Xa umntu amaphupha eembumbulu, ngokuzenzekelayo uyazibuza ukuba lithetha ntoni eli phupha. Iimpawu zoqhushululu zinzima, kodwa ngokubanzi zibonisa amaxesha oxinzelelo anokwenza umphuphi aphelelwe lithemba.
Ke ngoko, namhlanje ndikutyhilela ukutolikwa okwahlukileyo kwala maphupha, ukuze ufumane into oyaziyo i-subconscious, kwaye yeyiphi indawo ebomini bakho onokuyidibanisa nayo.
Yintoni intsingiselo yamaphupha emipu?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, iphupha lokudubula umpu wakho uthetha ukuba unobuntu obunamabhongo Kwaye awuyeki ude ufezekise iinjongo zakho. Yigcine kuba usendleleni elungileyo. Ukuba uphupha ukuba omnye umntu ukudubulile, itolikwa njenge uziva ngathi umntu uyakulandela ukuzama ukukwenzakalisa emva komqolo wakho. Unokuba sengozini, phendula!
Ukuba nguwe odubula omnye umntu, oko kuthetha ukuba uyamcaphukela, unenzondo okanye uhlobo oluthile lokungqubana naloo mntu. Ukuba uphupha usekhaya kwaye uve izithonga zompu kufutshane nawe, zimele zakho uloyiko lokuphulukana nepropathi yakho.
Ngaba unengxaki yokuhlawula ityala lakho? Ngaba uza kugxothwa emsebenzini kwaye ngaba ukwimeko yezemali engazinzanga? Ngaba ukhe wangakhathali kwishishini lakho kwaye alibhatali? Yilahle loo moya wokuzingca uze usebenze. Ukuba uphupha ukuba imonki okanye umfundisi ukudubula, oko kuthetha ukuba ngaphakathi kuwe kukho kuphazamisa ukuba ufanele ukuvuma. Ngaba ungcatsha umhlobo? Ngaba uye akathembeka kwiqabane lakho kwaye wazisola?
Ukuba uphupha udutyulwa ufe oko kuthetha ukuba Uyabandezeleka ngenxa yomntu ozama ukukwenzakalisa.
Mhlawumbi umhlobo wobuxoki uyakuxhaphaza kwaye i-subconscious yakho iyayazi. Nangona kunjalo, ukutolikwa kuyaphikisana ukuba xa ungafanga ephupheni, nto leyo ebonisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukubuyisana naye.
Si uphupha ukuba bayakubulala, Uyafa kwaye uphinde uzalwe ube sisilwanyana okanye esinye isidalwa, oko kuthetha ukuba ungathanda ukuqala kwasekuqaleni, beka into ekukhathazayo ecaleni ulandele iminqweno yakho yokufumana ulonwabo.
Ukuphupha ngokudubula kuyo yonke indawo kwaye ungakhange ujonge ekujolise kuko, kuthetha ukuba Ukukhathazeka kukubambile kuba, ngaphandle komzamo owubekile kwinto ethile, awukwazanga oko ubuzimisele ukukwenza.
Ukongeza, oku kuthoba ukuzithemba kwakho kwaye kubangele ukungazithembi kuwe.
Isisombululo kweli phupha libuhlungu sifumaneka ngokuncika kusapho lwakho, ngokucela iingcebiso kubahlobo ukuze babe neembono ezingakumbi.
Ngoku sixelele ukuba belinjani iphupha lakho ngeembumbulu, kwenzeka ntoni kanye kwaye uyitolike njani le nto uyiqondileyo.
Ngaba unayo umpu, umpu womatshini, okanye olunye uhlobo lwesixhobo? Ngaba nguwe ochaphazelekayo okanye nguwe oye wakhupha? Abafundi bayakuvuyela ukuba nezinye izimvo.
Ezihlobene:
Ukuba olu lwazi malunga phupha ngeembumbulu, Ndikucebisa ukuba ufunde ezinye ezifanayo kwicandelo: amaphupha unobumba B.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha udutyulwa waphoswa ??? Ndiphuphe ndisendlini yam umntu ongaziwayo wangaphandle undidubule kodwa akandibetha.
Phezolo ndiphuphe umama endibulala ngembumbulu entloko kuba besisilwa edamini nomnakwethu omncinci yiyo lonto mna naye sihlala sisilwa.
Izolo ebusuku ndiphuphe ndisiva izithonga zemipu esitratweni kwaye xa ndiqala ukuhamba, ndiye ndajika ndaya kuzo zonke ii-facade zezakhiwo kwaye zonke zitshatyalalisiwe zizithonga zemipu eziviweyo, ephupheni bekungekho bantu, kuphela izitrato zodwa,
Phezolo ndiphuphe bendidubula emva kwentamo kwaye ndingafi iqabane lam lindiphilisile.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha kukho izithonga, ndiziphosa emhlabeni ukuze zingandibulali, kwaye kuloo ndlela yeembumbulu ndicinga ukuba andifuni kufa noloyiko yiyo loo nto iimbumbulu fikelela kum kwaye ndife kwaye ndiqala ukuziva ukuba kukufa kunye noloyiko oluninzi.
Ndiphuphe ndizophuma ndiyokuthenga isithuthuthu sime kwaye lo mbandela undidubule ndingaveli ndawo, ndaye ndazinda kodwa ndaziva ngathi ndiyafa, kodwa ndaziva ndilungile ndizive ndizakuphila ubomi bam benyani.
Iphupha lam lalinzima ngandlel 'ithile, phantse yayiyindawo yemovie; Ewe, bendifake umntu othile ityhefu (inyani yile, bonke abantu endibabonileyo bebengaziwa kum) ngumfazi, emva koko baqonda xa bebona ibhotile yetyhefu ebendiyishiyile kwaye ndaqala ukubaleka ndazimela egumbini, kodwa bandibhaqa, emva koko ndavuma into endiyenzileyo kunyana walomfazi ndaze ndasinda, ndazimela kwigumbi elincinci, baninzi abantu ababendilandela bathi xa bendifumana, bandidubula, andababona, kuba Uyenzile emva komnyango kwaye ndabona lonke igazi.
Ndiphuphe phezolo ndibona emnyango wendlu kamama kwaye kuthi gqi abafana ababini bandidubula amatyeli amane esiswini ... ndopha kakhulu, ingathi ndiyafa khange ndiqonde bandibulele ... ndingaveli ndawo ... kodwa hayi njengokuba bekhupha isitshetshe kwaye baqala ukundigwaza ukuze kungabikho mathandabuzo ukuba ndiyaphila ... ndaziva iintlungu zinjalo yayiyinyani xa behamba ... ndiphakama phantsi ndigoduka ndopha kakhulu kwaye ndiyowela kwigumbi likamama kwaye ndiqala ukuziva emzimbeni wam indlela amanxeba abuhlungu ngayo kwaye ndiziva ukuphuma kwegazi lam, wandijonga, ndaqala uku ingathi ndiyafa ... ndivuke ndisoyika kakhulu ... ndancwina ndathi Thixo wam andifuni kufa ndinje ... ibiyinto embi ... andifuni ukuba nephupha elibi njengaye Oko kwakhona ... Ndisayicinga loo nto !!
Yena yedwa ukuba wayehla ngezinyuko kwaye kukho inja enkulu emnyama (loo nja yayisisilwanyana sasekhaya sikamazala wam kwaye wasweleka ebomini bokwenyani), Wayenobuhlobo, efuna ukudlala nam kwaye wahlukuhla umsila wakhe, emva koko wanyuka izinyuko, wathetha nabathengi kwaza kwafika imoto emnyama.Amadoda endingawaziyo kwaye ndingabazanga ubuso bawo baphuma baqala ukundidubula, emva koko bandibulala kwaye iphupha laqala kwakhona ngokufanayo, ibiyi-3. amaxesha.
Ndiphuphe ngathi kufana nepati kwaye kukho iveni yamapolisa kwaye kuloo ven kukho inkwenkwe esixelela ukuba inekhamera engxoweni yayo esiyisa kule siyithatha sihamba sihamba sisuka emotweni iimitha ezimbalwa. kude bandinika iimbumbulu ezili-12 ezingaqhelekanga endisoloko ndihamba ngazo andisakwazi kuba ndiziva ngathi nditshona ngegazi lam bathatha kuphela iimbumbulu ezisixhenxe emzimbeni wam kwaye kufuneka ndiphume esibhedlele nabanye.
Ndiphuphe umama endixelela ukuba badubula endlini yakhe bavuka besoyika kakhulu.
Phezolo ndiphuphe ndisemgidini kwaye kukho indoda efuna ukubetha enye ngebhotile kodwa ndabona ububi obufuna ukufana nam ngoba bendiphethe imali. Ndambeka emva kwekholamu ebukele kwaye emva kwethuba wayikhupha ibhotile, wabetha ikholamu hayi mna,
Ndibaleke ndehla ngezinyuko ndaphuma ndaya esitratweni ndidlule ivenkile ngaphambili bekukho umfana okhomba ummelwane osesitalatweni ephethe umpu xa ndibaleka ndidlula ndizidubule ngembambo kwaye bayoyika kuba ibingeyiyo into mna. Ndiqhubeke nokubaleka kwaye kulapho ndavuka khona ... ibiliphupha nje elinokuthetha ukuba ...
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