Ebomini, kukho izinto ezininzi umntu ngamnye aya kuba nazo ngaxa lithile; enye yazo ubuhlobo. Kungako kunjalo phupha nabahlobo kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kwaye into yokuba ixhaphake eluntwini ichaza ukuba kukho intsingiselo emva kwayo. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni? Kweli nqaku uza kwazi atolikwa njani la maphupha, kodwa kuqala kufuneka ucacise ezinye iinkcukacha.
Uhlalutyo kunye neempendulo zahluka kakhulu kuxhomekeke kwimeko yephupha, kuba alifani ukuba i-subconscious ikubonisa Abahlobo odlala nabo kwaye wonwabe naboUngathini xa ikufundisa abahlobo bakho basweleke kuba ubakhumbula. Ke ngoko, kuyafuneka ukuba uyifunde ngocoselelo kwaye uthathele ingqalelo imeko yakho, eya kuthi ibe nefuthe kwisiphelo osifikelela esiphelweni.
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ngabahlobo?
Ngokwesiqhelo ihlala sukuphupha nabahlobo bobuntwana ongakhange uzibone ixesha elide. Abantu be-Nostalgic bachitha ixesha elininzi bekhumbula ubomi babo kwixa elidlulileyo, njengabantwana, xa babonwabile kwaye beswele uxanduva. Ngamaxesha lawo kukho iifayile ze- amaxesha olonwabo oluphezulu nabantu abaya kuba ngamaqabane amahle apha kuzo zonke iikhosi zesikolo. Ke ngoko, njengoko kunamava amaninzi amnandi, i-subconscious ikubonisa wona njengophawu lobuntu bakho obuncamileyo.
Kukho ezinye izizathu zokuba uphuphe ngothandekayo, ngokuthe ngcembe, kodwa kungabalulekanga kangako. Masibone ukuba bafuzisela ntoni ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko.
Ukuphupha abahlobo abafileyo
Ukhe waphupha ngabahlobo bakho abangasekhoyo? Ngamaxesha athile kwinqanaba lethu lokukhula kukho abantu abaphulukana nabahlobo babo abasenyongweni kwingozi yemoto, ngenxa yobusuku obungenangqondo nabungalawulekiyo apho singenaxanduva ngokwaneleyo. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka kuwe, kuya kuphawula ubomi bakho bonke. Ke ngoko, kuqhelekile ukuba ube namaphupha amabi okanye ucinge ebusuku uyabakhumbula kwaye soze ulibale.
Ukuphupha abahlobo abafileyo abaphilayo
Ukuba kuyenzeka ukuba ephupheni lakho loo mhlobo afe kodwa aphile ebomini bokwenyani kuthetha ukuba uyoyika ukuphulukana nayo. Mhlawumbi beniphikisana mva nje kwaye nicinga ukuba izinto ziyaqhubeka ngoluhlobo, niza kugqiba nizahlule. Lixesha lokuba uthethe kwaye ulungise izinto ngaphambi kwexesha, kuba ukuba akunjalo, obo buhlobo buza "kufa" ngokwenene.
Iphupha malunga nabahlobo abasondeleyo
Ngaba ngabahlobo abasenyongweni? Ngokwesiqhelo ukutolikwa kulungile. Abantu banokuphupha njengaye isampula yothando esivakalelwa ngumntu esimthandayo. Ukuba uhlala uhlala nomntu, ayothusi into yokuba ebusuku i-subconscious yakho ingenise amabali apho nobabini nisebenzisana kwaye nihlala kwiindawo ezintsha ezizele ziifantasy.
Ukuphupha ngabahlobo ongakhange uzibone ixesha elide
Abantu owawunobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nazahlukana. Abanye bahlala, abanye bayemka. Ubomi buyaqhubeka". Ibinzana elimnandi likaJulio Iglesias apho abonisa khona inyani enkulu. Ayingabo bonke abantu abaya kuba secaleni kwakho ngonaphakade. Nditsho nabahlobo bakho osenyongweni obucinga ukuba bangabakho ebomini iphele inyamalala ngokuhamba kweminyaka bade baqheleka nje. Oku kunokuza engqondweni kwiminyaka kamva kolunye ulangazelelo, inkumbulo onqwenela ukuyifumana kodwa ingenzeki. Ukhe wacinga ngokuthetha naye kwakhona?
Ndiphuphe ndingenabahlobo
Ukuba uyosa enye inqanaba apho uziva ulilolo okanye ukuba awuyifumenanga inkxaso evela kweyakho ukoyisa imiqobo enzima, unokuziva ulilize ngohlobo lwephupha elibi. Ngamanye amaxesha aba bantu abayiqondi indlela abakhohlakele ngayo, kwaye kufuneka ucele uncedo. Musa ukulinda ukuba beze kuwe!
Ividiyo yentsingiselo yokuphupha nabahlobo
Ukuba ufumene eli nqaku malunga phupha nabahlobo ke ndicebisa ukuba ufunde amanye amaphupha aqala ngonobumba A.
