Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amahobe?

I nyaniso phupha ngamahobe Inokudityaniswa neentsingiselo ezininzi, kwaye enye yezona zixhaphakileyo zezi zinxulumene neenkxalabo ezikungcungcuthekisa ngalo mzuzu. Amaphupha apho iintaka zivela khona ahambelana namabonakaliso aqinisekileyo, njengendlela yokumela inkululeko yomntu ngamnye. Banikwa ubulumko nobuqili bentaka. Ngokwesiqhelo liphupha elihle, kuba Ihobe linxulumene noxolo. 

Iingcali ziyavuma ukuba luphawu olubonisa ukuba uzolile ngaphakathi, nangona kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuba ziintaka ezi zinezifo ezininzi ezinxulumene noko. Ke ngoko, ngokusekwe kudidi lwephupha, kunye neemeko zakho zobuqu, kuya kufuneka kwenziwe enye okanye enye inkcazo. Amaphupha ngeentaka ayanyaniswa notoliko oluqinisekileyo njengenkululeko, ngenxa yokukwazi ukubhabha, okanye ubuqhetseba, ngenxa yamehlo okhozi. Ngale ndlela, phupha ngamahobe Ineentsingiselo ezininzi, uninzi lwazo zinxulumene neenkxalabo zomzuzu okanye iimpawu zobuntu bakho.

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amahobe?

Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba i-subconscious ikubonisa amahobe, ibhodi kakuhle. Ngokwesiqhelo kuthetha ukuba useluxolweni, ukuba ukwazile ukususa uxinzelelo lwemihla yakho kwaye ufumane ibhalansi kunye nokusingqongileyo. Nangona kunjalo, oku kukutolika okuqhelekileyo, kuba ayizukufana ukubona ihobe eliphaphayo ephupheni, kunokubona olunye uhlaselo lwentaka kwaye uligqibe. Ityala lokuqala lilungile, ngelixa elesibini libhekisa kwinto yokuba sineengxaki ezisithintela ukuba singalali ebusuku.

Oku kuthetha ukuba intsingiselo yephupha lakho kufuneka yenziwe ngokuzithoba. Kule migca ilandelayo siza kukunceda uliqonde ngcono iphupha lakho, ufunde ngokufuziselwa kwamahobe ngokomxholo nakwimeko yakho yobuqu:. iingxaki.

Ukutolikwa okuqhelekileyo kokuphupha ngamahobe

Ukuba uphupha iinjuba eziphetheyo. Oku kuya kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka uthumele umyalezo obaluleke kakhulu emntwini, kodwa khange bakwazi ukwenza oko okwangoku.

Oku kunxulunyaniswa nento yokuba kumaxesha amandulo amahobe ayesetyenziswa ukuthumela imiyalezo kumgama omde. Isenokuba lixesha lokuveza indlela oziva ngayo ngomnye umntu.

Ihobe belimhlophe na? Kule meko, inxulumene nethemba, kunye nokufezekisa oko sikufunayo, kunye nomgangatho weminqweno.

Eli phupha lihambelana nethemba, kunye nomnqweno wokuqala iprojekthi entsha enempumelelo. Ukuba unengqondo, kuya kufuneka unamathele kolo luvo kuba luya kuza luncedo kuwe.

Ngaba amahobe ayebhabha? Eli phupha lihambelana nokuzimela, ukwanela kunye nenkululeko.

Eyona nto iqhelekileyo kukuba uzifumanisa ukwinqanaba lobomi bakho apho unokwenza khona into oyifunayo, ngaphandle kokuchazela nabani na into oyenzayo okanye uyeke ukuyenza.

Unokwazi ngakumbi ngeli phupha ukuba uyafunda kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ubhabha.

Ngoku inyani yokuphupha amahobe inokuba neentsingiselo ezimbi.

Umzekelo, ukuba uphuphe utshate ihobe elingwevu, okanye ukuba bebeswelekile, luphawu lokuba uya kwenza into engenakwenzeka ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho, nokuba zithini iindleko, kwaye awusoloko ukwazi ukuqaphela.

Utyhola iqabane lakho okanye isangqa sabahlobo bakho ngezinto ongazifumaniyo. Eli phupha liqheleke kakhulu kubantu abangenathemba.

Ihobe elililayo inxulumene nemvakalelo esikhuthaza ukuba sitsalane naloo mntu usitsala kangaka, kodwa ikwabonisa ulumkiso.

Amaphupha anxulumene namahobe anokuvela emaphupheni akhe nawuphina umntu, nokuba yindoda, umfazi, umntu omdala okanye umntwanas.

Ngaphandle kwezinto ezimbini zokugqibela ezichaziweyo, inyani kukuba zihlala zihambelana nomqondiso olungileyo. Ngokwesiqhelo liphupha elibonisa ukuba asinaxhala, kwaye umgangatho wethu wobomi ulungile kwaye kufuneka silonwabele eli xesha.

Ewe Eli nqaku limalunga phupha ngamahobe Uyifumene inomdla, ke ndicebisa ukuba ufunde ngakumbi ukulala okunxulumene necandelo lezilwanyana.