Incazelo yokuphupha ekhaya

Iphupho lekhaya kungaholela ekuhumusheni okuningi kokungazi kwethu. Ikakhulu ikhaya limele imizimba yethu ngokomzimba futhi igumbi ngalinye likhombisa isimo somqondo esingaphakathi kwethu. Ngokunjalo, lolu hlobo lwephupho lungahumusha ukukhathazeka kwethu, izifiso zethu, izidingo zethu ... futhi kuyenzeka kaningi ukuthi lokhu kuyenzeka. 

Uma kuvela iminyango ephusheni kunikezwa amathuba amasha, uma kungamagumbi angenalutho kufana nokungavikeleki, uphahla noma ingxenye ephezulu yendlu imele ubuhlakani bethu. Yebo uphupha ngomuzi wakho okhona manje kufana nokuthi ujabulile futhi kubonakala kukuhle kuwe, ukuphupha ngekhaya lakho lakudala labantwana kungasho ukuthi kungekudala sizothola izindaba ezimnandi. Kukhona ukutolika okungapheli, kufanele ubheke yonke imininingwane nezinto ukuze unikeze umongo osondele futhi wangempela.

Ngekhaya elikhulu elidala

Ukuphupha ngendlu enalezi zimpawu kukhombisa ukuthi ukwazi kwakho okungaphansi komhlaba kukuxwayisa ukuthi udinga izinguquko ezinhle thuthukisa indlela ophila ngayo. Mhlawumbe incazelo yehlukile futhi ngifuna ukukutshela ukuthi kusekhona izinto ezikubambezelayo ngokunganqobi okuthile okwenzeke esikhathini esedlule, okuthile okuhlobene nenani lomzwelo.

Uma indlu indala futhi yenziwe ngokhuni, indawo yonke ikutshela ukuthi udinga ukunakekelwa okuhle kusukela lapho impilo yakho ingawa yingakho kufanele uzinakekele kakhulu. Uma indlu indala futhi ilahliwe kufanele unake kakhulu umphumela ofanayo, kufanele ukwandise lokho kunganakwa empilweni yakho yangasese.

Uma indlu inkulu, singaxhumanisa lo muzwa nesifiso sokufuna ukuguqula impilo yakho nezinhloso ezintsha, kusho ukukhulisa ama-horizons ethu. Impela isimema ukuthi sikhuphule amaphrojekthi ethu futhi sifune ukuguqula impilo yethu ngezinselelo ezintsha.

Ngekhaya elimnyama

Lingachazwa na leli phupho noma iyiphi inkinga yamanje lokho kuyakuthinta. Kungenzeka kube inkinga yomndeni noma okuthile okukucasula emsebenzini. Impela usesimweni sokufuna ukuthi lesi simo sixazululwe ngokushesha okukhulu, ngoba ukhathazeke kakhulu.

Ngekhaya likanokusho

Iphupho lekhaya lokunethezeka ngokungangabazeki ibonisa izifiso zakhoLokhu kuhle ngoba kwandisa ukulindela kwakho ukwenza amaphrojekthi amasha, kepha kufanele uqaphele ukuthi ungahahi noma uhahe. Kungachazwa njengesivivinyo kuwe ukuthi uthathe isinqumo ebhizinisini lakho futhi uzithwale ngendlela efanele. 

Ngekhaya elilahliwe

Lolu hlobo lwephupho lungaba nokuhumusha okuningi, incazelo yalo ingahluka futhi inikeze umyalezo oveza kakhulu kuncike ekutheni indlu ikusiphi isimo somzimba. Uma indlu ishiyiwe kodwa ilungisiwe, kunjalo ngoba uzizwa ulahliwe nokuthi udinga isiphephelo. 

Uma indlu isincithakalo noma icekelwe phansi ukudabuka kwakho kuyakuthatha. Izoluchaza usizi okumele ngabe uluphethe, lungaholela ekutheni uhlangane nenkinga ethile yezempilo ebalulekile. Uma indlu isiyincithakalo ngokuphelele, kukhombisa ukulahleka kwezimiso zakho, ngasizathu simbe izindinganiso zakho seziwile.

Ngekhaya elakhiwayo

Ukuphupha ngesakhiwo kulingana no ufuna ukudala okuthile okuqinile nokuqinile esikhathini esizayo. Uma uphupha ngendlu eyakhiwayo, umkhakha wakho wobungcweti kumele ukuthi ulungiselela ukuhlanganisa okuthile okuqinile futhi okuzoba nekusasa. Uma indlu eyakhiwayo ingakaqedwa kungenxa yokuthi kufanele unake kakhulu amapulani akho, "ex" okhohliwe angavela futhi kufanele uzilungiselele ukubhekana nanoma yisiphi isimo esingalindelekile.

Ngendlu entsha

Kuyisibonakaliso esihle futhi ukuthi empilweni siyikho ukuvula iminyango emisha yamathuba. Kungasho futhi ukuthi sidinga izinguquko ezintsha futhi ukuzenza njengamanje kuzosenza sikhule kakhulu ezingeni lomuntu ngamunye.

Ngokuhlanza indlu

Kusho ukuthi kunjalo wenza izinguquko endleleni yakho yokuphila. Ngokuqinisekile kuhlotshaniswa nokwenza ngcono imvelo yomndeni wakho ngoba kuzoba nohlobo oluthile lokungqubuzana noma okuthile kushintshe ezinye izici. Uma ephusheni uhlanza igumbi lakho, limelela "mina" wakho wangaphakathi futhi likuxwayisa ngokuthi kufanele ushintshe ezinye izici zakho ukuze uthuthuke njengomuntu. 

Ngezinyoka ekhaya

Impela izinyoka zikuhumusha ngokungazethembi futhi zikuxwayisa lokho uchayeka ohlotsheni oluthile lokukhaphela, noma umndeni, noma nomlingani wakho noma nomngane. Utolika ukwesaba kwakho futhi uzokwazisa ukuthi awuzimisele ukuhlupheka nganoma yini. Uma ngabe ugula, kuqinisekile ukuthi futhi yisikhathi sokuveza ukungakhululeki kwakho. 

Kepha futhi ingaba nengxenye yayo enhle, kusukela ukuphupha izinyoka Kuwuphawu lokuvikelwa, impela usufinyelele esimweni sokuzethemba nokuphepha kuwe. Futhi uma uzizwa uqinisiwe futhi unamandla, kungaba yisikhathi sokuqala ukuzivuselela.