Namhlanje uya kwazi ngokweenkcukacha Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha imoto kuba kuninzi ukucacisa ngayo. Imoto (okanye imoto njengoko yaziwa njalo kwiLatin America) yile ezona ndlela zisetyenziswayo zothutho kuluntu lonke. Intuthuzelo, ukhuseleko kunye nesantya ekubonelelwa yimoto siphezulu kakhulu kwezinye izithuthi, yiyo loo nto isetyenziswa kakhulu, yiyo loo nto kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba namaphupha ngenye yazo, ngakumbi ukuba ungumlandeli weemoto .
Okokuqala, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba andinakukucacisela ukutolikwa kwephupha ngaphandle kokuqhubeka, kuba kuqala kuya kufuneka uhlalutye imeko apho iphupha lakho lenzeka khona kunye neemeko zakho. Umzekelo, ayithethi into efanayo ukuba i-subconscious ikubonisa ngokwakho ukuqhuba imoto entsha (njengeFerrari), ukuba uyangqina ingozi yemoto apho isihlobo sasihamba. Uyayibona?
Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde yonke into endiyichaza apha ngezantsi ukuze ufumane impendulo epheleleyo.
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeemoto?
Ngokwesiqhelo imoto ifuzisela ukuzama kwakho ukufezekisa iinjongo ebomini ukuba ucebisile. Kungenxa yokuba sisithuthi esisisusa kwindawo esivela kuyo (apho uvela khona) sisiya kwindawo ekuyiwa kuyo (apho ufuna ukuya khona). Kodwa njengoko benditshilo ngaphambili, zininzi ngakumbi izinto ezinokubakho ngokuxhomekeke kuphuhliso lwesakhiwo. Ukukunika elinye ityala, abantwana bahlala uphupha uqhuba imoto ukujongeka njengezithixo zakhe ezinjengoFernando Alonso, uSebastian Vettel okanye uMichael Schumacher. Apha ngezantsi unayo ukutolikwa rhoqo nazo zonke iimeko ezinokwenzeka ezinxulumene neemoto, ukuqhuba kunye neempawu zabo ezinjengephupha.
Iphupha malunga neengozi zeemoto
Iingozi zeemoto zimele uloyiko lokuphulukana nobomi bakho. Ukuba ubucinga mva nje ukuba awufuni kufa, uqhubeka ujika intloko yakho ngokuzibandakanya ebusuku. Eyona ndlela yokunqoba obu bunzima kukuthetha ngayo nomhlobo wakho. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uphume engozini ungonzakalanga, ngaphandle komonakalo okanye ukwenzakala, luphawu lwamandla akho xa ujongene nelona xesha linzima.
Uyayazi indlela yokuphuma ngokwakho emingxunyeni. Luphawu lwengqondo yakho engapheliyo. Funda ngakumbi ngaye intsingiselo yokuphupha ngengozi yemoto.
Iphupha lemoto entsha
Oku kwenzeka kubantu abathi Kufuneka utshintshe imoto. Mhlawumbi le unayo indala kakhulu kodwa awunakho ukubanakho entsha. Sukuphelelwa lithemba, thetha neqabane lakho okanye usapho lwakho malunga nokuba kungenzeka bakunike imali mboleko yokuthenga entsha, ngakumbi ukuba uza kusebenza.
Iphupha malunga nokuhamba kosana
Ngaba yayiyinqwelwana yomntwana? Iingcali ze-Oneirology zinxulumana nayo umnqweno wakho wokuba nomntwana. Ukuba inqwelomoya ayinanto inokuba luphawu lwe-nostalgia yexesha lakho elidlulileyo, xa ubunomntwana kwaye wonwabele ubuntwana bakho. Ngoku sele ikhulile kwaye lixesha lokuba usebenzise amanye amaxesha. Kodwa ukuze uyiqonde ngcono le meko, ndincoma ukuba nawe ufunde intsingiselo ye- amaphupha neentsana.
Umbala wemoto ephupheni ubalulekile
Wawunjani umbala? Mhlophe, bomvu, luhlaza, luhlaza ...? Ngokwesiqhelo, umhlophe ubonakalisa ubunyulu, ngelixa obomvu kukuthanda. Nangona kunjalo, kumxholo weemoto yinyani engabalulekanga ukuba ibonise ukudibana kwakho nombala othile, ngaphandle kokuba ibinegazi. Ukuba kunjalo, kuya kufuneka ufunde okungakumbi malunga phupha igazi.
Iphupha lemoto yabangcwabi
Ngaba ilungu losapho lalingaphakathi? Mhlawumbi ungumhlobo othandekayo? Ngaba wawunguwe? Inokudibana ne ukulahleka komntu osondeleyo okanye ngokunqongophala kuba umphumo uya kuba usondele. Kodwa inokubonisa uloyiko lwakho lokufa. Lixesha lokuba uxelele umntu ukuze i-subconscious yakho ingakukuntywilisela ubusuku bonke ngephupha elibi.
Iphupha lemoto enezibane
Ukukhanya kubonisa ubuntu obunethemba, ke ukuba imoto ibinezibane eziphambili nezibane eziphezulu ziindaba ezimnandi.
Ukuphupha ndikwisiqu semoto
Ukuba umlinganiswa oyintloko wephupha ubekwe esiqwini semoto, oko kuthetha ukuba ungumntu olangazelelayo, Ohlala ecinga ngexesha elidlulileyo.
Ividiyo ngentsingiselo yokuphupha ngemoto
Ukuba ufumene eli nqaku malunga phupha ngemotoNdicebisa ukuba ufunde ezifanayo kwicandelo: amaphupha aqala ngonobumba A.
Ndabona lento ayithethayo ndiyamcaphukela
NdinguErika Casper. Ndibona indlela abantu abathetha ngayo ngendoda enamandla egama linguGqr Ogundele kwi-intanethi indlela awabuyisela ngayo ubudlelwane obuphukileyo kunye nomtshato ngoko ke ndaqhagamshelana naye ukuze andincede ndibuyisele umyeni wam emva kweminyaka eyi-9 yoqhawulo-mtshato. Emva kokusebenza iiyure ezingama-24, umyeni wam wafika ekhaya waza wacela uxolo kum. Le ndoda inamandla. Wonke umntu makandincede ndimbulele. Qhagamshelana noDkt Ogundele, ukuba ufuna naluphi na uhlobo loncedo, i-WhatsApp yakhe yile: +27638836445. Ndabelana ngobungqina bam njengophawu lokubulela.