Kuwo onke amaphupha esinawo kukho intsingiselo ebonakalayo kunye nokubhekisa kwiinyani okanye kumacandelo azingqongileyo. Kwicandelo lethu sinemiboniso yazo zonke ezo zinto amaphupha aqala ngonobumba D.
Ukuba uphuphe ngezinto okanye ngezenzo ngale leta kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba kunokubakho into ebalaseleyo, okanye inyani engathandekiyo okanye into ebandakanya umsitho oza kuvela kwaye awuqapheli. Ukwenza oku, naka ingqalelo kwintsingiselo yayo kwaye ugwebe ngeendlela zakho ezinokuthi zikhokelele kuzo.
Kukho amaxesha apho amaphupha abe ephupha kwaye aphuphe i-elf, i-fairy, i-waswolf, i-vampire ... ayikho into engaqhelekanga. Ngoku, into onokuthi ufune ukuyazi kukuba yonke into oku kunentsingiselo mhlawumbi ongazange uyicinge ngaphambili. Kwaye okwangoku, i-subconscious yakho izama ukukunceda nokuba awuyiva.
Ngoko ke, ngaba uyazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha i-elf? Kuthekani ukuba zilungile? Kuthekani ukuba zimbi? Siza kukuxelela yonke into kwangoko.
Amaphupha nawo ayindlela apho i-subconscious yethu izama ukucwangcisa iinkumbulo zayo. Kodwa ikwasilumkisa nangezinto ezithile ezenzekayo ezisingqongileyo okanye ezingayi kusichaphazela. Kule meko, ukuphupha ukuhlamba ilindle yinto esingayithandi kakhulu, kodwa ingenzeka. Kuthetha ukuthini xa oku kusenzeka? Ngaba yinto entle okanye embi?
Nangona isenzo ngokwaso singemnandanga kakhulu ukusibona okanye ukujoja, inyaniso kukuba, kuxhomekeke kwimeko ozifumana ukuyo, inokuba yinto entle okanye embi. Siyicacisa ngezantsi.
Kutshanje siye sabona inqaku esifunde kulo intsingiselo yokuphupha ngamazinyo; ngeli xesha siza kugxila kwintsingiselo ye- uphupha ukuba amazinyo akho ayawa, ethi, kuxhomekeke kwimeko yobomi bakho, kunye neenkcukacha zephupha, iindlela ezinokuthi zahluke. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale, kuya kufuneka uzame ukukhumbula zonke iinkcukacha zephupha lakho.
Amazinyo, ngokubanzi, inxulumene neenkxalabo, kunye nengxaki ethile okanye uloyiko olugcinwe kwi-subconscious yakho, kwaye oko kuyibonisa kuwe ebusuku. Ingangumqondiso wokuba ubungazange uye kugqirha wamazinyo ixesha elithile ukwenza ukulandelelana kwamazinyo kunye nokuqaqamba kwamazinyo, ukuba kufuneka ususe izinyo, uzalise, okanye i-x-ray ukwazi ukuba unayo ukufumana amazinyo okanye amazinyo. Ezi meko zinokuguqula iphupha lakho libe liphupha elibi.
Ukuba uyabuza Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngemali, kweli nqaku ndibhengeza zonke iinkcukacha eziza kuvula amehlo akho. Imali yeyona nto iphambili ehambisa olu luntu. Uqoqosho luyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yempumelelo, nangona iyahlula phakathi kwezityebi kunye nehlwempu.
Ngapha koko, yenye yezona zinto ziphambili ezithandwa ngabantu, yiyo loo nto amaxesha amaninzi siphupha ngayo. Iintsingiselo zahlukahlukene, njengoko siza kubona kamva.
Ukuba uyabuza lithetha ukuthini iphupha elinamazinyo Apha ngezantsi uya kuzazi zonke iinkcukacha. Amazinyo lelinye lawona malungu axabisekileyo emizimbeni yethu; Ngabo siyatya, siyophula ukutya, siyaluma kwaye siyakuhlafuna ukuze isisu sikwazi ukugaya. Kodwa zikwaluphawu lokuzithemba kwethu, kuba xa sincuma zonke ziyakhazimla ukuba sinazo ezimhlophe.
Ngamanye amaxesha siphupha ukuba siyawa, enyanisweni lelinye lawona maphupha aqhelekileyo. Kodwa ukutolika kuyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kumntu ngamnye. Ngokwesiqhelo, xa uphupha ukuba amazinyo akho ayawa oko kubonisa ukuba uyoyika ukusilela, ukuzenza isidenge phambi kwabanye, nto leyo enokuba sisibetho kwimood yakho. Kuthetha ukuba awunguye umntu ozithembileyo, kwaye awunantlantsi yokufezekisa injongo kwaye ke uziva ngathi ungangahambi kakuhle
Namhlanje ndiza kukubonisa intsingiselo ye- phupha udutyulwe. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ulipolisa, okanye uphathe isixhobo kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla ukuze ube nephupha elibi elibandakanya ukudubula. Liliphupha, nangona lingaqhelekanga kakhulu, linomdla kakhulu. Kuba zininzi iintsingiselo kunye nesimboli eya kuthi ivelise kwakhona. Ngaphambi kokuqala, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba ukutolikwa kwephupha kuya kuxhomekeka kwimeko apho ibali lenzeka khona, ukongeza kubuntu bakho nakwindlela olimitha ngayo ilizwe onalo.
Umzekelo, ayizukuphinda ifane ukuba nephupha apho amandla emikhosi ekuleqa kwaye uphethe umpu esandleni sakho emva kokuba wenze isenzo sokuphanga, kunokuba umntu ukudubula ngayo, ukuba uyayifumana, okanye ukuba uphupha nje unayo ekhaya. Siza kuhlalutya ngokweenkcukacha ezinye zeemeko ezinokwenzeka.
Iphupha elibi elinokwenzeka nanini na ebomini bethu phupha ngomtyholi okanye iidemon. UMtyholi unamagama amaninzi, inokuba nguSathana, uSathana, uBhelezebhule, uLilith ... Nokuba linjani igama elinalo, inyani kukuba iphupha alithandeki, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba umntu ophuphayo avuke ebila kamnandi kwaye ukubetha komdyarho. Itolikwa njani le meko?
Kule nqaku sixoxa kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha usathana siza kufunda ezona meko zinokwenzeka. Ukuba kweli nqanaba lobomi bakho ufumanisa ukuba awuchazwanga, ukuba uloyiko kunye noloyiko lukuhlasela xa ugqiba ubudlelwane, okanye ungazi ukuba ungasithatha njani isigqibo, kunokwenzeka ukuba amava amabi abuyele ezingqondweni zethu kwaye asenze sizive singakhululekanga. Oku kwaziwa ngokuvakaliswa kwe Iidemon zibaliwe. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uzithengise ngento ethile, usenokuphulukana neenjongo zakho zento okholelwa kuyo kwaye ekugqibeleni yayiyimpazamo. Ukufunda intsingiselo, kuya kufuneka ufunde umxholo oboniswe yi-subconscious yakho: kwaye ayizukuthetha okufanayo ukufumana umtyholi ekwimo yomfazi, ukuba usecaleni koThixo, ukuba Lawula ukumbulala, ukuba unako kuye kwaye kuyakubamba. Ezi zezinye zeentsingiselo ezinokwenzeka.
Zininzi izizathu ezinokukucaphukisa zibonise iimfazwe ngelixa ulele. Ukuba ukhe wabona naziphi na iimuvi zikaBruce Lee, okanye iifilimu zesenzo ezigcwele ziingxoxo kunye neemfazwe. Umabonwakude usasaza umxholo ngokukhaba kunye neembethi zemihla ngemihla. Ukuba ubukhe wanengxabano esikolweni okanye emsebenzini, unokuba namaphupha amabi angathandekiyo, okanye nokuba ubambe ingqumbo komnye umntu obuphikisana naye kakhulu mva nje. Kule nqaku ndicacisa kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha usilwa.
Kodwa kukuba kufuneka uthathe ingqalelo kwezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo ukuze ufumane ifayile ye intsingiselo yamaphupha, ezinje ngamava akho kwimihla yokugqibela okanye umxholo kunye nokuziphatha okubonisileyo ephupheni. Umzekelo, ukubukela umlo wasesitalatweni akuthethi into enye nokuxabana ekhaya neqabane lakho, okanye umzalwana. Yintoni egqithisile, kungangumlo phakathi kwezilwanyana ezinjengezinja, iikati, umqhagi okanye iinkunzi zeenkomo. Kuninzi ukutolika kwaye yile nto uza kuyifunda ngokulandelayo.
Abaninzi bayakholelwa kuloo nto phupha uhamba ze ibonisa inkxalabo yesini. Ngokwenyani, intsingiselo yephupha lobunqunu inxulumene nobuntu bethu ngokubanzi. Ukufumana ukutolikwa okuthe ngqo kuya kufuneka uyazi iinkcukacha zephupha kunye neemvakalelo zakho kulo. Makhe ndikucacisele.
Umzekelo, ayifani ukuba xa uphupha ubunqunu uneentloni okanye uyoyika, okuthetha ukuba ungalawuleka kwaye uvumele abanye bakuphembelele. Kwakhona, eli phupha lenzeka kubantu abazama ukufezekisa yonke into, ithini ngabo loo nto azikhuselekanga kuba abaze bawuxabise ngokwaneleyo umsebenzi wabo kwaye i-ego yabo iyahlupheka
Kuthetha ntoni ukuphupha ihlengethwa? Kule nqaku ndityhila zonke iinkcukacha. Ukuba amahlengethwa avela ephupheni lakho, aqhelekile ukutolika ngokuqinisekileyo. Banxulunyaniswa novuyo, ithemba, ukuthanda ukuhlala. Esi sesona silwanyana sithandwayo sasemanzini nomntu, badlala naye, bamnike ubuhlobo babo. Nabani na ongadlala nabo, adade emanzini, abafundise ukuba babulise kwaye abavuze ngokutya.
Ukutolikwa kwephupha kwehlengethwa kuyahluka kakhulu ukusuka komnye umxholo ukuya komnye. Ayithethi okufanayo ukuba uyadada elwandle yedwa okanye nezinye izilwanyana ezifana neminenga kunye nookrebe. Banokuphila okanye bafe, abantu abadala okanye iintsana, ezipinki okanye eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.
Iphupha lokufumana imali Elinye lamaphupha umntu wonke abenalo ubuncinci kube kanye ebomini babo. Musa ukucinga ukude ekubeni ungumntu ongathembekanga okanye obawayo ukuba unalo elo phupha, kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Wonke umntu ngandlela thile ukhangela imali nokuba aphile imihla ngemihla okanye abe nezinto ezithile zobunewunewu. Ukuba kweli nqaku awuyifumani intsingiselo obuyikhangela, mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka ufunde ngayo ukuphupha ngemali, nokuba iyimali ebonakalayo. Ngokwenene eli liphupha ekungekho mntu unokufuna ukuvuka kulo. Kwaye siphila kwihlabathi elikhokelwa yimali kuphela.
Siyifuna kakhulu imihla ngemihla kangangokuba akunakwenzeka ukuba siyilibale ukuba ikho. Ke, iphupha lokufumana imali Yinto enokutolikwa ngeendlela ezininzi, ke kulunge kakhulu ukuhlalutya imeko ngemeko. Ngaba uyazi ukuba, kuxhomekeke kwindlela owenza ngayo ephupheni, ukuba uhlangabezana nobunzima bezezimali okanye akunjalo, kunye nendlela yakho yokucinga ngehlabathi, ukutolikwa kokugqibela kunokwahluka kakhulu?