Ukuba ufuna ukwazi yintoni kuthetha ukuphupha oonomadudwane, Apha uya kufumana zonke iinkcukacha. Sonke siyazi ukuba oonomadudwane sesinye sezilwanyana ezinobungozi kwindalo, ngakumbi oonomadudwane.
Xa unonomadudwane ekubetha, kufuneka ukhawuleze ubone ugqirha ukuthintela iintlungu kunye neengxaki zokuphefumla. Nokuba kuxhomekeke kwindidi ixhoba lingatshabalala. Njengoko unokucinga, ukuba unomadudwane uvela ngendlela, ngaphezulu kwephupha oza kuba nalo liphupha elibi. Kuxhomekeka kwimeko ebonisiweyo ngobo busuku, uya kuvuka ngolunye uluvo okanye enye. Yonke into iyahluka ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni zininzi naonomadudwane abakhulu, ukuba zifunyenwe kunye nezinye izilwanyana ezinje izigcawu, amaphela okanye iicentipedes. Kuxhomekeke ekubeni ingaba bayaphila okanye bafile, okanye ukuba uyakwazi ukubabulala, kwimeko apho intsingiselo intle. Zonke ezi nkcukacha kunye nezinye ezininzi ndizityhila apha ngezantsi.
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ngoonomadudwane?
Njengomgaqo ngokubanzi, xa kukho unomadudwane ovela emaphupheni akho uza kuba nexesha elibi. Iya kuba liphupha elibi eliza kudala inkxalabo. Ngokwesiqhelo kuthetha ukuba into eyenzekileyo kuwe mva nje iyakubamba intloko kwaye ayikuvumeli ukuba uphumle ngokukhululekileyo, nokuba yintombazana okanye inkwenkwe, ubuhlobo okanye umlo.
Kwakhona, oonomadudwane babonisa imeko yokulumka kwingqondo yakho. Yathi imeko ingabonisa ukungcatshwa kobuhlobo kwixa elizayo, okanye nokungathembeki kweqabane lakho. Ngokukodwa ukuba uyakwazi ukwahlula unomadudwane, kuba ubuthi bayo bunamandla ngakumbi, ukungcatsha kunokuba kukhulu. Sukuyekisa ukugada kuba okona mzuzu ulindelweyo ukuba inokwenzeka imeko engafunekiyo.
Kwelinye icala, ingcebiso yokuqala abaninika yona ziingcali ze-onirology kunye ne-psychoanalysis ngeli phupha yile Kuya kufuneka uphumle kancinci ngaphambi kokuba ulale. Amaxesha amaninzi amaphupha amabi malunga noonomadudwane okanye oonomadudwane avela ngenxa yoxinzelelo oluqhubekayo okanye inqanaba lentlekele. Yenza ngokweminqweno yakho ukunciphisa iingxaki kangangoko, kwaye uya kubuyela ekuphumleni ngoxolo.
Ukuphupha ngoonomadudwane abakhulu okanye abancinci
Ngaba uphupha ngoonomadudwane abakhulu okanye abancinci? Imiba yobungakanani, njenge oonomadudwane abakhulu babonisa ukungcatsha okukhulungelixa abancinci behleba nje.
Umbala woonomadudwane
Ukuphupha ngoonomadudwane abamnyama nabantsundu
Umbala woonomadudwane nawo ubaluleke kakhulu. Ziqhelekile mnyama okanye emdaka kwaye zihlala zihlobene ukungahlambuluki okanye ukunganyaniseki.
Iphupha malunga ne-White Scorpions
Ukuba unomadudwane umhlophe ngoko kuthetha ukusulungeka. I-scopion emhlophe ihlala inxulumene nabahlobo abangasoze basilele kwaye kuya kufuneka uthembele kwinkxaso yabo nanini na uyifuna. Baza kubakho xa ubadinga.
Iphupha Ngee-Red Scorpions
Ukuba unomadudwane ubomvu oko kuthetha uza kungcatsha iqabane lakho. Luphawu lokuzingisa ukufezekisa into nokuba yeyiphi na oyisebenzisayo apha endleleni.
Uphupha ngathi unonomadudwane uyakuluma
Njengakwezinkulu, ukuba unomadudwane uyakwazi ukukuhlaba nakweyiphi na indawo emzimbeni, oko kuthetha ukuba uloyiko lwakho lukhulu kangangokuba ucinga ngomnye hlukana nesibini, ukukopela okanye ukungathembeki. Ukuba unomadudwane uyakuluma kwaye uqaphele ukuba uyityhefu njani kufuneka uthethe ngokungathandabuzekiyo kwaye uthethe naye malunga noloyiko lwakho lokuphinda ulale ebusuku.
Ukuphupha ukuba ubulala unomadudwane
Kwimeko yokuphupha ubulala unomadudwane luphawu lwakho amandla emvakalelo okujongana nemiqobo eza ngendlela yakho. Xa uphumelele bulala unomadudwane, ubonisa amandla akho, kunye nokuqhuba kwakho ukusombulula ezo ngxaki zikukhathaza ubusuku ngabunye.
Njengoko uNicolás Maquivelo esithi, Isiphelo siyazigwebela iindlela. Awukhathali nokuba abanye babandezeleka ukuze ufezekise injongo yakho.
Ukuphupha oonomadudwane abafileyo
Bafile? Kwakhona, umele ukufaneleka kwakho ukumelana nobunzima ukubuyela kwi lala okosana.
Ukuphupha ubaleka oonomadudwane abaninzi
Uphupha ubaleka oonomadudwane? Ukubaleka oonomadudwane okanye izigcawu kuthetha imiqondiso emibi. Tyhila ubugwala bakho kwaye uloyiko kufuneka ujongane neengxaki zakho ungajonganga nezisombululo. Ukuba ufuna ulwazi ngakumbi malunga nezigcawu sicebisa ukuba ufunde inqaku malunga nentsingiselo yokuphupha ngezigcawu.
Wamkela nayiphi na inkohliso ngokurhoxa, ungenzi nto ukuyithintela. Esi simo sengqondo kufuneka sitshintshwe ukusukela ngoku, njengoko siza kuthatha umthwalo wakho kuwe kwixa elizayo.
Ukuphupha oonomadudwane abaphuma emlonyeni wakho
Ngaba ziyaphuma emlonyeni wakho? Mhlawumbi baphuma emzimbeni wakho? Ngaba zininzi okanye zimbalwa? Ukuphupha ngoonomadudwane abaninzi yinto embi. Baqinisekisa ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo udlula kwinqanaba elinzimaNokuba kukwi-personal, family, professional okanye kwezoqoqosho. Nangona kunjalo, ungalibali ukuba liphupha nje, ngoku lithuba lakho lokwenza. Kwakhona, ukuba oonomadudwane baphuma emlonyeni wakho okanye baphume emzimbeni, ingqondo ikuthumela umyalezo: mhlawumbi ingxaki nguwe. Ukuthetha kakubi ngomntu ngaphandle kokuba uphambi kwakho, ukungathembeki kuthando lwakho, ungathathi sigqibo silungileyo ... Nguwe kuphela owaziyo loo nto.
Ukuphupha oonomadudwane endlwini yakho
Basekhaya? Ingcaciso icacile: inkxalabo yile Uhlobo losapho. Kwelinye icala, ukuba unomadudwane okanye unomadudwane ulele, yonke into inxulunyaniswa novakalelo.
Ividiyo yentsingiselo yokuphupha ngoonomadudwane noonomadudwane
Ukuba eli nqaku malunga nantoni kuthetha ukuphupha oonomadudwane noonomadudwane Isebenzisile, ke ndicebisa ukuba ufunde ezinye zinxulumene nokuphupha ngezilwanyanas.
Ephupheni lam wabaleka ufezela. Kwaye umama wam wayengafuni ndibabulale. Ngenxa yokuba wabakhulisela ekwenzeni ububi. "Ngokwephupha lam"
Ndiphuphe ingcungcu emnyama emnyama itsibela ngefestile yawa phantsi ecaleni kwebhedi yam emva koko kwavela nonkqayana omnyama omkhulu ukukhusela le incinci kodwa bendingekakwazi ukubabulala, babaleka.
Ndiphuphe ndisechibini ndabona liyadada ndalibamba ngesandla, lalibulala kodwa landiluma.
Nam kodwa andiyazi ukuba ithetha ukuthini