phakathi kweentlobo ezithile zabantu. Kananjalo, xa sele unayo, kunokwenzeka ukuba iyaziphinda ngobusuku obulandelayo okanye ngamaxesha obomi bakho.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yile nto amaphupha anayo, alindele imfihlakalo kunye nezinto ezingaziwayo ekunzima ukuzityhila kodwa xa usombulula, uya kuzazi ngcono, uya kufumanisa izinto ongakhange uzicinge. Kodwa yintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha uhlatyiwe? Funda eli nqaku kunye nezinye izinto kwi Isichazi magama amaphupha.