Ukuba uyabuzakuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeenkomo?, kweli nqaku uza kuzazi zonke iinkcukacha. Ngokusengqiqweni, amafama kunye nabo bahlala kufutshane nedlelo leenkomo ezitya emadlelweni baya kuba nokuninzi amaphupha ngeenkomo. Kodwa akufuneki ube kufutshane nezilwanyana ezanyisayo okanye ube nohlobo oluthile lokunxibelelana ne-subconscious ukukubonisa imifanekiso yayo.
Ndingafunga ukuba, ngaphandle kokuyibona, siyayazi inkqubo yokwenza itshizi, ubisi kunye nezinye iimveliso zobisi. Kungenxa yoko kufanelekile ukuba ucinge enye okanye nangaphezulu xa ulele.
Yitya nje isilayi setshizi esitsha okanye usele ikomityi yobisi olushushu ukuze inkomo iwele ingqondo yakho. Nangona kunjalo, zininzi izinto ezinokutolikwa ngamaphupha, kuba Ayifani into yokuba uphupha etyebile okanye ebhityile, ephila okanye efile, ekuhlasela, uyagula okanye uyadla. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uziphule phantsi zonke iintsingiselo nganye nganye ukuze ubenakho ukufikelela kwisiphelo esichanekileyo kwaye unokuyichaza kubomi bakho.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeenkomo?
Ngokubanzi, iingcali zengqondo zibanga oko amaphupha malunga neenkomo neenkunzi zeenkomo zinxulunyaniswa nexesha lokuchuma ebomini, zombini iimvakalelo, uqeqesho kunye noqoqosho. Umzekelo, ukuba ubona ngeso lengqondo iinkomo zobisi zisidla endle, kubonisa ukuba uhlala umzuzwana woxolo, apho imali okanye ukufumana iqabane kungekho kuluhlu lwakho lwezinto ezixhalabisayo.
Uphumelele kwishishini, ukhulise usapho oluhle okanye uzalisekise eyona minqweno yakho. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa wabelana ngezi mpumelelo kunye nabahlobo bakho abasenyongweni, okuthetha kuwe ukuba nemfesane, isisa, ubuntu obunobuntu.
Ngamafutshane, awukhathali ngomso kuba awuzukutya intloko ukuze uziphilise. Kodwa njengoko benditshilo, zininzi iintlobo zamaphupha kunye nemixholo; ayisiyiyo yonke into epinki. Ukwenza utoliko oluchanekileyo kufuneka ucinge ngazo zonke izinto ezinokwenzeka. Siza kuzihlalutya nganye nganye.
Ukutolika okungakumbi kwamaphupha kunye neempawu zeenkomo kunye neenkunzi zeenkomo
Bayaphila okanye bafile?
Apha kuza ukutolikwa kokuqala okungalunganga. Ukuphupha ngeenkomo ezifileyo kuthetha ukoyika ukulahlekelwa yiyo yonke impahla yakho.
Bonke ubutyebi endibukhankanyileyo ngasentla bunokuphela nangawuphi na umzuzu, kwaye ungaziva usoyika ukushiywa ungenanto.
Abantu ngamanye amaxesha benza iimpazamo ezikhokelela ekonakaleni, kwintlekele. Idlelo eligcwele ukubola nokufa kwezilwanyana linokujika libe liphupha elihlasimlis 'umzimba.
Ukuba uziva ngathi iphupha liyakucinezela, thetha nabahlobo bakho malunga namaxhala ahlasela i-subconscious yakho. Kuya kufuneka uyazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ukufa.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba inkomo iyaphila akukho nto inokukhathazekaKodwa ukufumana intsingiselo echanekileyo ngakumbi kufuneka ujonge kwezinye izinto.
Zityebile okanye zibhityile?
Ukuba uphupha usenga amanqatha kunye neenkomo ezinkulu ngothando, Itolikwa ukuba uzikhathalela ngononophelo zonke izinto onazo, ngaphandle kwalonto ulungile xa ucudisa izixhobo onokuzifumana.
Ngokwenyani, amanqatha esilwanyana esincancisayo ahambelani nobutyebi onabo, kodwa kwithuku lokuzikhusela. Oko kukuthi, ulusu lolusu, ukubaluleka kokuncinci okunikezelayo kwinto ekungqongileyo, ngokwe-psychoanalysis.
Ngaba banesibindi, bayakusukela kwaye bakuhlasele?
Ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka ukuba uphupha i inkomo emhlophe entle edlelweni, lunyise amantshontsho alo ngobisi olusuka kwimibele yalo.
Ngequbuliso, uyabona ukuba uyakujonga, aze aqalise ukukuleqa. Ubaleka ukukuhlasela! Uyabona ukuba ubuso bakhe bunomsindo kwaye awazi ukuba kutheni esiba ndlongondlongo ngephanyazo.
Itolikwa ukuba umntu okujikelezayo uyakusukela kwaye uzama ukukuphanga, ukukungcatsha. I-subconscious yakho iyayazi le nto kodwa ayazi ncam ukuba ngubani ozama ukukwenzakalisa.
Kubalulekile ukuba ungawuthobisi umkhusane wakho ukuze ungafumani monakalo ongenakulungiseka njengakwiphupha.
Kusekho ukutolikwa okungakumbi malunga nephupha, kunqabile.
Ngaba ingcwele kuwe? Kwezinye iinkcubeko, iinkomo zine ukubaluleka kwezenkolo kwaye akunakuphathwa. Ungabasenga kodwa ungababulali okanye ungatyi nyama yabo.
Ukuba ufumana ingxaki yesazisi, unokuba nazo ezi ntlobo zemifanekiso, apho isilwanyana sijikela kwigolide. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba uyatyiwa, akakholelwa kuThixo okanye ukholelwa, enyanisweni ayinamsebenzi ukuba ungowayiphi inkolo.
Kuya kufuneka ukuba uzifumanele kuhambo lokomoya ukufumana intsingiselo eyiyo.
Ngaba uyamsenga ngokungapheliyo? Ukuphupha iinkomo zokusenga kunxulunyaniswa nesidingo sokufumana imali engamanzi yokuhlawula amatyala ekupheleni kwenyanga, imali mboleko okanye irente yekhaya lakho.
Kungenzeka ukuba ungumntu onamabhongo kunye neenjongo zakho, uzama ukufumana okona kulungileyo ukuze ufumane izibonelelo. Usebenza imini nobusuku, ubuchule bokuqamba yenye yeendlela onamandla ngazo.
Bayalwa? Uhamba ngexesha apho kufuneka uphindaphinde umzamo wakho wokufezekisa iinjongo ezicetywayo. Tyhila!
Ngezinye izilwanyana, ezinje ngamahashe kunye neenkunzi zesibindi.
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- Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha inyama eluhlaza
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