Ukuba ufuna ukwazi nokwazi zonke iifayile ze- Iintsingiselo zamaphupha kunye nezinja, ungayeki ukufunda eli nqaku linomdla. Abantu abaninzi bayayikhetha inja njengeqabane elithembekileyo, sisilwanyana esikhoyo ebomini bethu, ukuba sinenja esihamba nayo, okanye sazi umntu owenzayo, ukuphupha ngaye kuqheleke kakhulu kunokuba sicinga. Nangona kunjalo, kwaye nangona uninzi lweentsingiselo zilungile, amanye amaphupha ngezi zilwanyana ezithandekayo ziyaphazamisa.
Ngeendlela ezininzi zokucinga kunye nezikhundla, ukuphupha inja kunokuba neentsingiselo ezininzi kuxhomekeke kwindlela esidibana ngayo nayo, nokuba iyayiphulula, iyabaleka okanye idlala nayo. Kubalulekile ukuba Ubukho bezilwanyana ezininzi kunye nenja, yiyo loo nto siza kulazi ulwazi lwakho lwamaphupha.
Yintoni esinokutolika ngayo emaphupheni kunye nezinja?
Ngokubanzi, amaphupha ethu nezinja aqinisekile kwaye ukusuka apho sihlala sifumana intsingiselo elungileyo kwaye sivuka sineemvakalelo ezilungileyo, kodwa kufuneka sithathele ingqalelo iimeko, amaxesha kunye nokuziphatha okwenziwa yinja nathi.
Ngaba ubusiphulula isilwanyana?
Ukuba uyiphulula ngobunono inja oko kuthetha ukuba unengqondo ecacileyo yeengcinga, loo mpumelelo ikho kubomi bakho bexesha elizayo njengoko injalo Ngokuqhelekileyo ezandleni zakhoUkuphulula inja kuthetha ukuba uziva uphelele kwaye ufikelele kwiinjongo zakho, oku akunampembelelo ukuba unamabhongo. Ukuba uyintoni Ukujonga ngendlela oyiphatha ngayo inja kufanekisela ubuhlobo bakho, ubuhlobo bakho nabantu, unobuhlobo kakhulu kwaye xa kufika isiphelo abantu abaninzi baya kukukhumbula.
Inja yayikhonkotha?
Ngcamango izinja ziyalila, zikhonkotha, okanye zibhomboloza Kude kude ngenxa yokuba isenzo okanye imvakalelo sele izokuvela ongayithandiyo kwaye iya kubangela iintlungu kuwe, oku kungenxa yokuziphatha okungalunganga kwicala lakho, cinga ukuba unento ongayitshintsha uyenze okanye isiphumo sayo ayithandi nto kwaphela. Nje ukuba ingxabano isonjululwe, eli phupha liyakunyamalala.
Uke wazibona izinja ezifileyo?
Isilwanyana esifileyo asikaze sibe lilishwa elilungileyo kwaye ukuba siyinja imbonakalo yaso iseyinto embi, oko kuthetha ukuba utshintsho kwisithuba esifutshane sexesha, kuya kufuneka uhlalutye ukuba kungenxa yento oyenzileyo okanye into ocinga ukuba abanye bangayenza wena.
Kufuneka uthathe amanyathelo ngokukhawuleza, kuba uyabona izinja ezifileyo kukukhawuleza okusuka kwingqondo yakho ukutshintsha into.
Ukuphupha unyathela iitopu zenja
Ukuphupha unyathela kumngxunya wenja kubonisa kakuhle kwaye kufanekisela ithamsanqa. Into eza kuhamba kakuhle ebomini bakho kokubini kusapho, uthando, impilo okanye inqanaba lemali. Ukuba unemibuzo emininzi malunga nezi zihloko, sicebisa ukuba ufunde Inqaku lethu elipheleleyo malunga nokuphupha malunga nelindle.
Makhe sazi iisimboli kunye nokutolikwa okunokwenzeka ngokuphupha ngezinja
Kungenzeka ukuba uphuphe ezinye zeentsingiselo esele sikubonise zona, kodwa ukuba amaphupha akho ahlukile kwinto eqhelekileyo apha sikushiya nezinye iintsingiselo zawo.
Ngaba baswelekile okanye bayaphila?. Njengaso nasiphi na isilwanyana, ukubona izinja ezifileyo akuhlali kakuhle.
Wasendle, ukhaliphile okanye unomsindo. Ukujonga ngolu hlobo lwenja akufani nento embi, ubonisa amandla akho kuphela, zihlala zenzeka xa imeko yoxinzelelo olukhulu ifuna izakhono zakho zokukhusela, ungoyiki, uya kuphuma unomsindo.
Ukuba unomsindo, jonga usapho kunye nabahlobo bakho, usenokuba ukhubekise umntu.
Iswiti izinjana okanye izinja ezinkulu?. Njengobubele benjana, ukubona ngolu hlobo esi silwanyana kufuzisela ukuba uyathandana nomntu osondeleyo, nangona kunjalo ukuba inja sele ikhulile, kuya kufuneka ujonge intsingiselo kwezinye iisimboli
Inja inobundlobongela kwaye isenzakalisa. Sijongene nemeko yesilumkiso kuba kukho umntu osondeleyo kuthi osibangela iintlungu.
Injana ezinemibala Uninzi lwemibala ayinaso isimboli ngaphandle kokuba imhlophe, oko kuthetha ukuba ingqondo nomphefumlo wakho zicocekile.
Ukugula okanye ukufaLe ayisiyonto intle, zikhathalele kunye nabantu abakungqongileyo, inokubonisa ukuphulukana nesihlobo okanye ukuwohloka kobuhlobo.
Udibana nezinye izilwanyana kuye ngeenxa zonke. Ukuba siyibona ngamehlo inja kwaye siyikati, siziva sibuthathaka ebusweni bemeko egqithileyo kuthi, ukuba ngokuchaseneyo siyinja, sibonisa amandla.
Ngaba uhlasela ezinye izinja? Ukuba ubona imilo yenja kungenxa yokuba kwindawo yakho yosapho kukho imilo okanye iingxoxo ezichaphazela kakubi, zama ukuyisombulula ngokukhawuleza ukuze ukwazi ukuphumla.
Uyagula. Ukuba inja iyagula kungenxa yokuba kukho imeko ethile ekutyhafisayo, kufuneka uthathe amanyathelo ngokukhawuleza usombulule yonke into ekukhathazayo.
Njengesiphelo siyifumana loo nto izilwanyana ze-canid zibeka ingxaki xa zikuluma, zikukhonkotha okanye zikuhlasela nje. Endaweni yoko, njana ziimpawu zothando, Kunye ne caresses.
Siyakumema ukuba ufunde:
Ukuba ukonwabele ukufunda ngentsingiselo yokuphupha ngezinja, qiniseka ukutyelela amaphupha ethu nezilwanyana.
