Zininzi izizathu ezinokukucaphukisa zibonise iimfazwe ngelixa ulele. Ukuba ukhe wabona naziphi na iimuvi zikaBruce Lee, okanye iifilimu zesenzo ezigcwele ziingxoxo kunye neemfazwe. Umabonwakude usasaza umxholo ngokukhaba kunye neembethi zemihla ngemihla. Ukuba ubukhe wanengxabano esikolweni okanye emsebenzini, unokuba namaphupha amabi angathandekiyo, okanye nokuba ubambe ingqumbo komnye umntu obuphikisana naye kakhulu mva nje. Kule nqaku ndicacisa kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha usilwa.
Kodwa kukuba kufuneka uthathe ingqalelo kwezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo ukuze ufumane ifayile ye intsingiselo yamaphupha, ezinje ngamava akho kwimihla yokugqibela okanye umxholo kunye nokuziphatha okubonisileyo ephupheni. Umzekelo, ukubukela umlo wasesitalatweni akuthethi into enye nokuxabana ekhaya neqabane lakho, okanye umzalwana. Yintoni egqithisile, kungangumlo phakathi kwezilwanyana ezinjengezinja, iikati, umqhagi okanye iinkunzi zeenkomo. Kuninzi ukutolika kwaye yile nto uza kuyifunda ngokulandelayo.
Iphupha malunga neengxabano zentsapho
Ngaba kunye nosapho lwakho? Inkqubo ye- iingxabano zosapho kunye nokulwa zizinto zemihla ngemihla. Ukuhlala kunye ekhaya akukho lula kwaye nantoni na inokususa imbambano. Kukujika kabani ukukhuhla? Ulicoca igumbi lakho? Ndifuna ukubeka umboniso wam TV endiwuthandayo! Ziingxaki ezincinci ukuba ukuba zihlala ekhaya, ungaphupha ngazo. Kananjalo ukuba kubekho ungquzulwano olunje ngezi amatyala emali kusapho phakathi kwabazali, abantakwenu, njl.
Ukuphupha ukulwa kwenja okanye kwekati
Ezi mfazwe zangaphantsi zinokuba neentsingiselo ezimbini. Ukuba, kwelinye icala, uthanda iikati nezinja ukuba zinamathele, i-subconscious yakho ikubonisa loo nto kwaye awunamphefumlo. Izilwanyana kufuneka zibaluleke ngakumbi kuwe. Kwelinye icala, ukuba awubathandi konke konke, itolikwa njengenye into ebomini bakho ayikuvumeli uphumle ngokuzolileyo. Ngaba uza kuthabatha into? Ngaba ukuhluthwa kusondela kukungahlawuli rhafu? Kuya kuba lunomdla kuwe ukufumana ulwazi olungaphezulu lwamaphupha ngezinja (Bona intsingiselo).
Ukuphupha ngengxabano yesibini
Xa uzibona uphikisana nesithandwa sakho, intombi, umfazi okanye umyeni wakho, oko kuthetha ukuba ukhe wanamava abuhlungu kuloo mntu Kwaye ngoku uphupha kakubi Nokuba ukhe walwa ngokwenene okanye unamathandabuzo malunga nendlela oyilandelayo kunye naye, kuya kuba nzima kuwe ukuba ulale ngoxolo. Ngamanye amaxesha kubakho igazi elibandakanyekayo, kwimeko apho kuya kufuneka wazi ngakumbi ngalo phupha igazi.
Ukuphupha ubethiwe
Ukhe wabethwa? Xa ufumana utshintsho olukhulu ebomini, ukuzithemba kwakho kunokuchaphazeleka Kwaye udiniwe ude uve ngathi ubethiwe. Oku kwenzeka ngakumbi kwabo banamathandabuzo amaninzi ezingqondweni zabo, abadla ngokuziva bengazithembanga kwaye bekhathazekile, kubantu abangenathemba. Ukongeza, eli phupha livela xa kusweleke ilungu losapho okanye umntu omthandayo. Kwaye, ewe, xa "ulwe" ngokwasemzimbeni wonzakala, unezivubeko, uqhekeko kunye nomsindo, isiphumo sayo sibububi obukhulu.
Iphupha lokulwa esitratweni
La maphupha ayenzeka kubantu abaye bafudukela kwiindawo ezinengxaki apho bakhoyo iingxoxo kunye neemfazwe zasesitalatweni, ukudubula kunye namanxeba okuhlatywa. Ukuba uhlala ezi ntlobo zemimandla kwaye ubona ukufa, unokuba namaphupha amabi aloo mfazwe. Imele indlela obuxabise ngayo ubomi bakho, awufuni ukubonakalisa into yobudenge kwaye unobuntu bencoko osombulula iingxaki zakhe ngokuthetha.
Ukuphupha ngokulwa kwabasetyhini
Kwelinye icala, ungaphupha ngokulwa phakathi kwabafazi: ukuba uyindoda, itolikwa loo nto uyindoda.
Ngoku lithuba lakho, apho usixelela ngamava akho kolu hlobo lwamaphupha kwizimvo. Xoxa malunga nendlela oziva ngayo, into oyicingileyo, yintoni intsingiselo oyicacisileyo, izizathu zokuba kutheni i-subconscious ikukhokelele ukuba ucinge ngezi meko zingathandekiyo. Ke sonke siya kufunda kunye.
Ividiyo malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha usilwa
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- Phupha ngeenkomo
- Iphupha lokuzikhupha
- Iphupha lokufa
- Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha abantwana bedlala?
- Iphupha lokulila
Ukuba eli nqaku malunga kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha usilwa uxabana, emva koko ndiyakumema ukuba ufunde enye amaphupha aqala ngonobumba P.
