Wanna uyazi Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha abathakathi? Abathakathi abazona nje izinto zezingane. Imvamisa, yizingane ezisencane ezisengozini yokuba namaphupho amabi, ngoba lapho siseyizingane sasibesaba, ngaphezu kwezilo, izipoki y Ama-vampire. Abantu abadala bayabaphupha nabo. Isibonelo, uma uke wabona i-movie yobuthakathi noma i-wizardry, njengoHarry Potter, kungahle kube nengqondo ukuthi unamaphupho amabi ngabathakathi nobuthakathi ngalobo busuku.
Kodwa-ke, kubantu abavuthiwe bangavela ngaphandle kokuxhumana nanoma yini ehlobene, nokuba yinto eyenziwe ngokuzenzekelayo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uqale, khumbula ukuthi akuwona wonke amaphupho ngobuthakathi anencazelo efanayo. Ungabona ifayela le- umthakathi endiza ngomshanelo wakhe, ukuba muhle noma kubi, ukukuthakatha, ukukujaha nokukuhlasela. Ingabe zinhle noma zimbi ngensumpa emakhaleni azo? Ingabe bayahleka noma bayakhala? Ngabe banekati ezandleni zabo noma ngabe bahamba nosathane (lapho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi uthole okwengeziwe ngalo Phupha amadimoni uthandaze)? Umongo ubalulekile yingakho siqala ekutolikeni okujwayelekile ukuholela kokucacile kakhulu.
Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ngobuthakathi, iziphonso nabathakathi?
Imvamisa, ochwepheshe be-onirology bachaza ukuthi iphupho lobuthakathi lingachazwa ngamaphuzu amabili.
- Okokuqala, abathakathi izidalwa ezizulazula umshanelo wazo zodwa, ngakho lokho kusho ukuthi okwakho ukwesaba ukufa wedwa, ukuphelelwa abangane.
- Okwesibili, labo bantu abazama ukukulimaza kufanele babaxoshe noma yini edingekayo gwema ukukhwabaniswa noma ukulinyazwa. Lezi zilingo zinhle kakhulu ekuzixosheni.
Lokhu kungaba ukuhumusha okujwayelekile, futhi njengoba ngichazile kufanele uhlaziye isimo sakho siqu, ukwesaba nezifiso zakho kanye nezwekazi i-subconscious eyakhele ukulala. Ake sibheke ezinye izindaba ezizwakalayo.
Iphupho labathakathi ababi
Uma uqaphela ukuthi umthakathi uyibonisa kanjani intukuthelo nomona phezu kwakho, ungazizwa ufana ncamashi ngaleso sikhathi empilweni yakho. Ingabe uthukuthele umuntu? Awukhulumanga yini nomngane isikhathi eside? Ngabe uzizwa uthukuthele futhi ufuna ukuziphindiselela kumuntu okuzwise ubuhlungu? Ngenkathi ulele, kuyinto ejwayelekile kuwe ukubona ukuthi ubathakatha kanjani. Kwesinye isikhathi baze bahambe nosathane (iya lapha ukuthola kabanzi mayelana uphupha nosathane).
Ukuphupha abathakathi bebuthaka
Ingabe uzizwa ubuthakathaka? Ubuntu obuthakathaka buthakathaka bungaphathwa amaphupho amabi abathakathi. Kusho onakho ukwesaba ukulinyazwaUkhohlakele uma uthi cha, kulula ukuzithonya wenze izenzo ongeke uziqhenye ngazo. Ngamafuphi, uma wazi ukuthi abantu bangasebenzisa ubuhle bakho, i-subconscious iyakukhombisa kuleli phupho.
Okunye okuhlukile okungenzeka kube ne- ukubaluleka komlando. Khumbula ukuthi ngeNkathi Ephakathi kwakukhona ukuzingelwa kwabathakathi, abathakathi nabahedeni ababeshumayela ngokuphikisana nemithetho yeSonto. Babashisile, babengabavumeli ukuthi banikeze umbono wabo. Ungacabanga ngento efanayo ngenkathi ulele uma ungenalo ikhono lokunquma, akuvumeli ukuthi uthenge into ekwenza uthokoze, uma ucindezelwe ngokungakwazi ukunikeza umbono wakho.
Iphupho labathakathi abaningi bendiza
Kwenzeka okufanayo uma uphupha izangoma eziningi ezindiza phezu kwakho, zikujaha, zikuhlasela futhi zihleka futhi. Sekuyisikhathi yisho okucabangayo, ungazivali izinkolelo zakho zangaphakathi zokuthi uphila ngentando yeningi yalokho
Iphupho lomthakathi omuhle
Imvamisa kuhunyushwa lokho uyawuthanda umlingo nomhlaba wobuthakathi. Mhlawumbe ingqondo yakho ikuthumela isexwayiso sokuba ngumlingo.
Ngiphupha umthakathi onekati
Futhi, uma uphethe ikati ezandleni zakho, kusho ukuthi umnandi futhi ubuzojabulisa abantu (bheka ukuthi yini kusho ukuphupha ikati).
Ukuphupha umthakathi elobola
Wake wazibuza ukuthi ngabe lelo "phupho elibi" labangelwa yi-nostalgia? Ama-cauldrons agcwele izithako eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nokububende ukuphonsa iziphonso neziphonso ezintweni ezimbi, umshanelo ukundizela phezulu, induku yokwenza umlingo ... Mhlawumbe uyasikhumbula isigaba sakho sobuntwana, njengengane.
Ividiyo yencazelo yokuphupha ngabathakathi
Uma lesi sihloko mayelana kusho ukuthini ukuphupha abathakathiKe mina asikisela uvakashela nezinye ezihlobene esigabeni amaphupho aqala ngohlamvu B.
Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha iziphonso nomuntu ofile nobuthakathi?
Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha abathakathi bese leya isho igama lami lokho kungithakatha, (lokhu kuphuphe umfowethu).