Kuyinyani ukuba iphupha lendalo inento eninzi yokuthetha. Kungenxa yokuba ngaphakathi kwayo sifumana iisimboli ezininzi ekufuneka sizithathele ingqalelo. Asithethi kuphela ngenxalenye yamahlathi okanye amasimi kodwa nemilambo, ikhephu zonke izinto zendalo ezidibana nayo.
Yiyo loo nto iimvakalelo esizivayo emaphupheni ethu zahlukile njengamaphupha ngokwawo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthiwa kufana ne- vuka umnxeba ebomini bethu. Kodwa ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, kufuneka sichaze ngakumbi kwaye apha sikushiya nayo yonke into oyifunayo ukuze unike intsingiselo yamaphupha akho.
Njengoko besesiphawulile, ukongeza kwimeko yolu hlobo lwamaphupha siza kuhlalutya iimvakalelo. Ukuba uzibona usehlathini okanye ebaleni kwaye uziva uzolile kwaye uxolile ephupheni lakho, emva koko sithetha ngantoni isikhundla sakho somsebenzi siza kuphucuka. Ke unokuqiniseka ukuba ziindaba ezimnandi ezi.
Kodwa ayisiyiyo le kuphela, kodwa ikwabonisa ukuzonwabisa kunye nesiqu sakho, ukuziva wanelisekile okanye wanelisekile kunye namandla umntu ngamnye anawo. Njengoko sibona, yonke into inexabiso elifanelekileyo. Unenjongo kwaye uya kuqhubeka nokufunda kwinyathelo ngalinye olithathayo kwaye uya kukhuthazeka ngakumbi ngabo bonke. Olu luhlaziyo olupheleleyo lomntu.
Iphupha lendalo ngobuqaqawuli bayo bombala, phupha ngezilwanyana nezandi ke zifanekisela inzolo ebomini bakho.
Ukuba uphupha ngendalo eyomileyo kunye neendawo ezonakalisiweyo intsingiselo iya kuba yinto eyahlukileyo kwaye siyitolike njengenqanaba apho usizi luzalela khona ebomini bakho. Ingakumbi ngenxa yenkohliso ethile kwicandelo labantu abathandekayo.
Ukuphupha kwezinye iindawo kwindalo kufanekisela oko sifuna ukuphumla. Nangona siphila kamnandi, ngamanye amaxesha kulungile ukuba sikhuphe unxibelelwano kuyo yonke into ukuze sibuye namandla angaphezulu.
Ukuphupha ngendalo eninzi kwaye kusingqongile, luxinzelelo esiziva ngathi sivela emsebenzini okanye kumntu osapho lwethu.
Ukuphupha imithi esempilweni enamagqabi amaninzi kubonisa impumelelo kunye ubomi obuhle kwiimpawu ezintles. Unabantu abakuthandayo nabangakungcatshiyo, nto leyo ebaluleke kakhulu.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba umthi unesigodo esijiyileyo, siya kuthetha ngantoni unesiseko esihle ngokubhekisele ebomini. Uziva uphilile kwaye uphilile kodwa ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa xa kufika amaxesha ngamaxesha, amandla akho aya kuphuma kwaye uya kuba nelona xesha lilungileyo.
Ukuba uphupha umthi uvelisa iziqhamo ke ufuzisela ukuchuma ebomini bakho.
Ngelixa ukuphupha imithi eneentaka kutolikwa njengempumelelo. Kodwa ukuba iintaka ziyakhala, kuya kuthiwa bakhona abantu abakugxekayo ngasemva.
Ukuba uphupha umthi ugrunjwa emva koko uphawula ukuba ezinye izicwangciso azizukuvela njengoko ulindele.
Ukuphupha ukhwela emthini kukuba ujonga iihorizons ezintsha kunye neembono ebomini bakho. Uya konwaba ngakumbi kuyo yonke into ejikeleze wena.
Ukuphupha amanzi acocekileyo kwaye ukuzola kubonisa umzuzu ka uxolo ebomini bakho. Ukuba ngamanzi omlambo emva koko ukwimzuzwana apho uya phambili kwicandelo ngalinye nakwinto yonke oyicebisayo. Ke, xa sithetha ngokubanzi, ukuphupha ngamanzi kunokuguqulelwa njengempumelelo okanye ukukhula komntu kwaye kwangaxeshanye, ukuzola ebomini bakho.
Nangona inokubhekisa kwintsingiselo yangaphambili, ayisiyiyo kangako. Kuba imvula izisa iindaba ezimbi, ukudana kunye nokusilela ngokubanzi. Kungenzeka ukuba ixesha elilungileyo alizi okanye kukho abantu ebomini bakho abenza nzima ngakumbi kunokuba ucinga. Ngamanye amaxesha sinokukutolika nje njengesilumkiso sento ekufuneka siyitshintshe ebomini bethu.
Ukuphupha ngekhephu Ixesha le-nostalgia kodwa kunye noxolo. Ukuthetha ngokubanzi kukwatolikwa njengoxolo. Nangona kwelinye icala, ikwajoyina ukungabikho kwezigqibo ebomini bethu. Umzekelo, ukuphupha ukuba ikhephu liyawa kukuba sithintelwe kwiiprojekthi. Kufuneka sinyuke kwaye sikuxabise oko sinako. Ngelixa ikhephu lifana namaxesha anzima kodwa apho uya kuphuma uqiniswe ngakumbi okanye womelezwa.
Kwimivumbo ebanzi siya kukuxelela lonto iphupha lomlilo kukuba uneemvakalelo ngaphezulu. Ukuba uphupha umlilo emlilweni ke oko kufuzisela ukuba iqonga liyavalwa. Ukuba ubona umlilo kunye nemvula emaphupheni, emva koko yonke into eyayikukhathaza iya kuthi chu. Ngelixa ubona umlilo endlwini yakho kufuzisela ukuba ungumntu onesimilo kwaye wonke umntu uyoyika iimpendulo zakho.
Iphupha lolwandle iyafana nokubhengeza izinto ezizayo. Ukuphupha ngamanzi olwandle oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kulingana ulonwabo. Ukuba ubona ulwandle oluzolileyo lufanekisela ukuba le yindlela obububona ngayo ngokwenene ubomi bakho, ngoxolo. Kodwa ukuba uyayibona inyibilika okanye inamaza amakhulu, kukuba ezinye iingxaki ziyeza. Kodwa musa ukothuka kuba baya kuba nesisombululo esikhawulezayo. Ukuba uhlamba elwandle, ezo projekthi ubucingile ziya kwenziwa.
Ukuphupha entlango kutolikwa njengexesha apho isizungu ngumlinganiswa ophambili ebomini bakho. Ukuba uhamba ngayo, inokubhekisa kwilishwa. Ukuba ujonge i-oasis, unqabiseko oluninzi kwaye lixesha lokuba uzame ukulungisa ezinye zazo. Ewe, ukuba uyifumene kwaye uphumle kuloo oasis, uya kuphumelela emsebenzini.
Kulula phupha malunga neentaba-mlilo ukuba ukhe wabona imovie apho kuvela khona uqhushumbo, ukuba usandula ukubona uxwebhu malunga nentaba-mlilo okanye ufunde incwadi enxulumene noko apho udaka lugeze khona idolophu.
Nangona kunjalo, unokuba namaphupha ngeentaba-mlilo ngaphandle kwesizathu, kuba i-subconscious ikuthumela umyalezo malunga neemvakalelo zakho kunye nezinye iinxalenye zobomi bakho ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo.
Wanna uyazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha itsunami? Ukuba kwinqanaba elithile ebomini bakho ukhe wehlelwa lilishwa lokubandezeleka a tsunami, okanye ilungu losapho lwakho lisilele ukuzisindisa, kuyaqondakala ukuba usokola amaphupha amabi ngale ntlekele yendalo. Ukuba ikhe yenzeka kuwe kwaye ukhe waphila kule ntlekele inzima, akukho toliko linentsingiselo elinentsingiselo: iphupha liveliswa njengesiphumo senkumbulo kunye nentlungu. Ayaziwa ukuba kutheni, kodwa i-subconscious yomntu ivusa amaphupha ahambelana noko xa ufumene intlekele, mhlawumbi ukuze womelele, okanye woyise amava abuhlungu.
Khumbula ukuba zininzi iindlela zokuphupha malunga neetsunami, inokuba sisigebenga, amanzi acoceke ngokupheleleyo kwaye acwebezela okristale okanye amdaka kakhulu. Ekugqibeleni uyasweleka okanye uyakwazi ukuzisindisa? Ngaba idityaniswe nenyikima? Ngaba uvelisa umkhukula? Funda ngakumbi ukucacisa ngcono intsingiselo kwaye uyichaze ngokuchanekileyo kwimeko yakho yobuqu.
Kule nqaku Siza kukubonisa ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuphupha amanzi nengcaciso yalo nganye. Amanzi yinto ebaluleke ngaphezu kokuphila, umzimba womntu ubunjwe ngamanzi, ukuba ube ngama-70% ngokuthe ngqo, sinokuthi kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuphupha amanzi kunokuba neentsingiselo ezininzi kuxhomekeke kwindlela esibona ngayo ephupheni lethu kuba inokuba lisibekele, licoceke, likhuphe, lizolile. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba asiphuphi into enye xa sibona amanzi amileyo, ukuba sihamba kuwo okanye ukuba ayabila, olu hlobo lokwahlukahlukana kwamaphupha kunokusibangela ukuba sithandabuze, sijoyine ukuze ufunde ngakumbi.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi ngeenkcukacha kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha imvula, qhubeka ufunda. Inkqubo ye- imvula Yinto ezalisa amasimi ethu ngokuchuma ukukhulisa ukutya kwethu, okusihlaziyayo xa kushushu kakhulu kwaye unkcenkceshela izitiya zethu, sizisindise kwimbalela. Amanzi yenye yezinto ezine zendalo, enkosi apho ubomi bunokwenzeka khona. Amaphupha ahambelana nawo ahlala etolikwa njengeempawu zokuzala kunye nolonwabo.
Nangona kunjalo, imvula ngumbono oqhelekileyo, kwaye i-oneirology ilumkisa ukuba eli phupha linokwahluka kakhulu, lineentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo. Ingana ngamandla okanye imvula enkulu, mhlawumbi iyanetha ebusuku hayi emini, okanye ayinamanzi, kodwa ziinkwenkwezi, iimeteorite, umlilo, amatye okanye udaka. Inokubangela nonogumbe, oya kuthi wenze umbono ungalunganga. Akufani nokumanzi okanye ukuhlala womile, kunye nesichotho esiwela kuwe. Zonke ezi zinto zahlukileyo ziphethe intsingiselo eyahlukileyo yephupha. Bazi bonke ngezantsi.
Iphupha malunga namaza olwandle ilunge kakhulu. Sithetha ngelinye lamaphupha kunye nokutolikwa okuninzi okunokufumaneka kwicandelo le-onirology. Ungaphupha ukuba uyabalawula ngokutyibilika kubo, ukuba ubaphakamisele elunxwemeni ngeeholide zakho, ukuba ubaleka kumaza amakhulu aza kukubamba. Apha siza kuzama ukunika isisombululo Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngamaza amakhulu.
Ukufumana olona toliko luchanekileyo kunokwenzeka, naziphi na iinkcukacha zephupha kuya kufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo. Cinga ukuba amaza ayemakhulu okanye mancinci, ukuba amanzi acocekile okanye amdaka, ukuba bekukho izikhephe, ukuba umhlaba ubunodaka (kuya kufuneka ujonge amaphupha odaka nodaka apha), bekusemini okanye kusebusuku, kwisimo sakho sokufikelwa ngamanzi. Lonke olu lwazi lunokukunceda ekutolikeni.
Iingcali ze-Oneirology ziyadibana phupha ngekhephu ngeentsingiselo ezinethemba. I-Psychoanalysis ichaza njengophawu lomanyano losapho (lweKrisimesi), ubunyulu ngenxa yombala omhlophe weeflakes, ukuvuthwa kwengqondo ngenxa yeqondo lobushushu. Ukuba kutshanje ububukele imovie malunga nexesha lasebusika apho abantu abancinci badibana khona kwaye bathandana eNew York, ukuba kukho ikhephu kufutshane nasendlwini yakho okanye uyibonile ezindabeni, akufuneki uchaze ukutolikwa okungaphezulu kwephupha , okoko ungene kunxibelelwano ngokusebenzisa izivamvo. Kwelinye icala, ukuba i-subconscious ikhuphe umfanekiso wekhephu ngaphandle kwesizathu, ngokuqinisekileyo izizathu ziya kwahluka kakhulu.
Khumbula ukuba ukuphupha ngekhephu kunokuba neentsingiselo ezininzi, kuba ukutolikwa kwe jonga ukuwa kwamahlwantsi ekhephu ngentsasa yasebusika eyonwabisayo ayifani nokuba a ingqumbo yekhephu yangcwaba indlu yakho. Kunokubakho nesiqhwithi, ulwandle ecaleni kwalo luzele livumba, kungabanda kakhulu okanye kushushu, ngamanye amaxesha ikhephu lekholethi! Siza kuhlalutya zonke iimeko ezinokuthi zithathe inyathelo ngenyathelo, ngaba uyasayina?
Iphupha lamanzi acwebezelayo Liliphupha elixhaphake kakhulu kunokuba ungacinga ekuqaleni. Ngenye imini ndikucacisele ukuba yintoni i Ukutolikwa kokuphupha ngamanzi acocekileyo, kwaye nangona isenokubonakala ifana, inomahluko wayo. Into esinokuyithetha kukuba naliphi na iphupha apho amanzi akhoyo kuthetha ukuba sicinga ngezinto ezibalulekileyo ebomini ezinje ngeemvakalelo, uloyiko kunye neemvakalelo. Ukuliqonda ngcono eli phupha, ndiza kukubonisa olona khetho luqhelekileyo, ukusukela Intsingiselo yokuphupha amanzi acwebezelayo Itshintsha ngokuxhomekeka kumxholo nakwimood yakho.
Umzekelo, ayifani iphupha lokuhlamba kwi umlambo ogcwele amanzi acwebezelayo (umele uxolo) ukuba nomnqweno wokukwenza (efuzisela ixhala). Kuxhomekeke kwinto endikuxelela yona ngezantsi kunye namava akho, unokufumana isiphelo esifana nephupha.
Ufuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni Ngaba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amanzi amdaka? Kwelinye inqaku esele sichazile intsingiselo yokuphupha amanzi acacileyo. Le molekyuli ibalulekileyo yenziwe ngeoksijini kunye nehydrogen yinxalenye yendalo. Sinayo ngoku emzimbeni kwaye sihlala nayo mihla le, ke kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba namaphupha ahambelana noko.
Ngokwesiqhelo, amanzi acocekileyo kunye nekristali abonisa imiqondiso elungileyo, ukucoceka komphefumlo nentabalala. Inkqubo ye- amanzi amdaka Ufuzisela okwahlukileyo: ubumnyama, ukungakhathali kunye nokungazinzi. Fumana ngezantsi kwazo zonke iintsingiselo ngokweenkcukacha malunga neli phupha, kunye nendlela yokuphelisa amaphupha amabi ukuba unayo.
Wanna uyazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ulwandle? Ukuphupha elunxwemeni kuhlala kuyinto emnandi kakhulu. Amabhishi anokuba ngamatye okanye isanti. Ezi zokugqibela zidala ukusukela oko izidalwa ezizenzileyo sele zicociwe. Umfanekiso wolwandle unxulunyaniswa neeholide, kunye nokuphumla, kunye nokuzonwabisa sonke esifuna ukukwenza xa kufika ihlobo (okanye nangaliphi na elinye ixesha lonyaka). Lo mnqweno unokukhupha amaphupha ahambelana nawo.
Kuqhelekile ukuba yingqondo yakho ethi izame ukukuthumela umyalezo, kwaye itolike ukuba kutheni uphuphe iilwandle. Kodwa ayizukuphela ukuba: kuya kufuneka uphinde ufumanise kwaye uhlalutye umxholo ngokwawo, kunye nemeko yakho yangoku. Ayizukufana ikufumane kwitheko lolwandle ebusuku, kunokuba kukho tsunami embindini wolwandle. Zininzi iindlela zokutolika - kwaye ezi zezona zidumileyo.
Iphupha ngalinye lihlabathi elahlukileyo, kwaye kwenzeka okufanayo nangamanzi, kuba ukutolikwa kuyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko. Kule nqaku ndityhila zonke iintsingiselo ze phupha ngamanzi acocekileyo. Ngokubanzi, ukuba siphupha amanzi acocekileyo, siphupha into efanekisela ukuzalwa ngokutsha, ubunyulu kunye namandla.
Kodwa le yeyona ntsingiselo ixhaphakileyo, kuba kuxhomekeke kwimeko kunye neemeko zephupha, ukutolikwa kunokwahluka ngokupheleleyo. Ingaba amanzi ashushu, okanye ayabanda kakhulu? Kwaye ayifani ukuba ngamanzi azolileyo njengeglasi okanye iphuli ngokungathi ngumsinga, umlambo obalekayo, okanye Ingxangxasi yamanzi acocekileyo.
Ngaba uyafuna ukuqonda kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ulwandle? Ulwandle oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka yinto yendalo ukuba uluntu belungayi kubakho. Imele inkululeko ngenxa yobubanzi bayo kunye ubunyulu ngenxa yobushushu bayo. Amaphupha ahlala enxulunyaniswa nezi mvakalelo zimbini kunye nokuzaliseka kunye nolonwabo. I-Oneirology isifundisa ukuba bobabini abasetyhini kunye nabesilisa bacinga ngayo ngelixa ulele ngaxa lithile, kungenxa yokuba bedlula kwinqanaba apho baziva bekhululekile, kuba bakwixesha lokuyila okanye ngenxa yenkumbulo elula yamanzi xa ahlambe amancinci elunxwemeni
Mhlawumbi ugqibile unyaka wokufunda kwaye into yokuqala eyenzekayo kwi-subconscious yakho yile ulwandle, ulwandle, iiholide zonxweme, okanye mhlawumbi uyigqibile iprojekthi emsebenzini enkosi onokuthi uphumle ngaphandle kwamaxhala. Into eqhelekileyo kukuba uphuphe ngayo ivelisa ukuphumla kwaye uvuka uhlaziyeke ngokupheleleyo. Nangona kunjalo, kuxhomekeke kwimeko eyenzeka ngelixa ulele, ukutolikwa kuya kuba yenye okanye enye. Ayifani ukuba izolile kunomsindo, ukuphazamiseka okanye ukuphazamiseka, ukuba icocekile okanye imdaka, okanye ukuba uye kuyo emini okanye ebusuku. Ke ngoko, kufuneka ungene kwiinkcukacha.
Wanna uyazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umhlaba? Qhubeka ufunda, siza kukuxelela apha. Amaphupha ngomhlaba anomdla kakhulu. Sithetha ngayo enye yezinto ezine ezenza indalo: umoya, umlilo, amanzi nomhlaba. Inxulumene nokuzala, kumthombo wokutya kunye nendawo apho sakha into eneziqhamo kwaye ihlala ihleli, ilifa lethu. Ke ngoko, eli phupha libaluleke kakhulu.
Enye yezona nkcazo zixhaphake kakhulu zihambelana ngqo ne ukuchuma, Ngotshintsho oludala ukusuka kolutsha. Zininzi nezinye iintsingiselo eziya kwahluka ngokweemeko ezivela ephupheni, kunye nokuxhomekeka kwindlela esiziphethe ngayo.
Ukuba uyabuza Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngomlilo Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba yintoni a Luvo lwethamsanqa. Umlilo nayo yonke into eyingqongileyo iluphawu lwemiqondiso elungileyo. Umlilo yenye yezinto zommandla wendalo ngaphandle kwawo ngekhe sibe lapha. Ukukhanya, ubushushu, neLanga… zonke zikhona ngenxa yakhe. Nangona kunjalo, ukutolikwa kwephupha kuxhomekeke kwinxalenye yoluhlobo lwamaphupha kuba ukuba utshisa umlilo yinto embi.
Banokuba yimisebenzi yomlilo, bavele ecaleni kwamanzi, okanye kumlilo wehlathi. Kananjalo, ungaphupha ukuba kukho umsi omninzi okanye amadangatye anemibala eyahlukeneyo enjengeblue okanye bomvu, jonga ukuba iyawa esibhakabhakeni okanye indlu iyatsha.
Ufuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni kuthetha ukuphupha iintyatyambo? Kweli nqaku ndicacisa zonke iinkcukacha zamaphupha malunga nezi ntlobo zomhlaba wezityalo. Iintyatyambo Zitolikwa ngeendlela ezahluka-hlukeneyo, nangona uninzi lwabantu luzikhumbula ngovuyo: umungu ochaza intwasahlobo kunye namaqondo obushushu amahle, iimvakalelo kunye neenkcukacha kubudlelwane bothando, iimvakalelo zobuhlobo kunye nobuhlobo okanye isenzo somhla othile (intyatyambo ngoSuku lweValentine okanye emtshatweni).
Iipoppies, iiroses ezinemibala, ii-tulips, ii-daisy ... Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuqhubeka nentsingiselo ngokubanzi, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba zininzi iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokutolika kwihlabathi leentyatyambo. Amaphupha ama-daisy ahlukile kumaphupha ee poppies okanye iiroses. Akufani ukuba iintyatyambo zephupha zimhlophe, tyheli, zibomvu okanye zimfusa. Ukongeza, zinokubuna okanye zome, zenziwe okanye zibe ziintyatyambo zomngcwabo.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uye kwilizwe ukudada yonke imihla ukuze ube Ndiphupha ngomlambo. Ukuhamba kwayo kuhamba ukusuka encotsheni yeentaba ukuya elwandle apho amanzi amatsha aqukuqelayo edibanisa netyuwa. Ukuba ubonile umboniso bhanyabhanya apho indalo ininzi okanye ifoto, i-subconscious inokukuthumela imifanekiso ngelixa ulele. Kweli nqaku uza kwazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umlambo ngokweenkcukacha.
Kodwa eyona ibalulekileyo ukufumanisa eyona ntsingiselo kukucacisa iphupha eli kunye nemeko yakho yobuqu kunye nemeko (iimpendulo zakho, imbonakalo-mhlaba…). Oko kukuthi, umlambo omdaka kwaye unamafu awutolikwa ngendlela efanayo nekristale kwaye icacile. Ngaba ininzi okanye ingenawo amanzi? Ngaba zikhona iintlanzi? Ngaba igazi okanye ukuhamba kolwelo okwahlukileyo? Masibone inyathelo ngenyathelo ukuba yeyiphi imifula enokufuzisela.
Kuqhelekile ukuba xa sibonile imuvi okanye uthotho apho iinkanyamba zitshabalalise iidolophu zonke, ingqondo yethu iye yahlala naloo mfanekiso wentshabalalo kwaye iwubonisa kwiintsuku ezininzi ukuba awuyeki phupha iinkanyamba neenkanyamba. Kukwenzeka into efanayo ukuba sifunde isicatshulwa apho bekuxoxwa malunga nokwenziwa kweenkanyamba, zombini isiseko kunye nesantya. Kwelinye icala, kunokwenzeka ukuba ezi ngcinga zifike engqondweni yakho ngaphandle kokuqhubeka, kwaye oku kufanele kufundwe.
Ke ngoko, sililungiselele eli nqaku malunga kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iinkanyamba ukufikelela kwisigqibo malunga nokutolikwa kwayo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuqala ngotoliko lwe Intsingiselo yenkanyamba Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ezi nkcazo zinokwahluka kakhulu kuxhomekeke kwimeko yephupha ekuthethwa ngalo. Funda ukuze ufumanise ukuba kutheni le nkanyamba ifika ezingqondweni zethu.