Namhlanje ndiza kukubonisa intsingiselo ye- phupha udutyulwe. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ulipolisa, okanye uphathe isixhobo kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla ukuze ube nephupha elibi elibandakanya ukudubula. Liliphupha, nangona lingaqhelekanga kakhulu, linomdla kakhulu. Kuba zininzi iintsingiselo kunye nesimboli eya kuthi ivelise kwakhona. Ngaphambi kokuqala, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba ukutolikwa kwephupha kuya kuxhomekeka kwimeko apho ibali lenzeka khona, ukongeza kubuntu bakho nakwindlela olimitha ngayo ilizwe onalo.
Umzekelo, ayizukuphinda ifane ukuba nephupha apho amandla emikhosi ekuleqa kwaye uphethe umpu esandleni sakho emva kokuba wenze isenzo sokuphanga, kunokuba umntu ukudubula ngayo, ukuba uyayifumana, okanye ukuba uphupha nje unayo ekhaya. Siza kuhlalutya ngokweenkcukacha ezinye zeemeko ezinokwenzeka.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha izithonga zemipu?
Ngokubanzi, eli phupha okanye iphupha elibi alithandeki nakubani na. Eyona nto iqhelekileyo kukuba umntu osokolayo unaye ukubetha kwentliziyo, kwaye ukuba iphupha libonakala liyinyani. Kuqhelekile ukuba sivuke kanye xa siza kudutyulwa, ngaphambi kokuba iimbumbulu zifike emzimbeni wethu. Konke oku kuya kubangelwa kukuxakeka kwephupha ngokwalo. Iingcali zigqiba kwelokuba oku kuhambelana nenyani yokuba sikwixesha elisesichengeni, apho iimvakalelo zisithathela khona. Unokuziva ubuthathaka ngenxa yokuba ulahlekelwe lukhuseleko lomntu.
Xa uyitolika, kuya kufuneka ukuba uthathele ingqalelo ukuba ingaba kunjalo Ephupheni babekudubula beleqa kwangaxeshanye (ungafunda ngakumbi malunga ne- phupha ukuba bayakuleqa) okanye ukuba uhlatyiwe. La maphupha ahlala enxulumene nenyani yokuba unoxinzelelo kwaye ufuna ukwenza into ukuphelisa olu xinzelelo. Kungenzeka ukuba uphantsi koxinzelelo olukhulu emsebenzini, kubudlelwane bakho buqu okanye inento yokwenza nabahlobo bakho. Le yeminye yemizekelo eya kukuvumela ukuba wazi ngakumbi ngamaphupha.
Ukuphupha malunga nelungu losapho elidutyulweyo
Ngaba badubula ilungu losapho ephupheni? Kungenzeka ukuba uphuphe indlela umhlaseli azibonakalise ngayo phambi kwesihlobo kwaye unayo wadubula naphi na emzimbeni. Nangona kunokubonakala ngathi lilizwi elibi, eneneni kuyindlela yokubonisa uthando oziva ngalo kwabo basondeleyo kuwe. Kuthetha ukuba ubakhathalele kwaye woyika ukuphulukana nabo ngandlela thile, kwaye awungethandi ukuba wedwa. Into ekufuneka uyenzile kukuzonwabela ngakumbi ngenxa yento enokwenzeka.
Ukuphupha udubula isilwanyana
Ngaba uphupha ukuba uya kusebenzisa isixhobo zingela isilwanyana? Kule meko, ukutolikwa kulungile. Inxulumene nokucaca kobomi bakho, kunye nezigqibo oza kuzenza. Uyicacisile into oyifunayo nendlela oza kuyifumana ngayo. Uyayazi into ofuna ukuyenza kwaye ukwazi ukuyenza.
Iphupha malunga nemipu kunye namapolisa
Ukuba amapolisa nawo ayavela ephupheni, nokuba ngubani ekusukelayo ade akudubule ukuze akubambe, oku kuhlala kunxulumene nenyaniso yokuba unoloyiko olukuhlaselayo. Kodwa awuyiqondi. Inokudibana nemeko yezemali okanye yobuqu. Ikwabonisa ukuba uyazisola ngeziphoso zakho, kungalithuba lakho ukuba ufunde ukucela uxolelo. Unokufumana ngakumbi malunga phupha ngamapolisa y iphupha lokubaleka.
Ngaba udutyulwe emqolo?
Ukuba ungaziva njani indlela odutyulwe ngayo kwaye Imbumbulu ibetheka kwindawo ethile yomzimba wakho, eli phupha liza kusebenza njengesilumkiso. Umntu othile uzama ukukulimaza ungakhange uyiqonde, kwaye i-subconscious yakho iyakuxwayisa ngayo. Musa ukuthemba wonke umntu, kuba uninzi alunabubele njengoko lusitsho.
Ukuphupha udutyulwa kodwa awufi
Uyadutyulwa kodwa awufi. Eyona nto iqhelekileyo kukuba ngaphambi kokufumana ifoto siyavuka. Ukuba akunjalo, kwaye uyayithatha imbumbulu kodwa uphile, inxulumene nokuba ngumntu ongqongqo. Unesimo esinyamezelayo oya kuthi ukwazi ukufumana yonke into oyifunayo. Inqaku elifanelekileyo eliza kukunceda ufezekise impumelelo oyifunayo. Kuya kufuneka ufunde malunga ukutolikwa kokuphupha ngokusweleka.
Ukuphupha ngokudutyulwa emlenzeni
Kufuneka kuthiwe ukuphupha udutyulwe emlenzeni akusoloko kunokutolikwa esikubonayo kubonakala ephupheni. Ukusukela Iimbumbulu ezibhekise emlenzeni omnye zinxulumene nomsebenzi wethu. Bathetha ukuba asizamkeli iimeko esinazo emsebenzini. Into enokuchaphazela ukusebenza kwethu kunye nobomi bethu ngokubanzi. Kwelinye icala, ukuba ngenxa yokudutyulwa emlenzeni, uphulukana negazi elininzi oko kubonisa ukuba siphelelwe ngamandla kwaye ngenxa yoko, umsebenzi ungancipha okanye ude uphulukane nomsebenzi.
Ukuphupha ngokudutyulwa entloko
Ukuphupha ngokudutyulwa entloko akuyonto imnandi kwaphela. Kodwa kuyinyani ukuba iyasinika ukutolika okunokuba kunjalo. Kuba intsingiselo ye- uphupha ngokudutyulwa entloko, izisa ukujongana nemeko eyothusayo. Ngamanye amaxesha inokuba yinto elungileyo, nangona iyinyani yokuba inexabiso elibi. Nokuba yintoni, iya kuba yinto ewela ubomi bethu kwaye iya kusiphawula.
Ukuphupha ngokudutyulwa esifubeni
Ukuba siphupha sidutyulwe esifubeni okanye entliziyweni, oko kusisa kuphela kwindawo enye: apho siya kungcatshwa khona. Ubukhulu becala iyafana nentliziyo ebuhlungu. Itolikwa njengaleyo ubudlelwane buyaphela okanye kuyakubakho amaqhuma ibaluleke ngokwenene kuyo. Kuba phupha ngothando Ingasinika ngaphezulu kokungathandi. Iimvakalelo zethu kunye nobudlelwane buya kuthatha indawo enkulu kwaye ayisoloko inesiphelo esonwabisayo. Ubuqhetseba namasiko, njengoko besesitshilo, iya kuba ngoyena nobangela.
Ukuphupha ngokudutyulwa esiswini
Kuyathethwa ukuba amandla aya ngomlomo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo abaphazami. Xa sithetha ngephupha lokudutyulwa esiswini, kukuba la mandla okanye amandla ayaphela. Elinye lamaqhosha aphambili kwaye abuthathaka, ke iyasilumkisa ukuba into okanye umntu uthatha amandla ethu. Kuya kufuneka ucinge kwaye uhlalutye imeko ohlala kuyo, ngaphambi kokuba ibe mbi kwaye iyenze nzima impilo yakho.
Ukuphupha ngokudutyulwa entanyeni
Ukuphupha ngokudutyulwa entanyeni kunokuba yinto eyiyo ntonye nokungcatsha. Nangona kungekho kwindiza efanayo yothando yangaphambili, kodwa yobuhlobo kunye nokuthembela ngokubanzi. Okona kutolikwa kulungileyo kukuba umntu osingqongileyo ufuna ukusebenzisa ukulunga kwethu. Oku kuyakusenza ukuba sihlale sivule amehlo, kuba ukuphupha udutyulwa entanyeni kuyafana nesilumkiso. Nangona inguwe odubula omnye umntu entanyeni, kungenxa yokuba ufuna ingqalelo yabo.
Ukuphupha ngokudutyulwa ebusweni
Ukuphupha udutyulwe ebusweni, kukuzama ukususa imaski okanye imaski ebantwini abakungqongileyo. Oko waphupha ubuso ithande ukubonisa iimvakalelo kunye nokuzazisa nganye. Ngesi sizathu, xa sidubula okanye sidutyulwa kwimipu yethu, kukho ingxaki kwaye uzama ukucacisa ukuba kwenzeka ntoni ngazo zonke iindlela.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha udutyulwe kodwa uphepha iimbumbulu
Ukuphupha ukuba sifumene imbumbulu okanye izixhobo kunye nokudubula, akusoloko kuthandwa ngabantu. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha siphupha ngokudutyulwa kwaye siphepha iimbumbulu. Kule meko luphawu lwesilumkiso, Oko kukuthi, besishiya okanye singahoyi thina. Kodwa kancinci kancinci siyayiqonda imeko esijamelana nayo kwaye sizokwazi ukuyilawula. Iphupha malunga neebhulethi inokuba ngumnxeba wokuvuka ukuze sitshintshe indlela yethu, njengoko kunjalo.
Ukuphupha ngokudutyulwa egxalabeni
Kuyinyani ukuba ndiphupha ngokudutyulwa egxalabeni inokuba nesimboli esicacileyo. Uhamba kwimeko embi kwaye ufuna umntu onobuhlobo onokuthi ukhuphe kuye. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba igxalaba lakho libuhlungu ngakumbi nangakumbi, emva koko unokugula xa ungavumeli konke onako ngaphakathi. Kubonakala ngathi phupha izixhobo ukudubula, kubandakanya iikhonsepthi zothando, ubuhlobo kunye neengxaki zomsebenzi ekufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo.
Ukuphupha ngokudutyulwa elunyaweni
Elinye lamalungu omzimba esinako ngawo ukuphupha ukudutyulwa. Oku kubonisa ukuba siza kuba nesikhubekiso esingaqhelekanga endleleni yethu. Ke kwakhona, isebenza njengophawu lwesilumkiso. Kodwa kuyinyani ukuba ephupheni sibona umpu usiya elunyaweni lwesihlobo, intsingiselo iyatshintsha kancinci. Kule meko, iya kuba ngumcimbi wothando. Ke kuhlala kungcono ukuba ulumke kwaye ulumke kakhulu, kungenjalo, inkohliso inokuba ngasemva komnyango.
Iphupha lokudutyulwa usweleke
Los amaphupha ahlobene nokubulala okanye ukufa kuxhaphake kakhulu. Kodwa kuyinyani, ukuba kwihlabathi lokutolika akusoloko kuyimfuneko ukuyithatha njengengqikelelo. Ukuba uziva ukuba emva kokudutyulwa uzakufa, kuya kufuneka ulumke Ubuxoki bobuhlobo. Kodwa ukuba sele ujongeka ngathi ufile, woyika ukuba imeko ophila kuyo iyakuphela kakubi.
Ukuphupha umntu omthandayo ekudubula
Ukuba kukodwa, ukuphupha ngokudubula kuluqhwithela, ukuba siyayongeza oyitsalayo into yokuba ngulo mntu simthandayo, okubi ngakumbi. Ukuba ulele ngoxolo okanye ulele kwaye uyambona loo mntu umthandayo kwaye uyakuthanda kakhulu ukudubula, ke ulumke. Kuba kuthetha ukuba akasikhathalelanga ngendlela esicinga ngayo kwaye unokusenzakalisa kakhulu.
Ukuphupha ngokutsala i-trigger kodwa akukho zimbumbulu
Ukuba kuyenzeka kwiimuvi, sinokuzibona emaphupheni ethu. Ukuba uphupha ukuba umntu uza kukudubula kwaye xa utsala i-trigger akukho ziimbumbulu ngenxa yoko ikwanentsingiselo efanele ukwazi. Imalunga nomntu onomona ngawe, owenza konke okusemandleni ukusenzakalisa, kodwa engaphumeleli ngokwenyani.
Ukuba uphupha uva udubulo
Akusoloko kufuneka baye kuthi xa siphupha oko basikhomba ngompu. Kule meko, unokuva kuphela izithonga zemipu. Ke, oko kubonisa ukuba uzicingela wedwa kulwalamano lwakho. Bobabini banothando kunye nosapho. Ke ukonwabela kokubini nangcono, kuya kufuneka ulungise indlela yokuziphatha.
Ukuphupha umntu omthandayo edutyulwa
Ukuphupha izalamane kunye nabantu obathandayo ngokubanzi kuqhelekile. Ngamanye amaxesha sizibona sihleli nabo, sihlala okanye sabelana ngamaxesha amnandi. Kodwa kule meko, siphupha oko umntu udubula isizalwane sakhe okanye uthandwe. Ke oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uncede abantu obathandayo ngakumbi, unemicimbi ethile esalindelweyo efuna ukusonjululwa. Kwelinye icala, ikwasixelela ukuba siphakathi kwengxaki okanye ungquzulwano.
Ukuphupha ngokudubula emoyeni
Ngamanye amaxesha endaweni ye- uphupha umpu ukhombe umntu, kusenokwenzeka nokuba iithoto ziye emoyeni. Kwakhona, sakhankanya ukuba ngumnxeba wokuvuka. Ukuvula amehlo akho kwaye ucacise ukuba oku kuzinikela kubudlelwane bakho okanye kwishishini lakho akuhambi kakuhle nokuba unganyanzelisa kangakanani kwaye lixesha lokutshintsha izinto.
Ividiyo malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha udutyulwa
Ukuba ufumene olu lwazi malunga nokuphupha ngokudutyulwa unomdla, ngokuqinisekileyo uyafuna nokujonga amanye amaphupha aqala nge unobumba D.
Molo, ndiphuphe bendilandela besuka kwihelikopta yasemkhosini kwaye bandidubule kodwa phambi kokuba ndive ukuba bafuna ukuba ndibengulomntu bebemfuna.
Banike iruth kwaye baqinisekisa ukuba ndim umntu ababemfuna, kodwa andizanga ngenxa ye-rut, ayihambelani nam
Ndandiya kuzikrazula, ndazimela phantsi kwemithi
Ndaye ndaqala phambili bandidubula bandibetha edolweni entliziyweni emqolo
Kodwa akazange afe.
Umcimbi undishiye ndixhalabile, ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ntoni oku.
(Ephupheni utata wabonakala ongasekhoyo, yonke into iqhelekile njengaxa siphuma sayokwenza i-barbecue, sabelana ngesiqhelo)
Molweni, ndiphuphe umzala wam endidubula kabini kodwa khange ndife kwaye ndikwazile ukumbulala, usapho lwam belundileqa kwaye kukho umfazi othatha iimbumbulu kum kwaye epheka amanxeba.
Ndiphuphe ndihamba nesithandwa sam sakudala xa ngequbuliso sibona umntu ophethe umpu esibalekela. Ndizama ukutyhala ndimenze akhuseleke, andifuni kwenzeke into embi kuye. Emva koko badubula kwaye imbumbulu iya esiswini sam. Okwalo mzuzu ndiphaphile ngenxa yokothuka, kodwa kwimizuzwana embalwa ndibona ubuso benkwenkwe endandithandana nayo kwaye izokundinceda, indlela umhlaseli abaleke ngayo aye kwelinye icala. Emva koko ndiyavuka.
Molweni, ndiphuphe izinto ezininzi kwaye andizikhumbuli ezininzi ndiyakhumbula ukuba ibizakuba ngumhla wokuzalwa kodwa ndaziva ngathi yipropaganda kwaye ndade ndenza nengcaciso ndathi, basebenzisa iimodeli zezindlu ezikwiklasi . Ndikwindlu yomhlobo wam osenyongweni kwaye sithetha apho, andikhumbuli ukuba yintoni, kodwa utata wakhe uvela emsebenzini kwaye udlula ngendlela aze asibulise, emva koko kwafika inenekazi endilaziyo ukuba libizwa ngokuba nguSandra. amakhandlela, bayaqala ukuwafuna kodwa bakufutshane nomabonwakude ndibabona bejika iitafile ndifumanise ukuba zintathu enye ibiphantsi kunomphakathi enye incinci kwaye enye incinci ibiyibhodi encinci ndibabuza ukuba Ndizivulile, zindixelela ewe, kulungile xa ndizikhanyisela oko kukuthi ukuba ezimbini zokuqala bezingakhanyisanga kakuhle ndibuyise isikhanyisi kwakhona kwaye zilayite eyokuqala ebikhanyise kakuhle yayiyeyona incinci kwaye le andisakhumbuli, emva koko andikhumbuli nje ukuba bandidubule kwaye bandithatha bandisa esibhedlele apho babezokuthi bazokwenza utyando oluninzi kodwa ndithe xa ndivuka ethubeni kwaba ngathi ndiyaphila ndaphakama ndahamba bendihamba ndizilazile kutheni ngathi inxeba libuhlungu bebengutata wam wamUMama noToche (indoda esebenze notata ixesha elide) balahleka esibhedlele, emva koko andiqondi ukuba kwenzeke ntoni kwakhona uvele epakini ngeRafo Ndafika Apho umakazi, kutheni umzala ebize mna, ndenze uluvo lokuba ibingonganxibi mfutshane emva koko ndavela ndahamba nodadewethu endleleni eya kwindawo yokutyela yabazali bam intoixakayo kukuba zininzi iziphazamiso kwelinye icala sibona sifikile kukho iyunifom yomcimi-mlilo ijinga Kulungile singenile utata ebelele emandlalweni kwaye inkosikazi yam bendivela ngasemva, sithethile into kwaye ndikhumbula ibinzana elithi "ukuba abengengobaphambukeli" kwaye lahlala apho kwaye ndikhumbula kuphela ukuba ibinetha ngamandla mna andazi ukuba kuphi, ndabona into efana nomsele wawusina ngamandla kwaye indawo eyingqongileyo yayingathi izele ngamanzi kwaye ndenza enye intetho ndinqwenela ukuba izokuna ke andikhumbuli ukuba ndisekhaya okanye kusuku lwam lokuzalwa ahh xa into yokudubula ndivukile noko andikhumbuli kakhulu ndiyakhumbula xa bandibeka kwiambulensiBafaka i-serum kunye ne-grin kakhulu, andisakhumbuli ngakumbi.
Ndiphuphe amajoni amathathu, andidubule ngesixhobo esincinci, kabini esifubeni elinye egxalabeni. Kodwa khange ife okanye yophe. Ndabaleka ndaphuma ndafumana indawo yokufihla eluphahleni lwemoto enkulu, ndazifihla ndisebenzisa iingxowa noobhaka, kodwa babesondele kakhulu kum (emkhosini). Kungekudala ndakwazi ukuphuma apho (ukusuka kwindawo yokuzimela ngaphezulu kwemoto) kwaye ndaqala ukuba nengxaki yokuphefumla kwaye amanxeba am abuhlungu. Ndidiniwe kwaye ndikhathazekile kakhulu, ngequbuliso kwavela umhlobo wam uDaniel kunye nomntakwabo uJosé emotweni yeLexus (imoto kaDaniel noJose ebomini bokwenyani) kwaye bandifunqula kwaye ndakwazi ukuphuma kuwo wonke loo ... ungakhumbuli kwanto emva kwalonto ... Nangona kunjalo umama wayezowadibanisa amanxeba ngaphandle kokubulawa emva koko wakhupha iimbumbulu, kodwa azilimazanga ...
Kuthetha ntoni konke oku? Ndiyaqala ukuphupha ngayo ... Enkosi
Ndiphuphe umntu ebeka imela entlokweni yam kwaye ngeenjongo zokuyingcwaba entlokweni yam, emva koko umntu endimthandayo wamdubula entloko ngaloo ndlela azisindise andazi ukuba kuthetha ntoni kodwa ndi ndibhidekile.
Ndiphuphe ndikwintlanganiso yabahlobo kunye namanye amantombazana ebengaqhele ukuthetha nam esikolweni ... Ukusuka kwii-anecdotes ezininzi esabelana ngazo kunye nokuhleka okuninzi ndiye ndasondela kuye okomzuzwana ndicinga ukuba ndibazi kakuhle kwaye ndazibuza
UVera waphupha ndisekhaya kwam nodadewethu, usana lwakhe, usibali wam kunye nomnye umntu, andikhumbuli ukuba wayengubani .. sasilele ebusuku kwaye ngequbuliso baqala ukunkqonkqoza emnyango kugcwele Kunzima ukusuka apho ndibona umnyango k Ephupheni lam bekuvuleke isiqingatha ndabona indoda etyebileyo kunye nomnye umfana osondela emnyango wadubula umpu kodwa awuzange ufikelele nakubani na, baya kuphinda badubule apho ukuba baphikisana nathi kwaye Udadewethu uthi khange ndimbulale ndimzele umntana kodwa ndivuke phambi kokuba basidubule
Molo, kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ndiphuphe "ngomvuni ombi"; Ndambona engena wazoma ecaleni kwam ebhedini apho alala khona neqabane lam, wakugqiba waphuma wabuyela ngaphakathi kodwa ndamkhaba, iqabane lam lavuka nam. Wayeqinisekile ukuba "umvuni ombi" ngumhlobo wakudala. Ndifunde ukutolikwa kwephupha kwaye kungaphelanga neveki, iqabane lam landishiya !! Namhlanje ndiphinde ndaphupha into engaqhelekanga, bendisendaweni yentselo, ndedwa, ngequbuliso indoda enxilileyo ikhupha ivolovolo kwaye iqala ukudlala, umnini webar uyasokola ukuyigcina, kodwa umpu uyahamba, ngengozi kwaye ndiyabona indlela imbumbulu endibetha ngayo entanyeni. Ephupheni andinakukwazi ukubaleka okanye ukuhamba, ndabona kuphela imeko kwaye ndaziva impembelelo. Khange ndizibone ndifa, kodwa ndibambe inxeba elibangelwe kwaye ndawuva umonakalo, ngala mzuzu ndivukile. Unganceda undincede? Ndidlula kwimeko enzima yokwahlukana. Umsebenzi wam uyawa, kungoko ndinenyathelo lokuqala ngento eyenye. Ndingenza ntoni? NdinguJorge, iminyaka engama-43 ubudala, iponti. Ndiyavuma ukuba andizange ndikholelwe kwiintsingiselo zamaphupha, kodwa ngoku ndiyabona ukuba ukutolika kuyinto eyinyani. Enkosi kwaye ndiyathemba ukufumana uncedo.
Bendikwi-mall kwaye bebeza kuvala. Ndandihleli nentombi yam eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala kwaye baqala ukusidubula ngefestile, ihelikopta enemipu engaphantsi. Ndibalekile kwaye ngelixa bendinika iimbumbulu kuyo yonke indawo bendikhwaza ukuba intombi yam ibaleke kodwa iimbumbulu nazo ziyambetha ndavuka.
Mholweni. Ndiphuphe ukuba bendileqa kwaye bendidubula, ndiyasikhumbula isandla sam, amabele ... kodwa ndizikhusele kwaye ndakwazi ukubaleka ndisinde. Yambulala umntu.
Mholo! Ephupheni, ndivukile ndalahleka izihlangu zam, emva koko ndaya emsebenzini amanye amantombazana andenzela, emva koko ndazama enye yempahla yabo baxola.
Bendisemotweni ndikhangela iplate yam yobuchwephesha nabanye abafana endingabaziyo kwaye bema kwindawo abathengisa kuyo izixhobo, bafuna ukuba ndihlale nabo
emotweni
Ndiyabonakalisa ekhaya, simanzi ngamanzi avela ethumbu
Mna nabantakwethu, kodwa ibingudadewethu omdala kuphela kwaye lo usecaleni kwakhe kodwa bekukho nabanye abancinci ababini endingabaziyo, intombazana eneminyaka elishumi ukuya kweli-10 ubudala kunye nenkwenkwe ebeneminyaka emi-12/6 ubudala. .
Sonke sasisekhitshini kunye, akukho mntu wayenokuphuma
Sasiphilile, abantakwethu abancinci balala
Apho ndabuza udade wethu ukuba uyazi njani ukuba siyaphila, singayihlisa imoto? Kwaye wathi ewe
Besingaziva
Kwaye sisoyika siqala ukukhumbula yonke into
Ukuba siyehla, kodwa ngelo xesha baqala ukusidubula
Babulala wonke umntu ngompu
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Molo igama lam ndinguClaudia ndiphuphe ngephupha eliqine kakhulu elingandivumeli ukuba ndilale ndiphuphe ngathi ndifuna intombi yam kodwa andimfumani ukuba bandixelele ukuba ulahlekile kwaye lamntu ngumama wam de wandixelela ukuba 'Uxolo bekufanele ukuba ndikuxelele ukuba intombi yakho ibhubhile bekukho abantu abaninzi kwiCarnival kwaye babaleka kuyo bendingafuni ukukuxelela kwaye ndibethe umama wam salwa ephupheni ndandimcaphukela. ndaqala ukukhangela umntu obaleke phezu kwentombi yam kwaye yayingumfazi otyebileyo onenwele ebomvu ephakathi kunye nomdayi o grey endathi ndaqala ukumxelela ukuba kutheni uyenzile kwaye lomfazi xa ebona ukuba ndimfumene saqala sanyanzela kwaye ngaxa lithile uthatha umpu andibethe ngazo zonke iimbumbulu ade aphelelwe ziimbumbulu emva kwethutyana efuna ukuthatha ubhaka wam kwaye eyona nto inomtsalane kukuba andifanga ndema ngenhlungu emqolo ukusuka Iimbumbulu ezazigqobhoze isifuba sam kwaye lo mfazi ngalamzuzu wabamba imoto eyiGrey wasinda ndabona amapolisa elizwe lam ndathi mandiqhubeke nalaa mfazi wayenguye Kwaye wayendidubule, samlandela kodwa safika kwisikhululo samapolisa nalapho xa wayephuma eyokukhangela lomfazi ndawela emhlabeni ndavala amehlo liphelile iphupha lam.
Molweni nonke, ndingathanda ukuba nindixelele ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umntu endlini yam ephuphe izolo inkwenkwe indijongela indlu ka-4 umntu owaziyo into ngeli phupha, ndiphendule, enkosi
Molweni ndiphuphe bendidubula endlebeni yasekunene nasemagxeni am omabini...kodwa ndazibona ndinamabala apho andipholise khona! Ngaba yomelele kakhulu?
Ndiphuphe ukuba isizalwane sixhwilwe saza sahlangula, mna nomhlobo wam sizenze iindwendwe siqokelela iisampulu zegazi ngaphezulu, ndifike endlini apho bebenaye kwaye kuvela ukuba bangabarhwebi beziyobisi, basibamba bohlukanise amagumbi ohlukeneyo, ndabona ukuba bambulala kodwa ndabona imilenze yakhe inegazi ligcwele phantsi emva koko bahamba nam bayondibulala, ndaye ndacinga ukuba andilwi, ndizakufa kunjalo , ndiye ndasokola nombulali ndajika umpu ndaya edongeni kodwa kwathi kungena omnye umntu wakwazi ukuthatha umpu ngokunika umbulali, emva koko wandidubula, ndaqala ukubona yonke into emnyama ndaza ndavuka apho 🙁
Molo! Ndiphuphe ndihamba nenkampani yomyeni wam ndisehla ngesitrato esizimeleyo nesiyingozi esiya ngqo phambili kwaye xa sifika ekoneni umyeni wam wandibamba ngesandla ndaziva ukuba uyandiwola ndaziva wadutyulwa emagxeni
Ndiphuphe umntu endifunda naye endifuna ukumcacisela ukuba kunqabile ukuba sithethe omnye nomnye kwaye andizange ndimlimaze kwaye ngaphandle koko, khange ndimbone iminyaka. Ndiphuphe endileqa ukuba andibulale ngompu (ukuba ndiyayisebenzisa) kodwa ndikwazile ukubaleka kodwa ndiyakhumbula ephupheni ukuba wathetha into kum ngelixa ndibalekayo endingayikhumbuliyo neqabane endlini wandinceda ndasinda. izakuthetha ntoni?
Molweni, ndiphuphe kukho abantu abaliqela egumbini kwaye njengokuba ixesha lihamba bebulala umntu nomnye de kwabakho indawo apho kushiyeke mna nendoda enye kuphela kwaye ngalomzuzu umama yayinguye owayedubula ngathi ukuba kufuneka ndithathe isigqibo sokuba ndibulale bani kwaye wajika wandidubula esiswini, kuqala kwicala lasekunene emva koko lasekhohlo kwaye ekugqibeleni omnye wasengalweni, ndemka apho ndifuna uncedo kuba ndonzakele ndaya ipaki ndizifumene Abanye babahlobo apho sizamile ukuthatha imoto, imeko yeyokuba senze amalaphu amaninzi ukuya esibhedlele, ityala kukuba akakwazi kuhamba ngemoto ke ndahamba
Ukususela ngomzuzu omnye ukuya kolandelayo bendisekhaya ndicaphukele umama kwaye ndimangalisiwe kutheni kungenjalo Ndasweleka kwaye umama wandixelela ukuba ndinoluhlobo lokhuselo kwaye naye wadubula kwindawo apho angakwazi ukundibulala khona, wamenza waqonda
Ndiphuphe ngequbuliso ndiseYunivesithi, andazi ukuba iqabane lam belikule ndawo, kodwa hayi nam ... Ekuqaleni bendiseklasini, ndibuyile, kodwa sele benike umyalelo wokufuduka, into emhlabeni kuye kwanzima, Umba kukuba ndiphikise, nomntu, ongaboniyo nokubona kakuhle, ngenxa yokuba sasiseklasini, sinikwe imeko exineneyo ... Amapolisa afika eyunivesithi kwaye yaba yinto ephawulekayo, yaba yintshutshiso, ndahamba ndaza ndahamba ngokukhawuleza kuyo yonke indawo, ukuphepha indawo apho babedubula khona abafundi, kwakubuhlungu kakhulu ... andizange ndifumane iqabane lam kwaye imeko yaqhubeka ikhula mbi ...
Ndiyakhumbula ukuba bendibaleka ebhasini, kodwa ibuyile kwaye kwahlaselwa ipatroli kwaye ndatyibilika ndingabikho mgama, malunga ne-5 yeebhombu ezandibulala!
Ndibuyele kwi-labyrinth ye-u, ndikhathazekile ngokungamfumani iqabane lam, andimbonanga, okanye kwiindawo apho abantu babekhona okanye nantoni na! Kwaye ndandisoyika eyona nto imbi kakhulu! ... Ekubalekeni kwam ndaza ndabaleka ndabaleka kuyo yonke indawo, ndafumana okanye ndafika esandleni sam umpu, ndaye ndaphakuzela, ndingazi nokuba ndenze ntoni ngawo, ukuba bazakundibona ndibandakanyeka kuloo nto bendidubula okanye into enjalo! Ndayishiya, ngathi ityholweni elinelishiti, ukuze bayifumane.
Kwindlela yam, ndityibilika, ndaqala ukudibana nosapho kunye nabahlobo bam bakudala, esikolweni, bandibulisa bandanga kwaye ndaqhubeka nokukhangela, inyani kukuba ndeva ilizwi lomzala endibizile ndaya kuye owayesegumbini lokuhlala kwaye wandixelela ukuba ndiyopha emqolo kwaye bandikhulula ihempe, xa endixelela «yabona kukho iindaba, kukho umntu oswelekileyo nge-8» kwaye ndiyalila Ukukhathazeka wathi «kodwa andizukuthini into…» Kwaye xa wayezakuthetha into ethile kum… ndavuka!
Kuyandikhathaza kakhulu eli phupha !! Inokuba yintoni, okanye ithetha ntoni!
Molweni, kuba ndiphuphe ndikhona ebumelwaneni apho ndihlala khona kwaye indoda endingayaziyo yayingutata wam kwaye wayenoodadewabo abathathu ngesizathu esithile wayebiza abanye. Amadoda akhangeleka ngenceba kodwa nam bendifuna ukunceda kuba ndicinga ukuba sifuna ukusindisa okanye ukubulala umntu ngenxa yento ayenzileyo bendinentombazana eyayingudadewethu eyayindinika into efana nompu kodwa andizange ndiyisebenzise kuba ndabona Indoda esiza nompu ndathi kuphela kule ntombazana mayizifihle kwaye yazimela kwenye indawo ndaya kwivenkile ekufutshane kodwa kuloo nto ndafumana imbumbulu ethangeni kwaye ndakwazi ukungena evenkileni indirhuqa apho Kwakukho amanye amantombazana amabini ayengoodadewethu kodwa ndandingawazi kwaye yiyo loo nto abafana ababini bekhulu kwaye baqala ukundidubulela nge-10 ndicinga ukuba Kodwa xa ndithatha umpu ababendidubule ngawo kwakungekho mbumbulu kwaphela ndathatha omnye umpu owawulapho ndaza ndadubula omnye umfana owayezobulala oodadewethu ekucingelwa ukuba ndaye ndakwazi ukubulala la madoda mabini nangona ndandisopha egazini kwaye emva koko kwavela umfana owayezakusibulala. kodwa akenzanga ngcono wandithwala kwaye Bendithwele apho ndihlala khona kodwa xa silapho ndeva ezinye iimbumbulu eziwela emagxeni am emveni koko ndavuka ndinentlungu esuswini nasemagxeni kwakungathi ndiyifumene nyani
Molweni, molweni, ndiphuphe ndisemsebenzini ndisebenza indoda eneenwele ezinde ikhupha umpu ebhulukhweni yandidubula yabe imbumbulu yandibetha engqinibeni ndikhala kabuhlungu ndithe xa ndijonga engqinibeni. Ndayibona ngokucacileyo imbumbulu eyathi kamva kufuneka bandityande ukuze bakhuphe imbumbulu ...
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Ndiphuphe ndiphethe ivolovolo ndijongise kwezinye iintaka ebezilapha phandle kodwa imbumbulu ziphume ngamandla kancinci yhuu ibingange mitha ezimbini le ibisedlelweni emva koko inkunzi inomsindo. kum efuna ukundihlawulisa eye yakhwela emthini ukuze kungabikho nto eyenzekayo. Emva kokuba ndibalekile apho ndabuyela endlini yam kodwa kubonakala ukuba ndineparasite elulwimini lwam, ndisusa indawo kwaye ibe ngathi ngumsila omde kakhulu ophuma elulwimini lwam, ayilonto ebangela ukuba usisi azichonge aze abulale.
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