Namhlanje ndiza kukubonisa ukuba kuthetha ntoni iphupha lokubulala. Amaxesha amaninzi, ngokubukela isenzo, ukurhanela okanye idrama kumdlalo bhanyabhanya, sinamaphupha anxulumene nokubulala umntu. Kukwanjalo ke xa sibona ibali lokubulala kumabonwakude okanye kwiphephandaba.
Oku kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba i-subconscious yethu isikhumbuza ngeendawo zobomi bokwenyani ezisichaphazela ngendlela ethile. Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba olu lwaphulo-mthetho luvele ngendlela ebonakalayo ngokuzenzekelayo. Ukubulala Ineentsingiselo ezininzi ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko ohamba kuzo kunye nokuphuhliswa kwebali lamaphupha.
Umzekelo, ayithethi okufanayo bulala indoda oyithiyileyo kuba ikwenzakalisile, yintoni lahla ezinye izilwanyana ezinjengezigcawu, amaphela, iimpukane okanye amakhalane (iibhugi ezikwenza uzothe).
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ubulala?
Enye yezona zinto zixhaphakileyo kukuba usweleka emva kokuba namava abuhlungu. Ngaba ukhe waphangwa kutshanje? Ukhe waleqwa ngamapolisa ngenxa yesenzo esingalunganga? Ukhe wabethwa eskolweni wangakwaz ukuzithethelela?
Phupha ukuba bakubulale
Kuqhelekile ukuba namaphupha apho ubulawa khona kwaye awunakwenza nto njengomboniso woko uziva ungancedi apho ungaziva ungonwabanga nawe. Ngolwazi oluthe kratya sikucebisa ukuba ufunde inqaku lencwadi intsingiselo yokuphupha bekubulala
Ukuphupha ukuba ubulala umntu
Inokuba yimeko echaseneyo, apho ubulala umntu onje uphawu lokuziva unetyala uziva emva kokona umntu. Ukuba wangcatsha umhlobo wakho kwixa elidlulileyo, zange ubanike inkxaso eyoneleyo kwaye loo nto yabachaphazela kakubi, ukuba awuzange ucele uxolo kwaye usabonisa ukuzisola, ungasokola kolo phupha lubi.
Ukuphupha ukuba umntu obalulekileyo uyafa
Ngaba kukho umntu osondele kakhulu kuwe osweleke? Ulahlekelwe ngumhlobo ongenakwahlulwa? Ngaba uyishiyile neqabane lakho kwaye awukafumani? Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba i-subconscious ikubonise la mava.
Ukuphupha ngokubulala kuba ucinezelwe
Ngaba uziva ucinezelwe? Ukudana nengcinezelo sesinye sezizathu zokuba uphuphe ubulala. Yi ukubonakalisa ubuntu obuthathaka, ethe-ethe, ongafuniyo ukujongana nabanye kwaye yiyo loo nto ngamanye amaxesha besebenzisa wena.
Ukuphupha ukuba bakusukela ukuba bakubulale
Uyatshutshiswa? Isaphuli-mthetho siyakubalekela sikubulala kwaye xa sihlasela okanye sikudubula, uvuka usoyika, usoyika kakhulu. Oku kubonisa eyakho inkxalabo malunga nomsitho osondeleyo. Ngaba unayo iimviwo kwaye awufundanga ngokwaneleyo? Awuyi kuvula umsebenzi ngexesha? Awazi ukuba uthenge ntoni intombi yakho kwisikhumbuzo sakho kwaye umhla usondele? Iintshutshiso zihlala zihlala kolu hlobo lwamaphupha, kodwa kuya kufuneka ufunde ngokweenkcukacha intsingiselo yokuphupha uleqa.
Iphupha lokubulala abantu ngokungahleliwe
Bulala abantu abangahleliyo luphawu lomntu ongacwangciswanga: unezimanga ezingaqhelekanga, iziganeko ezincinci ezimiselweyo, ubuntu obunqabileyo obunqabileyo. Inokunxulunyaniswa nokuzalwa kwentiyo yangaphakathi nabantu malunga nendlela ekusekwe ngayo uluntu (uninzi lwenkohliso kwezopolitiko, ukongamela kokuzingca xa ujongene nesisa, njl.
Uphupha ubulala iikati okanye izinja
Ukuba uphupha udubula isilwanyana esihlala nomntu, itolikwa njengawe ukuziva uphoxekile kumntu osileleyo kuwe, okanye ngenxa yokuba ungasiphathanga kakuhle isilwanyana sakho kwaye kukho ukuzisola ngaphakathi kwakho. Khangela kwakhona ifayile ye- intsingiselo yokuphupha izinja kunye kunye ikati.
Ndingathanda ukuba usixelele ngephupha lakho obulele ngalo okanye nguwe obuleweyo. Uzive njani? Ndithetha ukuthini kuwe? Bobabini kunye nabanye abafundi baya kufunda lukhulu kwizigqibo zomnye nomnye.
Ividiyo yentsingiselo yokuphupha ngokubulala
Ukuba ufumene eli nqaku malunga iphupha lokubulala, Ndikucebisa ukuba ufunde ezinye ezifanayo kwi isichazi magama samaphupha.
Ndiphuphe ndibulala izinja ezininzi ezindihlaseleyo, ndafaka i-iron kwiimpumlo zazo, zisentsimini kuloliwe.
Ndiphuphe kukho inenekazi elikhaliphileyo elihlasela abantu, kwaye emhlabeni ndigqibe kwelokuba ndimbulale, ukuba kwathi gqi inja kum ndayibamba entanyeni ndayikrwitsha de yafa ... ndaziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu, kuba Ndiyazithanda izilwanyana
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Emva kokuva ukuba kufuneka ndenze ngathi andiyazi nto, ndandifuna ukuphuma, iifestile, iingcango, njl., kodwa kwakungekho nto, yayiyi-maze ephumayo kuphela »» Umnyango omkhulu »». Emveni koko ndivuke ndaziva ndiqaqanjelwa kakhulu esifubeni.
Ngesiqhelo eli lelona phupha liphambeneyo ukuthetha kwaye andizange ndizive naziphi na iimvakalelo