Amaphupha ezithandwayo anentsingiselo

Ngaba unamaphupha okuthandana? Sukuba nexhala kuba lolunye lweentlobo eziqhelekileyo zamaphupha. Ukuba uphuphe eli phupha kwaye ujonge i Intsingiselo yamaphupha ezothando, kweli nqaku singakunika lonke ulwazi oludingayo.

Intsingiselo yamaphupha ezothando

Uthando lwezithandani yile mvakalelo okanye umtsalane wesini esivakalelwa komnye umntu, kwaye kukuba sele ithathiwe njengesiqhelo okanye inkcazo yexesha: iRomanticism, apho uninzi lwababhali bayo belubonakalisile kwimisebenzi yabo emininzi. Kungenxa yoko le nto iba yinto efunwa ngabantu, luvakalelo lwangaphakathi, olugqithisileyo kwezinye ngamanye amaxesha alunakulawuleka, esele lubonakalisile kumaphupha ethu amaninzi.

Ngokuqhelekileyo ezi ntlobo zamaphupha ezothando Yiyo sayina ukuba ulungele uthando. Ukuba uphupha ixesha elikhethekileyo, ligcwele ngamagqabi e-rose, ukujonga ngaphakathi, ukwanga, amakhandlela, njl., Ngokuqinisekileyo uyaludinga olo thando lukhethekileyo, kuba ungumntu othandana kakhulu.

Ezi ntlobo zamaphupha zihlala zizibonakalisa xa sihamba namaxesha obulolo, xa ubudlelwane bakho nabahlobo, usapho okanye iqabane lakho bengekho kwincopho yabo. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka uzive uthandwa kwaye ikwenza uphuphe ngezi ntlobo zemiboniso yothando okanye iminyhadala.

Iindidi zamaphupha ezothando

Oogxa bomphefumlo

Batsho ukuba unayo iphupha lothando kwaye ngumntu ongaziwayo Oku kuhlala kutolikwa ukuba ukwenzile nje kunye nomphefumlo womphefumlo wakho. Kodwa ayisiyonyani eqinisekisiweyo. Ngoku, ngokuqinisekileyo i-subconscious yakho yenza inkumbulo yokukhetha umntu esimaziyo kwaye esingamkhumbuliyo, okanye ukukhetha umntu ocingayo ukuba adlale indima yesiqingatha esingcono kumaphupha ethu. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kuba yimfuneko ukuhlalutya into ejikeleze iphupha ukuze unike inkcazo ethe ngqo malunga nentsingiselo yendawo.

Intsingiselo yamaphupha aneemeko zothando

Ingqangi yothando

Amaphupha okuqala othando aqhele ukuba yimveliso yokungazi, kwaye sinako ukuba njalo ndiziva ndingenalo uthando kwaye oko kuyenzeka ngokomfanekiso womntu emaphupheni ethu.

Ukuze wazi ukuba liphupha langaphambili kuya kufuneka ukufikelela kwinqanaba eliphezulu lokuqonda kwaye ube kumzuzu wokungcangcazela okuphezulu kwaye oko kuya kuba kukuncamathisela kwi-esotericism. Ukuze uyitolike njengokwandulelayo, kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba into oyiphuphileyo, uphile ngamandla ngaphezu kwesiqhelo kwaye uyaqaphela ukuba ukwenzile ukwenye into. Ukuba ukhe wanolu hlobo lwamava, ngaba ucinga ukuba olo thando luza kuza kungekudala?

Ingqangi yesikizi sothando

Ukuphupha ngomlo, ukwahlukana kothando okanye uqhawulo-mtshato ayisiyonto ibonisa ukuba inokwenzeka. Kodwa inokubonisa oko ubomi bakho bothando abubonakali buhambelana.

Ngokuqinisekileyo ukhe wanengxabano encinci okanye enye I-amorous disgust ongayisombululanga. Ukuba unexesha elibi okanye ubukhe wanalo, ukwinkqubo yokuyichaza ngakumbi loo mvakalelo ngamaphupha, iya kuba sisimemo sokuvuka malunga nolwalamano lwakho.

Iphupha lobudlelwane bothando

Ukuba akutshatanga kwaye uphupha ubudlelwane bothandoUkuqonda kwakho mhlawumbi kubonisa ukuba bunjani ubomi bakho bothando, mhlawumbi unesidingo ngelinye ixesha ukwabelana ngobomi bakho njengesibini.

Intsingiselo yokuphupha malunga nobudlelwane bothando

Ukuba kwelinye icala sele uneqabane, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba nezi ntlobo zamaphupha. Kuthetha ukonwaba kwaye kubonisa ukuba imeko yakho naloo mntu yenye yeentabatheko ngokupheleleyo.

Phupha malunga neqabane lakho langaphambili

Ukuphupha iqabane lakho langaphambili ingathetha lonto unqwenela ukusondelelana naloo mntu. Uyakube uhamba umzuzu wokulila kunye nostalgia kwaye mhlawumbi ujonge ukuvuselela iimvakalelo zakho ngokubuyisa iinkumbulo ezigqibeleleyo kunye neqabane lakho langaphambili.

Indlela yokuba namaphupha ezothando

Yindlela esinokuyenza kwaye inokuthi ibe nokufikelela kuthi, kodwa kufuneka siyenze. Ukuba ungomnye wabo bakhumbula into oyiphuphileyo, inokuba sisiqalo sokukhokela iphupha lakho kwinto oyifunayo. Oku kubizwa ngokuba liphupha elilumkileyo, elinabantu abambalwa abanokulifumana kwaye ukuba awazi ukuba ungazifumana njani kukho izifundo ezininzi kwi-intanethi ezinokuchaza ukuba ungazifumana njani. Kuthatha ukuziqhelanisa, ubuchule kunye nokuphumla, kodwa unokulandela amanyathelo ambalwa alula:

  • Yenza inkqubo yemihla ngemihla ngexesha lokulala. Kufuneka sihlale silala kwaye sivuke ngexesha elifanayo ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
  • Yenza indawo yokuphumla kwaye ukhululekile, unokwenza igumbi elinemitha kunye nezibane zothando apho ungasebenzisa khona amakhandlela. Cima nayiphi na itekhnoloji onokufikelela kuyo kwaye utye okanye ube nento ekhanyayo kwisidlo sangokuhlwa.
  • Soloko ukhangela iinkcukacha zokulala ezijolise kuthando, khumbula izigcawu zothando, phinda wenze ukuthanda okuninzi. Ukuba uneqabane elizinzileyo, jolisa ekuboneni zonke ezo nkcukacha ezikwenza uzive ukhethekile, kwezi hug, ukubonakala okanye amaxesha osondeleyo. Ezi ntlobo zokuhlangana zothando ziphinde zenzeka engqondweni yakho zinokukufaka kwelo phupha lothando.

Iintsingiselo ezingakumbi zamaphupha ezothando

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ubuyile kwi ex yakho?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ubuyile neqabane lakho langaphambili

Phupha nge ex yakho Luhlobo lwamaphupha awakhe abakho ngaphezu komnye wethu. Eyona nto ixhaphakileyo kukuba itolikwe ukuba kukho izinto ekumele zithethwe kwaye zihlala zilindile ngexesha. Kungenzeka ukuba ubudlelwane buphele ngexesha elifanelekileyo kwaye awuzazi esona sizathu sokuba bekushiye. Ngayiphi na imeko, ihlala inxulumene ne- Imicimbi esalindelwe.

Ngoku i intsingiselo yokuphupha ubuyile ne ex yakhoNgendlela efanayo eyenzeka ngamaphupha amaninzi, inokutshintsha kakhulu kwaye ayisoloko inxulumana nolwalamano obenalo nomntu. Unokuba nento oyilindeleyo ebomini bakho ofuna ukuyigqiba.

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Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha isoka lakho langaphambili okanye intombi yakho yangaphambili?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha isoka lakho langaphambili okanye intombi yakudala

Las izibini ezitshatileyo Bahlala beshiya uphawu olungacimekiyo kubomi bethu, nokuba kungokulungileyo okanye okubi, kodwa… Ungalitolika njani iphupha? Kule nqaku ndiyityhila kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha isoka lakho langaphambili okanye intombi yakho yangaphambili. Kunzima ukulibala uthando lokuqala lobomi bakho. Uhlala uziva unento ekhethekileyo kuye. Kukwakho nezibini eziza kwenza intsika esisiseko kwindaleko yobomi bakho. Kuqhelekile ukuba ube namaphupha ngabo, kokubili okuhle nokubi. Xa umntu ephawula intliziyo yakho, awunakumlibala.

Nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba lelinye lawona maphupha aphambili akhoyo. Akuthethi okufanayo ukuba ubona umyeni wakho wangaphambili kunye neqabane lakhe langoku elila, ukuba nisathandana, nimange. Kwakhona, kusenokwenzeka ukuba lowo wayesakuba ngumyeni wakho ukufuna, mhlawumbi uyalwa. Ukutolikwa kwamaphupha kuyahluka ngokunzulu, ke ngoko, kuyafuneka ukuba ulifunde lonke inqaku kwaye uluchonge ulwazi kwimeko yakho yobuqu.

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Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ilokhwe yomtshato?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ilokhwe yomtshato

Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ifayile ye- intsingiselo yokuphupha ngengubo yomtshato? El ilokhwe yomtshato Ngenye yezona zinto zimelwe yimini enkulu. Kwaye umtshato ulutshintsho olukhulu kubomi bakhe nawuphi na umntu (kuya kufuneka ufunde malunga nokuphupha malunga umtshato). Xa ukhetha ilokhwe, kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo imilo, ilaphu, ubude, isipha seentyatyambo ezikufanela kakuhle. Kwaye konke oku kunokuba noxinzelelo kangangokuba umtshakazi angaphupha ngayo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ujonge ukutshata.

Njengamaxesha onke, ukutolikwa okwenene kwephupha kunxulumene nomxholo ngokwawo, kunye nemeko yakho yobuqu. Ewe, ayizukufana nxiba ilokhwe yomtshato, ukubona ukuba omnye umntu uyithatha njani. Ayizukufana ukuba ilokhwe imhlophe, ukuba ibomvu, mfusa, okanye ukuba imdaka. Zininzi izinto ezinokwenzeka, kunye nokutolikwa okunxulumene noko. Ukubazi ngokweenkcukacha, sicebisa ukuba uqhubeke nokufunda.

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Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umtshato?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umtshato

Ukuba ufuna ukwazi kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umtshato, funda ukuze ufumane iinkcukacha. Inkqubo ye- bodas ziyindawo yonxibelelwano phakathi kwamadoda nabasetyhini. Ngumzuzu apho abantu ababini bathathe isigqibo sokuba bazokwabelana ngobomi babo ukusukela ngalaa mzuzu, xa "ewe, ndiyakwenza" kushiyekile esibingelelweni. Ukuba uza kutshata nomntu kungekudala, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba nolu hlobo lwamaphupha. Kodwa ukuba bekungenje, zininzi iinguqulelo ezinokuba nazo.

Ngaphambi kokuqala ngotoliko, kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba kukho Ukutolika okuninzi kunye neentsingiselo malunga nephupha. Kwaye ayizukuba nentsingiselo efanayo ukuya emtshatweni ongengowakho, kwaye ekugqibeleni awenziwa, ukuba nguwe otshatayo, ilungu losapho, umhlobo, ex (ungafunda ngakumbi ngokufunda malunga intsingiselo yokuphupha malunga ne-ex yakho). Inyaniso yokuba umtshato ubhiyozelwa ngumthetho woluntu okanye yiCawe nayo yinto efanelekileyo kakhulu.

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Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha utshata okanye utshata?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha utshata okanye utshata

Namhlanje siza kubona ukuba kutolikwa njani ukuba i-subconscious ikubonisa ukuba utshata njani, kuba yimeko eneentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo ngokuxhomekeke kwimood yakho, umxholo wephupha kunye nemeko yakho yovakalelo. Fumana apha ngezantsi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha utshata. Kwamanye amanqaku esele sithethile ngawo amaphupha omtshato o ngomtshato. Ngokwesiqhelo xa imeko yakho yomtshato ingatshatanga, Umtshato umele umnqweno wakho wokutshata kwaye wenze usapho. Ukuba sele unalo iqabane, iintsingiselo zixhomekeka kakhulu kwezinye izinto esizichaza apha ngezantsi.

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Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngokwanga?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha uncamisana

Ebomini, uthando alunakusilela. Abantu bahlala bebopheleleke kuluntu lobudlelwane njengesibini kwaye, ngokuyinxenye, oku kuye kwenza ukwanga kumele umntu. Kule nqaku uza kufunda ukuba kuthetha ntoni iphupha lokuncamisa. Nangona kunjalo, ifayile ye- ukutolika iphupha ngokumanga Inokuba yinto elungileyo, engalunganga, enomdla, okanye emele ingxaki ngokuxhomekeke kulowo uphuzayo kwaye ngubani kwelinye icala.

Kukwabalulekile ukuba kuthathelwe ingqalelo imeko yeemvakalelo zomphuphi, ukuyichaza ngokuchanekileyo intsingiselo. Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha uwanga?

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Ukuphupha ngothando okanye ukuthandana

Iphupha lothando

Ukuba ulwalamano olonwabileyo noluzinzileyo njengesibini, okanye ukuba utshatile, kunokwenzeka ukuba ibambe umdla wakho ukuba uphupha uthando lwangaphambili (funda ngakumbi malunga uphupha ubuyela umva ne ex yakho), okanye ukuba ngephanyazo uthandana nomntu ongelontombi yakho okanye isoka lakho. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, ezi ntlobo zamaphupha zibonakala rhoqo kunokuba ungacinga, nokuba ubuneminyaka emininzi uhlala neqabane lakho.

Kwelinye icala, ukuba awutshatanga, inyani yokuba phupha uthando ineendlela ezininzi zokutolika. Kodwa ukuze uhlalutye ngokuchanekileyo intsingiselo yento oyixelelwe yi-subconscious, kufuneka ukhumbule iinkcukacha zomxholo, imeko yakho kunye nenqanaba ohlala kulo namhlanje.

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Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umtshato?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umtshato

Wanna uyazi kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umtshato? Umtshato unokuba libakala elibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakho, elinye lawona mahle kakhulu. Kwaye ekugqibeleni uza kuba nakho ukuzazisa kulo mntu ubalulekileyo, lowo uza kuchitha naye ubomi bakho bonke, nokuba unganaye umntwana. Ngenxa yokuba, kuyaqondakala ukuba baninzi kakhulu abesilisa nabasetyhini abaphupha ngokuthatha eli nyathelo libalulekileyo.

Umtshato usivumela ukuba sibe ngabona baphambili besiganeko, nokuba kungomhla omnye kuphela. Inqaku lokuphupha ngomtshato linokubhekisa kuko umnqweno wokutshata onayo, nangona iimeko zephupha ziya kulungiselela ukutolikwa: ngekhe kufane ukungqina umtshato wakho, kunokuba nomhlobo. Kananjalo ayizukufana into yokuba umtshato ububanjwe ngempucuko, kunokuba ibingumtshato wenkolo. Umbala wengubo yomtshato kuya kufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo, ukuba ikhonkco labanjwa okanye laphazamiseka.

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