Yakhe yenzeka into yoba uvuke uxhwalekile ngenxa yephupha elibi lokukhuthuzwa? Ukuphupha uhlaselwa akunto ingaqhelekanga, ngaxa lithile ebomini bethu sinokuzibona sikuloo meko kumaphupha ethu.
Kodwa ngaba inentsingiselo? Ukuba uyayiqwalasela kwaye kukho iinxalenye zephupha ozikhumbula ngokucacileyo, apha siza kuzama ukwenza ingqiqo yento i-subconscious yakho izama ukukuxelela yona.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha uhlaselwa
Ukuhlaselwa akuyonto imnandi. Uhlala ungonwabanga emzimbeni. Yaye ukuba sithetha ngamaphupha, ukuphupha uhlaselwa kunokukwenza uzive ufana nokuba yinto yokwenene. Oko kukuthi, iyakoyikisa, ikwenza uzive kakubi, kwaye uzive ungenamandla.
Kodwa inyaniso yileyo utoliko olunikwayo ekuphupheni malunga nohlaselo alukho, kwaphela, lubi, kodwa lulungile kakhulu. Kangangokuba intsingiselo ngokubanzi kukuba izinto ezilungileyo ziya kuza ebomini bakho. Kungenzeka ukuba iingxaki zisonjululwe, inhlanhla ifika, iiprojekthi ezintsha ezintle, njl.
Into yokuqala omawuyenze kukuzola. Ibiliphupha elichazwa ngabaninzi njengephupha elibi. Ngoku, hlalutya yonke into oyikhumbulayo kwelo phupha kwaye ubeke ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwezo ndawo uzikhumbula kakhulu. Iinkcukacha, izenzo, amabinzana, njl. Ngayo yonke le nto sinokuqikelela intsingiselo engcono kwaye silindele ukuba i-subconscious yakho ikuxelela ntoni ukuba ufumane isisombululo.
Iphupha lohlaselo nokufa
Akukho namnye, nditsho nasephupheni, obenokufuna ukuba kufe umntu, nokuba kunjani kubo bonke obekekileyo. Kunjalo ngoba, ukuphupha uhlaselwa kusweleke umntu akulunganga ngokwasengqondweni.
Ngoku, kuxhomekeke ekubeni ngubani ofayo, intsingiselo yenye okanye enye. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu ofayo ungumntu obalulekileyo kumphuphi, ngoko i-subconscious yakho ikuxelela ukuba kufuneka ucele iingcebiso malunga nento ekukhathazayo.
Ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, umntu ofayo ungumhlaseli, isela, yonke into iyatshintsha. Kule meko uthetha ngesiphelo seengxaki ezithe zavela, ubukhulu becala phakathi kwabantu ababini ababeziintshaba ngaphambili.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umphanga uxhobile
Ukuba ephupheni lakho okwenzekayo kukuphanga okuxhobileyo, apha kuya kuxhomekeka kwinto oyiphuphileyo okanye into oyikhumbulayo.
Umzekelo, ukuba ubona uphango oluxhobileyo, kodwa ayinguwe owenzayo, okanye sisoyikiso sokuphanga, i-subconscious yakho ikuxelela ukuba izinto zakho zexabiso, into onayo, ikhuselekile kwaye utyalo-mali , iindleko, iiprojekthi, njl. Basendleleni elungileyo.
Ukuba nguwe okuhlaselayo, nangona sinokucinga ukuba yinto embi, eneneni intsingiselo ichasene noko, ilungile kuba ibonisa ukuba uza kufumana ezo zibonelelo zobungcali ubukhangela ntoni.
Ngoku, kuthekani ukuba ujongene neso sixhobileyo? Kule meko, xa uxhathisa loo phango, into eqhelekileyo kukuba ikuxelela ukuba kukho abantu abakufutshane nawe abanokunika iingxaki. Basenokuba ngenxa yomona, umonakalo, okanye ngenxa yokuba bafuna ukwenzakalisa ngandlel’ ithile.
Phupha ngohlaselo ngompu
Ukuphupha uhlaselwa ngompu akulunganga nako. Inyaniso, ibonisa ukuba kukho iingxaki zengqondonokuba. Umzekelo, ukuba unengxaki yoxinzelelo olukhulu, ukuba kukho ukudakumba okwenzekayo, okanye ukuba le nkqubo ithatha ibeka kwimo yakho.
Isisombululo kule meko silula, kuba Kuthetha ukutshintsha kancinane imini yakho ukuze uphucule, kukukhuthaza kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke ukuqhubeka uziva ulungile.
Ngaphandle koko, ezo ngxaki zengqondo zinokuchaphazela impilo yakho.
Phupha ukuba bafuna ukukuphanga kodwa abakwazi
Amaxesha amaninzi abantu abathuli xa bephathwa ngokungekho sikweni yaye xa besenza okuthile, nathi siyasabela. Oku kunokwenzeka ephupheni lakho. Mhlawumbi uzifumana ukwimeko apho ukhuthuzwayo, kodwa endaweni yokusebenzisana naloo mpangi, uzisa idabi ukusa kwinqanaba lokuba ungayiphumezi injongo.
Xa olo hlaselo lungagqitywanga, i-subconscious yakho ufuna ukukuxelela ukuba iingxaki ziyeza. Kungenzeka ukuba eli akusiyo ixesha lokuchitha imali, ukuba akufanele uqalise iprojekthi, njl.
Ngaphezu kwayo yonke into inento yokwenza nemali yomntu (okanye kwinqanaba lobungcali); isizathu sokuba kutheni ngelo xesha kufuneka uhlalutye kwaye uvumele ixesha lidlule kancinci.
Phupha ukhuthuzwa ngemela
Intsingiselo yokuphupha ukuhlaselwa ngemela eneneni ayilungile njengakwimeko yangaphambili. Xa ubona into enje ephupheni lakho, umahluko kunye nangaphambili kukuloo mela. Lithetha into enye nomsindo, ubundlongondlongo kwaye icinga ukusikwa. Ingaba ithetha ntoni?
Unokufumana "ngaphambi nasemva" ebomini bakho. Umzekelo, kuba uza kuphelelwa ngumsebenzi; kuba uya kuphulukana nomvuzo wakho... Ngamanye amazwi, ngumqondiso wokuba uza kulahlekelwa yinto ethile ngokomsebenzi okanye ngokobuqu.
I-subconscious yakho ifuna ukukuxelela ntoni xa uphupha uhlaselo ekhaya
Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wakho uphupha ufika ekhaya uze ufumanise ukuba uphangiwe. Oku kusenokuba yinxalenye yobomi bokwenene, xa kusenzeka ephupheni kuthetha ukuba kukho into ekusenokwenzeka ukuba uphulukene nayo ebomini, kodwa kungekudala okanye kamva iya kuphinda ivele.
Ngoku kwakhona ingabonisa ukuba kukho abantu abathile abakungqongileyo abangonwabanga ngempumelelo yakho, kodwa okwahlukileyo koko, kwaye aba baya kuba ziintshaba ngexesha elithile.
Olunye utoliko olunikiweyo yinyaniso yelahleko yemali. Ayithethi ukuba akusayi kuyifumana, kodwa ilumkisa ngento ezayo.
Phupha ukhuthuzwa emzini womnye umntu
Intsingiselo yokuphupha malunga nokuhlaselwa kwindlu yomnye umntu iya kuxhomekeka kuhlobo lwendlu. Kwaye kukuba, ukuba umnini wendlu uhlobene nawe (usapho, umhlobo, umntu omaziyo ...) emva koko ikuxelela ukuba loo mntu usengxakini kwaye ufuna inkxaso yakho ukuya phambili. Ibonwe ngokwembono yakho, iyakulumkisa ukuba kuza ixesha apho kufuneka womelele kwaye ufumane loo mntu umthandayo phambili.
Ukuba ume kufuphi, okanye uzimele, kubonisa ukuba unobuntu obubuthathaka kakhulu yaye akuthandi ukujamelana neengxaki, nokuba unokuba sisisombululo sabo. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, ukuba wenza okuthile, kuya kuthetha ukuba uyakwazi ukuhla ukuze usebenze ukuze uncede abanye.
Kwaye kwenzeka ntoni xa kukho umphanga kwindlu yomnye umntu ongawaziyo? Ikuxelela ukuba kufuneka wenze utshintsho ebomini bakho ekubeni isimo sakho sengqondo kunye neemvakalelo aziyiyo eyona ifanelekileyo kwaye kufuneka ume kwaye ubone ukuba indlela oyithathayo ngokwenene ifaneleke kakhulu kuwe.
Njengoko ubona, ukuphupha uhlaselwa akukho nto imbi njengoko ubunokucinga ekuqaleni. Kuyinyani ukuba awuyi kuvuka kakuhle, kuba ukuhlaselwa akuyonto umntu angayifuna, kodwa ubuncinci kwiimeko ezininzi intsingiselo ilungile kwaye iyisimboli ye-omen elungileyo.
