Amaxesha amaninzi amaphupha avela ngenxa yesiganeko esisandula ukwenzeka okanye edibene nomntu okanye into ethile. Ukuba usandula ukubona "I-Dark Knight" evela eBatman, ubekwi-safari, okanye uye kumyezo wezilwanyana apho babenakho amalulwaneKuya kuba sengqiqweni ukuba i-subconscious ikhuphe imifanekiso yezi zilwanyana. Ingayingcaciso leyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba khange usondele kwisilwanyana esanyisayo, ndikucebisa ukuba uqhubeke nokufunda eli nqaku malunga Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amalulwane.
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uqale, kufuneka uyazi ukuba iphupha malunga nelulwane inokuchazwa ngeendlela ezininzi. Akuthethi okufanayo ukubabona befile kunokuba besaphila, ukubabulala, ukuba bakhulu okanye bancinci, ukuba bayakuhlasela bakulume okanye banoxolo kodwa basendlini. Uyabona? Zininzi izinto ezinokwenzeka, nganye inenkcazo yayo.
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ngamalulwane?
Kubomi bokwenyani, uninzi lwabantu ilulwane liyoyikaSine-phobia ngokwendalo kuba sisilwanyana esivela ebumnyameni kwaye siyayidibanisa nento engalunganga, emdaka okanye nangaphaya kwendalo. Ukongeza, siyayidibanisa nee-vampire, (jonga yintoni kuthetha ukuphupha i-vampires). Ngokuchasene noko, abanye abantu bayayithanda kwaye abayithathi njengephupha elibi kodwa isilwanyana esinomtsalane othile.
Ngokwesiqhelo xa ilulwane ibonakala ephupheni lakho kwaye uvuka usengxakini, oko kuthetha ukuba ukhona Ukuhamba ngamaxesha okungazithembi ebomini. Oko kukuthi, uhlala kwiimeko ezintsha ongazi ukuba ujolise kuzo, ukwenza isigqibo akusekho lula kwaye ingqondo yakho inamafu, ingwevu. Musa ukothuka, kwenzeka kuthi sonke ngamanye amaxesha. Kananjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo unabahlobo abakuncedayo okanye abakunika iingcebiso zokuhambisa iingxaki zakho.
Iphupha malunga nokubulala iiBhanti
Ukuphupha ubulala amalulwane luphawu lokuba ukhona ukubeka izisombululo zamaxhala akho angaphambili. Unobukroti, kuthetha ukuba ujongana neengxaki kwaye i-subconscious ikubonisa yona ngokubulala isilwanyana esanyisayo esikulungelelwano lweChiroptera okanye IChiroptera.
Ukuphupha amalulwane emqolombeni
Ukuba uzibona emqolombeni kwaye zingakukhathazi, uya kuba nolwalamano oluhle kunye nehlabathi lezilwanyana. Ngaba umntu osingqongileyo kwaye oko kuyakuhlonipha ukwenziwa kwendalo kwazo zonke izilwanyana.
Uphupha amalulwane akulumayo
Ngaba bayakuhlasela okanye bayakuluma? Ukuba xa ulele uqaphela indlela amalulwane akuhlasela ngayo Isichazi-magama asibi. Uziva ngathi kukho umntu okufuphi nawe ozama ukukukhwabanisa ngasemva kwakho. Mhlawumbi uyaphazama, mhlawumbi akunjalo. Cinga malunga nokuba umntu othile kwizangqa zakho wenze into engaqhelekanga mva nje, ukuba kunjalo, sele unayo impendulo malunga nokuba kutheni ulumkele ukungcatshwa okunokwenzeka.
Kukho ezinye izilwanyana ezinokubonisa ukuba zizama ukukuluma, njenge amaphupha nezigcawu okanye iimpuku (funda ngakumbi malunga intsingiselo yokuphupha malunga neempuku apha). Kodwa iinyoka zingumzekelo ocacileyo. Kuya kufuneka ufunde ifayile ye- intsingiselo yokuphupha iinyoka. Kwakhona, ukuba amalungu amaninzi osapho lwakho aye agula, unokoyika ukuba kuyenzeka kuwe.
Ngaba unayo amaphupha amalulwane ezinkulu okanye ezincinane?
Ngaba zinkulu okanye zincinci? Ngaba zininzi okanye zimbalwa? Ukuba uphupha kukho amalulwane amaninzi amakhulu Ingcaciso yephupha icacile: Uyakhula.
Ukuphupha ibhet ekhulayo
Ukuba unengxaki yelo phupha emva koko uhamba ngocwangco ngakumbi, ufundile kwaye usebenzise uguquko kubuntu. Ubuye wazalwa ngaphakathi Kwaye ngoku lithuba lakho lokuba uyenze xa uvuka. Iyunivesithi ihlala ingunobangela wotshintsho kwindlela yakho yokucinga, vula ingqondo yakho, wandise ubulumko.
Iphupha malunga neebhatyi ezimhlophe
Amhlophe amalulwane, makhulu akho ulwazi nobunyulu.
Ukuphupha amalulwane angwevu
Kwelinye icala, ukuba amalulwane angwevu, oko kufanekisela ulwazi oluphangaleleyo nolula. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ayisiyiyo ingcaciso engeyiyo.
Ukuphupha ubaleka kumalulwane amaninzi
Enye indlela yokubonisa Isimo sobukroti ebomini kuyaphupha ukuba ubaleka kwilulwane. Ulwa yonke imihla ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho, kwaye ziindaba ezilungileyo kuba abanye baya kuhlala bethe cwaka ngokungaphumeleli kwabo, ngaphandle kokukhangela izisombululo.
Uphupha ngokuhlala uzolile phambi kwamalulwane
Ukuba ulusizi malunga nesiganeko sakutshanje kwaye ubona ukuba uhlala uzolile, ungothusi, oko kuthetha ukuba uyakwamkela okwenzekileyo kwaye, kwakhona, kukubonisa ukukhula kwakho, ngokwe-psychoanalysis.
Ividiyo malunga nokuba kuthetha ntoni ukuphupha ngamalulwane
Ukuba eli nqaku malunga Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha amalulwane, ke ndicebisa ukuba undwendwele ezinye ezinxulumene noko kwicandelo lokuphupha ngezilwanyana.
