Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha izinja?

Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha izinja

Uma ufuna ukwazi nokwazi wonke amafayela we- izincazelo zamaphupho nezinja, ungayeki ukufunda le ndatshana ethokozisayo. Abantu abaningi bakhetha inja njengomngane othembekile, kuyisilwane esikhona ezimpilweni zethu, uma sinenja esihamba naye, noma sazi umuntu okwenzayo, ukuphupha ngaye kuvame kakhulu kunalokho esikucabangayo. Kodwa-ke, futhi yize izincazelo eziningi zilungile, amanye amaphupho ngalezi zilwane ezithandekayo ziyaphazamisa kancane.

Ngezimiso nezikhundla eziningi, ukuphupha inja kungaba nezincazelo eziningi kuye ngokuthi sihlangana kanjani nayo, noma ngabe iyayiphulula, igijima noma idlala ngayo. Kubalulekile uku Ukuba khona kwezilwane eziningi kanye nenja, yingakho sizokwazi imininingwane yephupho lakho.

Yini esingayihumusha emaphusheni nezinja?

Ngokuvamile, amaphupho ethu nezinja ahle futhi kusuka lapho sihlala sithola izincazelo ezinhle futhi sivuka sinemizwa emihle, kepha kufanele sicabangele izimo, izikhathi nezenzo ezithinta inja nathi.

Ngabe ubuphulula isilwane?

Uma uyiphulula ngobumnene inja kusho ukuthi unengqondo ecacile, leyo mpumelelo ikhona empilweni yakho yangakusasa njengoba injalo cishe ezandleni zakho, ukuphulula inja kusho ukuthi uzizwa uphelele nokuthi ufinyelele ezinhlosweni zakho, lokhu akuthinti uma unesifiso sokuvelela. Uma ngabe uyini ukubona ngeso lengqondo indlela oyiphathisa ngayo inja kufanekisela ubungani bakho, ubudlelwano bakho nabantu, uyathandana kakhulu futhi lapho ukuphela kufika, abantu abaningi bazokukhumbula.

Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha inja

Inja yayikhonkotha?

Buka ngeso lengqondo izinja ziyakhala, zikhonkotha noma zihhewula Okusekude kakhulu kungenxa yokuthi isenzo noma umuzwa usuzofika ongeke uwuthande futhi uzokuzwisa ubuhlungu, lokhu kungenxa yokuziphatha okubi ohlangothini lwakho, cabanga uma unokuthile ongakushintsha futhi ukwenze noma umphumela wawo ungathandi lutho. Lapho ingxabano isixazululiwe, leli phupho lizonyamalala.

Uke wazibona izinja ezifile?

Isilwane esifile asikaze sibe ibika elihle futhi uma kuyinja ukubonakaliswa kwaso kusesekubi, kusho izinguquko esikhathini esifushane, kufanele uhlaziye uma kungenxa yento oyenzile noma into ocabanga ukuthi abanye bangayenza wena.

Kufanele uthathe isinyathelo ngokushesha, ngoba bheka izinja ezifile kungukushesha okuvela engqondweni yakho ukushintsha okuthile.

Ukuphupha unyathela ubulongwe bezinja

Ukuphupha unyathela indle yenja kubeka kahle futhi kufanekisela inhlanhla. Kukhona okuzokuhambela kahle empilweni yakho kokubili emndenini, othandweni, empilweni noma ezingeni lemali. Uma unemibuzo eminingi ngalezi zihloko, sincoma ukuthi ufunde indatshana yethu ephelele ephupha ngendle.

Ake sazi izimpawu nezincazelo ezingaba khona zokuphupha ngezinja

Kungenzeka ukuthi uphuphe ezinye zezincazelo esesivele sikukhombisile zona, kepha uma amaphupho akho ehlukile kokuvamile lapha sikushiyela ezinye izincazelo zawo.

Bafile noma bayaphila?. Njenganoma yisiphi isilwane, ukubona izinja ezifile akusho okuhle.

Wendle, unesibindi noma uthukuthele. Ukubona ngamehlo lolu hlobo lwenja akufani nokuthile okubi, ukhombisa amandla akho kuphela, kuvame ukwenzeka lapho isimo sokuxineka okukhulu sidinga amakhono akho okuvikela, ungasabi, uzophuma uthukuthele.

Uma uthukuthele, hlola umndeni wakho nabangane, kungenzeka ukuthi kukhona omonile.

Limnandi imidlwane noma izinja ezinkulu?. Njengobubele besidlwane, ukubona lesi silwane kufanekisela ukuthi uthandana nothile osondelene naye, kepha uma inja isivele ikhulile, kufanele ubheke incazelo kwezinye izimpawu

Inja inodlame futhi iyasilimaza. Sibhekene nesimo sokuxwayisa ngoba kukhona umuntu osondelene nathi osizwisa ubuhlungu.

Imidlwane enemibala  Imibala eminingi ayinakho okufanekisa ngaphandle kokuthi imhlophe, okusho ukuthi ingqondo nomphefumulo wakho kumsulwa.

Ukugula noma ukufaLokhu akuyona neze into enhle, zinakekele okwakho nabantu abaseduze kwakho, kungakhombisa ukulahlekelwa yisihlobo noma ukuwohloka kobungane

Uhlangana nezilwane eziningi kuye nxazonke. Uma sibona inja ngeso lengqondo futhi siyikati, sizizwa sibuthakathaka esimweni esidlula thina, uma kunalokho siyinja, sikhombisa amandla.

Ingabe uhlasela ezinye izinja? Uma ubona ngeso lengqondo ukulwa kwezinja kungenxa yokuthi endaweni yakho yomndeni kunezimpi noma izingxoxo ezikuthinta kabi, zama ukuzixazulula ngokushesha okukhulu ukuze ukwazi ukuphumula.

Uyagula. Uma inja igula kungenxa yokuthi kunesimo esithile esikwenza ube buthakathaka, kufanele uthathe isinyathelo ngokushesha futhi uxazulule konke okukukhathazayo okuzungezile.

Njengesiphetho sikuthola lokho izilwane ze-canid zibeka inkinga lapho zikuluma, zikhonkotha noma zikuhlasela ngenjwayelo. Esikhundleni salokho, imidlwane yizimpawu zothando, kanye ne-caresses.

Sikumema futhi ukuba ufunde:

Uma ukujabulele ukufunda ngencazelo yokuphupha ngezinja, qiniseka ukuthi uvakashela izigaba zethu zaMaphupho Nezilwane.


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Yonke imininingwane yokuchazwa nokuchazwa kwaleli phupho ilungiselelwe kusetshenziswa uhla lwezincwadi ezihlonishwayo olwenziwe ngabahloli bezengqondo nabachwepheshe emkhakheni ofana nalokhu Sigmund Freud, UCarl Gustav Jung noma uMary Ann Mattoon. Ungabona konke imininingwane yohlu oluthile lwezincwadi ngokuchofoza lapha.

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