Wanna uyazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha izinyuko? I izitebhisi ezinye zezinto ezikhoyo kule mihla yethu, ngaphandle kwazo ubomi buya kuba nzima. Naphi na apho uya khona uya kufumana izinyuko ezininzi, uya kuzinyuka, uya kuzihla, ujonge kwizitepsi ukuze ungawi kwaye ucinge ngezinto oqhele ukuzenza mihla le. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ngokuchazwa kwamaphupha, kufuneka uyazi loo nto amaphupha ngezinyuko ahluke kakhulu.
Unokubona izinyuko ngomthi, ngombane okanye ngoomatshini, ezimile okomnwe, ezaphukileyo okanye ezinde nezimhlophe. Ngaba zimxinwa okanye zibanzi? Ngaba uyabanyusa okanye uyabathoba? Ngaba zenziwe ngesamente kwaye ziyaphuka? Ezi ziinkcukacha ezibaluleke xa usenza uhlalutyo lwe-psychoanalysis, kwaye zonke zichazwe kakuhle apha. Umxholo wephupha ubalulekile kwaye nguwe kuphela oya kuyiqonda intsingiselo yokugqibela, ukukunceda ngala manqaku alandelayo.
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha izinyuko kunye nezitepsi?
Ukutolikwa ngokubanzi kunxulunyaniswa nokungaqiniseki, ngakumbi xa ziphezulu kakhulu kwaye zingaphelelanga. Ngapha koko, banokuba liphupha elibi xa usenyuka okanye usihla ufumanisa ukuba azinasiphelo, okanye bayaphuka. Ngamanye amaxesha uyabaleka kwaye ufumana umbono wokuba umntu uleqa wena ... Kuyakhathaza kakhulu!
I nyaniso ukungabinayo ilifti ekhayeni Kwaye ukuhlala kumgangatho ophezulu kakhulu kunokuguqula amaphupha ngezinyuko, kuba uhlala uzifumana usenyuka usenyuka.
Olunye utoliko lunokubangelwa kukuba unobuntu obucokisekileyo, obuqhubela phambili kancinci kancinci ekufezekiseni iinjongo zayo kodwa uhlala usenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo. Kwenzeka into efanayo xa uphupha iimbovane.
Iphupha malunga neZitebhisi ezindala zomthi
Ukuphupha ngezinyuko ezenziwe ngomthi, ezimxinwa nezindala kuthetha ukuba ungumntu wemveli kuzo zonke iindawo. Kubudlelwane bothando uhamba kancinci kancinci, uvusa ukuthanda izinto kude kube uziva ulungisiwe awunyuki kwinyathelo lokugqibela. Kwishishini ukwakwesiqhelo, cotha ukuba ungawi utye onke amanyathelo omthi ngomlomo wakho. Uthathela ingqalelo ukuba ubuhlobo busekwe ekuhambeni kwexesha nakwisizukulwana esiqhubekayo sokuthembana.
Iphupha malunga neZitebhisi zomoya
Ezi zenkumba zibandakanyiwe ngentsingiselo efanayo nenqaku langaphambili.
Iphupha malunga nezithuthi ezizihambelayo
Kuthetha oko ungumntu wangoku, ababheja ekufumaneni iindlela ezingachongwanga, ulandela iingcebiso zabadala kodwa uzidibanise namava angazange aphile ukuze uphumelele.
Ukuphupha ngamatye okanye amanyathelo ekhonkrithi
Ukuba uphupha ngamanqwanqwa amatye okanye ikhonkrithi, ukwinqanaba eliphakathi phakathi kwamaphupha amabini angaphambili. Awukho kule mihla okanye ngokwesiko.
Iphupha Ngezitebhisi zeglasi
Ukuba zenziwe ngeglasi, ungaphambi kwee-electric. Ungomnye wabona bantu banamhlanje onokufumana eluntwini.
Ukuphupha ngokunyuka ngezinyuko ezinde kakhulu
Eli phupha libuhlungu apho unyuka usihla khona ngamanyathelo angapheliyo libonisa oko uyoyika ukungafikeleli kwiinjongo zakho ngexesha elimiselweyo. Ukubona ukuphela kwezitepsi (inokuba yeyokujikeleza), unokucinga ukuba sele uqhubekile kwizinto ezibangela amaxhala xa ulele. Ukuba ubusuku buqhubeka, kuya kufuneka ucele uncedo kumntu oqeqeshelwe ukukunceda emsebenzini wakho kwaye ke ngoko ungaziva ulilolo xa unyuka amanyathelo angapheliyo.
Esinye isizathu sephupha sinokubangelwa kukulinda impendulo kumntu omthandayo okanye othandekayo emtshatweni (bona ngakumbi malunga phupha ngomtshato), okanye ekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Ixesha lokulinda alinasiphelo kwaye ngenxa yoko i-subconscious ikubonisa ezi zitepsi.
Uphupha ngezinyuko ezaphukileyo
Ukuphupha ngezinyuko ezaphukileyo kuthetha ukuba engqondweni yakho kukho amathandabuzo amaninzi. Ungumntu obuza yonke into, ebangela ukungaqiniseki kuwe ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba ube nemvakalelo yokuhla usenyuka emva kokunyathela amanyathelo aphukileyo. Eyona ndlela yokusombulula oku kungokunyusa ukuzithemba kwakho, ubona eyona nto uyenza kakuhle, ukuze kwixesha elizayo unyuke izitepsi kwaye azophuki ... okanye zimdaka.
Ukuphupha unyathela amanyathelo amhlophe
Athini umbala amanyathelo? Mhlophe? Abantu abaninzi bathetha ukuba benyuka okanye behla ngezinyuko ezimhlophe. Umfuziselo wayo umele ubunyulu bomphefumloUnomoya ococekileyo yiyo loo nto uza kuya ezulwini, okanye uza kulishiya ilizwe ungazisoli. Amanyathelo anokukusa kwindawo emnandi kakhulu apho uya kufumana ulonwabo lwanaphakade. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ayimilingo elungileyo.
Ividiyo ngentsingiselo yokuphupha izinyuko
- Ukuba ufumene eli nqaku malunga Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha izinyuko, Ndikucebisa ukuba undwendwele Udidi lweevidiyo eziqala ngonobumba E.
Ndiphuphe izitepsi ezinde nezimxinwa zentsimbi, bezithe nkqo kwaye ndisoyika ndalila, khange ndiye ezantsi, ndiye ngenye indlela kwaye ibizezinyuko ezimhlophe, ezimhlophe, ibimfutshane kwaye andizukuhla Nokuba, ndiyijongile
Ndiphuphe indlu egcwele izinyuko ezenziwe ngeewotshi. Andiqondi ncam ukuba iphupha. Yayiyindlu endihlala kuyo, umahluko wokuba izinyuko zazenziwe ngeewotshi. Yonke enye into ibifana. Kwaye kwakwelo phupha izalamane zam zangqina ukuba ndineminyaka engama-99 ubudala.
Ndiphuphe indlu endala, indala neshiyekileyo, bendisoyika ukubonakala kwentombazana kwaye xa ndibaleka ndikhubekile kwisinyuko, ngeli xesha lokujikeleza ukuwa bekungapheliyo kwaye ndiwele embindini wayo
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ndiphupha ngathi nditshayisile ndaza ndathatha ileli ebanzi kakhulu eyayisebenza kuyo indoda enamadevu, yayenziwe ngomthi, uhlobo olusetyenziswa kwiindawo zokwakha
Ndiphuphe isitephusi sebhastile endithe xa ndisikhwela ndafumana intshulube emhlophe phantsi kwezitepsi andiyiqondi intsingiselo yayo.