Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ungahlali kwindlu enye kwakhona ukususela ebuntwaneni. Amaxesha amaninzi eli phupha kwaye livela kukuhlala kwinqanaba le-nostalgic. Njengomntwana wawonwabile kwaye ngoku ungathanda ukubuyela kwixa elidlulileyo. Ziinkumbulo ezintle zobuntwana bakho. Kodwa kukho amawaka ezizathu zokuba kutheni ikhaya linokuza engqondweni xa ulele. Kule nqaku ndicacisa Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ikhaya.
Kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba zininzi izinto ezahlukeneyo zamaphupha eziza kuguqula ukutolikwa kokugqibela. Izinto ezinjengefuthe lomxholo; Ngaba uphuphe indlu eneziporho, intsha okanye indala? Ngaba yayilahliwe okanye yahlaselwa? Mhlawumbi zimdaka kwaye zikhukula? Zininzi izinto ezinokwenzeka. Kwakhona, kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo amaxesha xa ugcadisa, kuba ixesha elingenakukukhumbuza linokukukhumbuza ngobuntwana, izihlobo zakho ezindala ezibaleka kuwo onke amagumbi. Ke ngoko, siza kubona onke amathuba, ukuze ufumane intsingiselo ngokokubonisa kwe-subconscious kwiiyure zakho zokulala.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha indlu?
Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana abanalo eli phupha, kuyinto eqhelekileyo kubantu abadala ngaphandle kokuba babonile Iimuvi malunga nezindlu ezindala, ishiywe kwaye imdaka, okanye kuthotho lwefantasy, apho abenzi bemilo bengabantu abathakathiweyo kwikhaya elidala. Kananjalo akufuneki ukuba ibe yeyakho ukusuka ebuntwaneni bakho, mhlawumbi uyaphila amaxesha akho okuhlala eyunivesithi, lowo ufudukele kuwo xa wawusiya e-Erasmus, okanye apho wawuhlala khona neqabane lakho lokuqala.
Akufuneki nokuba yaziwe, kuba inokuba ibonisa iimeko zakho zangoku. Makhe ndizicacise ngale mizekelo ilandelayo.
Konke ukutolikwa kwamaphupha ezindlu kunye neempawu zazo
Iphupha lendlu eyakhiwayo. Kutolikwa ukuba untywiliselwe kwiprojekthi entsha, yobuqu, yobungcali okanye yosapho.
I-subconscious iya kukubonisa imifanekiso ukuba uyakha ngenene na ikhaya elitsha, kodwa ngexesha lenkqubo yokudala ishishini, ngexesha lokukhulelwa (ubomi obutsha buza emhlabeni, "busakhiwa", funda ngakumbi ngalo ukukhulelwa) okanye sele uqalile ubudlelwane kwaye niyazana.
Ngaba kuyazala ngamanzi? Izikhukula ziveliswa ephupheni lakho sisihlo esingalindelekanga. Ukuqonda ngakumbi intsingiselo, funda eli nqaku: phupha ngomkhukula.
Ngaba ngumthi okanye uyabutofotofo? Ubungakanani kunye nomgangatho wendlu ophupha ngayo ibonisa inqanaba lokuzibanga okunyanzelisa ngokwakho, amabhongo ebomini bakho.
Ikhaya elikhulu nelitofotofo limele ezona njongo zinzima, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba zifezekiswe, ngelixa ilizwe elincinci nelomthi, libonisa ubulula, ukuthobeka kunye nokuhambelana.
Ukuphupha ngendlu eyonakeleyo, echithiweyo okanye emdaka kakhulu. Ukuba ngexesha lokuphuhliswa kwebali lasebusuku ufumana izindlu ezingenanto, zitshisiwe, zingenophahla, zimbi kakhulu ... ngamafutshane, ziwile kwaye zingamabhodlo, oko kuthetha ukuba uyoyika ukusilela kwiminqweno yakho.
Makhe ndikuxelele into ibenye: kobu bomi ayisiyiyo yonke into ebhedini yeeroses, kuya kufuneka usokole ukuze uphumelele kodwa ukuphela kohambo kufanelekile.
Sukucinga ukuba uya kuwa okanye wonakalise kutshintsho lokuqala. Yomelela ukhuphe iingxaki zakho.
Ngaba kuselunxwemeni okanye ebaleni? Inxulunyaniswa nezinto ozithandayo zeholide. Ungathanda ukuchitha phi iholide elandelayo?
Wawunjani umbala? Imibala, kwihlabathi lamaphupha, kukungaphandle kobuntu bakho. Ukuphupha indlu emhlophe kuthetha ukuba unemfesane, unesisa, unobubele kwaye wonwabile.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba bomvu ngokupheleleyo okanye ngumlilo, oko kuthetha ukuba ngaphakathi ufihla iimfihlo ezibangela ukuba uzisole.
Zinokubakho iimeko ezininzi malunga namaphupha anekhaya, izindlu zomnye umntu, njl. Yeyiphi eyeyakho? Ngaba unesibindi sokukuxela kwizimvo?
Singathanda ukulazi ibali lakho kunye nephupha onalo olinike lona kuba liza kunceda bonke abafundi.
Ezihlobene:
- Iphupha ngabantwana
- Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngemali ifunyenwe okanye ingcwatyiwe?
- Iphupha lezinyuko
- I-Onirology yokuhamba ngebhasi, uloliwe okanye isikhephe
- Amahobe endlwini yakho
Ukuba eli nqaku malunga Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ikhaya, ke ndicebisa ukuba ufunde ezinye ezinxulumene nazo kudidi lwe amaphupha aqala ngo-C.
Inyaniso kukuba andiyifumananga intsingiselo yento endiyiphuphileyo kodwa yonke into ibipholile 🙂
Molo, busuku obuhle, ndiphuphe ndingena kwiparadesi ndabona endaweni kaYesu emnqamlezweni ndibona umfazi oneentyatyambo entlokweni yakhe ... emnqamlezweni ... bekundothusa kakhulu ... yenza lula iphupha kuba inde kwaye ndiyikhumbula kakuhle
Molweni molweni ekuseni, ndiphuphe ndibona indlu yam endala ingenophahla bayithathile, i-facade yenziwe ngomthi kwaye ibukeka indala bendisoyika kodwa xa ndingena ngaphakathi kuyo yonke into iyafana kodwa ibingeyondlu apho ndihlala khona ngoku, ephupheni wandixelela ukuba uphahla lwalususwe ukuze lilungiswe.
Ithetha ntoni le nto?
Mholweni!!! Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukusoloko uphupha indlu enye. Bendi phupha ngendlu enye iminyaka. Njalo ucango oluphambili lokungena luyinto enzima ukungena. Ukuqala kwam ukuyiphupha, ndingene ngomngxuma ophahleni kwaye ndiyiphuphe rhoqo kwaye ngoku ndiyiphupha kancinci kwaye ndingena ngomnyango omncinci kakhulu (umxinwa kwaye umfutshane) kunzima ukungena. Ngaphakathi kwiminyango kuqhelekile
Indlu imhlophe. Inenqwaba enkulu enemithi emihle. Kudala ndiphupha malunga
Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ntoni
Khange ndiyifumane intsingiselo yephupha lam lokuba andifuni kuhlala endlwini yam kodwa umxholo
Indlu yam, ephupheni kodwa enyanisweni andizange ndihlale kuloo ndlu, iyatshatyalaliswa. Ndenza iiprojekthi njengokuyilungisa, ndivuka ndingenanto. Izalamane eziye zasweleka. Intombi yam encinci, namhlanje umdala.
Molweni, ndiphuphe indlu engaziwayo eyenziwe ngomthi enomngxunya kwaye niyabona ukuba ibinoonomeva kunye nobusi ...