Awudingi ukuba ngumlandeli weembaleki, ukubaleka andikaze ndibone imovie efana nayo Forrest Gump o Imguno yesantya for iphupha lokubaleka. Eli nyathelo lingaphezulu komdlalo, kuba ungabaleka uye kukhwela uloliwe kuba sele uza kuhamba ungakhange ukhwele kuwo, kuba ubaleka umntu okanye uleqa isela ukuba ulipolisa. Oko kukuthi, lo msebenzi uyinxalenye yobomi bemihla ngemihla yiyo loo nto kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba uphuphe ngawo.
Ngale ndlela, iphupha linokutolikwa ngeendlela ezahluka-hlukeneyo ngokuxhomekeke kumongo nakwisiqwenga salo; Ayifani ukuba uyabaleka ungadinwa, ukuba ngequbuliso uqala ukubhabha (jonga ukutolika kwamaphupha ngokubhabha) okanye ukuba uzama ukuthambeka kodwa ungahambeli phambili. Sasithini isantya sakho? Bekunetha? Kusemini, kusebusuku, kumnyama, ndedwa.
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ubaleka?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, eli phupha libonisa iminqweno yakho yokufezekisa iinjongo zakho ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa njengoko bendichazile ngasentla, indawo osingise kuyo, isimo sengqondo osibonisayo kwimisitho okanye ukufika ngexesha ofike ngalo ekupheleni kwendlela kunempembelelo enkulu kutoliko lokugqibela. Apha ngezantsi uyakubona imizekelo emininzi eya kukunceda uqonde ngcono into oyiphuphileyo phezolo ngokusekwe kumlinganiswa wakho.
Olunye utoliko: amaphupha okubaleka kunye nokungakwazi, ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza okanye ukucotha ...
Iphupha lokuzama ukubaleka ungabinakho. Lo mzuzu xa Uzama ukuhambisa imilenze yakho kwaye uqaphele ukuba awuhambeli phambili kuba abahambeli okanye batyibilike kwindawo enye ngaphandle kokuya phambili Ihlala ibonisa ukuba kukho umqobo ebomini bakho onengxaki yokoyisa: nguwe kuphela onokwazi ukuba yintoni.
Ufike emva kwexesha? Oku kuthetha ukuba usilela ngasemva entweni. Awukwenzi umsebenzi wakho wesikolo? Ngaba uwugqibile umsebenzi weso sifundo usithanda kancinane?
Ngaba uhlala ufika emva kwexesha kumtshato wakho? Khange uyibhale ingxelo ebeyicelwe ngumphathi wakho? Zizizathu zokunikezela kolu phupha lubi.
Ngaba ubalekela kukhuseleko ephupheni lakho? Ukubaleka into ekuphazamisayo, ekubangela woyike, uyafihla kwaye awufuni kuyibona kuyinto eqhelekileyo, yiyo loo nto i-subconscious ikubonisa oko ukuze uyeke ukubaleka ujongane nayo.
Ngumqondiso wobuntu obunobugwala, ongoyikiyo ukubonisa ubuso bakhe ngenxa yokungeniswa kwakhe.
Ngaba ubona ubungqina bamahashe aliqela abalekayo? Sele sichazile kwelinye inqaku i ukutolika iphupha ngamahashe abalekayo. Ngenisa ulwazi oluthe kratya.
Ukuphupha ubaleka ungenazihlangu emvuleni. Imele unxibelelwano lwakho nendalo, imvakalelo yakho yempilo-ntle, ke oko itolikwa ngokuqinisekileyo: ukhululekile ngendlela oqhuba ngayo izinto.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unganxibanga zihlangu kwisitrato esixakekileyo kuthetha ukuba Ubonisa ukungazithembi, ukungabikho kokhuseleko. Thetha ngayo kunye nomhlobo osondeleyo.
Ngaba uhamba ngokukhawuleza okanye ucothe? Luphawu lokukhawuleza komhla wakho, kunye nophawu lomlinganiswa wakho.
Zimasa ugqatso ugqibe kukhuphiswano luphawu lwenzame zakho zokuphucula yonke imihla, ukhuphiswano lwakho kunye nomnqweno wokuma kwizinto ozenzayo.
Ngaba ubaleka ukubaleka amapolisa? Usenokuba wenze ngakumbi, kodwa ndikucebisa ukuba ufunde ifayile ye- intsingiselo yokuphupha ngamapolisa akubambayo phambi kokuzoba isigqibo.
Ukuba ufumene eli nqaku malunga iphupha lokubalekaNdicebisa ukuba ufunde ezinye ezifanayo kwifayile ye- unobumba C icandelo.
