Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha iminyovu?

Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha iminyovu

I-Las iminyovu uhlobo lwesinambuzane esifana kakhulu nenyosi, ngakho-ke ukuchazwa kwephupho kuzofana ncamashi. Imvamisa kuhlobene nokwesaba esikutholayo ngalesi sinambuzane, futhi sesaba ukuthi kungasebenza nakithi. Futhi, uma sithole isitinyelwa sakamuva, lokhu kuzochaza iphupho. Manje, singathola futhi olunye uhlobo lokuhumusha maqondana ne- ukuphupha ngeminyovu.

Ukufeza ukucacisa okukhulu kunakho konke encazelweni, kuzodingeka ukuthi kukhunjulwe imininingwane eqondile evele ephusheni. Ngeke kufane nokubalekela umnyovu, ukujika uyibulale. Ungambona futhi emane emunca umpe ezimbalini (kulokhu, kufanele ufunde i- incazelo yokuphupha ngezimbali). Ukucacisa ukungabaza kwakho okungenzeka, senze ukukhetha kwezincazelo ezivame kakhulu.

Incazelo yokuphupha ngeminyovu

Njengalapho sichaza noma yiluphi uhlobo lwephupho, kungakuhle ukuthi siqaphele ngaphambi kokuzama ukuthola incazelo eqondile. Kungaba nezinkinga eziningi ezithinta ikhwalithi yokulala kwakho, nokuthi awukwazi lokhu. Ngalesi sizathu, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zikhuluma ngokubaluleka kokukwazi ukuvala izihloko nemisebenzi engakukhathaza ngesikhathi sokulala. Iminyovu ivame ukuhlotshaniswa ne- isigaba sokwesaba noma ukuba sengozini.

Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha uminyovu

Lena nje incazelo ejwayelekile. Kungenzeka kungakukholisi, ngakho-ke kuzofanele sengeze izinto zethu eziguquguqukayo, sicabangele umongo lapho kwenzeka khona le ndaba bese sengeza isimo sakho siqu. Uma ngabe uphuphe izinambuzane kepha hhayi iminyovu, sincoma izindatshana ku ukuphupha izinyosi emzimbeni y ukuphupha ngezinambuzane.

Iphupho leminyovu emikhulu

Iminyovu enosayizi omkhulu  Kuyizinkomba zokuthi kukhona usongo ebudlelwaneni bomuntu siqu (kokubili ubungani nothando). Ungagcina ngokulahlekelwa nguye uma ungenzi lutho ukushintsha izinto.

Ukuphupha ngokuhlatshwa ngumnyovu

Ukuphupha ukuthi uthola udosi oluvela kumnyovu. Kuyiphupho elimelelwe ngokwesaba ukuthi othile angakulimaza unganakile (ngemuva kwakho).

Kungenzeka ukuthi isitha sizama ukukwenzela umonakalo othile, kanti ukwazi kwakho okungaphansi komzimba kukuxwayisa ngakho. Isikhathi sokujika wenze okuthile.

Iphupho lesidleke somnyovu

Uma kuvela iphupho isidleke seminyo esindiza eduze kwakhoLokhu kuzosho ukuthi kunabantu abaningi esiyingini sakho sabantu obajwayele abazizwa benomona, abakufisela okubi noma abakwazi ukwehluleka kukho konke ohlela ukukwenza.

Uma ungumuntu osemusha futhi useSikhungweni, kungenzeka ukuthi isizathu sephupho sihlobene nomuntu omusha ojola naye.

Ukuphupha ukuthi iminyovu ikujaha

I-Los uphupha ngeminyovu lapho izinambuzane zikujaha khona  bafuna ukusitshela ukuthi sibhekene nenkinga esibalekela kuyo.

Uma bekwazi ukukubamba ngesikhathi sokulala, lokhu kusho ukuthi awenzi konke okusemandleni ukuvimbela izinkathazo.

Kepha uma ekwazi ukukhuphuka, kusho ukuthi, yize ungakayinqobi le nkinga, usendleleni efanele.

Ukuphupha ukuthi ubulala iminyovu

La ukutolika kokuphela komnyovu Kuhle, ngoba isitshela ukuthi sibhekene nale nkinga, nokuthi uzonqoba ukwesaba nokuthi uzokwazi ukuxazulula noma isiphi isimo.

Yize futhi kusitshela ukuthi akudingeki siyeke.

Ukuphupha ukuthi iqulu liyakujaha

Ukuphupha ukuthi iminyovu eminingi ikujaha futhi izama ukuyiqondisa. Kukhombisa ukuthi uhlose ukushiya ubungane obunobuthi obukusindayo.

Kungenzeka ukuthi uzizwe uthanda umuntu othile, kepha awulitholi ikusasa ebudlelwaneni. Kuhlobene futhi nesifiso sokushintsha indlela umphakathi wesaba ngayo.

Uma iphupho likukhombisa a isidleke somnyovu esingakuhlaseli kepha awenzi luthoLokhu kuzosho ukuthi uzizwa unenzondo ngento eyenziwe kuwe, noma kumane nje kuyinkomba yendlela owenza ngayo empilweni yakho, nokuthi kufanele iguquke.

Iminyovu imvamisa izinambuzane ezingeke zenze lutho kuwe uma ungazihlaseli. Uma une inyosi, kubhekisa eqinisweni lokuthi usuvele unaso isihlangu ongabhekana naso ngempilo ezokuletha esikhathini esizayo.

Ungafunda nangamaphupho we-bug ahlobene:

Uma lolu lwazi mayelana ukuphupha ngeminyovu lokho kuvele kuthakazelisa, futhi ungabheka isigaba samaphupho nezilwane.


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Yonke imininingwane yokuchazwa nokuchazwa kwaleli phupho ilungiselelwe kusetshenziswa uhla lwezincwadi ezihlonishwayo olwenziwe ngabahloli bezengqondo nabachwepheshe emkhakheni ofana nalokhu Sigmund Freud, UCarl Gustav Jung noma uMary Ann Mattoon. Ungabona konke imininingwane yohlu oluthile lwezincwadi ngokuchofoza lapha.

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