Asikhethi ukuba siphupha ntoni okanye ngubani. Ngesi sizathu, umxholo wamaphupha unokwahluka kakhulu kwaye kule meko, sizifumana sikwilizwe elimnandi. Ewe, kuba namhlanje siyazibuza ukuba yintoni i Intsingiselo yokuphupha malunga neminqweno, kwaye siza kutyhila kuwe.
Ewe xa sithetha ngalonto Umhlaba omangalisayo, kukho iinkcukacha ezininzi ezirhangqileyo. Iminqweno yesini ayifani nezilwanyana ezintle okanye abalinganiswa abavela kuthotho lwakho oluthandayo. Njengoko yonke le nto inokutyhilwa, asizukuchitha ixesha elininzi kwaye sifike kuyo. Ngaba uyafuna ukufumanisa?
Ukuba ubuzibuza ngentsingiselo yokuphupha ngeengcinga ezintle, siza kukuxelela ukuba kuqhelekile. Konke oku kuvela kwi-subconscious yethu, kuba njengomgaqo ngokubanzi yindlela yokuphuma kwindlela esiqhele ukuyiqhela. Indlela yokubaleka ibekwe kule mixholo mihle kwaye isikhokelela ekubeni siphile kwiindawo ezintsha.
Ngendlela ebambekayo, xa iphupha lethu linezinto ezintle, kuyatshiwo oko imele iminqweno yethu. Kodwa banokunika ubomi kuloyiko olwahlukileyo, kuxhomekeke kumfanekiso okanye kumzuzu wephupha kwaye ukuba siziva sonwabile okanye siyoyika. Ngamanye amagama, sakuba siphuphile ngefantasy, kuhlala kufuneka sibuyele kancinci ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwephupha kwaye zeziphi izinto esizibonileyo kuwo. Ukuqala, siyazi ukuba siqala kwiminqweno esiyifihlileyo kwaye sifuna ukuvela.
Ukuba unayo amaphupha endalo yesini kunye nemibono, Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba kukho neentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo kuzo. Kwelinye icala, ukuba une-orgy ephupheni lakho, oko kunokubonisa ukuba ufuna uthando ngakumbi kunokuba unalo. Ngelixa ukudibana ngokwesondo kunye nomntu ongamaziyo, singatsho ukuba unezinto ezininzi zokungazithembi kwaye kufuneka uzihlalutye ujongane nazo. Ukuba uzibona usenza izinto ezintsha, kufuneka utshintshe kwaye uphume esiqhelweni.
Mhlawumbi ayililo elinye lamaphupha aqhelekileyo, kodwa inokwenzeka. Oko kwe phupha ngamaqhawe ethu unento afuna ukusixelela yona. Ukuba uyayibona ibhabha, isikhombisi sokuba izisombululo azihlali zivela ekucingeni kakhulu ngayo. Kungcono ukuvuthela loo intuition esinayo kwaye kuya kubakho isitshixo.
Ngelixa uphupha lonto uliqhawe, emva koko kufuneka kuthiwe ungumntu ogcwele ukhuseleko, ushiya uphawu kwaye uthathe amanyathelo afanelekileyo xa kufuneka uyenzile. Indlela yokubonisa ukuba awudingi mntu wumbi, ukuba ubalulekile kuwe.
Njengomgaqo jikelele, nini siphupha izilwanyana ezintle Oku kubhekisa kubomi bethu bobuqu kunye novakalelo. Zibonisa ukuthembeka kwaye kunjalo, zinokuvavanywa ngokuxhomekeke kwiphupha ngokwalo. Kodwa hayi phakathi kwesi sibini nawe kuphela, kodwa nakwimeko yobuhlobo okanye yeqabane.
Ukuba ubona ifayile ye- i-unicorn enamaphiko, emva koko ibonisa ukuba uza kudibana nomntu omtsha oza kutshintsha ubomi bakho. Ukuba i-unicorn imhlophe kwaye isondele, ibonakalisa uthando lokwenene. Ukuba ubona inamba iyafana naleyo ukuyo ngomzuzu olungileyo, apho kulawula uxolo ngomhla wakho.
Kule meko, xa siphupha ngayo yonke imisebenzi efana nokuba lipolisa okanye ugqirha nomongikazi, isixelela oko utshintsho luzakufika ebomini bakho. Into ekade uyifuna okwexeshana kodwa ukuza kuthi ga ngoku awukayiphumezi. Ngamanye amaxesha inokubonisa ukonyuka kwikhondo lomsebenzi wethu. Ke ngomzamo, ngokuqinisekileyo siya kuphumelela.
Ngamanye amaxesha ayisosilwanyana okanye umntu kodwa sizifumana sikwezo ndawo zobugqi, ezihlala zisenzeka kwiimovie, kodwa kule meko ziye zatshintshelwa emaphupheni. Ewe, ikwanayo nentsingiselo kwaye yile yethemba nokukhohlisa. Kubonakala ngathi iinjongo zakho ziya zisondela kwaye oko kukwenza uzive unamandla ngakumbi kwaye unethemba ngakumbi.
Zininzi iintsomi, lawo mabali amadala ngokwenene kodwa ahlala enika ukutya kwengcinga. Inyani yile yokuba kufuneka sibabandakanye nentsingiselo yokuphupha malunga neminqweno. Ewe, ukuba ephupheni lakho ubona ilivo owaziyo, nokuba yintoni, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba uyoyika ukujongana nento ongayaziyo. Sele ndibazi abantu okanye iimeko ezinokuza ebomini bakho.
El phupha ngezinto ezingaphezu kwendalo Kulindeleke ukuba sikwisigaba esahlukileyo ebomini bethu. Inye apho kuya kubakho utshintsho ukusuka ekuqaleni, kushiya ngasemva okungafanelanga thina. Nokuba sicinga ngayo, yinto eya kusenza sizive ngcono ekuhambeni kwexesha. Sifuna iimpendulo ebesizilindile ixesha elide. Ukuhlaziywa kuya kunkqonkqoza emnyango wethu. Ngaba uyazi zonke ezi ntsingiselo?
Ezi zinto zinamaphiko zongamele ukuhambisa umyalezo kwaye Iphupha leengelosi inokuba neentsingiselo ezilungileyo nezingalunganga. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, inani lakhe linxulunyaniswa nococeko lomphefumlo, kunye nokukhuselwa komntu, kodwa kukwakho neengelosi ezingenangqondo. Ndityhila zonke iimfihlelo ezingezantsi.
Wanna uyazi Kwakuthetha ntoni ukuphupha ukubhabha kunye nokuhamba? Ukuba uhlala uphupha ukuba uhamba ngenqwelomoya, ihlala ihamba kakuhle. Iphupha lidla ngokwenzeka kubantu abangathanda ukuba namandla amakhulu. Kwaye into yokugqibela esiyifunayo kukuvuka, kuba siyazi ukuba ekuphela kwendlela yokubhabha ngale ndlela ngamaphupha.
Isinika imvakalelo enkulu yenkululeko, i-adrenaline kunye nokuzimela ukuze sikwazi ukuhamba naphina apho sifuna khona. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba kukho ukutolika okwahlukileyo ngokusekwe kumxholo wephupha kunye nobuntu bakho. Kubantu abaninzi, ukuhamba ngenqwelomoya kunentsingiselo Libertad, ukuze bakwazi ukushiya zonke iingxaki ngasemva, ngelixa abanye beziva Vertigo.
Xa uphupha izigebenga, wawukhe uzive ungaphantsi kwabanye, ungabalulekanga kweli hlabathi. Umlo ovela kubazali bakho wokungaphumeleli uviwo, umqolo ovela kutitshala esikolweni okanye isiganeko nomphathi wakho emsebenzini inokuba ingunobangela wale mvakalelo. Uziva umncinci phambi kwabanye, ungenamandla, ungakwazi ukwenza.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye iindlela zokutolika ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko zephupha. Umzekelo, ayithethi okufanayo ukuba isigebenga sikuleqe (funda ngakumbi malunga ndiphupha ukuba bayandileqa) ukuba nguwe umntu omkhulu onyathela ilali engenakuzikhusela. Ke ngoko, kufanelekile ukuba ufunde onke amathuba.
Los zivumi, IiUFOs kunye nobukho obungaphaya kwendalo bukho kakhulu kwinxalenye yobomi bethu. Iphupha lemimoyaKe ngoko, inentsingiselo engaphakathi enxulumene nathi. Ngokwesiqhelo liphupha elibonakalisa kufuneka sitshintshe indlela esiziphatha ngayo, kodwa ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko apho ikhula kunye nenqanaba esihlala kulo, iintsingiselo ezininzi ezinokucingwa. Umzekelo, ukuba ipoltergeist ayibangeli uloyiko, itolikwa ngokufanelekileyo, kwelinye icala, ukuba yenye indlela ejikelezileyo, kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo.
Wanna uyazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iZombies? Ngaba uyathanda uthotho lwaseMelika? Ngokukodwa The Walking Dead? Ngaba iHalloween iyeza kwaye ukhe wakuthathela ingqalelo ukunxiba njenge zombi? Ukuba usandula ukudibana ngamehlo nala "undead," kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ubaphuphe. Xa abantu belele, bahlala becinga ngendawo esingqongileyo, malunga namava abo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba siye ezantsi kuyo, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba i-onirology inokutolika ngeendlela ezininzi ngokuxhomekeke kumxholo wakho, kunye nomzuzu wokuziva ufunyanwa kuwo; Siza kuqala ngokuchaza ngokubanzi, eyona ntsingiselo ixhaphakileyo, kwaye siyakuphela ngeenkcazo ezithile.