Awunakubaleka ubomi ungakhange ujongane nokufa. Iphupha lokufa Kuqhelekile, ikakhulu ngenxa yokungaqiniseki kokungazi ukuba silindelwe ntoni emva kobomi, kunye noloyiko lokuphulukana nabantu esibathandayo. Ngokwesiqhelo liphupha elibi eliza kusenza sivuke sibilile kwaye sibetha ngamandla. Ngokuchasene nenkolelo edumileyo, iingcali kwiphupha le-psychoanalysis azisoloko ziyinika intsingiselo embi. Khangela ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngokufa Kuqheleke kakhulu.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuphupha ngomntu esifa kunxulumene uphawu lothando usiya kuloo mntu, kwaye awufuni ukuba ahambe kwaye ayeke ukumbona (ungalwandisa olu lwazi ngokufunda malunga intsingiselo yokuphupha abahlobo abangasekhoyo). Inokuba kakhulu malunga nomhlobo, umntu osebenza naye, isalamane, iqabane lakho. Iintsingiselo ze iphupha lokufa Ziyahluka kakhulu, kwaye iimeko zomphuphi kuya kufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo. Kubalulekile ukuba uthathe ingqalelo nakwizona nkcukacha zincinci, kuba yonke into ibalulekile xa kufikelelwa kutoliko oluchanekileyo. Apha sizama ukukubonisa ukhetho olunokwenzeka.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha nabafileyo?
Njengoko sele ufundile kweli phepha malunga nentsingiselo ye- amaphupha, Kuphela ngumphuphi onokufumana olona phupha luchanekileyo ngephupha lakhe. Umxholo wephupha lokufa, iimeko zakho zobuqu, kunye nesimo sakho sengqondo kunye nendlela osabela ngayo xa uvuka iya kukunceda ukuba uyixhase into oyibonileyo. Nini uphupha kusweleka isizalwane, ibhekisa kwindlela oziva ngayo ngalomntu umthandayo. Ibonisa ukuba uyoyika ukulahlekelwa sisizathu esithile. Uyazi ukuba ngumntu obaluleke kakhulu kwaye ukusilela kwakhe kuya kukwenza ube nobomi obonwabisayo, obungenanjongo.
Awona maphupha aqhelekileyo okufa ahlala enxulumene ne Ukusweleka konyana okanye kwentombi, kumntakwenu okanye udade, ovela kubazali bethu, kutata wakho, umama wakho, iqabane lakho othandana nalo, oomalume, ootatomkhulu, abatshana, abazala, abahlobo okanye nabantu osebenza nabo obathandayo.
Isenokuba njalo isalamane sakhe sishiyeke kudala, kwaye ikamva linokumbuyisela "esaphila" ephupheni lakho ukuze ukwazi ukuthetha ixesha elingakumbi naye. bucala ngasekhohlo iphupha alithethi lukhulu, kodwa ubomi bukunika ixesha elithe chatha ukuze umkhumbule. La maphupha aqheleke kakhulu kootatomkhulu noomakhulu abaswelekileyo.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ndife ngokwam ephupheni?
Asisoloko siphupha umntu obalulekileyo esifa ebomini bethu, ngamanye amaxesha umvuni omdaka ubonakala kuthi.
Ayilohlwayo elibi, elikude nayo. Iingcali zibhekisa kwinto yokuba unikwa amathuba amaninzi owaphosayo, kwaye nengqondo yakho ikwazisa ukuba ngekhe iphinde yenzeke.
Ixesha lokuba tshintsha indlela yokucinga, yokonwabela into oyifunayo.
Kungenzeka ukuba awukhululekanga neqabane lakho lothando, ukuba umsebenzi onawo awugqibi ukukugcwalisa, okanye uxinezelekile kangangokuba uhambo nje lunokukunceda unqamle ingqondo yakho.
Iphupha eliqinisekisiweyo ngakumbi: ndiphuphe sivukile. Kukubonakaliswa kokuzithemba okuphantsi, kokungaxatyiswa.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqale ubone ukuba uxabiseke kangakanani, ugcine engqondweni yonke into onokuyenza, hayi okoko ungekaphumeleli.
Isenokuba liphupha eliqhelekileyo ukuba ubukele umboniso bhanyabhanya okanye uthotho lukamabonwakude, okanye ukuba ukhe waxoxa ngezihloko eziqhelekileyo kunye nabahlobo bakho. Kwimeko yokugqibela, iya kuba liphupha elibi kuphela elingenakuphindwa.
Ezinye iinguqulelo malunga nokufa
Ukhe waphupha ngokufa komntu wasemzini? Ungaphupha ngokusweleka komntu ongamazi kwaphela, kusuku olulandelayo ushiyeke ucinga ukuba kuthetha ntoni oku.
Ihlala ithetha inkxalabo yakho ngehlabathi kunye nolwalathiso oluthathayo. Isenokuba lixesha lokuqala ukusebenzisana nezenzo ezithile zentlalo.
Ukuba uphupha ngokusweleka komntwana okanye usana ... Ukuba unabantwana, kuya kuthetha ukuba uyoyika ukuphulukana nabo, kodwa ayisiyonto ilungileyo.
Kwimeko apho umntu obhinqileyo ekhulelwe, okanye ukuba ukhona, iya kudityaniswa noloyiko lokuphulukana nosana. Ungalwandisa ulwazi ngokufunda ngalo phupha umntwana y phupha ngabantwana.
Ngaba igazi lavela ephupheni? Igazi linxulumene nokuziphatha okungalunganga, okanye ukungcatshwa ngumhlobo.
Ukuba wenze isenzo ongazingci ngaso, isazela sakho kodwa usasikhumbula ngohlobo lweli phupha liqhelekileyo.
Ngaba ifile isilwanyana sakho? Ukuba inja yakho, ikati, umvundla, i-hamster, okanye nasiphi na esinye isilwanyana sifile, ukuphupha ngokufa kuthetha ukuba uyamkhumbula, ukuba umkhethe kakhulu kwaye umkhumbula kakhulu.
Ukuphupha ngokufa kwingozi yemoto ... Iingcali ekutolikeni amaphupha zibonisa ukuba eyona ntsingiselo inokwenzeka kule meko inxulumene neengxaki zomsebenzi: umzekelo, unokuphulukana nomsebenzi.
Kuya kufuneka uthethe kwangoko nomphathi wakho, okanye umhlobo omthembileyo, ukukuqinisekisa kwaye wenze isicwangciso malunga nento oza kuyenza.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uphupha ngengozi ukuba uza kuthabatha uhambo (kodwa ayizukuthetha ukuba kuya kubakho nantoni na embi eyenzekayo ngexesha layo).
Ngaba ubuya kuzibulala ephupheni? Ukuba kwiphupha lakho lokuzibulala, yinto embi, umqondiso wokuba ukhokela indlela yokuphila engakufezekisi.
Ukuyeka ukuzibulala "kukukhala ufuna uncedo" kwingqondo yakho ukutshintsha ubomi obukhokelayo. Iya kuba lixesha lokwazisa ngotshintsho olukhulu olukwenza wonwabe, ekwenza uzive uzalisekisiwe kwaye ucinga ukuba ubomi bufanelekile.
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