Wanna uyazi kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umtshato? Umtshato unokuba libakala elibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakho, elinye lawona mahle kakhulu. Kwaye ekugqibeleni uza kuba nakho ukuzazisa kulo mntu ubalulekileyo, lowo uza kuchitha naye ubomi bakho bonke, nokuba unganaye umntwana. Ngenxa yokuba, kuyaqondakala ukuba baninzi kakhulu abesilisa nabasetyhini abaphupha ngokuthatha eli nyathelo libalulekileyo.
Umtshato usivumela ukuba sibe ngabona baphambili besiganeko, nokuba kungomhla omnye kuphela. Inqaku lokuphupha ngomtshato linokubhekisa kuko umnqweno wokutshata onayo, nangona iimeko zephupha ziya kulungiselela ukutolikwa: ngekhe kufane ukungqina umtshato wakho, kunokuba nomhlobo. Kananjalo ayizukufana into yokuba umtshato ububanjwe ngempucuko, kunokuba ibingumtshato wenkolo. Umbala wengubo yomtshato kuya kufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo, ukuba ikhonkco labanjwa okanye laphazamiseka.
Umtshato yenye yezona ndawo zintle zobomi. Uxela uthando lwakho olungenamiqathango kumntu oza kubelana naye yonke imihla yakho. Iphantse yantle njenge ukuzalwa komntwana. Ke ngoko, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba amadoda nabafazi baphuphe ngokutshata, mhlawumbi kuba befuna njalo.
Iphupha ngomtshato wakho
Okokuqala, kufuneka uzibuze ukuba umtshato wawungowakho okanye womnye umntu. Ukuphupha ngomtshato wakho kuthetha ukuba Ngaba ungathanda ukuba le nto yenzeke ngokwenyani. Ukuba uza kutshata kungekude, ingqondo yakho inokubonisa imifanekiso yomtshato njengendlela yokunciphisa iintlungu zakho. Ujongene nenqaku eliza kutshintsha ubomi bakho, isiganeko esikwenza wonwabe, kodwa wothuke kwaye ungazithembi kwangaxeshanye.
Ukuphupha ngomtshato womnye umntu
Iingcali kwilizwe lamaphupha ziyangqina ukuba, ukuba ubona umtshato womnye umntu (onje ngomntakwethu / udade, umzala / a, nkqu nomntu wakho wakudala) unokutolikwa ngeendlela ezininzi.
Ukuba ngumhlobo otshatayo, inxulunyaniswa novuyo olo uyamvela. Kodwa ukuba liqabane lakho langaphambili elitshatayo, iya kudibana ngomona okanye uyamkhumbula kwaye usenayo into oyivayo.
Uvuka uvalo emva kokuphupha ikhonkco
Indlela ekuvusa ngayo ephupheni ikwathetha lukhulu ngokuchazwa kwalo. Ukuba uvuka uvalo, unomlomo owomileyo kunye nokubetha komdyarho, oko kuthetha ukuba ikhonkco libangela ukuba uthandabuze. Kwelinye icala, ukuba uyakhululeka xa uvuka, ufuna ukuba yenzeke. Ukuncedisa olu lwazi, unokufunda malunga ne- intsingiselo yokuphupha umtshato?
Ukuphupha ngomtshato weCawe
Kukho iinguqu ezithile kutoliko olusekwe ekubeni umtshato wawungenwe ngumthetho woluntu okanye yiCawe. Inkqubo ye- imitshato yenkolo zidibene ne- ubuntu bemveli. Uyathanda ukugcina amasiko exesha elidlulileyo, kwaye unomdla othile kwinkolo. Into eqhelekileyo kukuba umphuphi ufuna ukuba umtshakazi anxibe ezimhlophe kwaye abe nesuti yomyeni. Iphupha lokuba nemvelaphi yalo ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kuba besingamakholwa ukusukela ebuntwaneni, kuba sinomdla wokutshata, nangona singekhe sifune ukuba nabantwana ixesha elide.
Iphupha lonxibelelwano lwaseburhulumenteni
Iphupha a Umtshato waseburhulumenteni kuthetha ukuba unayo inkqubela phambili yengqondo, ehambelana namaxesha akhoyo. Awuyi kuhoya inkolo, kuba yonke into oyifunayo kukuba neqabane lakho ukuze uqale ukudala ubomi obutsha. Olu hlobo lwamaphupha luhambelana nezona ngqondo zale mihla, ngakumbi ukuba umtshato ulula, ngaphandle kwezolonwabo.
Ukongeza kumaphupha aqhelekileyo esele sibonile, kunokubakho nezinye iiyantlukwano zokubaluleka, ezinje ngezi zilandelayo.
Uphupha umtshato ongapheli
Ukuba iphupha liyaphela ngaphambi kokuba ikhonkco ligqitywe, okanye ukuba umtshato urhoxisiwe ngaso nasiphi na esinye isizathu oko kuthetha oko Uxinzelelo ngento enokwenzeka emva komtshato. Izibini ezininzi zingena esixekweni xa besithi "ewe, ndiyakwenza." Eli phupha libuhlungu linokuba luphawu lokungazithembi ohlangabezana nako ngalo mzuzu, okanye uloyiko lokusilela kwinqanaba leemvakalelo.
Iphupha lengubo yomtshato
Ngaba uphuphe ngengubo yomtshato? Sithetha ngento ebalulekileyo kwikhonkco. Ukuba uphuphe kuphela ngale lokhwe, i-subconscious yakho yile ibonisa enye ongathanda ukuba nayo xa utshata. Ukuba umbala umhlophe, ulungile njengoko uhambelana nobunyulu. Unokufunda ngakumbi ukuba kuthetha ntoni phupha ngelokhwe yomtshato.
Utshatile kwaye iqabane lakho alithembekanga
Ngaba iqabane lakho elinemvakalelo alithembekanga kwiphupha? Ukuba uphupha utshatile kodwa iqabane lakho liyakuqhatha nomhlobo okanye umntu osebenza naye ke kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba kuthetha ntoni uphupha ukuba umyeni okanye umfazi wakho uyakuqhatha. Eyona nto ixhaphakileyo kukuba woyike loo nto ukungathembeki kuyenzeka kwaye unokuba nesizathu sokucinga ngale nto.
Ukuphupha ukuba ungumhlolo emva komtshato
Ityala lokugqibela esilicazululayo liphupha lokuba ngumhlolo emva komtshato. Yi umqondiso olungileyo, kuba itolikwa njengokuba ulithanda kakhulu iqabane lakho kangangokuba, ukuba uyalahleka, ubomi bakho buya kuphulukana nentsingiselo. Kodwa ukuba iphupha elibi liphinda lenze kwakhona, kuya kufuneka ukhuphe umhlobo, okanye ufune uncedo lobuchwephesha. Unokwazi ngakumbi ngaye intsingiselo yokuphupha nditshata
Ngaba iqabane lakho langaphambili liyavela emtshatweni?
Ukuba iqabane lakho labonisa ngelixa wawutshata, okanye ukuba wayetshatile, oko kuthetha ukuba uyamkhumbula. Usenokucinga ukuba wenze impazamo yokuphelisa ubudlelwane. Elona xesha lelona xesha lifanelekileyo lokumtsalela umnxeba ukuze athethe ngeemvakalelo zakho.
Ividiyo ngentsingiselo yokuphupha ngomtshato
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Ndiphuphe umyeni wam efuna ukutshata kumthetho wezoluntu njengoko besele senze. Kodwa ngeli xesha wabelana ngesidlo sangokuhlwa esikhulu. Undixelele ukuba kufuneka ndiye ndibonise amaphepha kwi-civil registry. Ndithe xa ndihamba bandala ngoba besele sitshatile. Bendisazi ukuba izokwenzeka lonto kodwa wandixelela ukuba ikhona into esileleyo umtshato wethu wangaphambili awuzange uqhubeke kakuhle. Uye wandicenga ukuba ndihambe. Bendi renta nje iroom yeparty ndavuka.
Ndiphuphe ndikwimibhiyozo endlini yam ukuba nditshate ngokwempucuko kwaye wandijonga ngombala opinki.
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