Ukuba ufuna ukwazi kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umtshato, funda ukuze ufumane iinkcukacha. Inkqubo ye- bodas ziyindawo yonxibelelwano phakathi kwamadoda nabasetyhini. Ngumzuzu apho abantu ababini bathathe isigqibo sokuba bazokwabelana ngobomi babo ukusukela ngalaa mzuzu, xa "ewe, ndiyakwenza" kushiyekile esibingelelweni. Ukuba uza kutshata nomntu kungekudala, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba nolu hlobo lwamaphupha. Kodwa ukuba bekungenje, zininzi iinguqulelo ezinokuba nazo.
Ngaphambi kokuqala ngotoliko, kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba kukho Ukutolika okuninzi kunye neentsingiselo malunga nephupha. Kwaye ayizukuba nentsingiselo efanayo ukuya emtshatweni ongengowakho, kwaye ekugqibeleni awenziwa, ukuba nguwe otshatayo, ilungu losapho, umhlobo, ex (ungafunda ngakumbi ngokufunda malunga intsingiselo yokuphupha malunga ne-ex yakho). Inyaniso yokuba umtshato ubhiyozelwa ngumthetho woluntu okanye yiCawe nayo yinto efanelekileyo kakhulu.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umtshato?
Ukuba uphuphe ukuba umtshato wakho ubhiyozelwa, kodwa kubomi bakho bokwenyani awunalo iqabane, intsingiselo inxulumene nomnqweno onawo fumana umntu wobomi bakho. Kungenzeka ukuba iphupha limele ukujika ebomini bakho. Ukuphupha umtshato wakho kunokuthetha ukuphela kokungatshati kwakho. Kwelinye icala, kwimeko apho uphupha ibhola eyakhoNokuba usuka kwisihlobo okanye kwi-ex yakho, kukho ukutolika okwahlukileyo.
Ukuphupha ngomtshato wesihlobo
Ukuba umtshato ngowomntu osapho lwakho, mhlawumbi ndifuna umntu oncike kuye. Kuba uzobe uhamba ngamaxesha anzima. Ukuba umtshato ngunyana wakho okanye intombi yakho, inxulumene nomnqweno wokuba ukhule kwaye ekugqibeleni ushiye indlwane. Ukuba umtshato ngowomhlobo, ingqondo yakho iyakuxelela ukuba umthanda kangakanani kwaye ufuna ukuba onwabe. Kwakhona, ukuba imitshato yenziwa bucala, luphawu lokuba wonwabile.
Ngaba umtshato wawuza kuqhubeka okanye wawurhoxisiwe?
Kuqhelekile ukuba uphupha umtshato kwaye urhoxisiwe, kulungile kuba kukho into eyenzekayo, intle kuba uyavuka. Kwaye oku kunokuthetha oku kulandelayo:
- Uhamba kwimeko ebuthathaka kubudlelwane bakho nothando.
- Ukunye nomntu ongamthandi ngokwenene.
- Uza kutshata kodwa uyazibuza ukuba ungayenza na. Sincoma ukuba ufunde malunga intsingiselo yokuphupha ngomtshato.
- Kuya kufuneka ukhule ixesha elide ukuba wedwa.
Ukuba naliphi na kwezi meko zingasentla zinxulumene noko uziva, ingqondo yakho iyakhaba xa ulele. Ukuba uthe phithi ngumtshato, kwanephupha unokuba liphupha elibi.
Olunye utoliko malunga nokuphupha malunga nemitshato
Kwimigca edlulileyo sibonile ezona ntsingiselo zixhaphakileyo, kodwa kukwakho nokutolika okungakumbi malunga namaphupha ngemitshato enokuba nomdla kuwe.
Iphupha ngomtshato odlulileyo
Ngaba uphuphe ngomtshato osele wenzekile? Ngaba lo mtshato waphela ngoqhawulo-mtshato? Kwaye ukuba ibingumtshato wakho… awunangxaki ngento eyenzekileyo? Mhlawumbi ibiyimpazamo kwaye izinto zisenokulungiswa.
Ukuphupha ngomtshato ecaweni
Ukuba umtshato ububanjelwe ukuba necawe oko kuthetha ukuba ungumntu okholwayo kwaye ungathanda ukutshata okanye utshate ngale ndlela. Unokufuna ukufunda ukuba kuthetha ntoni iphupha lecawa. Inokudityaniswa noloyiko esizelwe sinalo lokuba uninzi lwethu luye esihogweni, ukuhlawulela izono zethu noSathana (ungafunda ngentsingiselo phupha usathana)
Iphupha lomtshato oqaqambileyo
Ukuba uphuphe umtshato omhle kakhulu, nokuba kubonakala ngathi liphupha elihle, lilizwi elibi. Ibonisa uloyiko esinalo lokungabikho kubudlelwane bethu bezothando. Ingqondo yakho ikubonisa onke amalungiselelo omele ukuwenza ukuze uphumelele umtshato. Nangona kunjalo, ayisiyonto iqinisekileyo: lixesha lokuba sizimisele kwaye sithethe neqabane lethu ngekamva.
Uphupha ngomtshato we-gypsy
Ngaba uphuphe ngomtshato we-gypsy? Usenokuba utshata i-gypsy ungoneliseki lolo hlobo lokubhiyozela. Kungenzeka ukuba unengxaki nabantu abakolu hlanga, kwaye uyaphupha njengeyona nto iphosakeleyo.
Ukuphupha ukuba umtshato sisiphelo sakho
Usenokucinga ukuba umtshato uthetha ukuphela kwakho, ukufa kwakho (kule meko, funda malunga iphupha lokufa). Ukuba ephupheni kukho amangcwaba kufutshane, kuya kufuneka ufunde malunga nawo phupha ngamangcwaba namangcwaba.
Iphupha lomtshato ophindwe kabini
Kwaye ukuba umtshato uphindwe kabini, kwaye umhlobo wakho osenyongweni ukhona nawe, oko kuthetha ukuba ungumntu onamabhongo, okhuphisanayo, uyafuna ukutshata phambi kwakhe nabani na. Usenokwazi nokulungiselela ukubheja ukubona ukuba ngubani otshata kuqala. Ingqondo yakho ikhalela ukuzola, ikuxelela ukuba lixesha lokuba ungazithathi nzulu izinto, ukuba kukho izinto ezingakulungelanga ukukhuphisana nazo.
Ndiphupha umtshato wobufanasini
Ukuba ngumsitho wobufanasini, mhlawumbi Uyabuthandabuza ubuni bakho.
Kuya kufuneka ufunde malunga:
- Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha utshata
- Iphupha Ngengubo Yomtshato
- Intsingiselo yephupha malunga nezicathulo ezimdaka okanye ezisetyenzisiweyo
- Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha iimpahla ezintsha okanye ezimhlophe?
Ividiyo ngentsingiselo yokuphupha ngomtshato
Ukuba eli nqaku malunga nantoni kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umtshato uyifumene inika umdla, unokujonga kwakhona amaphupha aqala ngonobumba B.
Ndingumntu othi njengomntwana abe namaphupha azalisekayo, ndiye ndafuna uncedo kuba izinto ezintle nezimbi ziyenzeka ukuze ndingaphinde ndiphuphe kwaye andikufumani kukhanya kuba uninzi lufuna ukundikhokelela kububi besoteric, kwaye mna Ungakholelwa kuThixo akukho nto, ngaba ingakho incwadi okanye iqela elinokundinceda ngale nto?
UCintia, ukuba ungumKatolika, uya kwazi ukuba uThixo usicela ukuba sisebenzise iitalente akunike zona. Ibhayibhile ibhaliwe kwizibikezelo ezininzi zabaprofeti kunye nezazi. Akukubi ukuba unazo.UPadre Pio wayenemibono eyazalisekayo kwaye ekuqaleni wabandezeleka kodwa wayeyazi indlela yokubakhokelela kokuhle. Ndiyabulela kuThixo ngesi sipho.