Iphupha ngalinye linentsingiselo eyahlukileyo, yiyo loo nto ndifuna ukucacisa ngokweenkcukacha ukuba yintoni le intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeeringi. Mhlawumbi kubonakala kucacile, nangona kunjalo, le ndandatho ineenguqulelo ezahlukeneyo kwilizwe lamaphupha kwaye inokuveza izinto ngawe ekusenokwenzeka ukuba awazi. Ngokwesiqhelo ubucwebe neeringi zihambelana namandla, kodwa zininzi iinkcukacha endizokubonisa apha ngezantsi.
Iphupha elithetha intsingiselo yomsesane
Amaphupha eringi ahlala enxulunyaniswa ngamandla kwaye kufuneka ube nobudlelwane obude oko kukuzisela uxolo kunye nokuzinza. Enye intsingiselo enikezelwe kuyo kukuba ufuna nje ukuhlala kwindawo enqabileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukutolikwa kwahluka kakhulu kwaye kunokugubungela usapho okanye imeko yeshishini.
Ukuphupha umsesane wegolide osesandleni sakho
Ukuba uphuphe ukuba unayo iringi yegolide ezandleni zakho, oko kuthetha ukuba Ungusomashishini, uyayithanda imali Uya kwenza kakuhle kwezoshishino. Amaphupha ngegolide Zezinye zezona zixhaphakileyo, ke sicebisa ukuba ujonge intsingiselo yazo.
Ukuphupha ukuba omnye umntu unesangqa
Ukuba uphuphe ukuba ayinguwe onomsesane, kodwa omnye umntu, oko kuthetha oko Ngulomntu oza kuphumelela, kodwa iya kukuchaphazela ngcono okanye ngokubi.
Ukuphupha ukuba iqabane lakho likunika umsesane
Kwimeko apho i-subconscious ibonakalise iqabane lakho likunika umsesane, oko kuthetha ukuba ungathanda ukumtshata, uthandana ngokwaneleyo ukuhambisa umtshato.
Ukuphupha ngokunika umsesane
Ngaba nguwe onika iringi? Eli phupha limela isazela sakho sentlalo kunye ukulangazelela kwakho ukunceda abo basweleyo, kunye nabahlobo kunye nosapho ekubandezelekeni
Unamaphupha omsesane owaphukileyo
Ukuphupha umsesane owaphukileyo kutolikwa njenge Uhamba kwinqanaba elibi apho ukuphumelela kwezoqoqosho kuye kwanyamalala, wahlukana nesoka lakho okanye waxabana nomntu omthandayo kwaye ubudlelwane buye bohlukana. Ngoku ukuba usanda kuchonga ingxaki, lixesha lokuba usombulule iingxaki kwaye uphinde ufumane ulonwabo.
Uphupha ukuba umsesane wakho ubiwe
Ukuba uphupha ukuba umsesane oxabiseke kakhulu ubiwe, oko kuthetha ukuba ngokwenyani bebe intliziyo yakho. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uthandana nomntu kwaye awufuni kuyivuma? Vula intliziyo yakho kwiimvakalelo ezintsha, ngekhe wazi ukuba ikamva liza kuzisa ntoni.
Ukuphupha ulahlekelwa ngumsesane
Ngaba uphulukene nelitye elinqabileyo? Ukuqonda okungaphaya kunokukuthumelela imiqondiso leyo awukho mnandi kubudlelwane bakho, usenokuba malunga nokwahlukana nentombi yakho, okanye ukuba kukho ukungathembeki.
Ukuphupha umntu ebeka umsesane kuwe
Ukuba umntu omthandayo ubeka isangqa emnweni wakho, kungenxa yokuba uziva enombulelo kuwe kwaye ephupheni impilo-ntle yakho ibonakaliswa zizenzo zakho ezilungileyo.
Utolika njani eli phupha?
Kuxhomekeke kwinkcubeko okhulele kuyo, kunye nexesha ohamba ngalo (amaxesha anzima, iingxaki zemali, ukufumana imali eninzi ...), ukutolikwa kwephupha kuya kuba yenye okanye enye. Ke ngoko, kuya kuba kuhle ukuba uyandixelela kunye nabafundi into oyiphuphileyo ngobunye ubusuku kwaye ucinga ukuba ingqondo yakho ingakuxelela ntoni xa ulele. Ngaba yayintle okanye imbi?
Ividiyo ngentsingiselo yokuphupha ngeeringi
Ukuba olu lwazi malunga intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeeringi, Ndikucebisa ukuba ufunde ezinye ezifanayo kwicandelo le- amaphupha aqala ngo-A.
Iphupha kukuba iringi yomtshato eyenziwe ngegolide ivuliwe kwaye igcwele amakhalane aphilayo kwaye xa uyisusa, amakhalane ahlala emnweni apho iringi ibekwe khona, nto leyo eza kuthetha
Molo ndifuna ukwazi intsingiselo yephupha lam:
Bendihamba ngeparishi nomamazala nomyeni kwaye ndibone abantwana ababini abaneminyaka eli-12 ubudala, omnye wayeyinkwenkwana kwaye omnye engumfazi omncinci kwaye babecela isisa, ndabanika ingqekembe emva koko Ndaya phambili kodwa ngesizathu esithile ndifuna ukubuyela emva ndibanike imali engaphezulu kwaye xa ndizakuyenza babesemva kwam kwaye inkwenkwana indibonisa iringi yobucwebe enezicelo eziluhlaza. Ndiyacela. Ndincede ndiyifumane.
Ephupheni lam ndifumana amakhonkco aliqela amahle kodwa ndithatha enye kuphela ukuba incasa yam yeyona intle kwaye inamatye amaninzi, kodwa into engaqhelekanga kukuba ndifana nokuxhwilwa kwaye kufutshane nam kukho izilwanyana ezininzi ezifileyo, ephupheni lam Wonzakele kodwa wakwazi ukubaleka eringini wakwazi ukuyibeka kum emva kokubaleka angandinceda ndicazulule iphupha lam
Iphupha lam yile: Ndithe xa ndiphuma evenini endandiqhuba ngayo xa ndibona umgangatho ndabona ukuba kukho imisesane emibini, enye inelitye elibomvu, ndazichola xa ndiziphethe ngesandla ndabona ukuba ndineembovane.
Iphupha lihambe ngoluhlobo: Intombi yam iyangxola umama ubaleka bayayiqhatha iringi abandinike yona ndibona ukuba umfo wenze umsesane kwaye uyasinda ndayijonga iringi kwaye ikhanya mgama
Ndabaleka ndayozijula ethafeni ukuze ndinqumle indlela ndize ndifike apho sikhohlakali kodwa ndathi ndakomelela
Ndijonga yonke indawo kwaye ndiyayikhangela andiyiboni
Ndaphazamiseka! Ndaza ndathi kum: UThixo wam ndiyayiba kuye kwaye ngoku ndiyenzayo, ayingowam kuba undibuze ukuba kutheni ayenzile?