Kule nqaku siza kuzama ukucacisa intsingiselo ye- phupha malunga neempuku, Sijoyine ukuze ufumane yonke into. Izilwanyana ezibini, ze ezifanayo kakhulu, imouse kunye nempuku, njengomgaqo jikelele imouse sisilwanyana esidala imvakalelo ezingathandekiyo, nje ukuba sivele, impendulo yethu yendalo kukubaleka okanye ukuyenza inyamalale.
Sikwenza phantse ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuchaza ukuba kutheni umzimba uphendula ngolu hlobo, kodwa iimpendulo zethu zinxibelelene nengqondo yethu, ke impendulo iya kuhlala inxulunyaniswa neengcinga okanye amaphupha esinawo ngawo.
Ngokufanayo, asinakho ukunika intsingiselo efanayo ku phupha iimpuku eziphilayo ntoni phupha iimpuku ezifileyo, iimpuku zosana, iimpuku ezikhwela ebhedini yethu okanye iimpuku ezisilumayo.
Yintoni esinokutolika ngayo emaphupheni kunye neempuku?
Ngaba uphuphe ukuba bayaphila okanye bafile?
Iphupha lempuku ephilayo Ngokwesiqhelo ayisiyonto imbi, kodwa ukuphupha umntu ofileyo ayonto ilungileyo, basenokuba bazama ukukwenzakalisa, bakonzakalise emsebenzini, bakwenze ukuba usokole okanye kuthintela ukufikelela kwiinjongo zakho namaphupha akho. Inxulunyaniswa nokubandezeleka kwamalungu osapho okanye abahlobo abasenyongweni abasivumeli ukuba silale ngenxa yengxaki yabo. Ukuphupha ngokufa kuhlala kunxulunyaniswa neengxaki okanye imiqobo ephambi kwethu, ke ukusombulula oko ukuze sinike intloko ukuphumla ayisiyonto imbi.
Ngaba zaziziimpuku ezincinci okanye ezinkulu zosana?
Nangona inokubonakala ingabalulekanga kangako ubungakanani beempuku zethu buchaphazela ngqo kwintsingiselo yephupha lethu. Umzekelo, ubungakanani iya kuba bubuzaza bemeko okanye ingxaki ekufuneka siyisombulule, ngendlela efanayo inokuthetha nokubaxekileyo kwemeko esijongana nayo. Ukuba imouse incinci, iya kuba yinto encinci, kungenjalo sinengxaki yokutyeba. Ukuba into esiyiphuphayo yimpuku yosana, i-oneirology icacisa ukuba oku kungenxa yeemvakalelo zothando, kule meko kungcono ukucacisa izimvo zethu ukuze iphupha linyamalale.
Imicimbi yemibala Ngaba imhlophe okanye ingwevu?
Kweli candelo asizichazi iimpuku ezimnyama kuba eyona ixhaphakileyo kukubona iimpuku ezimhlophe okanye ezingwevu, impuku emhlophe Inxulunyaniswa nobunyulu, ukuba uphupha impuku emhlophe kubonisa ukuba uziva useluxolweni, ukuba umphefumlo wakho uzolile kwaye awuzisoli.
Ukuphupha izilwanyana ezimhlophe, ukuba ayilumi okanye ihlasele ihlala ilungile, kwelinye icala, ukuba imouse ingwevu sicebisa ukuba ujonge inqaku lonke kuba liyakuxhomekeka kwinto eyenziwa yimpuku ukusukela umbala kukodwa akuthethi nto kwaphela.
Into eqhelekileyo kukubona a igrey okanye imouse emhlophe. Akunakufane uzibone zimnyama. Umhlophe uqhelene ngokunxulumene nobunyulu. Ke ngoko, impuku emhlophe ithetha ukuba umphefumlo wakho ucocekile nokuba injani na isilwanyana esivelayo. Logama nje ingahlaseli okanye ilume nabani na, inesiphumo.
Kwelinye icala, umbala ongwevu awuthethi nto, kuba ngumthunzi wakho wendalo.
Masazi umfuziselo kunye nokutolika okunokwenzeka kokuphupha ngempuku
Iphupha ngalinye litolikwa kwengqondo yethu yexesha elidlulileyo okanye elizayo ekufuneka silitolike, emva koko uya kufumana iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo kumaphupha akho kunye neempuku ngokwe-urinology.
AWUKHO wedwa. Ukuba unezinye izilwanyana njengokubaleka ikati kwaye uziva ngathi uyimpuku ngokuqinisekileyo ulixhoba lohlaselo, ukuqhula okanye ukunyelisaZama ukuyisombulula, kwelinye icala, izigcawu kunye neenyoka zihlala zikhona kolu hlobo lwamaphupha.
Ngaba ukhwele ebhedini yakho? Ukuba uphuphe ukuba iimpuku zisemandlalweni kunye nawe kungenxa yokuba ube lixhoba lokugculelwa okanye uxinzelelo, kwanaxa uzifumana ulele ebhedini inika intsingiselo yokuba ibingumntu osondeleyo kuwe kuba iyafana ukusondela nokuba ngasese.
Ukhe walunywa?. Ukuba iimpuku ziyakuhlasela okanye zikulume, kuya kufuneka ulumke kakhulu, oko kuthetha ukuba umntu othile ufuna ukukulimaza.
¿Banjalo ubaleka ujikeleze wena okanye ubaleke?. Ukuba ubona iimpuku zibaleka, oko kuthetha ukuba ufuna ukubaleka kwinto ethile, ukuba unengxaki yoxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo kwaye ufuna ukubaleka kuloo meko okanye ukuba utyhubela umzuzu okrakra ebomini bakho apho uphantsi koxinzelelo olugqithisileyo kwaye akusenakuyinyamezela.
Gqithisileyo ukulumkela ukuba uyababona befile, Kuba oku kuthetha ukuba bazisa iindaba ezimbi, zama ukutshintsha izinto ngaphambi kokuba zenzeke.
Ngaba ziziimpuku ezintle ezinemibala?. Umhlophe ubonakalisa ubunyulu, ungumntu ongenazinjongo zimbi kwaye unentliziyo esulungekileyo, ukuba tyheli okanye luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ibonisa ukuba ungumntu onobuchule ekufuneka avumele izimvo zakhe ziye phesheya.
¿Banjalo ngaphakathi endlwini yakho? Ukuba bangaphakathi endlwini inokubandakanya iingxaki zekhaya.
Bancinci, bayathandeka okanye benza uthando. Ukuba ezi zezona uzibonayo, uthando olutsha luzalwa kuwe.
Ukuba bayatya, kusenokwenzeka ukuba umzimba wakho ulambile.
Ukuba sibona mouse barhaxwe, Intsingiselo yayo ifana kakhulu nokubona iimpuku ezifileyo.
Ithenda enobubele kunye nothando. Ukuba uzibona umphulula, kunye naye njengesilwanyana okanye ngesenzo esithile sobuhlobo, kungenxa yokuba unomphefumlo onenceba.
Kuya kufuneka ulumke kuba, nangona ezi zilwanyana zinokubonakala zithandeka zombini iimpuku kunye neempuku zihlala zimela iindaba ezimbiNangona kuyinyani ukuba kukho ukungafani, oku akusoloko kunjalo.
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Ukuba ulonwabele icandelo lethu lokuphupha iigundane, qiniseka ukutyelela icandelo lethu lokuphupha izilwanyana.
Molo, phezolo bendinephupha apho ndiva khona ukuba impuku ihamba ngentla kwentloko yam kodwa andikaze ndiyibone, ndiyive kuphela, ndishiyeke ndiziva ndothukile kwaye ndicaphukile, kuba ndinoloyiko lwezi zilwanyana, Kule meko ndenza njalo. Ndaziva kodwa andayibona. Inokuthetha ntoni ???
Phezolo ndiphuphe iimpuku zosana, zimnyama ngombala, zinamathele kwimfumba yephepha langasese, ngokungathi bazalelwe ngaphakathi kwiroli, ebekwigumbi lokuhlambela, elingandibekiyo, kwindlu ayingowam, kwaye ndathi ndakubona uninzi lwamafinyila ngaphakathi emaphepheni, ndakhupha ipakethi ndaya nayo ecaleni kwendlela kwaye xa ndiqala ukususa imiqulu, eyandenza ndanezothe kakhulu, kwaphuma iimpuku ezimbini zosana, zincinci kakhulu ezimnyama, enye yayilulusu kuphela kwaye enye yayineenwele, kodwa imnyama, imanzi kuyo ngathi yincindi, incangathi, kwaye yavuka.
Phezolo ndiphuphe iimpuku zizala zazimbalwa kuqala, emva koko ndanceda impuku ukuzala, kwaye bakhula ngokukhawuleza, ndibashiye ehokweni yabo yaphinda yagcwaliswa ngabantwana abaninzi.
Molweni iphupha lam ziimpuku ezisandula ukuzalwa kodwa zonke zimnyama kwaye zidibene kodwa ndibajongile nje kodwa andoyiki okanye andonyanyile kwaye ndiphupha intombi yam ixelela utatomkhulu wayo (owasweleka kwiminyaka emi-3 eyadlulayo) ukuba andiyithenganga kuye kwaye uyahleka kodwa andisakhumbuli.
Phezolo ndiphuphe ndifumene usana olumhlophe lwempuku ekhitshini ndizolubamba ndilunike ubisi ndilunakekele ukuze lungafi.