Wanna uyazi Kwakuthetha ntoni ukuphupha ukubhabha kunye nokuhamba? Ukuba uhlala uphupha ukuba uhamba ngenqwelomoya, ihlala ihamba kakuhle. Iphupha lidla ngokwenzeka kubantu abangathanda ukuba namandla amakhulu. Kwaye into yokugqibela esiyifunayo kukuvuka, kuba siyazi ukuba ekuphela kwendlela yokubhabha ngale ndlela ngamaphupha.
Isinika imvakalelo enkulu yenkululeko, i-adrenaline kunye nokuzimela ukuze sikwazi ukuhamba naphina apho sifuna khona. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba kukho ukutolika okwahlukileyo ngokusekwe kumxholo wephupha kunye nobuntu bakho. Kubantu abaninzi, ukuhamba ngenqwelomoya kunentsingiselo Libertad, ukuze bakwazi ukushiya zonke iingxaki ngasemva, ngelixa abanye beziva Vertigo.
Kananjalo ayizukufana nokuphupha kwakho xa uhamba ngenqwelomoya, ukuba uyenza ngaphezulu kolwandle, ukuba usekhaya, okanye ukuba uqala ukunyuka uwa ngesiquphe. Kananjalo ayizukuthetha into efanayo ukuba uyahambisa, okanye ukuba omnye umntu wenza njalo. Nazi ezinye zeentsingiselo ezinokwenzeka:
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ubhabha?
Los amaphupha malunga nokubhabha ahluka kakhulu ngokuchaza umbhali ofunda ityala. Ekugqibeleni iya kuba kuphela ngumphuphi onokwazi ngokuthe ngqo ukutolikwa kwephupha, kuba kuyakudibana nobuntu bakhe kunye neemvakalelo zakhe xa evuka, kunye nemeko eboniswe yingqondo.
Akukho mntu ungcono kunathi onokuhlalutya zonke iinkcukacha kwaye acace malunga nenqanaba lobomi esikulo. Kodwa ngolwazi olukule nqaku uza kubalula:
Ukuba uphupha ubhabha ngaphezulu kwamanzi (ulwandle, amachibi okanye iilwandle) ...
Ukuba uphakama ngaphezulu kwamanzi aphezulu kakhulu, oko kuthetha ukuba, nangona unamaxhala, uyakwazi ukuphakama ngaphezulu kwawo, kwaye inyani yokubhabha ikunceda unqamle kuyo yonke into.
Uya kuba nakho ukulahla iingxaki zabo kangangexesha elithile. Ihlala inxulunyaniswa nenyaniso yokuba uya kuba namandla aneleyo okuqhubeka uncume nangona kunzima, kwaye ngoku uyakwazi ukuphefumla ngokulula.
Umvuzo wakho unokunyuka, woyisile iingxaki emtshatweni wakho (ungafunda intsingiselo yokuphupha ngomtshato), ukuba uza kufumana umsebenzi ... Ngokubanzi, ngumqondiso oqinisekileyo.
Ukuba uphupha ubhabha ngexesha elidlulileyo. Le yenye yezona ndlela ziqhelekileyo. Ngexesha lobuntwana bethu siye sabona uninzi lwabalinganiswa bekhathuni ababekwazi ukubhabha okanye ukuhambisa, njengoko bekunjalo ngebhola ekhatywayo.
Olu hambo "lokuhamba kwexesha" olunomdla luhambelana nostalgia, kunye neenkumbulo ezimnandi zokuba sasingabantwana abasingenisileyo ebusuku. Zinxulumene novuyo noxolo.
Kungayinto ebuhlungu ukuvuka kwaye uqonde ukuba ibiliphupha nje.
Ukuba uphupha ubhabha kwinqwelomoya. Abanye abaphuphayo bayoyika ukukhwela inqwelo-moya; Ukuba uza kubamba inqwelo-moya kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezizayo, kwaye uyoyika, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba neli phupha.
Akufanele ube nayo xa inqwelomoya, inqwelomoya okanye ingcuka yaphazamiseka ephupheni. Kwaye iya kuba luphawu lokuba woyika ukuhamba ngenqwelomoya, hayi oko kuzakwenzeka.
Ukuba ingxaki iya isiba nzima, mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka ufumane uncedo kwiingcali ukuze uncede woyise uloyiko lokuhamba ngenqwelo-moya.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba uyakwazi ukubhabhela phezulu esibhakabhakeni , ukuze ukwazi ukufikelela kuso ngesandla sakho, oko kuthetha ukuba unezakhono zobunkokeli ezintle.
Uyakwazi ukulawula amaqela, uququzelele yonke into kwaye uphumelele kuyo nayiphi na iprojekthi oyiqalileyo. Asibhekiseli kuphela kwindawo yokusebenzela, kodwa unakho nokulungelelanisa imisebenzi yasekhaya, ukuzonwabisa kunye nabahlobo kunye nabantu obaziyo, okanye nayiphi na enye indawo ebomini bakho.
Olu hlobo lwamaphupha lunxulunyaniswa nabantu abanomdla omkhulu ebomini babo, abazibekela iinjongo ezinamabhongo nabenza izinto ezingenakwenzeka ukuba bazifezekise.
Inqaku lokufikelela kweliphezulu esibhakabhakeni lithetha umvuzo wokufikelela usukelo. Thatha ithuba lamava eli phupha, kuba kunqabile kakhulu ukuba liziphinde.
Ukuba uphupha ubona amagqwirha ephaphazela kwimitshayelo. Ukuthatha umtshayelo kunye nokuhamba nawo kuqhelekile xa sibona imovie okanye uthotho apho igqwirha okanye iwizard yenze khona (umzekelo, oku kwenzeka eHarry Potter)
Kwiphupha, ibonisa ukuba sinako ukulawula yonke into, ukulawula ixesha kwaye singaze sifike emva kwexesha.
Zininzi izinto ezinomahluko ngokwentsingiselo ngokuxhomekeke kwinto yomlingo oyibonayo (umzekelo, kukho umahluko apho ungaphupha khona ngeengelosi)
Unokubona neentaka zibhabha, ezinje nge iinkozi, oonomeva, izikhova, iinyosi ... Kwaye ukutolikwa kuya kuxhomekeka kwisilwanyana ngasinye.
Ayizukuphinda ifane ukubona umhlambi wamaxhalanga ebhabha, ukubona ukhozi olukhulu lubhabha esibhakabhakeni.
Ukufumanisa ukuba nganye kwezi ntaka ithetha ntoni, kuya kufuneka ubhekise kwinqaku apho sixoxa ngephupha ngalinye.
Ukuba uphuphe ukuba iyabhabha ukuba uwe kabukhali Ukuba uzenza ubhabhe kwaye uwe ungakhange uqhubeke, oko kuthetha ukuba, nangona uzama ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho, kukho into ekusindisayo, uloyiko olukuthintela ukuba ungaqhubeki nokunyuka.
Unokoyika ukusilela, kodwa kuphezulu kakhulu kangangokuba kunokujika kube liphupha elibi. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uwe ebhedini yakho.
Kuya kufuneka ufunde:
- Intsingiselo yokuphupha ngoonomeva ababhabha
- Intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeenyosi
- Amaphupha ngokubhabha kwamagqwirha
- Intsingiselo yokuphupha malunga nokuwa kweenqwelomoya
Siyazi ukuba eli nqaku kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ubhabha, Kuya kufuneka ujonge eyabo eqala nge unobumba V.
