Namhlanje ndikuzisele ityala elingaqhelekanga, kuba ndiza kutyhila kuwe ukuba yintoni i intsingiselo yokuphupha ngezixhobo, loo nto isebenza kokubini ukugcina umntu omsulwa kunye nokuthatha ubomi babo. Amaphupha ahluke kakhulu kuxhomekeke kubuntu bethu kunye nomxholo. Ngesi sizathu, abantu abaninzi baziva benesidingo sokwazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini oko baphuphe ngako.
Amaphupha nemipu amele ukungazithembi komntu. Uziva ungancedi kwaye unoloyiko lokuba umntu othile angakuhlasela okanye akwenzakalise ngaphandle kokuba uzikhethele. La maphupha ahlala exhaphakile kwabo bathe bava ubunzima bokuxhatshazwa ebuntwaneni babo okanye bathambekele ekungeneni engxakini. Ukhe wadubula umntu ngompu? Iphupha malunga nemipu kuthetha ingxaki yomthetho engaphambili kuba niyaphikisana. Ngaba sele uxeliwe kwaye ulinde ukuya kwityala? Imipu kumaphupha akho ihlala ibonisa iingxaki zosapho kunye neengxabano oko kuya kukhokelela ekubeni uyeke ukuthetha nesalamane esisondeleyo.
Iphupha leengalo ezincinci
Ukuba uphupha iingalo ezincinci, oko kuthetha ukuba uziva uloyiko lokuphangwa kunye nokuphangwa Izinto zakho ezixabiseke kakhulu, yiyo loo nto uhlala uziphatha uzifihlile phakathi kweempahla zakho.
Ukuphupha umntu edubula umpu
Ukuphupha umntu edubula umpu kuthetha ukuba basondela kuwe iimeko eziyingozi akufuneki ukuba uphazamisane nazonjengoko zinokubangela ingozi enkulu kuwe. Ukuba kutshanje ukhe wehlelwa yimeko yokungalingani, ubundlobongela okanye ukonakala ngokwasemphefumlweni, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba uphuphe kuvela izixhobo. Kwenzeka into efanayo ukuba unayo iimvakalelo ezifana nenzondo okanye umona.
Ukuphupha umpu ngeembumbulu
Ngaba uphuphe nge-cannonball? Yenza ireferensi kwi ukungqubana nezalamane, ihlala inxulumene nemidla eyahlukeneyo yomntu ngamnye.
Ukuphupha ngokuhlatywa ngemela
Si uphupha uhlatywe ngemela, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho umntu osondeleyo kuwe ozama ukukwenzakalisa kwaye i-subconscious yakho iyayazi. Zama ukufumanisa ukuba ungubani kwaye ujongane naye ukuze ungaze uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde ubuye.
Ukuphupha ukuba kuqhunyiswa umpu kuthi
Xa siphupha sidutyulwa ngompu, oko kuthetha ukuba soyika ukuhlaselwa Okanye sife msinyane kunokuba besifanele La maphupha amabi abonakala ebantwini abahlala kwiindawo ezinengxaki. Njengoko ubona, iphupha ngompu ayihlali itolikwa ngokuchanekileyo.
Belinjani iphupha lakho ngezixhobo? Utolike njani?
Ezi zezinye zeemeko ezinokubakho ngengqondo yakho xa ulele, kodwa kuxhomekeke kwinkcubeko ovela kuyo kunye nemeko yakho yobuqu, imeko inokwahluka kakhulu.
Kananjalo, nguwe kuphela onokufumana intsingiselo eqinisekileyo, yiyo loo nto ndingathanda ukuba yabelana ngezantsi ukuba uphupha ntoni xa wena okanye umntu edubula umpu kuwe, baleqwa lipolisa liphethe umpu, njl. Abafundi bayakulangazelela ukuva uluvo lwakho!
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Ividiyo ngentsingiselo yokuphupha ngezixhobo
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Molo, iphupha lam belingu; jonga nangoku indoda ebimile ithe cwaka ngaphakathi emotweni yayo kuze enye indoda ize kwelinye icala imtyhale ade azibethe, emva koko lo mfo uphuma emotweni ephethe umpu wesilencer ambethe omnye emlenzeni komnye badutyulwa emlonyeni kwaye abantu abaninzi ngeenxa zonke babekhala ngenxa yenyani!
Iphupha: Ndikwindawo engaziwayo (ilizwe elahlukileyo apho ndazalelwa khona) kwaye ndiyayazi indoda, inxibe njengaye nawuphi na umntu, iyanxibelelana nayo, indixelele ukuba lipolisa, ndabona imodeli yeBeretta. 9mm umpu. I-92F, ukusuka apho senza uhlobo lobuhlobo kwakamsinya nje ukuba ndimxelele ukuba ndiligosa lomkhosi kwilizwe lam. Ngokuqinisekileyo imeko yephupha iyatshintsha; Ngoku, ndikwilizwe endazalelwa kulo, ndihamba ngesitrato kwindawo endikhulele kuyo, emva koko ndiyaqonda ukuba ndihamba nomntu endadibana naye (ipolisa) ngelixa ndihamba ndisiya kwindawo yokugcina izinto ukuze ndithenge izinto yitya kwangoko, ngelixa urhoxile kum, kuba wayeka ukubuza endlwini (bathengisa iilekese), ukuba bathengisa iCatalinas; Okwangoku, ndibulise abahlobo bam ndangena kwigumbi lokugcina impahla (ivenkile ka-Oscar) ndakhalisa intsimbi ndaza ndalinda ukuba u-Oscar afike, ukuze azokundithobela, ndibukele ngelixesha, de wafika u-Oscar. mna, lipolisa lifika, lingena kwindawo yokugcina izinto kwaye lidlulise ikhawuntara ebekelwa umda phakathi komthengi kunye nomthengisi, ngelixa ndijonga ngenyameko ubungqina bokuya kula ndawo (igcinelwe umthengisi), kwaye ndiyamangaliswa kukuba ekhupha Zichaze kananjalo zacima izithonga zambini emhlabeni, into emangalisa umthengisi kunye nam, nangona kunjalo, umthengisi ugcina ingqondo, kwaye kulula, nokoyika, ujonge phantsi. Emva koko, indoda ithatha umpu ingakhange iwubambe kwaye iwuphakamise, ngokungathi isithi ndiyancama, thatha umpu; Ngalo mzuzu, ndathatha ithuba, ndathatha ndabeka esinqeni, ngelixa ndandizicelela uxolo kuMnu.Oscar, uxolo ngento eyenzekileyo, ndamxelela ukuba akahambisani nesimo sengqondo salomntu waye mna, ukuba uya kukholisa ukuhlawulisa into ayithathileyo kunye nendoda, nayo, wandixelela ukuba yimalini ngomonakalo obangelwe kukudubula emhlabeni. Umnumzana u-Oscar wandihlawulisa i-2054 Bs, ndathi xa ndikhangela imali kwisipaji sam ndabona ukuba amatyala ayebhalwa ukusukela ngexesha ndandisengumntwana (iminyaka eli-9 okanye eli-10 ubudala), kulungile, ndayihlawula, indoda nayo yayigqiba intlawulo sahamba ke iphupha laphela.
Iinkcukacha
Ephupheni: Ndineminyaka engama-36 ubudala kwaye le ndoda ibonakala ikwiminyaka efanayo.
- I-winery: yi-winery eyayikho kwikona yendawo endikhulele kuyo, ebuntwaneni bam nakwiminyaka yokufikisa, Mnu.
Imali endiyisebenzisayo ukuhlawula iibhili ezazikho ngexesha lobuntwana bam kunye nokufikisa.
- Ngalo lonke eli phupha ndiziva ndizolile, ndikhuselekile kakhulu, indoda enoxanduva nenentlonipho.
Okwangoku le ndoda yagxothayo, ndaziva ndinosizi ngesimo sepolisa elingenantlonipho, ekukhanyeni kwakhe kokudlula kwemida yendawo yomthengisi, kwaye kamva, ndimangalisiwe yimpambano awayenzayo xa wayedubula.
-Emva kwento endiyenzileyo yokuba ndithathe isixhobo, ndaye ndacinga ngokungabinaxanduva lokujingxela endodeni endingayaziyo, kwaye ngesimo sayo sengqondo ingakhange ibonakale ngathi lipolisa.
-Namhlanje 20/05/20; Ndineminyaka engama-37 ubudala
Umhla wephupha: ngoMeyi 01, 2020, ixesha: phakathi kwe-17: 00 kunye ne-18: 00 Canary Islands / Spain.
Ndiphuphe ndisendlini kamakazi wam ndinabantu abaninzi endingabakhumbuliyo kodwa ibiyinto yokudibana, emva koko ndancamathela ekuphumeni kuloo ndlu ndathi xa ndikumgama omalunga neemitha ezintathu ukusuka endlini yam umfana othile wema ekoneni kwaye Ndiqale ngokutsala umpu ongaphantsi kaninzi ndizimele emva kwesitrato somntwana wam ndathi xa ndibona umntwana wam yayingunodoli weplastiki kwaye wandoyikisa, umakazi wam wandikhwaza ukuba ndingene endlwini yakhe kodwa ndandingafuni kwaye Ndandihamba ndiphindaphinda ndiqala
Ndiphuphe nje ndisekhaya nosapho lwam (egadini), ngequbuliso kudlula iveni emnyama enamadoda amaninzi axhobileyo, utata wam usikhwaza ukuba singene, baya egumbini lakhe mna ndaya evenkileni. , kodwa ucango lwevenkile aluzange luvaleke ndazama ukulivala ngokungxama xa ndisiva izithonga (kude), ndiye ndalala kwathi emva kwexeshana ndabona amadoda adlulayo ngeveni ndibone enye ... Iso iliso ... Lonto ibenze bajike ndabaleka ndaya apho bekukhona usapho lwam kodwa phantsi kwebhedi apho bekukho ishiti, xa ndingena ndatsala ndagona umtshana wam oneminyaka emi-3 ... bayandibuza abazali bam. kukho into nam phakathi kokulila nokoyika khange ndikwazi ukuyiphendula kodwa ndeva ukuba ilori ibime njani ngaphandle kwendlu yam ndaqiniseka ukuba bazongena ...Ngalamzuzu ndivule amehlo, ndavuka...