Intsingiselo yokuphupha ikhaya

Iphupha lekhaya kunokukhokelela kutoliko oluninzi lokungazi kwethu. Ngokuyintloko ikhaya limela umzimba wethu ngokwasemzimbeni kwaye igumbi ngalinye libonisa imeko yengqondo engaphakathi kuthi. Ngokunjalo, olu hlobo lwephupha lunokuguqula iinkxalabo zethu, iminqweno yethu, iimfuno zethu ... kwaye kuyenzeka rhoqo ukuba oku kuyenzeka. 

Ukuba iingcango ziyavela ephupheni zinika amathuba amatsha, ukuba ngamagumbi angenanto ayafana nokungazithembi, igumbi eliphezulu okanye indawo ephezulu yendlu imele ubukrelekrele bethu. Ewe uphupha ikhaya lakho langoku iyafana nento yokuba wonwabile kwaye kubonakala intle kuwe, ukuphupha ikhaya lakho lobuntwana elidala kunokuthetha ukuba kungekudala siza kufumana iindaba ezimnandi. Kukho ukutolika okungapheliyo, kuya kufuneka ujonge kuzo zonke iinkcukacha kunye nezinto ukuze unike umxholo osondeleyo kwaye uyinyani.

Ngekhaya elikhulu elidala

Ukuphupha umzi onale mpawu kubonisa ukuba i-subconscious yakho iyakulumkisa ukuba ufuna inguqu elungileyo phucula indlela ophila ngayo. Mhlawumbi intsingiselo yahlukile kwaye ndifuna ukukuxelela ukuba kusekho izinto ezikubambezelayo ngokungoyisi into eyenzekileyo kwixesha elidlulileyo, into enento yokwenza nexabiso lemvakalelo.

Ukuba indlu indala kwaye yenziwe ngomthi, indawo yonke ikuxelela ukuba ufuna ulondolozo olufanelekileyo ukusukela ngoko ubomi bakho bunokuwa Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka uzinyamekele ngakumbi. Ukuba indlu indala kwaye ishiywe kufuneka uqwalasele iziphumo ezifanayo, kuya kufuneka uyonyuse ukungabikho kwengqwalaselo kubomi bakho.

Ukuba indlu inkulu, singayidibanisa le mvakalelo kunye nomnqweno wokufuna ukuguqula ubomi bakho ngeenjongo ezintsha, oko kuthetha ukwandisa iihorizons zethu. Ngokuqinisekileyo iyasimema ukuba siphakamise iiprojekthi zethu kwaye sifuna ukuguqula ubomi bethu ngemiceli mngeni emitsha.

Ngekhaya elimnyama

Ngaba eli phupha linokuchazwa kunye nayiphi na ingxaki yangoku lonto iyakuchaphazela. Isenokuba yingxaki yosapho okanye into ekucaphukisayo emsebenzini. Ngokuqinisekileyo ukwimbono yokufuna ukuba le meko isonjululwe ngokukhawuleza, kuba ukhathazeke kakhulu.

Ngekhaya lokunethezeka

Iphupha lekhaya lokunethezeka ngokungathandabuzekiyo ibonisa amabhongo akhoOku kulungile kuba kuyonyusa ulindelo lwakho ekwenzeni iiprojekthi ezintsha, kodwa kuya kufuneka ulumke ungabi namrhamaru okanye unyoluke. Ingatolikwa njengolu vavanyo lokuba uthathe isigqibo kwishishini lakho kwaye uziphathe ngokuchanekileyo. 

Ngomzi olahliweyo

Olu hlobo lwamaphupha lunokutolikwa ngeendlela ezininzi, intsingiselo yalo inokwahluka kwaye inike umyalezo otyhila kakhulu kuxhomekeke kwimeko ekuyo indlu. Ukuba indlu ishiyiwe kodwa ilungisiwe, ngokuqinisekileyo kunjalo uziva ulahliwe kwaye ufuna indawo efanelekileyo yokubalekela. 

Ukuba indlu ichithakele okanye yonakele usizi lwakho luyakuthatha. Iyakucacisa ukubandezeleka ekufuneka ubandezelekile, inokude ikhokelele kwinto yokuba uhlangabezana nengxaki ebalulekileyo yezempilo. Ukuba indlu yonakele ngokupheleleyo, ngokuqinisekileyo ibonisa ukulahleka kwemigaqo-siseko, ngenxa yesizathu esithile amaxabiso akho awileyo.

Ngekhaya elalisakhiwa

Ukuphupha isakhiwo kuyalingana Ndifuna ukwenza into eqinileyo kwaye eqinileyo kwikamva lakho. Ukuba uphupha ngendlu eyakhiwayo, icandelo lakho lobungcali kufuneka ulungiselele ukudibanisa into eqinileyo kwaye iya kuba nekamva. Ukuba indlu eyakhiwayo ayigqitywanga kungenxa yokuba kuya kufuneka unike ingqalelo engakumbi kwizicwangciso zakho, "umntu okhulileyo" olityelweyo angavela kwaye kufuneka uzilungiselele ukujongana nayo nayiphi na imeko engalindelekanga.

Ngendlu entsha

Luphawu oluhle kwaye kunjalo ebomini ukuvula iingcango ezintsha kumathuba. Ikwanokuthetha ukuba sidinga utshintsho olutsha kwaye ukulwenza ngoku kuya kusenza sikhule kakhulu kwinqanaba lobuqu.

Ngokucoca indlu

Kuthetha ukuba kunjalo usenza utshintsho kwindlela ophila ngayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo inxulunyaniswa nokuphucula imeko-bume yosapho lwakho kuba kuya kubakho uhlobo oluthile lokungqubana okanye into etshintshe imiba ethile. Ukuba ephupheni ucoca igumbi lakho, limele "mna" lakho ngaphakathi kwaye likulumkise ukuba kufuneka utshintshe imiba ethile yobuqu ukuze uphucule ubuntu. 

Ngeenyoka ekhaya

Ngokuqinisekileyo iinyoka zikutolika ngokungazithembi kwaye iyakulumkisa ukuba uchanabeke kuhlobo oluthile lokungcatshwa, okanye usapho, okanye neqabane lakho okanye nomhlobo. Utolika uloyiko lwakho kwaye uyakuqonda ukuba awukulungelanga ukubandezeleka ngenxa yayo nantoni na. Ukuba uyagula, kuqinisekile ukuba lixesha lokuba ubonise ukungonwabi kwakho. 

Kodwa inokuba nenxalenye yayo elungileyo, kuba phupha iinyoka Luphawu lokhuselo, ngokuqinisekileyo ufikelele kwimeko yokuzithemba kunye nokukhuseleka kuwe. Kwaye ukuba uziva womelele kwaye unamandla, isenokuba lixesha lokuqala ukuzihlaziya.