Uhlu lwethu lwe amagama anencwadi uN Bazosinika yonke leyo mininingwane efanele esiyidingayo ukuze sihumushe amaphupho ethu. Into ngayinye noma isenzo sikhona ukuletha incazelo kukho konke okwenzekayo okusizungezile.
Impela ukulwa kwethu okungazi lutho ukuthola incazelo yemizwa yethu ngayinye, nokuthi asazi ukuthi singahlaziya kanjani ngokuningiliziwe futhi kusibangela ukuthi singakutholi ukuqonda. Ngamazwi afana nekhala, omnyama, owolintshi, ubusuku, izingane ... azosinika leyo ncazelo uma usesha uhlu lwethu.
Emphakathini wanamuhla siphila sigcwele izinombolo okumele sikubambe ngekhanda: ifoni yethu, eyabangani, usuku lokuzalwa, ilotho esilithengile uma kungenzeka liphumelele. Ngakho-ke kujwayelekile unamaphupho ngezinombolo, ikakhulukazi uma uyingane futhi unezivivinyo zezibalo, uma kufanele uxazulule inkinga eyinkimbinkimbi lapho ungazitholi khona izibalo ezilindelekile. Kule ndatshana ngifuna ukuchaza ngokuningiliziwe kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ngezinombolo.
I-Los amaphupho okubhukuda kwesinye isikhathi zenziwa ngokuzenzekelayo futhi zingenzeka kunoma ngubani futhi, ngokuvamile, zikhombisa isidingo sokuqikelela ngokuziphatha komuntu. Ukubhukuda kuyisenzo somuntu esingaphansi kokuchazwa okuningi. Ezweni lamaphupho, labo bantu abajwayele ukubhukuda njalo maningi amathuba okuthi babe nalolu hlobo lwamaphupho, kanye nalabo abanechibi noma abaya olwandle. Kungenzeka ukuthi leli phupho libukeke lingajwayelekile kuwe noma ukuthi ulihlanganisa nento osuyiphile muva nje.
Noma ngabe yini, uzophupha ngokuthile, noma ngabe ungakhumbuli, futhi lowo mcabango wakhiqizwa kokungazi lutho inencazelo engachazwa. Kungakho namhlanje ngibhala le ndatshana ngamaphupho ahambisana nokubhukuda nakho konke ukutolika okungenzeka ngokuya ngomongo wako.
Uma usanda kuphupha ngengane futhi ungazi ukuthi ungayichaza kanjani, ungesabi, nakhu ngikulethela isixazululo: kule ndatshana ngizokugcina uphapheme kusho ukuthini ukuphupha izingane. Isikhathi esiningi lapho siphupha okuthile kufanele sikutolike ngalowo mzuzu ngoba kuhlobene nomcimbi othile osondele kulowo mzuzu. Wake wazizwa ukuthi kufanele dedela ingane engaphakathi kuwe? Ekuziphatheni futhi njengasebuntwaneni bakho, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka?
Ngokuvamile, izingane zifanekisela ubumsulwa, injabulo, ukungakhathali nothando lwayo yonke into. Kepha ukuphupha ngakho kungaba nokuhumusha okuningi kuye ngesimo okhonjiswa yi-subconscious yakho. Isibonelo, unga ukuphupha ingane ejabulayo, esanda kuzalwa, ekhalayo, egulayo noma efile. Ingabe blonde noma nsundu? Ingabe ihlanzekile noma ingcolile? Ucebile noma umpofu? Umongo ngamunye uhunyushwa ngenye indlela. Bazi bonke ngezansi.
Ochwepheshe be-Oneirology bayazihlanganisa ukuphupha iqhwa ngezincazelo ezinethemba. I-Psychoanalysis iyichaza njengophawu lwenyunyana yomndeni (ngoKhisimusi), ubumsulwa ngenxa yombala omhlophe wama-flakes, ukuvuseleleka kwengqondo ngenxa yokushisa kwayo. Uma usanda kubukela ibhayisikobho mayelana nesikhathi sasebusika lapho abantu abasha ababili behlangana futhi bethandana eNew York, uma likhithikile eduze kwendlu yakho noma usuke wayibona ezindabeni, akufanele usho ukuthi ukuhumusha okunye kubangelwe phupha, ngoba ungene koxhumana naye ngokusebenzisa izinzwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ukwazi okungaphansi komhlaba kuvuse isithombe sokuwa kweqhwa ngaphandle kwesizathu, ngokuqinisekile izizathu zizohluka kakhulu.
Khumbula ukuthi ukuphupha iqhwa kungaba nezincazelo eziningi, kusukela ukuhunyushwa kwe- bona ukuthi amakhekheba eqhwa awe kanjani ekuseni enenjabulo ebusika akufani nokuthi a ingcwaba leqhwa lingcwaba indlu yakho. Kungabuye kube nesiphepho, ulwandle oluseduze kwalo lugcwele iphunga, kungabanda kakhulu noma kushise, kwesinye isikhathi kube yiqhwa likashokoledi! Sizohlaziya zonke izimo ezingenzeka igxathu negxathu, uyabhalisa?