Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngokungathembeki okanye ukuqhathwa?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngokungathembeki

Kule nqaku ndikubonisa ngokweenkcukacha kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ungathembekanga, kwaye ndikucebisa ukuba uyifunde ngaphambi kokuba woyike. Ukunganyaniseki kuphakathi kwezizathu ezintathu eziphambili zokwahlukana. Xa kungekho kuthembana, abaninzi banako uphupha ngokuqhathwa. Musa ukothuka, iphindaphindwe ngakumbi kunokuba ucinga kwaye ayifanelanga ukuba yinyani. I-Psychoanalysis kunye ne-oneirology ziye zafumanisa ukuba kukho iintsingiselo ezininzi kuxhomekeka kwimeko kunye nobuntu bakho.

Ngokubanzi ukutolikwa okuphambili xa uphupha ukuba iqabane lakho liyakukhohlisa kukuba uyoyika ukohlukana naye okanye yena. Uqikelela ukuba ubudlelwane buninzi kakhulu ukuba bungonakaliswe. Ingabonakalisa ubuntu obungakhuselekanga kuwe, okanye mhlawumbi nguwe ocingisisa ngokukuyeka, uyaphapha okanye uyaphapha kwaye uyoyika kakhulu ucinga ngokungathembeki onamaphupha amabi, kuba unomona kakhulu kwaye kufanele tshintsha loo nto.

Ukongeza, kukho ezinye iinguqulelo malunga nokukhohlisa, kuba mhlawumbi ephupheni ukungathembeki akuveli kumyeni okanye emfazini wakho, kodwa kuphuma kutata wakho, unyoko, komnye umntu okanye nakwakho. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kudityaniswa nokukhulelwa! Kwimeko apho, jonga intsingiselo yokuphupha malunga nokukhulelwa.

Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ngokungathembeki okanye ukuqhathwa?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha beqhatha kum

Ukhe waphupha ukuba umfazi okanye umyeni wakho ukukopela? Njengoko benditshilo, ukuphupha ngeli xesha ebomini bakho kuyinto eqhelekileyo kuba ngaxa lithile wonke umntu uya koyika ubudlelwane. Akukho meko ithetha ukuba umyeni okanye umfazi wakho wenze ukungathembeki. Xa i-subconscious iqala ukukubonisa umkhwa wakho, inokuba luphawu lokuba umtshato uyaqhawuka.

Uphupha ngokukhohlisa umyeni wakho nge-ex yakho

Ukuphupha ukopela umyeni wakho nge ex yakho kwaye ukhulelwe liphupha elihlala libangela inkxalabo enkulu kwabasetyhini. Okokuqala, funda kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha nge ex yakho. Lo mzuzu xa ucinga, "Wow! Kukungathembeki okwam ».

Inokuba kudala nixabana nendoda yakho, usenokudinwa yiyo, okanye ingakuphethe kakubi ufuna ukumkhohlisa. Ngokwenyani impendulo inokwaziwa nguwe kuphela. Kuyenzeka ukuba khumbula umntu wakho wangaphambili y uphupha ubuyela kwiqabane lakho langaphambili.

Iphupha lokungathembeki kukatata okanye umama

Kuthetha ukuba unoluvo losapho lwesiNtu. Ingcaciso yephupha icacile: uyoyika ukuba abazali bakho bohlukane kuba akukho nto iya kuphinda ifane kwakhona ukuba utata wakho ukhohlise umama wakho, okanye kungenjalo. Ukuba unabantakwenu okanye abazala bakho, thetha nabo malunga namaphupha amabi okwenzeka kuwe ebusuku ukukhusela i-subconscious yakho ekubazaliseni yonke imihla.

Ukuphupha ngokungathembeki emsebenzini

Ukuba uphupha ukukopa emsebenzini, kusenokwenzeka ukuba inkosikazi yakho okanye umyeni wakho mva nje Ndafika ekhaya emva kwexesha eliqhelekileyo, Thetha kakhulu neqabane kwaye ungachazi izizathu. Oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni uphuphe ukuba iqabane lakho liyakuqhatha naloo mntu. Khumbula ukuba ubudlelwane bakhelwe kukuthembeka kunye nokuthembeka. Sukuba shushu kwaye uchaze iinkxalabo zakho elubala kwintombi yakho okanye kwisoka lakho ukuba iphupha liyaqhubeka. Kuya kufuneka uphinde uphinde loo mzuzu ebomini bakho xa wawonwabile kakhulu uphuphe umtshato.

Phupha amaxesha amaninzi ukukopela nokungathembeki

Ukuphupha amaxesha amaninzi malunga nokukopa nokungathembeki kuthetha ukuba uphelelwe kukumthemba umntu otshate naye. Veki nganye unokubandezeleka kwaye uvuke ungenasiphelo ngenxa yokuthandabuza okuveliswa yingqondo yakho. Isisombululo sokuqala, kwakhona, kukuthetha ngazo zonke iinkxalabo zakho kwisoka lakho, umyeni, umfazi, intombi ...

Ukuba uqaphela ukuba wenza into engaqhelekanga, mhlawumbi ungangaba ulungile kwaye uyakukhohlisa; kodwa akufuneki urhanele ngaphandle kobungqina obuqinileyo.

Ukuphupha ngokungathembeki ngokwesini

Ukuphupha ngokungathembeki kobufanasini kutolikwa njenge Unamathandabuzo malunga nokwabelana ngesondo kwakho okanye iqabane lakho. Ukuba ubungekho ngaphandle kwe «ukonwabele ukuba wedwa»Kwaye eli phupha likuhlasela, into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kukucwangcisa isidlo sangokuhlwa esisondele njengayo yonke imihla yokuqala kunye nantoni na evelayo. Ukuba ayisebenzi, mxelele ngeziqhulo ukuba uphuphe ukuba ulifanasini kwaye uhleke kunye kuba ngokuqinisekileyo yiparanoia yakho.

Ividiyo ngentsingiselo yokuphupha ukuba iqabane lakho alithembekanga

Ukuba eli nqaku malunga kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ungathembekanga, Ndikucebisa ukuba undwendwele amaphupha amaninzi kwileta I candelo.


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