Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amangcwaba?

Kule nqakuokanye malunga Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amangcwaba NguweNdityhila lonke utoliko lweli phupha. Ngaba ubuyazi lonto amangcwaba namangcwaba kubangela imbeko ngaphezulu kwe-70% yabemi behlabathi? Ukhe waphupha ngayo nayiphi na into, ubona iibhokisi kunye namatye ethuna abantu obaziyo okanye ongabaziyo? Ayilophupha liqhelekileyo kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uninzi lwenu ngexesha elithile ebomini bethu bebenomdla wokuya emangcwabeni ebusuku.

Uninzi lwethu luyazibuza ukuba yintoni emva kobomi, emva kokufa, yintoni enokubangela phupha iibhokisi ezivaliweyo okanye avulekileyo, amangcwaba okanye onke amangcwaba. Kodwa zininzi iintsingiselo ezinokubakho kuxhomekeke kwimeko ekhutshwe yingqondo. Ungahamba emini okanye ebusuku, ukuba kukho amangcwaba okanye iibhokisi, ukuba uzibone sele ufile, ukuba amangcwaba ngokwawo mahle kakhulu, amadala okanye kuphela abantwana, izilwanyana. Okanye nokuba amangcwaba angamabhodlo.

I-Psychoanalysis inzima ngokuhlalutya umxholo kunye nemeko yakho yobuqu. Funda ukuze ufumane zonke iinguqulelo zephupha.

Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ngamangcwaba?

Ngokwesiqhelo iphupha malunga namangcwaba eneneni ayinxulunyaniswa nemimoya engendawo malunga nokugula namashwa. Kuthetha nje ukuba ungumntu ogcwele umdla, ukuba uyathanda ukuphanda ngento ongayazi ngqo.

Intsingiselo yelizwi amangcwaba

Imvelaphi yegama elithi amangcwaba ivela kwisiLatini «Imimandla» y "Coemeterium" ethi yona yona imvelaphi yayo ibe kwigama lesiGrike «imvuliso« Ithetha ukuthini «igumbi lokulala, indawo yokulala«. Eli gama linemvelaphi yalo kwinkolelo yobuKrestu ekuthi emangcwabeni imizimba yabangasekhoyo yayilele kude kube ngumhla wovuko. Ekuqaleni ngesiCastilian kwathiwa igama elithi «cemeterio» 'kodwa ngokuhamba kweenkulungwane i-interspersed n yongezwa kwikota.

Ukuphupha ngokundwendwela ingcwaba lezalamane emangcwabeni

Enye into enokwenzeka kukuba uye kuloo ndawo ngelixa uleleyo ukubona ingcwaba lomntu omthandayo omkhumbulayo. Ngaba ungayithanda thatha umnxeba kwakhona kwaye ukuphupha ngokuyinxalenye kunganelisa loo mfuno.

Ukuphupha uthetha nomntu ofileyo emangcwabeni

Ngamanye amaxesha nomntu ongasekhoyo uvuka engcwabeni kwaye uqala ukuba nencoko nabo. Kwenzekile kum kwaye ndivuka ndizolile kuba ndithethile nomntu endikhe andambona kudala. Kukho abantu ukuba Fumana ukuphumla ecaleni kwezihlobo zabo ezifileyoKungenxa yoko le nto kuqhelekile ukuba uphuphe amangcwaba anamatye amangcwaba, oothixo kunye neetyhefu zabantu abaziwayo. Babona iintyatyambo, imiyalezo yokuvalelisa, iminqamlezo, kunye nezinye iisimboli zonqulo ezimele iinkolelo zabo. Eli phupha liyafana Ndiphupha iziporho.

Amaphupha amangcwaba

Enye intsingiselo enokwenzeka malunga amaphupha ngamangcwaba inxulunyaniswa nokwandiswa kobuntu bakho. I-emos, i-goths, abo bathanda i-zombies, i-vampires kunye neempawu ezifanayo ezimnyama, ... ezi ntlobo zabantu amangcwaba abonakala ngathi yindawo entle kwaye emnandi. Beza kubo ebusuku, hayi emini, bacinga ngabafileyo kunye nezinye izinto ezibonakala zingaqhelekanga kuthi. Bahlala emangcwabeni, ematyeni kwaye bajonge iibhokisi. Ngenxa yeso sizathu, kubo akumangalisi ukuba amangcwaba avela emaphupheni abo ubusuku ngabunye. Iphupha le-psychoanalysis lichaza ukuba yi ukwandiswa kobuntu bakhe.

Ukuphupha ukuba emva kwendlu yakho kukho amangcwaba

Ukuba ungomnye wabantu abahluphekayo kolu hlobo lwamaphupha, kuya kufuneka unikele ingqalelo kuwo iingxaki ezenzeka ekhayeni lakho. Awunakho ukukuphepha ukuthatha uxanduva lwakho kunye nokusombulula nokusombulula ezo ngxaki ngaphambi kokuba imeko ibe nzima. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukongeza emangcwabeni, emva kwendlu yakho uneCawe; Kule meko, ndincoma ukuba ufunde inqaku elipheleleyo malunga nefayile ye- intsingiselo yokuphupha iCawa.

Ityala lokwenyani lamaphupha ngamangcwaba

Umfundi wale webhusayithi wayefuna ukusibalisela ibali lakhe lephupha awayenalo kwaye wacela ukuba sabelane ngalo, ndiza kuthi:

Wayesandul 'ukuswelekelwa ngumzalwana, yaye wayemkhumbula kakhulu.

Ephupheni, ndaya emangcwabeni apho samngcwaba khona. Ndaya kwilitye lengcwaba lemabhile kwaye ndabona ukuba kulo kubhalwe umyalezo othi "Phumla ngoxolo."

Andazi ukuba kwakutheni kodwa yayiyindawo entle kakhulu, ngokungathi yeyabantwana, egcwele amanzi neentyatyambo. Kwakusemini, kodwa kwase kuqala ukuba mnyama.

Kwaye kwavulwa ingcwaba lemabhile kwaye kwaphuma ubhuti wam owayefile kwaye ndaqala ukuthetha naye malunga neeprojekthi namaphupha endandinawo engqondweni kwaye andinakumxelela ndisaphila. Ndinqwenela ukuba ndiphuphe la pantheon yonke imihla.

Intsingiselo yeli phupha ilula kakhulu. Mfundi wethu othandekayo Uziva engonwabanga kakhulu ngokusweleka komntakwabo. Ngenxa yoko, uphupha ukuba uthetha naye kwaye ayokumkhangela emangcwabeni.

Njengoko ubona, akukho meko ukutolikwa kunxulumene nokugula kunye neempawu ezimbi okanye phupha malunga neZombi okanye iziporho. Umhlobo wethu undixelele indlela ekumnandi ngayo ukunxibelelana kwakhona nalo mntu wayemthanda kakhulu. Umfazi ofanelwe kukunconywa.

Ividiyo yokuphupha ngamangcwaba

Ukuba eli nqaku malunga Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amangcwaba, emva koko ndincoma ukuba ufunde ezinye ezinxulumene nazo kudidi lwe amaphupha aqala ngonobumba C.