phupha unxilile

umntu onxilileyo

Uninzi lwamaphupha anentsingiselo, indlela yokuba i-subconscious yethu inxibelelane into entle okanye engalunganga kuthi. Yiyo loo nto xa uphupha kubalulekile ukukhumbula eyona mpawu yephupha. Omnye wabo usenokuba uphupha inxila. Ngaba yakha yakwehlela?

Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini kwaye ingqondo yakho izama ukukuxelela ntoni, ke siya kukunika impendulo ngokusekelwe kwinto onokuyikhumbula kakhulu. Ziphose kuyo?

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umntu onxilileyo

umntu osele kakhulu

Asinakukhanyela ukuba ukuphupha umntu onxilileyo kunqabile kwaye kunqabile. Asiyonto esifuna ukuba neengcinga zethu xa silele, kodwa ingenzeka. Kwaye inyaniso kukuba, kwiimeko ezininzi, intsingiselo iyakha. Utshintsho oluhle, iindaba ezilungileyo, imibhiyozo ... Kodwa kungekhona rhoqo; Kusenokubakho iingxaki zonxunguphalo, ukwahlukana okanye iingxaki oziphephayo nezibaluleke ngaphezu kokuba ucinga.

Konke kuxhomekeke kwinto oyikhumbulayo ephupheni, ukuba lowo unxilayo lilungu lentsapho, ukuba inxila ikuleqa okanye ifuna ukulwa...

Okulandelayo siza kukunika iintsingiselo eziqhelekileyo ezisekelwe kwinto oyikhumbula kakhulu.

Intsingiselo yokuphupha malunga nezihlobo ezinxilisayo

phupha unxilile

Akumnandi ukubona amalungu osapho anxilileyo ephupheni lakho (nangona ezi zihlekisayo), kwaye ngaphandle koko. intsingiselo yawo ayichazi kakhulu kananjalo.

Ngokutsho kweengcali, xa uneli phupha, i-subconscious yakho ikuxelela ukuba ukhathazekile, ukuba uzive woyisiwe, usilele okanye ucinga ukuba abantu "banethamsanqa" banokuphumelela ebomini.

Ngokucacileyo, ukuba iintambo zithathwe kwaye injongo iqondiswe, ngomonde, ukunyamezela kunye nokusebenza iziphumo ziya kufezekiswa, nangona kule ndlela kuyinyani ukuba kunokubakho ukunyuka nokuhla.

Phupha ngenxila elindlongondlongo

Masijongane nayo, inxila ndlongondlongo ayingomntu ofuna ukudibana naye nokuba ngamaphupha akho okanye kubomi bokwenyani. Kodwa xa lo mfanekiso ubonakala ephupheni kwaye yinto oyikhumbula kakhulu ngayo, ngoko ingqondo yakho ikulumkisa ukuba kukho umntu okufutshane "onobuso obubini", oko kukuthi, ukuba akalungile njengoko unokucinga kwaye ukuba, ukuba uziphatha kakuhle nawe, mhlawumbi unika "ukuhlaba" ngasemva.

Kungenxa yoko, Sisilumkiso sokuba i-subconscious yakho ikunika ukuba ulumke.. Kodwa asikuphela kwentsingiselo.

Enye yeentsingiselo onokuthi uyithathele ingqalelo Inxulumene neengxaki zentsapho, okanye ukungathembani. Ukuba ezo ngxaki zixazululwe, ngoko uya kuba ngcono, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuthatha inyathelo ukwenza njalo.

Phupha inxili lindileqa

Umntu oqala ukuphupha enxilile

Ngamanye amaxesha amaphupha ajika abe ngamaphupha amabi, njengokuphupha inxila ikusukela. Intsingiselo yalo mhlawumbi yeyona ikhethekileyo kuzo zonke ngenxa yokuba, kwi-subconscious yakho, elanxila likusukelayo nguwe kanye. Iimpazamo zakho, iintsizi zakho, ezo zimo zengqondo ezingalunganga ... Ngamanye amazwi, "wena" awufuni kujongana nayo kuba siyazi ukuba wenze into engalunganga.

Yiyo lo nto ubalekayo asuke akulandele, kuba ingqondo yakho iyakulumkisa ukuba awuzubaleka umphelo kodwa, ukuba uyafuna ukuyisombulula, eyona nto ilungileyo kukujongana nayo.

Phupha umntu onxilileyo ofuna ukuqhuba

Kubomi bokwenene, umntu onxilileyo ofuna ukuqhuba akakho ngqiqweni, nangona sisazi ukuba oko kwenzeka izihlandlo ezininzi kunokuba besingathanda.

Emaphupheni akho, i-subconscious yakho ikuthumela isilumkiso sokuba kufuneka uphulaphule abanye. Ngapha koko, izimvo zabo, iingcebiso, iingcebiso kunye neembono zinokukunceda kwaye uphucule ubomi bakho. Kodwa ngenxa yoku uze ubayeke bathethe.

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umntu onxilileyo othetha ngokungahambelaniyo

Kukho iintlobo ezininzi ezinxilisayo, kwaye kulo mzekelo, omnye wabo unokuba ngumntu othi, xa enxila kakhulu, eqala ukuthetha ukungahambelani, engalawuleki iimvakalelo zakhe, njl. Ukuba uphupha umntu onjalo, i-subconscious yakho ikulumkisa ukuba kukho into engalunganga kuwe.

Ngokuqhelekileyo inxulumene ne-ego, ngaloo ndlela yokuzibona wena ngaphezu kwabanye. Kwaye luphawu lokuba kufuneka ujonge ukuba isimo sakho sengqondo kwabanye sanele okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, kufuneka usitshintshe.

Phupha amanxila esilwa

Xa ephupheni lakho into oyikhumbula kakhulu yindlela amanye amanxila ayesilwa ngayo, into efunwa yi-subconscious yakho kukuba awulazi icala oza kulithatha ebomini bakho. Sinokuthi loo manxila ngaphandle kokumelwa ngendlela oziva ngayo ngaphakathi, apho unokhetho oluninzi kodwa ungazi ukuba ukhethe eliphi ngenxa yeenzuzo kunye nokubi. Nangona kunjalo, usukelo lwakho kukuphila ngendlela ezolileyo kwaye ke ujonge loo ndlela ikunika ukuzola.

Enye intsingiselo yokubona amanxila esilwa emaphupheni akho Luphawu lweengxaki, iingxoxo kunye neemeko ezimbi ezinokuza ebomini bakho., okanye sele zikho, kwaye ziyenza nzima intsapho yakho, umsebenzi okanye imeko-bume yakho yobuqu.

Intsingiselo yokuphupha inxila egabhayo

Ukuphupha inxila ehlanzayo, ngaphandle kokuba lizothe; yenye yezona nguqulelo zintsokothileyo ukunika kuba eneneni ineentsingiselo ezimbini: enye i-positive kunye nenye negative. Kwaye phakathi kwezi, kukho iiyantlukwano ezimbini malunga nokuba utshatile okanye unobudlelwane, okanye ukuba awutshatanga.

Phakathi kweentsingiselo ezilungileyo xa utshatile, ibonisa ukuba uya kuba nexesha lolonwabo novuyo. Ingakanani into engachazwanga, kodwa inyaniso kukuba kwinqanaba lomntu, usapho kunye nomsebenzi uya kwenza kakuhle.

Kwelinye icala, ukuba awutshatanga, eli phupha lingabonisa ukuba umntu okhethekileyo usondela kuwe onokukwenza ujabule kakhulu. Kodwa lumka, kuba ukuba awuphenduli kulo mntu, ulonwabo lunokuhlala luncinci kakhulu.

Phakathi kweentsingiselo ezimbi, ezi zinxulumene nokudakumba, iingxaki ezingasonjululwanga okanye esingafuni ukuzicombulula, ukungabikho kwexesha lakho… Nangona ingabonisa oku, asiyonto eya kuhlala ngonaphakade; ukuba umntu uyakwazi ukujamelana nezo ngxaki kwaye azisombulule, okanye ubuncinane azame, izinto ziya kutshintsha.

Sele unaso isikhokelo ukuze, ukuba ukhe ukhumbule ukuphupha umntu onxilileyo, unokubona ukuba kuthetha ukuthini kwaye uyilungise ukuba ayilunganga, okanye uzame ukwandisa elo xesha lethamsanqa elisaza kufika. Ngaba wakha waphupha ngalo mfanekiso?


? ireferensi yoluhlu lweencwadi

Lonke ulwazi malunga nentsingiselo kunye nokutolikwa kweli phupha lilungisiwe kusetyenziswa ibhibliyografi eyaziwayo ephuhliswe ngabakhokeleyo beengcali zengqondo kunye neengcali kwicandelo ezinje Sigmund Freud, UCarl Gustav Jung okanye uMary Ann Mattoon. Ungazibona zonke iinkcukacha zencwadi ethile ngokucofa apha.

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