Amaphupha nawo ayindlela apho i-subconscious yethu izama ukucwangcisa iinkumbulo zayo. Kodwa ikwasilumkisa nangezinto ezithile ezenzekayo ezisingqongileyo okanye ezingayi kusichaphazela. Kule meko, ukuphupha ukuhlamba ilindle yinto esingayithandi kakhulu, kodwa ingenzeka. Kuthetha ukuthini xa oku kusenzeka? Ngaba yinto entle okanye embi?
Nangona isenzo ngokwaso singemnandanga kakhulu ukusibona okanye ukujoja, inyaniso kukuba, kuxhomekeke kwimeko ozifumana ukuyo, inokuba yinto entle okanye embi. Siyicacisa ngezantsi.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha uzikhulula
Njengamaphupha, akunakutshiwo ukuba anentsingiselo engaguqukiyo. Kwaye ke, kuxhomekeke kwimeko yephupha, nokuba nguye, okanye omnye umntu, okanye ezinye iinkalo, ukuphupha uzithuma inokuba yinto entle okanye embi.
Nangona kwiimeko ezininzi kunokuba mbi, kukho ezinye iimeko apho i-subconscious yakho ikulumkisa ngento enhle. Eyiphi? Sizibona ngezantsi.
Ukuphupha ukuya kwindlu yangasese, kuthetha ukuthini?
Ngaba ukhe waphupha ukuba kufuneka uye kwigumbi lokuhlambela ukuze uzikhulule? Oku, kholwa okanye hayi, yinto engokwemvelo kwaye eqhelekileyo enokuthi yenzeke ephupheni. Ingxaki yile intsingiselo yayo ayilunganga.
Eneneni, xa oku kusenzeka ephupheni oko kubonisa ukuba iingxaki ziya kuza. Ezi zinokuba kunye nosapho, kunye nomsebenzi, kunye noqoqosho, kunye namatyala ... Kodwa iqikelela ixesha lobunzima.
Enye yeentsingiselo ezinikiweyo kukuba uzive uwedwa nosapho, iqabane, izihlobo...
Phupha ukubona omnye umntu ezithuma
Oku mhlawumbi yeyona nto inqabileyo onokuba nayo, kodwa ingenzeka. Nangona kunjalo, asiyonto yesiqhelo ukuyiphila (okanye ukuyiphupha). Kodwa yona yinyani ithetha "intloni". Sisalathisi ukuba Uza kwenza into, okanye ukuba uyenzile, kwaye awuziva mnandi ngawe.
Isenokuba kungenxa yokuba ubeke into ethile phambili, okanye ngenxa yokuba uye wazuza, ngokobuqu okanye ngokomsebenzi, kwaye uziva uneentloni ngoko kwenzekileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, kwakhona enye intsingiselo kwaye ukuba neentloni, ukungabi nabuganga bokuthatha inyathelo ebomini bakho, nokuba kukuthatha iintambo okanye ukwenza unothanda kakhulu.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha uzikhulula kakhulu
Ukuba ephupheni lakho umyinge wesitulo osidlulayo okanye osibonayo siphezulu kakhuluNgaphandle kokungacoceki, inyani kukuba ineentsingiselo ezimbini:
- Kwelinye icala, isenokuba yingqokelela enkulu yobunzima ukuba unaye nomthwalo ophezu kwabo bonke.
- Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iyakuba kukukhanya ekupheleni kwetonela, oko kukuthi, obu bunzima buqalisa ukuconjululwa kancinane.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, iingcali zifumanisa ukuba yinto efanelekileyo kuba yonke into inomda kwaye nakwintsingiselo yokuqala, kufika kwindawo apho iingxaki zisonjululwa.
Ukuphupha uzama ukuzithuma kodwa ube ungakwazi kuthetha ukuthini?
Ukuba ephupheni lakho uzama ukukhupha isisu kodwa awukwazi, ewe ligama elibi kuba libonisa ukuba iingxaki kunye nobunzima onayo ebomini ayisonjululwa kwaye, ukongezelela, unomntu okanye abathile abazama ukukuthintela ukuba uqhubele phambili.
Singatsho ukuba Ukungcatshwa ngumntu osondele kakhulu kukungqongile.
Phupha udlala ngelindle
Oku mhlawumbi lelinye lawona maphupha axhaphakileyo kubantwana abancinci, kuba njengabantu abadala asiqhelekanga ukuba nalo kuziphatha. Kodwa i-subconscious yakho inokudlala amaqhinga kuwe kwaye ikwenze uphuphe ngendawo yokubona udlala ngeelindle.
Ewe, ukuba oko kuyenzeka, yazi loo nto ube nexhala kwaye ngokukodwa, ixhala malunga nemeko yakho yezemali kunye nokhuseleko. Ke, ukunqanda ukuphupha ngale nto kwakhona, ungayenza icace loo miba mibini.
Iphupha lokuzikhulula kodwa ungakwazi ukususa ilindle
Ukuba uke waphupha ukuba uye kwindlu yokuhlambela, kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba unzima kangakanani ukucoca ikhonkco, abahambi, ngoko. oko kubonisa ukuba ucinezela iimvakalelo zakho, ukuba awubonisi ezo mvakalelo unazo kwaye, njengelindle, baye banamathela kuwe kwaye kuphela ngokukhupha oko uvakalelwa kukuba uya kukwazi ukuyiphelisa loo ngxaki.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha urhudo
Enye imeko onokuthi uyikhumbule xa uvuka kwiphupha lakho kukuba unesifo sohudo. Urhudo luthetha ukuba awukwazi ukulawula into ethile ebomini bakho, ngokuqhelekileyo iimvakalelo zakho kunye uziva njani.
Kufana nokuba uyazivumela ukuba uhambe okomzuzwana kodwa ufuna ngokwenene ukutshintsha into ethile kobo bomi, kuphela awukwenzi kwaye uphazamisekile ukuvumela ezona mvakalelo zimbi ukuba zivele (okanye ukufihla okubi kunye nezakhayo).
Phupha malunga nokuhamba kwamathumbu esidlangalaleni
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuhlambalaza yinto esithanda ukuyenza sodwa kwindawo yokuhlambela, ngoko ukuphupha ukuba uyenza phambi koluntu kunokubonakala ngathi kukuhlazeka kwangempela. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba besikuxelele loo nto lelinye lawona maphupha amnandi ngokuzithuma onokuba nalo?
Yiyo ke loo nto. inika impumelelo.
Enyanisweni, Iya kuba yinto eya kuza kwaye itshintshe ubomi bakho ngonaphakade. Inokuba yintoni? Ewe, umntu oza kukuxhasa, umsebenzi omtsha, iprojekthi enengeniso kakhulu ...
Nangona unokucinga ukuba kuyayibangela iintloni, kwakhona iyakuxelela ukuba womelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungoyiki imingeni, izimvo kunye nokugxekwa ngabanye abantu, kodwa ungaqhubela phambili ngaphandle kokunikela ingqalelo kwinto ongafanele ukwenze.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukungabambeki wenze ebhulukhweni
Elinye lamaphupha anokunika i-creeps eninzi kukuhlamba ibhulukhwe yakho, ngaphandle kokukwazi ukuya kwindlu yangasese ngexesha.
Ukuba oko kuyenzeka, ufanele wazi ukuba ikuxelela loo nto unesidima esiphantsi kwaye, okwangoku, wenza izigqibo ezimbi kakhulu. Ke ngoko, "libala" kuwe, into engahambi kakuhle kwaye ekuchaphazelayo.
Yintoni ebonisa ukuzithuma kwaye awukwazi ukuzicoca
Ukuba ephupheni lakho uyazithuma kodwa awukwazi ukuzicoca, i-subconscious yakho itsala ingqalelo yakho kwiingxaki zobomi bakho. Kwaye kukuba uyaziphepha, kodwa ngaloo ndlela izinto aziyi kusonjululwa, kodwa ziya kuqokelelana kwaye oko kuya kuchaphazela ubomi bakho.
Ngoku lithuba lakho lokuba ukhumbule ukuba lalinjani iphupha kwaye ukhangele intsingiselo yokuphupha ukuzikhulula.
