Xa uphupha izigebenga, wawukhe uzive ungaphantsi kwabanye, ungabalulekanga kweli hlabathi. Umlo ovela kubazali bakho wokungaphumeleli uviwo, umqolo ovela kutitshala esikolweni okanye isiganeko nomphathi wakho emsebenzini inokuba ingunobangela wale mvakalelo. Uziva umncinci phambi kwabanye, ungenamandla, ungakwazi ukwenza.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye iindlela zokutolika ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko zephupha. Umzekelo, ayithethi okufanayo ukuba isigebenga sikuleqe (funda ngakumbi malunga ndiphupha ukuba bayandileqa) ukuba nguwe umntu omkhulu onyathela ilali engenakuzikhusela. Ke ngoko, kufanelekile ukuba ufunde onke amathuba.