Ukuba unayo ndiphuphe izihlobo ezifileyo Into yokugqibela ekufuneka uyenzile kukothuka. Eyona nto iqhelekileyo kukuba oko kuthetha ukuba silahlekile ngandlel 'ithile kwaye thina ingcebiso iyafuneka okanye ulwazi oluvela kumntu esimkhathaleleyo. Sisenokufuna inkxaso ukoyisa imiqobo yekamva lethu.
Kunokwenzeka ukuba wena ngokwakho ucinga ukuba isisombululo esifanelekileyo seso sikunikwa ngumntu ongasekhoyo ephupheni, kodwa ke ubudinga ukusiva komnye umntu ukuze ukholelwe. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuvuka wonwabile kwaye ukhululeke kakhulu, into ebonakala ingaqhelekanga kakhulu ukuba ulungile ndiphupha izalamane ezifileyo.
Ngoku, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphupha ilungu losapho elifileyo okanye ngokuthe ngqo iphupha lokufa. Ukutolikwa kokugqibela kwephupha eli kuyakuxhomekeka ngokwenzekayo, imeko yakho, imeko okuyo, kunye neenkcukacha ezincinci. Ke ngoko, ayizukuba nengcaciso efanayo ukuphupha isalamane esifileyo usweleke nje, njengalowo singenalo ubudlelwane obukhulu naye. Qhubeka ufunda ukuze wazi iimeko ezahlukeneyo.
Ukuphupha abantu abafileyo kuchaphazela ubushushu bakho
Ngaba uyakhumbula ukuba umntu ongasekhoyo ubangela utshintsho lobushushu emzimbeni wakho xa ulele? Kuqhelekile ukuba uzive ubanda kwiintsuku zokuqala emva kokubhubha kothandekayo. Nangona kunjalo, obu bushushu bunokuba ngumgangatho xa ixesha elininzi lidlulile. Utshintsho lwamaqondo obushushu luqhelekile.
Ukuphupha isalamane esifileyo esikunika umyalezo
Kungenzeka ukuba isizalwane sikucenge ukuba uhambe naso, sinxibelelane ngento ebalulekileyo kuwe, simlandele, ade akucele ukuba ungaze uhambe. Unokukuanga (ungafunda ngakumbi malunga uphupha ngokuwola nakule webhusayithi) okanye akunange. Eli phupha kunokwenzeka ukuba livele kwimeko apho ukwimeko entekenteke, ngamaxesha osizi okanye uxinzelelo. Mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka ucele uncedo lobuchwephesha kwaye umxelele malunga neengxaki zakho.
Ndiphupha izalamane ezifileyo, ngaba zilungile?
Ukuphupha kwesihlobo esingasekhoyo inokuchazwa ngendlela elungileyo ngaphaya kokuvuka kukabani. Sonke siyoyika ukufa kuba yinto esingenakuyiqonda, enxulumene ngqo nokungaziwa.
Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba nathi siphendule kuwo onke amaphupha akho kwimfuno yokubona abantu esingasokuze sibabone kwakhona. Ingqondo ngokwayo iya kudala i-maze epheleleyo Ayothusi loo nto.
Ukuphupha umntu ongasekhoyo ekubukele ukude
Ukuba uphupha umntu oswelekileyo okujongileyo ekude, inokunxulumana naleyo kutsha nje unengxaki nomntu omthandayo kwaye ufuna ukuzilungisa.
Abantu abadala abaphupha izihlobo ezingasekhoyo
Ukuba ukwiminyaka yesithathu kuqhelekile iphupha lokufa kunye nezihlobo ozikhumbulayo. Banokukuxelela nokuba bakulindile kwaye oku kuyakwenza uzive wonwabile kwaye wanelisekile.
Isiphelo sokuba namaphupha nezalamane ezingasekhoyo
Ngokubanzi, inyani phupha umntu ofileyo iyakusivuyisa, iyakusenza ndiziva ndonwabile, ukuzisola okanye iminqweno yokuhlangana kwakhona nomntu omhle oye waba naye engqondweni yakho kumaxesha akutshanje.
Ukuba unethamsanqa ukuba lowo mntu usaphila, isenokuba lixesha elingcono lokuphucula ubudlelwane bakho nabo.
Kubalulekile xa uphupha izihlobo ezifileyo
Gcina ukhumbule oko sele sithethile ekuqaleni kwenqaku: kubalulekile ukuba sikhumbule zonke iinkcukacha ezinokwenzeka malunga nokulala, indlela umntu oshonileyo enza ngayo kwimeko apho avele khona. Oku kuyasinceda ukutyhila okungaziwayo okuninzi malunga nendlela oziva ngayo ngaye nangokutolikwa okuyinyani.
Ukuba kutshanje unengxaki nomntu okuhlukumezile, kwaye awazi ukuba ungaqhubeka njani, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ilungu losapho elithembekileyo livele emaphupheni. Ngayiphi na imeko, kunqabile ukuba ineentsingiselo ezimbi.
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Ngobusuku bokugqibela ndinephupha elinqabileyo elandishiya ndixakiwe imini yonke kwaye ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba lithetha ntoni.
Bendisendlwini kadadewethu, ebesikhe sayilwa ixesha elide kwaye ngequbuliso kwaphuma iqabane lam langaphambili, utata wentombi yam kwaye uhlala naye ngokungathi ngabantu abatshatileyo, ndicela inkcazo kubo kwaye bobabini benza kakhulu ngokumangalisayo, ndiyayibona yonke le nto kum utata owasweleka nge-1/1/2021 Uyasondela kum, andanga andixelele ukuba uyakuhlala endikhathalela (kodwa wayenobuso obahlukileyo, wayebonakala emncinci kodwa yayingenguye ubuso bakhe) ephupheni utata wandixelela ukuba uyakundigxotha ngaphandle kwendlu leyo yindlu yakhe, apho ahlala khona udadewethu kwaye xa ndimvulela umnyango ukuba ahambe wathi kum ndinaye kuba undinike lento (enomsindo nam) kwaye xa ndithatha le andinike yona ibinguye okanye iringi, okanye ndathi, okanye into yokudlala encinci emile okwikati emnyama kwaye ndamxelela ukuba andizange ndiyinike lonto kwaye wemka enomsindo, usisi wam wamlandela yonke indawo kodwa khange athethe futhi ndathi ndingena endlini ndabona utata kodwa babekhona abantu andikwazi ukusondela kuye.
Kwakuyinto engaqhelekanga yonke into kuba ngaphezulu kwe ex yam yayingenakuma udadewethu naye yena notata wam yindlela endandiziva ngayo ukuba nguye Kodwa ubuso bakhe babungafani, ngethemba lokuba ndingafumana impendulo kweli phupha linam lucinga kakhulu. Ukusuka sele enkosi kakhulu