Leli isayithi lakho ukuze ukwazi ukubheka zonke izincazelo zalezo zinto ezivela ephusheni lakho nalokho qala ngohlamvu C. Ngoba wonke amaphupho anokuchazwa kwawo nengxenye ngayinye, isimo noma umcimbi unohlobo oluthile lobubanzi futhi kungakususa kukho konke ukungabaza.
Amahhashi, izinsimbi, izindlu, ama-aphoyintimenti, imigwaqo… konke kunokubonakaliswa kokuqonda kwethu okungabonakalisa okuthile ngaphakathi kwethu. Vuma umyalezo wabo ngokuchofoza igama ngalinye.
Uma siphupha, azikho izikhathi eziningi lapho sinethuba lokuthonya lokho okucatshangwa yi-subconscious yethu efuna ukusibonisa kona. Yingakho sivame ukuhlangana nezinto ezingajwayelekile. Ukuphupha ihhashi elimnyama kuyaphi, into esingayisho ijwayelekile.
Kodwa ingabe kuyinto enhle noma embi? Kwenzekani uma sinalezo zinhlobo zamaphupho? Lapha sikuchazela konke.
Wake washayela emaphusheni akho? ukuphupha ukushayela Akuyona into engavamile, ephambene. Khombisa ikhono lakho lokulawula ezimweni ezithile futhi ukuyise kwelinye iphuzu empilweni yakho.
Kodwa-ke, lapho uphupha, kungase kube nezincazelo eziningi ezahlukene ezisekelwe ekushayeleni imoto, ibhasi, iloli, isithuthuthu ... Kuthiwani ngokuthi sikushiye incazelo yezinto ezivame kakhulu?
Namuhla uzokwazi ngokuningiliziwe kusho ukuthini ukuphupha imoto ngoba kuningi ongakuchaza ngakho. Imoto (noma imoto njengoba yaziwa eLatin America) ingu izindlela zokuhamba ezisetshenziswa kakhulu kuwo wonke umphakathi. Ubuntofontofo, ukuphepha nokushesha okukunikezwa yimoto kuphakeme kakhulu kunezinye izimoto, yingakho isetshenziswa kakhulu, yingakho kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuba namaphupho ngenye yazo, ikakhulukazi uma ungumthandi wezimoto ukugijima.
Okokuqala, kufanele wazi ukuthi angikwazi ukukuchazela ngokuchazwa kwephupho ngaphandle kokuqhubeka, ngoba okokuqala kufanele uhlaziye umongo lapho iphupho lakho lenzeka khona kanye nezimo zakho. Isibonelo, akusho okufanayo uma i-subconscious ikubonisa wena ukushayela imoto entsha (njengeFerrari), uma ufakaza ingozi yemoto lapho isihlobo sasihamba khona. Uyayibona?
Uma uzibuza kusho ukuthini ukuphupha izinyoka, kule ndatshana uzokwazi yonke imininingwane engaba khona. Izinyoka ziyizinhlobo zomndeni wezinyoka, owesigaba se-sauropsids. Igama layo lesayensi ngu I-Natrix natrix futhi ngokujwayelekile thina bantu sibahlanganisa nezimo ezingezinhle, ikakhulukazi lapho siphupha.
Sizwa usizi futhi sivuke sinovalo ngoba kube yiphupho elibi kakhulu kunanoma yini enye. Isizathu ukuthi eziningi zazo zinobuthi, azinabo ubungane kubantu.
Kule ndatshana ngichaza ngokuningiliziwe kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ummese. I imimese Ziyisitsha sasekhishini esiwusizo kakhulu futhi ngokungangabazeki esinye sezinto ezithakazelisa kakhulu futhi ezisetshenzisiwe zesintu. Ngenxa yabo asidingi amazinyo ethu ukusika ukudla, asizilimazi thina futhi sivimbela uhlelo lwethu lokugaya ukudla ukuthi lusebenze ngaphezu kokudingekile.
Nsuku zonke sinommese ezandleni zethu futhi singakwazi ukuwusebenzisa kaningi, yingakho kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuwaphupha. Kodwa-ke, okokuqala ngifuna ukukutshela lokho kunezincazelo eziningi ezingaba khonanjengoba umongo ungahluka kakhulu. Okusho ukuthi, akusho okufanayo ukuphupha uxebula amazambane, ukuthi bakubambe inkunzi bakufaka ummese entanyeni, noma kugcwele igazi. Ingabe kukhona izimpi ezihilelekile? Ziphukile? Noma ubona nje ikhishi lisethelwe ngezimfoloko nezinkezo? Ingabe yigolide noma isiliva? Njengoba ukwazi ukubona, kunamathuba amaningi futhi ngifuna ukukukhombisa konke.
Kule ndatshananoma mayelana kusho ukuthini ukuphupha amathuna wena rNgiveza konke ukutolikwa kwaleli phupho. Ubuwazi lokho amathuna namathuna kubangela inhlonipho kubantu abangaphezu kwama-70% emhlabeni? Uke waphupha nganoma yikuphi, ubona amabhokisi omngcwabo namatshe amathuna abantu obaziyo noma ongabazi? Akuyona iphupho elijwayeleke kakhulu kepha ngokuqinisekile iningi lenu kwesinye isikhathi ezimpilweni zethu belilangazelela ukuya emathuneni ebusuku.
Abaningi bethu bayazibuza ukuthi yini emva kokuphila, emva kokufa, okungabangelwa yini phupha amabhokisi avaliwe noma evulekile, amatshe amathuna noma wonke amathuna. Kepha kunezincazelo eziningi ezingaba khona ngokuya ngesimo esivezwe yimicabango engezansi. Ungahamba imini nobusuku, ukuthi kukhona amathuna noma amabhokisi omngcwabo, ozithola usufile, ukuthi amathuna ngokwawo mahle kakhulu, amadala noma awezingane kuphela, izilwane. Noma nokuthi amathuna asencithakalo.
Elinye lamaphupho eliphindaphindwe kakhulu emasontweni adlule leli. Ngakho-ke sonke sifuna ukwazi ukuthi incazelo yokuphupha nge-coronavirus. Umphakathi wethu ubhekene nesikhathi esibucayi futhi lokhu kwenze nomqondo wethu nomzimba wethu wasabela kukho ngandlela thile.
Ngamaphupho sikhonjiswa nakho konke esikuqongelele engcondvweni yethu futhi okungaveli njalo. Yingakho namhlanje, sizothola zonke izincazelo iphupho elisinika zona lapho kukhona izifo noma amagciwane. Naka konke lokhu!
Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi yini kusho ukuthini ukuphupha amaphela? Amaphela awuhlobo lwe- izinambuzane abakhetha ukuhlala ezindaweni ezingcolile noma lapho izinga lokushisa liphakeme kakhulu. Ukuchazwa okuningi kwaleli phupho kuhlobene nokuthi kufanele ubone impilo ngenye indlela, ukuthi isikhathi sesifikile sokwenza ushintsho.
Kepha kungahilela okuningi kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, lapho siphupha amaphela kungumqondo wethu uqobo ositshela lokho sidinga ushintsho olukhulu. Kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi kunokuthile okukuvimbela ukuthi uqhubekele phambili, okukhombisa ukuthi udinga ushintsho ezingeni lomqondo ukuze ukwazi ukunqoba konke. Kodwa-ke, kunezindlela eziningi zokuhumusha, ngoba kuzobaluleka kakhulu uma amaphela owabona emakhulu noma emancane, kanye nenani lawo.
Kunezincazelo eziningi ze- amaphupho okuwela esikhaleni. Ukuze uthole iziphetho ezinembile, kufanele uqale ufunde lo mhlahlandlela bese ukhipha incazelo ngokuya ngezimo ozethulelwe i-subconscious nokuziphatha kwakho ephusheni. Imvamisa imelela isici esithile sempilo yakho, kepha izindaba ezinhle ukuthi ungayilungisa.
Uma ukungazi kahle okubonise kuwe kubonakala kungazenzakaleli, ukuphupha izinkalankala imele ingxenye ethile yempilo yakho yothando okuhambisana nokuthandana, okungukuthi, ubudlelwano obuzohlala isikhathi eside naphezu kwezingqinamba. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kunabantu abambalwa abavame ukuba namaphupho ngezinkalankala, ikakhulukazi labo abababona nsuku zonke noma abanobuhlobo obuthile bomkhuba ne-crustacean.
Kepha kunezinhlobo eziningi zamaphupho lapho kungavela khona inkalankala, ngayinye inencazelo ehlukile. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi umongo ushintsha ukuhumusha, okungukuthi, Akufani nokuphupha izinkalankala ezifuywayo ethangini lezinhlanzi (kufanekisela ukuthula kwangaphakathi othandweni) vumela lesi silwane ukukujaha futhi sikuhlasele ngeziqu zabo (ukwesaba ukuyekethisa). Ngakho-ke ngincoma ukuthi ufunde wonke amathuba wokuthola iziphetho zakho ngokuya ngesimo sakho somzwelo.
Wanna uyazi kusho ukuthini ukuphupha amagwababa echobana? Akudingekile ukuba ngumlandeli ka-Edgar Allan Poe noma ukuthi ufunde umsebenzi wakhe Igwababa ukuphupha ngalenyoni. Emakhulwini eminyaka edlule igwababa lithathwa njengophawu lobumnyama, ukwesaba, ukwesaba nokufa. Eqinisweni, kwamanye amazwe bambiza ngokuthi "inkosi yasebusuku." Amabhayisikobho ama-Horror nochungechunge asebenzisa umsindo oyingozi wegwababa bese elibeka egatsheni elimnyama lesihlahla noma etsheni lesikhumbuzo. Impendulo ingahluka kakhulu, kepha imvamisa ihlotshaniswa nokuvela kwemizwa engemihle enjengokwesaba ikusasa noma ukungaqiniseki. Ingabe unezinsuku ezimbi?
Lezo zikhathi lapho uzizwa ucindezeleke kakhulu, ukuthi izenzo zakho azihambi noma ukuthi izinhloso zakho azifezekeki, kungenzeka ukuphupha ngezinwele. Izinwele zingenye yezingxenye eziyigugu kakhulu kuwo wonke umzimba wethu. Ekuqaleni, akekho ongathanda ukubukeka enempandla, okungenani kunjani ukuthi imicu iwa kanjani. Njengoba ubonile, kunezincazelo ezimbalwaAwu, iphupho lapho izinwele ziyachitheka kusukela ekhanda ukuze ubukeke ukuhlanganisa izinwele zakho phambi kwesibuko. Yingakho ngincoma ukuthi ufunde le ndatshana ngokucophelela.
Awudingi ukuba ngumlandeli wezokusubatha, nokugijima futhi angikaze ngibone ama-movie afana nalawa Forrest Gump o Udinga ukusheshisa ukuze iphupho lokugijima. Lesi senzo singaphezu komdlalo, ngoba ungagijima ubambe isitimela ngoba sesizoshiya ungasigibelanga, ngoba ubalekela umuntu noma usukela isela uma uyiphoyisa. Lokho wukuthi, lo msebenzi uyingxenye yempilo yansuku zonke yingakho kujwayelekile ukuphupha ngawo.
Ngalo mqondo, iphupho lingahunyushwa ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene kakhulu ngokuya ngomongo nangesakhiwo salo; Akufani uma ugijima ungakhathali, uma ngokungazelelwe uqala ukundiza (bheka incazelo yamaphupho ngokundiza) noma uma uzama ukunyathela kepha ungahambeli phambili. Sasithini isivinini sakho? Bekuna imvula? Bekusemini noma ubusuku obumnyama nobunesizungu?}
Iphupho likashokholethi akuvamile njengokukwenza nayo izinyoka o izicabucabu, kepha kumnandi ngokwengeziwe. Ukuthi ukwazi okunganakile kukukhombisa okumnandi kuyisizathu sokukuthanda, ngoba imvamisa incazelo iyakhanya. Ikhekhe, ikhekhe, ushokoledi. Zonke zimnandi. Kepha iyini ngempela incazelo yaleli phupho?
Khumbula ukuthi ukuze uhumushe iphupho lakho kahle, kubalulekile ukuthi ubheke umongo, ukuthi isakhiwo senzeka kanjani nokuthi yisiphi isigaba sempilo yakho odlula kuso. Isibonelo, akufani ukuphupha uphuza inkomishi yoshokoledi oshisayo ekhaya (isizathu sokuthula) kunokugwinya ushokoledi (awuzizwa ukhululekile ngokudla okwenzayo). Uzothola yonke imininingwane engezansi.
Namuhla sizokwethula kwangempela incazelo yokuphupha ngentombazane noma umfana omthandayo. Ukuphupha ngomuntu omthandayo kujwayelekile. Kujwayelekile ukuthi ube naleli phupho kaninginingi kuze kufike isikhathi lapho uyeka ukuba nalo. Akufanele uzizwe ukhungathekile uma lokhu kwenzeka kuwe, ngoba imizwa ayinakulawulwa futhi ibonakaliswa kokungazi kwethu.
Wonke umuntu angakwazi iphupho lezinwele ezimpunga ngenxa yezici ezithile zobuntu, ngangokunokwenzeka uphupha ukuthi amazinyo akho ayawa. Abantu abaningi banamaphupho lapho kubonakala sengathi bampunga ezinweleni zabo, ngoba ukudlula kweminyaka kubenza bakhathazeke ngokuguga. Izinwele ezimhlophe ziluphawu lokuzibophezela, ukuvuthwa kanye nesigaba esisha empilweni.
Kule ndatshana uzokwazi yonke imininingwane ephathelene nokufanekisa okufana nephupho kwezinwele ezimpunga, ngoba incazelo yephupho iyahlukahluka kuye ngezimo nangokwengqikimba lapho indaba inikezwa khona. Isibonelo, akufani ukuphupha izinwele zigcwele impunga eziwayo (ukwesaba ukuguga), ukuze gqoka izinwele ezimpunga ezinhle Isitayela sikaRichard Gere (ukuziqinisekisa).
Kule ndatshana ngiyachaza kusho ukuthini ukuphupha inyama, ngoba kungaxaka futhi kuhlwanyele ukungabaza. I- inyama Kungokunye kokudla okukhona kakhulu empilweni yethu. Singalungisa izinkulungwane zokupheka ngayo, kusuka ku-steak yenkomo elula eyosiwe kuya esifubeni senkukhu esiphekiwe kwabanempilo kakhulu. Sibona nsuku zonke, ngakho-ke kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi umuntu oqondayo avuse amaphupho ngakho.
Okokuqala, ngiyakukhumbuza ukuthi kubalulekile ukubhekisisa zonke izehlakalo zephupho, ngoba incazelo ihluka kakhulu. Isibonelo, akufani uma kunjalo ukupheka inyama yenkomo yenkomo kuthiwani uma ukhona ukudla inyama yenkomo eyosiwe, luhlaza noma lubolile. Kulokhu, ukudla bekuzothatha isihlalo sangemuva futhi isenzo (ukudla) kungaba yingxenye ebalulekile. Funda kabanzi mayelana uphuphe udle ngokuchofoza lapha. Lokho kusho, siqhubeka nokuchaza incazelo yamaphupho ejwayelekile.
Namuhla ngiza ukukuveza kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ujele. Kunamaphupho ahlala ephindaphindwa njalo ebusuku futhi abonakala exakile kakhulu. Empeleni, kunesizathu esichaza konke futhi yingakho uze lapha. Njengomthetho ojwayelekile, la maphupho abhekisa esimweni somqondo womuntu, kanye nakonembeza wakhe. Into ejwayelekile ukuthi unomuzwa wokuphelelwa umoya, ukucindezeleka nokuntuleka kwenkululeko. Futhi, kuhunyushwa njengoba unjalo uzicindezela wena futhi awuthathi izinqumo ongathanda ukuzenza, ngoba iphutha elilodwa lingaholela enhlekeleleni.
Kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ungahlali endlini eyodwa kusukela ebuntwaneni. Izikhathi eziningi lokhu kuphupha futhi kusuka ekuhlaleni isigaba se-nostalgic. Njengengane wawujabule kakhulu futhi manje ungathanda ukubuyela kokwedlule. Ziyizinkumbulo ezinhle zobuntwana bakho. Kepha kunezinkulungwane zezizathu zokuthi kungani ikhaya lingafika engqondweni ngenkathi ulele. Kule ndatshana ngiyachaza kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ekhaya.
Kepha kufanele wazi ukuthi kunezinhlobonhlobo eziningi zamaphupho ezizoguqula ukutolika kokugcina. Izici ezinjengethonya lomongo; Ngabe uphuphe indlu ehaunted, okusha noma okudala? Ingabe yashiywa noma yahlaselwa? Mhlawumbe ungcolile futhi ugcwele amanzi? Kunamathuba amaningi. Futhi, kufanele unake izikhathi lapho uthosa khona, ngoba isikhathi se-nostalgic singakukhumbuza ngobuntwana, abangane bakho bakudala abagijima kuwo wonke amakamelo. Ngakho-ke, sizobona wonke amathuba, ukuze uthole incazelo ngokuya ngokwazi okukukhombise kona emahoreni akho okulala.
Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi yini Ngabe kusho ukuphupha indle, indle noma isichitho? Noma kungabonakala ngenye indlela, iqiniso yilokho amaphupho endle noma indle Zivame kakhulu. Izingane eziningi nabantu asebekhulile baphupha ukuthi bazikhulula embhedeni, futhi, ngeshwa, lapho bevuka bayabona ukuthi yilokhu okwenzekile ngempela. Ukuhumusha kuhluka kakhulu kuye ngomuntu ngamunye kanye nesimo esibangela iphupho.
Ngeke kufane ukubona i- indle yengane noma umuntu omdala, ukuthi a ubulwane bezilwane njengenja, igundane, unogwaja. Ukutholakala kwendle nakho kuzobaluleke kakhulu, uma ngabe sithole indle kwenye indawo noma uma siphikisane nayo. Izincazelo zingahluka kakhulu.
Uma udla ukudla ukuze unciphise isisindo, ukunakekela kakhulu ukudla kwakho namakhalori owadlayo, kungenzeka ukuthi uphuphe udla noma udla. Abaningi bathi siyikho esikudlayo, futhi ngokwengxenye umzimba wethu uyinkomba yemikhuba yokudla. Uma uzibuza kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ngokudla, kule ndatshana ngiveza zonke izincazelo zamaphupho.
Khumbula ukuthi ukudla okuningi esikudlayo kungamandla omzimba, kanye nezakhi zomzimba. Ngokwalesi sizathu, ama-psychoanalysts ahlobanisa lezi zinhlobo zamaphupho nokukhathazeka kwangaphakathi. Kodwa-ke, kunezincazelo eziningi ezingaba khona ngokuya ngomongo owethulwe yi-subconscious, kanye nesimo sakho siqu. Akusho ukuthi iphupho elifanayo ukuphupha unenala yokudla njengoba kubolile, kushile noma kulimele. Kwesinye isikhathi uyithola izikelemu, noma izinwele, kokunye kube usawoti nje. Ubonile? Ake sibone zonke izincazelo ngamunye ngamunye.
Ukuphupha izingwenya noma izingwenya Kungafiphaza iphupho lakho, kuliguqule libe yiphupho langempela. Lezi zilwane ezinkulu zingenza singabi nokuthula, zivuke ngokushaya kwenhliziyo okubangelwe nokuphefumula kanzima. Uma uke wabona idokhumentari lapho kwakhulunywa khona ngalezi zidalwa, ngisho nevidiyo lapho bahlasela khona abantu, nansi incazelo yephupho lakho. Kepha uma kungenjalo, kunezincazelo eziningi zamaphupho.
Khumbula ukuthi akuwona wonke amaphupho anokuchazwa okufanayo. Umuntu ngamunye unengqondo ehlukile futhi ukutolikwa kufanele kwenziwe kunaka yonke imininingwane. Ngeke kufane ukuhlangana nengulube noma ingwenya encane, kunokuhlangana nenkulu nesindala, ukuthi bayakuhlasela, ake bakusukele, noma babulale. Noma imiphi imininingwane izokwenza umehluko uma kuziwa ekutholeni incazelo eyiqiniso.
Phupha ngamahhashi zivame ukuhlotshaniswa nebika elihle. Futhi ukuthi ihhashi liwuphawu lokuthembeka, udumo nobukhulu. Kujwayelekile ukuphupha ngazo, ngoba zivame ukuhlotshaniswa nokwethembeka nobumnene bomphuphi. Uma ungathanda ukwazi ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi yini kusho ukuthini ukuphupha amahhashi, kule ndatshana uzokwazi ukuhumusha okungenzeka.
Uma usuvele usifundile kule bhulogi le- okushiwo amaphupho, lapho-ke uzokwazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze ngaphambi kokuqala ukutolika noma yiliphi iphupho. Kuzofanele uhlaziye imininingwane yephupho nesimo sakho sangasese: futhi ngeke kufane ngiphuphe ngehhashi eligijimayoUma egula, enamandla, uma enombala ojwayelekile noma enethoni eyinqaba, uma emnene noma enolaka, uma ezishaya yena, uma bekuhlasela nganoma iyiphi indlela.
Namuhla sizobona ukuthi kutolikwa kanjani ukuthi i-subconscious ikukhombisa ukuthi ushada kanjani, ngoba kuyisimo esinezincazelo ezihlukile ngokuya ngemizwa yakho, umongo wephupho nesimo sakho semizwa. Thola ngezansi kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ushada. Kwezinye izindatshana esivele sikhulume ngazo amaphupho omshado o ngomshado. Imvamisa lapho isimo sakho somshado singashadile, umshado umele isifiso sakho sokushada futhi wakhe umndeni. Uma usuvele unomlingani, izincazelo zincike kakhulu kwezinye izinto esizichaza ngezansi.
Phupha ngemidlwane kungenzeka kakhulu uma unenja ekhulelwe. Isifiso nenkohliso yokwamukela izilwane ezifuywayo ezintsha kushukumisa kuwe ukuthi i-subconscious ikubonise zona ngenkathi ulele. Akunandaba ukuthi bayini amaphupho namakati, onogwaja noma ake iphupho libe nemidlwane yezinja, okubalulekile ukuthi kungekudala uzoba nelungu elisha emndenini. Noma kunjalo, leli phupho akwenzeki kuphela kulabo abalinda isilwane, kepha futhi zinophawu nencazelo ngokobuntu bakho nangamasiko okhulele kuwo. Kulesi sihloko sizobona yonke imininingwane ukuze sihumushe kahle ukuthi amaphupho anemidlwane asho ukuthini.
Ngabe ufuna ukwazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuphupha iminenke? Impela useyingane wake wahamba nomzala wakho ukuyolanda iminenke edolobheni. Into ejwayelekile ukuthi uyenza ngemuva kwezinsuku zemvula, ngoba yilapho bephumela ngaphandle. Ezindaweni eziningi kunezindlela eziningi zokupheka ezineminenke, njengeminenke enotamatisi ne-chorizo. Uma ubungazi, igama lesayensi lomnenke ovamile wensimu ngu- Helix aspersa.
Uma ezinsukwini ezedlule uke waxhumana nale mollusk, ngokwesibonelo uma uke wabona i-movie noma idokhumentari lapho ivele khona, kungaba yinto ejwayelekile ngokuphelele ukuthi ube nephupho ngazo. Kodwa lokho akudingeki ukuthi kube njalo, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi uphuphe ngeminenke ngaphandle kokuthintana muva nje futhi kulezo zimo lapho kufanele sisebenzise i-psychoanalysis ukuthola imvelaphi nencazelo yephupho lakho ngeminenke.