Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iigundane?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iimpuku

Ukuba uyazibuza kuthetha ukuphupha iigundane Siza kukucacisela ngokweenkcukacha ezingezantsi. Njengomgaqo oqhelekileyo ebantwini asizithandi iimpuku, kuba kwinkcubeko yethu bafuzisela izilwanyana ezimdaka ezihlala kwindawo yenkunkuma nakwiindawo apho zinuka kakubi. Zizilwanyana ezimbi ezifunyanwa zihamba ezitalatweni, imibhobho, imijelo yogutyulo nayo nayiphi na indawo apho kugxothwa inkunkuma yoluntu.

Ngamanye amaxesha i-subconscious yethu isibonisa umfanekiso apho kuvela isilwanyana kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo sinokutolika. Ngokwesiqhelo xa uphupha impuku okanye impuku inentsingiselo engeyiyo, nokuba kungenxa yengxaki yemihla ngemihla ebomini bakho okanye ngenxa yomsitho oxhonywe ngaphezulu kwentloko yakho kakhulu.

Kodwa oku akusoloko kunjalo, kukho iimeko apho ukuba nephupha malunga nempuku kuthetha ukuba into elungileyo iseza. Nangona kunjalo, zininzi iintlobo zamaphupha, apho ubukhulu kunye nombala zinokuba nefuthe khona, ukuba uyabazingela okanye bayakuhlasela, ukuba bakungqonge indlu yakho okanye izixa ezahlukeneyo

Ukuphupha iigundane ezijikeleza indlu yakho

Ukuba iigundane ephupheni zihamba zijikeleza indlu yakho, oko kuthetha ukuba ikhona into engahambi kakuhle ekhaya. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yomlo okhe walwa nabazali bakho, abantwana bakho, okanye iqabane lakho. Ukuba xa ulele, i-subconscious yakho iyakulumkisa ngale ndlela, kuya kufuneka usombulule nayiphi na imbambano ngokukhawuleza ukubuyisela imvisiswano.

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iimpuku ezininzi

Ukuphupha uhlaselwa yimpuku

Kwimeko apho sisilwanyana esihlasela wena, kungenxa yokuba ukhathazekile ngemali. Mhlawumbi ukhuthuziwe kwaye unengxaki yokwenzakala ngenxa yokuphangwa. Enye into eyitolikayo yeyokuba kukho umntu okutyala imali ungakhange uphinde uyifumane, apho ke iphupha elo lingayi kutshabalala de ufumanise ukuba ngubani othathe imali yakho.

Okokugqibela, ukuba uqalile ishishini kwaye iigundane ziqala ukubonakala ngamanani amakhulu, kungenxa yokuba ukwindlela engalunganga kwaye kuya kufuneka uphinde ucinge ngesicwangciso sakho ukuze ungalahleki ngaphezulu kwemali.

Ukuba nguwe ozingela impuku ye-myomorphic

Yintsingiselo echaseneyo neyangaphambili. Uya kwi indlela elungileyo kwaye wenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo. Uza kuyifezekisa injongo ozibekele yona kuba ususa izithintelo ezifuziselwa ziigundane. Ukuba ngaba uneempuku kuneempuku, sicebisa ukuba ulifunde eli nqaku phupha malunga neempuku. Okukhulu kwiigundane, kokukhona unokukwazi ukoyisa zonke iingxaki ezizayo. Akukho lutshaba lunokuma endleleni yakho!

Kukho ezinye izinto ezahlukeneyo zeli phupha. Inokunxulumana nombala, ubungakanani, inani, okanye imeko yayo ebalulekileyo.

Unamaphupha eempuku ezifileyo

Ukuphupha iimpuku ezifileyo kuthetha ukuba kukho into ebomini bakho leyo ukwenza umonakalo omkhulu kwaye kufuneka uyilahle ngokukhawuleza.

Ukuphupha ukuba iimpuku ziyaphila

Ukuba iigundane ziyaphila ngoko ayigqibi, Kuya kufuneka ujonge kwindawo eseleyo yephupha ukuze ufumane intsingiselo echanekileyo.

Ephupheni iimpuku zinemibala

Ngokombala weempuku, intsingiselo yayo yahluke kakhulu:

  • Ukuba zimhlophe, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho ubuncwane obusondele kakhulu kuwe. Eyiphi? Isenokuba sisiqingatha sakho esingcono, umsebenzi onesidima okanye isimemezelo esihle.
  • ukuba zingwevu kungenxa yento ethile engemihle ekukhathazayo.
  • ezimdaka namthubi zibonisa ukuba into engaqhelekanga izakwenzeka ebomini bakho kwixesha elifutshane

Ngaba zinkulu okanye zincinci?

Ukuba xa ulele uphupha iigundane ezinkulu nezityebileyo, intsingiselo kukuba into ekuchaphazelayo ibaluleke kakhulu, nokuba yeyokulunga okanye embi. Ukuba zincinci ke le ngxaki ayinabuzaza kangako.

Ukuphupha ikuku ikulume

Kwimeko apho i-subconscious yakho ikubonisa iigundane ezilumayo, yiyo loo nto kukho umntu okuhlaselayo kwaye kufuneka uyilahle ngokukhawuleza.

Ukuphupha iigundane nezinye izilwanyana

Ukuba zininzi izinto ezixhalabisayo, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zinokubonakala ngathi amaphela, iikati, izigcawu, iinyoka okanye iinyoka. Ukwazi intsingiselo yento nganye kufuneka ufunde amanqaku ethu athile ngesilwanyana ngasinye.

Ndiphupha iimpuku zosana ebhedini

Ukuba balala ebhedini kwaye bangamagundane osana ke unjalo ndinqwenela ukuba nomntwana.

Ndiphupha iimpuku zibaleka

Ukuba bayabaleka yile nto Isisombululo kwingxaki yakho asifikeleleki kwaye ufuna uncedo kumntu omthembileyo.

Iphupha malunga neempuku ezirhaxileyo

Ukuba uphupha iigundane erhaxwayo kungenxa yokuba sowuza ulahlekelwe yinto ebalulekileyo kuwe.

Ezona ntsingiselo zibalulekileyo yile ndiyichazileyo, nangona kunjalo kuya kufuneka uyikhuphele ngaphandle kwimeko yakho yobuqu okanye yobungcali ukuze ufumane intsingiselo yakho.

Ividiyo yentsingiselo yokuphupha malunga neempuku

Ukuba ufumene eli nqaku malunga kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ezi mpuku zingwevu, ke ndicebisa ukuba undwendwele abanye abanokukunomdla:


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