Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezinokubangela ukuba wenze njalo amaphupha ngesilivere. Ukuba uthanda ukuqokelela iingqekembe, amakhonkco okanye imixokelelwane, okanye ubonile imovie apho abanye banegazi lesilivere, kuya kufaneleka ukuba i-subconscious ikuthumele imifanekiso efanayo ngelixa ulele. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ezo ngcinga zasebusuku ziye zavela ngokuzenzekelayo. Kweli nqaku uza kwazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha isilivere Ivenkile.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngesilivere?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, isilivere luphawu olusondeleyo kwimali (funda ngakumbi malunga ukuphupha ngemali), ke, ukutolikwa kwephupha kuqoqosho okanye kubasebenzi. Xa unamatyala amaninzi kwaye ufuna imali engamanzi, xa kunzima kuwe ukuba uphile kwaye udinga imali kwiindleko zakho ezisisiseko. Ungaphupha ngayo. Kuthetha ukuba umnqweno wakho wokuhlawula oko ukutyalayo kwaye ulibale ngamanani abomvu. Kwenzeka into efanayo ukuba uphupha igolide, okanye phupha malunga neengqekembe kunye namatyala.
Endaweni yoko, abanye oochwephesha bengqondo bacacisa ukuba ukuphupha ngemali kutolikwa njenge ubuntu bentsholongwane. Uyayazi indlela yokuziqhelanisa neemeko ezintsha ezinyanzeliswa luluntu kuwe. Enye yeepropati zentsimbi kukungabi namandla kwayo. Ukuba inyibilikisiwe, iba lulwelo oluhambelana ngokupheleleyo. Ezi zimbini okwahluka rhoqo ngokwe-onirology, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba awuqondanga kakuhle ukuba lalithetha ntoni iphupha lakho.
Ingqondo nganye inenxalenye yesifundo ngokuhambelana nenqanaba lokuphila kwakhe, naxa uleleyo, amabali avela kumxholo owahlukileyo. Kukwabalulekile ukwazi ukuba isimo sakho sengqondo sasiyintoni ukucacisa ukutolika okwaneleyo. Umzekelo, oko akuthethi okufanayo ukuphupha itranki ezele ziingqekembe zemali kunye nezacholo zesilivere ekhayeni lakho kunokuphanga ibhanki ithathe impango ngaphandle kokwenza iinzame zomthetho. Ke ngoko, apha ngezantsi ndibonisa ezinye iindidi zamaphupha ukuze ufunde ukuziqonda.
Iphupha lemali ukuba unamabhongo
Ngaba unomntu onamabhongo? Nokuba uqhuba kakuhle ebomini, xa uthetha ngokwezezimali, ukuba unamabhongo okufumana imali engakumbi ngokwenza ukuthanda kwakho, ububele okanye ukunceda umhlobo, ngewuphuphe ngemali. Ibango ngokwakho lenza ukuba i-subconscious ikubonise amaphupha ahambelana nokukhathazeka kwakho. Ufuna ukuphucula kwaye ungaphumli de ube ukufezekisile. Yintsingiselo entle kakhulu.
Iphupha leengqekembe zesilivere kunye namatyathanga
Ukuba uphupha iingqekembe zesilivere okanye amatyathanga kuba ucinga ukuba ungcono kunelinye ilizwe, oko kumele icala elingalunganga lomlinganiswa wakho. Kulungile ukukhuphisana, kodwa ikratshi sisono esisisiseko esingabancedisi abo bakungqongileyo, okanye ngokwakho. Ukuzama ukuba yinkaba yehlabathi ukubonisa, kungekudala okanye kamva kuya kukwenza ukuba ube ngumthambeka.
Iphupha lemali emdaka
Kungcolile? Ubumdaka ufuzisela inguquko, ukungazinzi. Ukuba awonwabanga ngezenzo ezithile ongazingci ngazo, uyakuba namaphupha "amdaka". La maphupha amabi awapheli de ucele uxolo ngokunyanisekileyo.
Ukuphupha ngokulahlekelwa ngumsesane wesilivere
Ukuba ukhe wayibeka endaweni engeyiyo umsesane wesilivere owawunikwe liqabane lakho, Isacholo sesilivere esathengwa ngumama wakho okanye nayiphi na into exabisekileyo kwaye uphupha ngayo, oko kuthetha ukuba umxabise kakhulu umntu ikunikwe ngubani. Uya kuqhubeka uyikhangela de uyifumane, kuba usenokuba uyishiye kwindawo ebingalindelwanga. Ngolwazi oluthe kratya funda i- intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeeringi.
Iphupha lemali efihliweyo
Itolikwa njengaleyo ufihla iimfihlelo awufuni ukuphuma. Sonke sinexesha elidlulileyo esingathandanga ukulikhumbula, okanye senze into esiziva sinentloni ngayo kwaye asifuni kwaziwa. Kwakhona, ukuba ubandakanyeka kwiprojekthi entsha kwaye awuniki zinkcukacha kuye nabani na kuba ufuna ukuba yonke isilivere iphelele epokothweni, sesinye isizathu sokuba ungaphupha isilivere efihliweyo ngohlobo lobutyebi okanye iingqekembe.
Iphupha lesilivere yomgunyathi
Xa uhamba ngeengxaki zoqoqosho kodwa awufuni kuziva usizi, Abantu bathambekele ekwenzeni ngathi ngesilivere yomgunyathi, izinto zokulinganisa kunye neempahla (funda ngakumbi malunga phupha ngempahla). Intsimbi yomqala yesilivere yomgunyathi, ikhonkco lobucwebe elifana nomthetho wokuqala, imoto entsha engamasekeni,… zonke ezi ziimpawu zeengxaki zemali ofuna ukuthintela abantu ekubeni bazi ngazo. Akukho nto eyenzekayo ngokungahambi kakuhle kwemali, ngokuqinisekileyo kungekudala uza kuphuma uphumelele.
Ndingathanda ukwazi iinkcukacha zephupha lakho kunye nokutolikwa (psychoanalysis) olinike lona. Ngokudibeneyo sinokufikelela kwizigqibo ezitsha kwaye siyiqonde ngcono i-subconscious yethu. Shiya amava akho kwizimvo.
Ividiyo malunga nentsingiselo yokuphupha ngesilivere
Ukuba eli nqaku malunga Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha isilivere, ke ndicebisa ukuba ufunde ezinye ezinxulumene nazo kudidi lwe Intsingiselo yamaphupha aqala ngo-P.
