Abantu banamaphupha amaninzi kwaye ngalinye linentsingiselo yalo, ke namhlanje ndifuna ukukucacisela ukuba ungatolika njani intsingiselo yalo phupha ngomntuKungakhathaliseki ukuba ngumntu othandekayo, umhlobo, osebenza naye, intshaba okanye umntu ongaziwayo ongazange wambona ebomini bakho.
Iphupha lomntu endlwini yakho
Ukuba uphupha ubona umntu endlwini yakho, oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka lawula indlela oziphatha ngayo ukuze ungajongi kakubi phambi kwabanye.
Iphupha lomntu ofuna ukukulimaza
Ukuba ngumntu ozama ukukwenzakalisa kuya kufuneka yilwa nomhlaseli kwaye uzikhusele… Kwaye kubomi bokwenyani kuya kufuneka wenze ngokuchanekileyo ngokufanayo.
Iphupha lomntu osegumbini lakho
Ukuba ubona umntu egumbini lakho, oko kuthetha ukuba Mva nje uziva uhamba ze kwaye imfihlo yakho ayikho.
Ukuphupha umntu ongamaziyo esenza impazamo
Ukuba uphupha ubona umntu ephosakeleyo, oko kuthetha ukuba uziva uloyiko lotshintsho olunokutshintsha indlela ophila ngayo, isenza imeko ibe mandundu kwaye isusa ulonwabo lwakho. Ukuba loo mntu wenze isiphoso ngenxa yomnye, kule meko imele ilishwa lakho ukungakwazi ukumelana neengxaki zakho. Lixesha lokuba ubonise ubuso bakho!
Ukuphupha ubulala omnye umntu
Ngaba ubulala umntu ephupheni? Phawula eyakho Inqala yomntu othile lowo ninqwenela ububi kuye. Uyamcaphukela, yiyo loo nto kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukubona ubuso botshaba okanye umntu ongamthandiyo. Ukuba uyafuna ungabona ezinye iinkcukacha malunga iphupha lokubulala.
Ndineephupha lomntu endimthandayo
Iphupha lomntu omthandayo Kuthetha ukuba loo ntombazana okanye laa mfana uthandana naye uye wakuchaphazela ngokunzulu kwaye ungathanda ukwazi ukuba kunokwenzeka ube nolwalamano naye okanye kuye, ukuba unokulufikelela kangakanani uthando lwakho.
Ukuphupha ngokumanga umntu
Iphupha lokuncamisa emntwini kuthetha ukuba ungathanda ukuba secaleni kwakhe, ukuba ezo kiss zifezekile kwaye zibuyiselwe ngokuthandana zizele lulonwabo.
Ukuphupha ngokunika umntu i-hug
Iphupha lokuwola okanye ufuna ukuwola umntu, kuthetha ukuba ufuna ukuphucula ubudlelwane bakho bobuhlobo, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba ubusandokuphikisana, sele ukhule ngokwahlukileyo kwaye awufuni kuphulukana naye.
Iphupha lomntu ofileyo
Ngaba ngumntu ofileyo? Uyoyika ukulahleka kwabo ngokwenyani okanye ukuba ngumntu oswelekileyo ngokwenene uyamkhumbula. Lixesha lokuba ujongane nentlungu kunye nentlungu ebangelwe kukungabikho kwakhe, fumana igxalaba lokulila ushiye uxinzelelo ngasemva uqhubeke.
Belinjani iphupha lakho komnye umntu?
Wayengumntu onjani? Ngaba umntu othile wayenobubele, enogonyamelo, okanye enobubi? Ngaba ubumazi ukuba ngubani okanye wayengumntu wasemzini? Ngaba wakhe wathetha naye, wayekuleqa, okanye wayefuna ukukwenzakalisa?
Ndingathanda ukuva malunga nemeko yakho, ukongeza, abafundi baya kuba nolwazi oluninzi olunokubanceda ukuba bazenzele ukutolika kwabo.
Ividiyo ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuphupha umntu
Ungandwendwela oku Isichazi-magama ukufumana iintsingiselo ezichanekileyo ngakumbi.
