Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amagqwirha nobugqwirha?

Wanna uyazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amagqwirha? Amagqwirha ayizozinto zabantwana kuphela. Ngokwesiqhelo, ngabancinci endlini abasesichengeni sokuba namaphupha amabi, kuba xa sasingabantwana sasiboyika, ukongeza kwizilo, iziporho y Izithunzela. Abantu abadala baphupha nabo. Umzekelo, ukuba ubonile ubugqwirha okanye umboniso bhanyabhanya, njengoHarry Potter, kunokuba sengqiqweni ukuba namaphupha amabi malunga nobugqwirha nobugqwirha ngobo busuku.

Nangona kunjalo, kubantu abaqolileyo banokuvela ngaphandle kokunxibelelana nayo nantoni na enxulumene noko, banokuba yinto ezenzekelayo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uqale, khumbula ukuba ayingawo onke amaphupha ngobugqwirha anentsingiselo efanayo. Ungayibona igqwirha libhabha kumtshayelo walo, ukuba ulungile okanye ungalunganga, ukukhafula, ukukuleqa kunye nokuhlasela. Ngaba zintle okanye zimbi ngentsumpa? Ngaba bayahleka okanye bayalila? Ngaba banekati ezandleni zabo okanye ngaba bakhatshwa ngumtyholi (emva koko kubalulekile ukuba ufumane okungakumbi malunga Phupha iidemon uthandaze)? Umxholo ubalulekile kwaye yiyo loo nto siqala ukusuka kutoliko ngokubanzi ukukhokelela ngakumbi ngakumbi.

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngobugqwirha, ukuthakatha nabathakathi?

Ngokwesiqhelo, iingcali ze-onirology zichaza ukuba iphupha lobugqwirha linokuchazwa kumanqaku amabini.

• Okokuqala, amagqwirha ngabantu abazulazula ngomtshayelo wabo bodwa, ke oko kuthetha ukuba akho uloyiko lokufa wedwa, Ukuphelelwa ngabahlobo.
• Okwesibini, abo bantu bazama ukukwenzakalisa kufuneka ubagxothe nantoni na kuphephe ukuqhathwa okanye ukwenzakaliswa. La magqirha alunge kakhulu ngokubagxotha.

Oku kunokuba kukutolikwa ngokubanzi, kwaye njengoko ndicacisile kufuneka uhlalutye imeko yakho yobuqu, uloyiko lwakho kunye neminqweno kunye nelizwekazi eliveliswe yingqondo ephupheni. Makhe sibone amanye amabali anentsingiselo.

Iphupha lamagqwirha angendawo

Ukuba uqaphela indlela igqwirha elibonisa ngayo ingqumbo kunye nomona kuwe, unokuziva ngokufanayo ngalo mzuzu ebomini bakho. Ngaba ukucaphuka nomntu? Awukhe uthethe nomhlobo ixesha elide? Ngaba uziva unomsindo kwaye ufuna ukuziphindezela kumntu owenze kakubi kuwe? Ngelixa uleleyo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ubone indlela obapela ngayo. Ngamanye amaxesha bade bahambe nomtyholi (yiza apha ukuze ufumane okungakumbi malunga amaphupha nosathana).

Ukuphupha ngamagqwirha kubuthathaka

Ngaba uziva ubuthathaka? Ubuntu obunokubakho buthathaka bunokubandezeleka kumaphupha amabi. Kuthetha ukuba unayo ukoyika ukwenzakaliswaUyinto embi ngokuthi hayi, kulula ukuba uziphembele ekwenzeni izinto ongayi kuzingca ngazo. Ngamafutshane, ukuba uyazi ukuba abantu banokuthatha ithuba lokulunga kwakho, i-subconscious iyakubonisa kweli phupha.

Olunye uhlobo olunokubakho lunokuba nefayile ye- ukubaluleka kwembali. Khumbula ukuba kumaXesha Aphakathi kwakukho ukuzingelwa koosiyazi, amagqwirha nabahedeni ababeshumayela ngokuchasene nemithetho yeCawe. Babatshisile, khange babavumele ukuba banike uluvo lwabo. Unokucinga ngento efanayo ngelixa uleleyo ukuba awunaso isigqibo sokuthatha isigqibo, abakuvumeli uthenge into ekwenza wonwabe, ukuba ucinezelwe ngenxa yokungakwazi ukunika uluvo lwakho.

Iphupha lamagqwirha amaninzi abhabha

Kwenzeka into efanayo ukuba uphupha amagqwirha amaninzi aphaphazela phezu kwakho, ekuleqa, akuhlasela kwaye ahleka. Kungexesha thetha into oyicingayo, sukuzivalela iinkolelo zakho zangaphakathi ukuba uhlala kwidemokhrasi ngenxa yoko

Iphupha lomthakathi olungileyo

Kuhlala kutolikwa oko uyawuthanda umlingo kunye nehlabathi lobugqwirha. Mhlawumbi ingqondo yakho ikuthumela isilumkiso sokuba ngumlingo.

Ndiphupha umthakathi onekati

Kwakhona, ukuba unayo ikati ezandleni zakho, oko kuthetha ukuba uswiti kwaye uya kubahlekisa abantu (jonga ntoni kuthetha ukuphupha ikati).

Ukuphupha ngomntu othakathayo

Ngaba wakhe wazibuza ukuba ingaba "obu busuku bububi" babangelwa kukuphuphuma komnqweno? Iicawe zizele yimixube eluhlaza kunye nemfusa yokuphosa nokuthakatha kwizidalwa ezingendawo, umtshayelo ukuba ubhabhe uye phezulu, intonga yokwenza umlingo ... Mhlawumbi uyalikhumbula ixesha lakho lobuntwana, Njengosana.

Ividiyo yentsingiselo yokuphupha malunga namagqwirha

Ukuba eli nqaku malunga kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amagqwirha, ke ndicebisa ukuba undwendwele ezinye ezinxulumene nazo kudidi lwe amaphupha aqala ngonobumba B.