Namuhla ngiza ukukuveza kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ujele. Kunamaphupho ahlala ephindaphindwa njalo ebusuku futhi abonakala exakile kakhulu. Empeleni, kunesizathu esichaza konke futhi yingakho uze lapha. Njengomthetho ojwayelekile, la maphupho abhekisa esimweni somqondo womuntu, kanye nakonembeza wakhe. Into ejwayelekile ukuthi unomuzwa wokuphelelwa umoya, ukucindezeleka nokuntuleka kwenkululeko. Futhi, kuhunyushwa njengoba unjalo uzicindezela wena futhi awuthathi izinqumo ongathanda ukuzenza, ngoba iphutha elilodwa lingaholela enhlekeleleni.
Ezinye izincazelo zokuphupha ngejele
Wake waphupha ukuthi intombi yakho isejele? Kusho lokho awumethembi ngokuphelele, unezinsolo zokuthi kungenzeka angathembeki noma nokuthi usezokuphoxa. Uma siphupha ukuthi sisidlulisile isigwebo saphuma ejele, sichazwa kahle. Kusho ukuthi ekugcineni uzikhulule ekwesabeni kwakho futhi ekugcineni ungaqala amaphrojekthi akho bese wenza leso sinqumo esikubiza kakhulu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusho nokuthi uxazulule ukungaboni ngaso linye nomuntu omthandayo noma ilungu lomndeni. Ngabe ububaleka ejele? Leli phupho lisho ukuthi konke kungenziwa kuwe, ukuthi isimo sikhulu noma leso udinga ukwaba imisebenzi ngoba usukhula kakhulu muva nje. Ungesabi ukubeka eceleni okungakufanele.
Uma siphupha ukuthi siphuma ejele, kusho okuthile okuhle: sasusa ukwesaba kwethu nasempilweni sizokwenza kahle kokubili othandweni nasemsebenzini, yize abanye begcina ngokusihalela. Uma, ngaphezu kokuba sejele, uphupha ukuthi uhlukanisiwe noma uboshiwe, kusho lokho uzizwa ucindezelwe ngokweqile, ungenamandla okungakwazi ukubhekana nezinsongo ezikwenza ube mncane.
Lwela izinkolelo zakho! Kade abanye abantu ababoshiwe? Khona-ke yibo abangenayo inkululeko, noma okungenani yilokho okucabangayo. Lokhu kungenzeka uma ubona amazwe elwa nalabo bantu abangakwazi ukusebenzisa ilungelo labo lesithunzi nenkululeko yabantu. Uma uphupha iziboshwa zizama ukukulimaza ngaphakathi kweseli, kukhombisa ukwesaba kwakho ukuthi othile uzokwenzela wena. Sukuma ubhekane naye uma efuna ukukuzwisa ubuhlungu.
Belinjani iphupho lakho usejele futhi ulichaze kanjani?
Njengoba unikezwe izincazelo zangaphambilini, udinga nje ukungitshela nabafundi ulichaze kanjani iphupho lakho ngaphakathi ejele.
Ngabe uzizwe ukhonjwe ekhoneni ngoba bengakuvumeli wenze okuthile? Ngabe ubukele iziboshwa ziza kuwe? Ngabe bekunomgcini wejele ngaphesheya kwemigoqo obekuhleka? Ngabe wenze icala yingakho uboshwe?
Ngingathanda ukuzwa okuvelayo nokuthi kusho ukuthini kuwe.
Okuhlobene:
Uma uthole lolu lwazi mayelana ukuphupha ngejele, bese ngincoma ukuthi ufunde ezinye izindatshana ezifanayo esigabeni: C.
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