Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iminenga?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iminenga

Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iminenga?  Amaphupha ngeminenga aqhelekile ukuba ukhe wanxibelelana nesi silwanyana sanyisayo; ayisiyiyo kwaphela, kodwa ngumabonwakude (njengakwincwadi ebhaliweyo), kwifilimu yohlobo lwe "Moby Dick" okanye ukuba uve iindaba ezinxulumene noko. Cinga ngalo naluphi na unxibelelwano onokuba nalo kwesi silwanyana sikhulu, njengoko isenokuba yimvelaphi ekhokelele ephupheni.

Into iyatshintsha ukuba ikhutshwe ngokuzimeleyo, ngaphandle kwayo nayiphi na imvelaphi ebonakalayo. Kukwabaluleke kakhulu ukuba kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba iphindaphindeka. Kodwa kuya kufuneka uyikhumbule loo nto Ukutolikwa kwephupha kuya kwahluka ngokweemeko zakho kunye neenkcukacha zephupha elo. Ayizukufana into yokuba kulwandle oluphezulu kwaye ufumane iminenga isiya kufutshane, ukuba ifile, ukuba inemibala eyahlukeneyo, ukuba iyadada esibhakabhakeni. Ukukunceda utolike, siza kufunda ezona meko zixhaphakileyo.

Fumanisa intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeminenga?

Iingcali ziyakuqinisekisa oko amaphupha omnenga adityaniswa nobuntu obukhaliphile, notyekelo lokufezekisa oko bezimisele ukukwenza. Abantu ukuba iphupha leminenga Bavame ukuba nezipho ezinkulu zokukhokela amaqela kunye nokubenza baphumelele kulindelo. Le yeyona nkcazo yeklasikhi, kodwa isenokungafani ncam nephupha onalo. Oku kuqhelekile kuba, njengoko besesitshilo, zininzi ezinye iindlela. Kuya kuba yimfuneko ukuvavanya umzuzu wobomi bakho okulo, imeko yakho yovakalelo, kunye neenkcukacha zephupha elo.

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umnenga

Nangona ezi zilwanyana zikhulu kakhulu, ungaphupha ukuba nguwe whale oyihamba embindini wolwandle, kwaye ubekelwe bucala kwezinye. Sicebisa ukuba ucinge ngazo zonke iinkcukacha ezivele ephupheni, kuba ziya kuba luncedo kakhulu kuwe yokwazisa inyaniso.

Zeziphi ezona ngcaciso zixhaphakileyo malunga neminenga ephuphayo?

Ukuba uphuphe iminenga yokubulala kunye nookrebe. Eli phupha lidla ngokuvela xa ukwixesha loxinzelelo olukhulu, okanye njengophawu lokuba uziphethe kakubi nabanye abantu (usenokungabakhumbuli abahlobo bakho, okanye ukuba uzikhukhumalisa kakhulu ngabo).

Ingqondo yakho iyazi ukuba khange isebenze kakuhle kwaye ikuthumela imifanekiso yeminenga kunye nookrebe ekuhlaselayo.

Ngoku ukuba uyazi ukuba uthetha ukuthini lo myalezo, lixesha lokuba uphinde ucinge, ucinge ngeempazamo ozenzileyo kwaye ucele uxolelo.

Sikwacebisa ukuba ufunde malunga phupha ngookrebe.

Ukuba uphuphe iminenga, amahlengethwa kunye neminenga yokubulala Ke sikwimeko entle, kuba ezi zilwanyana zinoxolo.

Iphupha eli lihlala linxulumene nenyaniso yokuba sikumzuzwana wokuthula emva kokuba sincame okuninzi.

Uzolile kwaye oku kukwenza ubone ukuba zidada njani ngoxolo ezi zilwanyana. Kuya kufuneka uthathe ithuba lokuzola, kuba inokuba iphambi kwesiphango esikhulu.

Kuya kufuneka ufunde malunga nefayile ye- Intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeedonphins.

Ukuba uphuphe iminenga efileyo Oko kuthetha ukuba ungumntu ofuna ukubambelela kwiinjongo zakhe nokuba yeyiphi na indlela oyithathayo, ngubani onokuyityumza ngexesha layo.

Into yokuba bafile ibonisa ukuba uzinikele ebantwini kwaye ezantsi uyazi ukuba ubekek 'ityala ngayo.

Kuya kufuneka uxolise ngaphambi kokuba izinto zibe mbi: inokuchaphazela abahlobo bakho kunye nolwalamano lwakho lothando.

Ukuba uphuphe iminenga emhlophe okanye eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ... Umbala uhambelana nobukhulu bomnenga. Iminenga emhlophe ihlala incinci kunaleyo iblue, kwaye ihlala emanzini anzulu.

Iminenga emikhulu iphuphile, ubungakanani bunxulunyaniswa nobukhulu beengxaki ojamelana nazo (okanye nobungakanani ocinga ukuba banazo).

Ukuba iminenga incinci, oko kuthetha ukuba ucinga ukuba iingxaki zakho azikho nkulu kangako.

Ukuba iminenga yayonwabile ngelixa itsibela ulwandle ... lulilizwi elilungileyo, njengoko kuthetha ukuba uza kufumana iindaba ezibalulekileyo okanye isimemo esifanelekileyo.

Ukuba uzabalazile ukuphumelela uviwo, ukuba wenze konke onako ukuze umvuzo wakho uphakanyiswe, okanye ukuba usebenzile wenza nantoni na, iinzame zakho ziya kuba nembuyekezo.

Ukuba uphuphe ukuba iminenga yayisechibini, kuya kufuneka ufunde ngayo intsingiselo yokuphupha ngephuli.

Ngaba beyimikhomo, kufuneka wena? Eli phupha liqheleke kakhulu xa ukhulelwe, okanye xa umfazi wakho ekhulelwe. Kule meko kuphupha ukuba kukho umnenga kufuneka ubhukude ngolonwabo elwandle, kunye nomama

Oko kuthetha ukuba sinophawu lokukhusela ngaphambi kokufika komntwana. Sikwacebisa nawe funda intsingiselo yokuphupha malunga neentsana.

Amaqhekeza, imikhomo yesidoda okanye umva ... uhlobo alunamsebenzi.

Ngaba wakha waphupha ngeminenga ebomini bakho? Waziva njani xa wadibana nezi zidalwa zingakholelekiyo? Wafikelela kwesiphi isigqibo malunga nengqondo yakho efuna ukukuxelela yona? Ngaba wakha waphupha ngomnenga?

Ayizukukhathaza xa uyibhala kumagqabantshintshi, kuba ngale ndlela abanye abantu banokukhokelwa kukutolika kwakho ukuze bazi amaphupha abo ngokweenkcukacha.

Kuya kufuneka ufunde malunga:

Ukuba ufumene ulwazi olusebenzayo malunga kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iminenga, emva koko ndincoma ukuba ufunde ezinye iintsingiselo zamaphupha afanayo kudidi lokuphupha ngesilwanyana.

 


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8 izimvo ku "Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iminenga?"

  1. Ndiphupha imikhomo emi-3 emikhulu ibhukuda isiza kum kunye nemithi yokuqubha ecaleni kwayo ngokungathi iyazulazula ngefinisi yayo, emva koko ndibona iminenga emithathu yesidoda ibhukuda nzulu kwaye inyamalale, emva koko ibe ngabantu kwaye enye yazo yayilinenekazi elomeleleyo elineenwele ezibomvu elixelayo mna into.

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  2. Ndiphuphe ndisemanzini afriziwe kwaye ndajonga ezantsi kwaye kukho iminenga emininzi ebulala umkhenkce emva koko amanzi anyibilika, ngelixa amanzi anyibilikisa ii-orcas zaqala ukuba nobomi kamva umlambo wamanzi wawuza kutshabalalisa yonke into kodwa ngaphandle kwengxaki kwenzeke kum ukuba ndinyukele kwisakhiwo ndinyuke ndiye kumgangatho ophezulu ndibone ukusuka apho ukuba amanzi ahamba njani.

    Ungandinceda undixelele ukuba kuthetha ntoni?

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  3. Izolo ebusuku ndiphuphe ndisendlwini yam kodwa ibhalkhoni yam ibijonge elwandle, bendithetha efowunini nabantu endibathandayo kodwa abasahlali kweli lizwe ngequbuliso ndibona imikhomo emibini emikhulu ibulala emanzini, ndachukunyiswa bubukhulu bazo, emva koko ndaqhubeka nencoko yam kwaye ngequbuliso ndandikwifestile yegumbi lam kwaye ndibona eminye imikhomo emibini ixhuma, nayo inkulu kakhulu, kwaye ndiyirekhode ngefowuni yam, kwaye Ngelixa ndirekhodayo basondela kum bade bafike ngefestile kwaye baqale ukunkqonkqoza efestileni, ndiziva ngathi bacaphukile kwaye emva kwethutyana bemkile.

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  4. Molo, ndiphuphe umnenga omkhulu omhlophe oqubha ecaleni kwesikhephe bendihamba ngaso kwaye wandijonga wasondela kum ukuze ndiwuphulule, uziva ukhuselekile kakhulu ecaleni kwam kwaye ndiqaphele ukuba undijongile kwaye engoyiki kwaphela, kodwa wayengeyedwa, wayenomntwana ecaleni kwakhe, ngamanye amaxesha wayejika ajike andibonise, nceda ukuba ungandinceda ukuba ndiqonde eli phupha, ndaphakama ndonwabile kwaye ndinomdla, bekuqhubeka ubusuku bangoDisemba 31

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