Ukuba uyaluthanda ukhenketho, kuyinto eqhelekileyo phupha ngohambo okanye uhambo. Xa uthatha uhambo ngamaphupha akho unokuzazi ngeendlela ongazange wacinga ngazo ngaphambili. Ungazi elinye ilizwe ngokuhamba ngenqwelomoya, ngebhasi, ngololiwe okanye nangayo nayiphi na enye indlela yokuhamba. Uya kuzama izitya ezintsha, uya kudibana nabantu, iinkcubeko kunye nawe.
Kodwa ukuba uqhubeka uphupha malunga noku, okanye ukuba iphupha alibonakali ngathi linalo naluphi na uhlobo lwemvelaphi esengqiqweni, kuya kufuneka ufunde ngentsingiselo. Ukuqala tolika iphupha Siza kukunika isilumkiso esisenza phambi kwalo naliphi na elinye iphupha: iimeko kunye neenkcukacha zayo ziya kwenza umahluko ngokuchaneka kokuchazwa kwentsingiselo.