Iingcali ze-Oneirology ziyadibana phupha ngekhephu ngeentsingiselo ezinethemba. I-Psychoanalysis ichaza njengophawu lomanyano losapho (lweKrisimesi), ubunyulu ngenxa yombala omhlophe weeflakes, ukuvuthwa kwengqondo ngenxa yeqondo lobushushu. Ukuba kutshanje ububukele imovie malunga nexesha lasebusika apho abantu abancinci badibana khona kwaye bathandana eNew York, ukuba kukho ikhephu kufutshane nasendlwini yakho okanye uyibonile ezindabeni, akufuneki uchaze ukutolikwa okungaphezulu kwephupha , okoko ungene kunxibelelwano ngokusebenzisa izivamvo. Kwelinye icala, ukuba i-subconscious ikhuphe umfanekiso wekhephu ngaphandle kwesizathu, ngokuqinisekileyo izizathu ziya kwahluka kakhulu.
Khumbula ukuba ukuphupha ngekhephu kunokuba neentsingiselo ezininzi, kuba ukutolikwa kwe jonga ukuwa kwamahlwantsi ekhephu ngentsasa yasebusika eyonwabisayo ayifani nokuba a ingqumbo yekhephu yangcwaba indlu yakho. Kunokubakho nesiqhwithi, ulwandle ecaleni kwalo luzele livumba, kungabanda kakhulu okanye kushushu, ngamanye amaxesha ikhephu lekholethi! Siza kuhlalutya zonke iimeko ezinokuthi zithathe inyathelo ngenyathelo, ngaba uyasayina?
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokuphupha ikhephu okanye ikhephu?
Ngokubanzi, ukuphupha ngekhephu kuneempawu ezintle. Kukungaphandle kolonwabo, ukuzola kosapho, ukuphumla ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngobunzima bemihla ngemihla. Ulele kwikhephu elimhlophe kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uhlala umzuzu omnandi kangangokuba wenziwe ngetshokholethi okanye ezinye iincasa (phinda ufumane utoliko phupha nge chocolate Apha). Uhlala uvuka uphumle kwaye wonwabile.
Ukuphupha ukuba kunekhephu kakhulu
Ikhephu kakhulu? Ukuba kuwa ikhephu elikhulu kakhulu, lichazwa njenge uphawu lokuchuma kwezoqoqosho. Mhlawumbi sele uza kuvula ishishini kwaye yonke into ihamba kakuhle, okanye unyuselwe emsebenzini ngonyuso. Akuyi kubakho kunqongophala kwemali ezandleni zakho (funda ngakumbi nge ukuphupha ngemali).
Phupha ngekhephu
Endaweni yokuphupha ngesithwathwa ebangela umonakalo esixekweni okanye ekhayeni lakho kuthetha ukuba utyhubela ixesha loxinzelelo, uxinzelelo lokuba ungazivezi iimvakalelo zakho, okanye kuba uziva ngathi uyatshona ukuze uphele inyanga. Mhlawumbi iimpikiswano phakathi kwabantakwenu okanye iqabane lakho? Inkqubo yemihla ngemihla inokubangela obu bunzima.
Iphupha lokwenza ikhephu
Ngaba umakhele indoda ekhephu? Eli phupha lihle kakhulu kuba awulilibalanga ixesha elihle lobuntwana bakho. Indlu yasemaphandleni elizweni, kwidolophu yakho, izihlobo zobuntwana, loo midlalo izizukulwana ezitsha ezingazixabisi. Ngamafutshane, uyakhumbula ukuba ngumntwana kwakhona (kuya kufuneka uyazi ifayile ye- intsingiselo yokuphupha ngabantwana).
Ukuphupha ubona amahlwantsi ekhephu
Ngaba ucinga ngamakhekhe ekhephu ecaleni kwendawo yomlilo? Ukuba uphupha usendlwini yakho kwaye ubona ngeso lengqondo ikhephu elimhlophe qhwa okanye iqhwa elibandayo lekhaya lakho elishushu, oko kuthetha ukuba uzolile kwaye wonwabile ngobomi bakho. Elula okanye obutofotofo, unayo into oyifunayo ukuze uncume rhoqo kusasa xa uvuka ebhedini. Ukongeza, ukuba sekhaya kwaye ubona i-sleet ngaphandle, isichotho okanye umkhenkce, kutolikwa ukuba uziva ukhuselekile, akukho ngxaki ngokubhekisele kwingqibelelo yakho yengqondo okanye yobuqu. Ukuba unengxaki, awuyiniki ukubaluleka kuba ayikufanelanga, unezixhobo ezaneleyo zokuzisombulula.
Ndiphupha ikhephu elininzi
Ngaba yingqele yekhephu eliwayo? Ngaba kuza ikhephu? Iyafana nentsingiselo yesaqhwithi, kodwa ayifani. Kuthetha ukuba ukuba woyika ingxaki ebomini bakho kodwa ukwazile ukubaleka i-avalanche, unobuntu obungapheliyo obusokola ukujongana nobunzima. Ukuba ujonge ukuwa kwayo ukusuka entabeni kwaye isondela kuwe, uhlalutyo lwengqondo luyakuchaza oko ungenzi nto kwaye ufuna abanye ukuba baphume enkathazweni.
Ukuphupha ikhephu nemvula
Mhlawumbi i-subconscious ikubonise ikhephu kunye nemvula? Ukuba ngexesha lephupha amaqhekeza ekhephu athe awe kuqala kodwa emva koko anyibilike yimvula, kunokuba njalo uphawu lwebipolar. Nangona kunjalo, ukucacisa ngcono ukutolikwa kwamaphupha, ndicebisa ukuba ufunde kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha imvula.
Ividiyo ngentsingiselo yokuphupha ngekhephu
Ukuba ufumene eli nqaku malunga kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ikhephu, Ndikucebisa ukuba ufunde ezinye ezifanayo kwicandelo yamaphupha aqala ngonobumba uN.
Ndiphuphe ndibona ikhephu liwa kwaye ndilifumene ezandleni zam, bendisazi ukuba ayinakwenzeka ikhephu kuba sikwihlobo lasehlotyeni kwaye kwindawo endihlala kuyo akukho khephu. Umoya wam wawumangalisiwe kodwa ndonwabe kakhulu kukubona indlela ipatiyo eqala ngayo ukujika imhlophe.
Ndingathanda ukwazi intsingiselo
Izolo ndiphuphe ndinomntwana ezandleni zam kwaye besikwibhulorho (iliso yonke into ibinjengobusuku) kwaye ngaphandle kwendawo isiqingatha sebhulorho saba namafu kunye nesiphepho sekhephu kwaye abanye bahlala kwibhulorho kwaye ndenza njalo. Ndiwele nomntwana ndingenangxaki, ndikhumbula nje ukuba bendigodola kakhulu ndavuka. Qaphela ukuba bendivule ifestile kwaye kuyanetha kukho ingqele yokuba uYesu Kristu hahaha
Molweni ndihlala emzantsi, kwaye ndiphuphe ndivuka yonke into imhlophe. I-Serene, ayininzi kodwa ikhephu liwile. Kusehlotyeni, kwaye akukho khephu apha. Andikuva ukubanda xa ndiyichukumisa, kufana ne-meringue eshinyeneyo. Nasendlini kukho amashiti amhlophe ayoma kwizifudumezi, andiva kushushu okanye kubanda. Yothusa nje, akukho khephu apha.