Kuke kwenzeke yini kuwe ukuthi uvuke ucindezelekile ngenxa yephupho elibi owabanjwa ngalo? Ukuphupha uhlaselwa akusona isimanga, esikhathini esithile ekuphileni kwethu singazibona sikuleso simo emaphusheni ethu.
Kodwa ingabe linencazelo? Uma ukucabangela futhi kukhona izingxenye zephupho ozikhumbula ngokucace kakhulu, lapha sizozama ukwenza umqondo walokho i-subconscious yakho ezama ukukutshela yona.
Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha uhlaselwa
Ukuhlupheka ukuhlaselwa akuyona into ejabulisayo. Uhlale unokungakhululeki emzimbeni. Futhi uma sikhuluma ngamaphupho, ukuphupha ukuhlasela kungakwenza uzizwe ngendlela efanayo naleyo engokoqobo. Okusho ukuthi, kuyakwethusa, kukwenza uzizwe kabi, futhi uzizwe ungenamandla.
Kodwa iqiniso yilokho incazelo enikezwayo ekuphupheni ngokushaywa akuyona, neze, inegethivu, kodwa ilungile kakhulu. Kangangokuthi incazelo enayo ukuthi izinto ezinhle zizofika empilweni yakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi izinkinga ziyaxazululwa, kufika inhlanhla, amaphrojekthi amasha amahle, njll.
Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukuzola. Kube yiphupho abaningi abalichaza njengephupho elibi. Manje, hlaziya yonke into oyikhumbulayo kulelo phupho futhi unake ngokukhethekile lezo zingxenye ozikhumbula kakhulu. Imininingwane, izenzo, imishwana, njll. Ngakho konke lokhu singaqagela incazelo engcono futhi silindele lokho okutshelwa yi-subconscious yakho ukuze uthole isixazululo.
Iphupho lokuhlaselwa nokufa
Akekho noyedwa, ngisho nasemaphusheni, ongafisa ukufa komuntu, okungenani kunabo bonke ohlonishwayo. Yingakho ke, ukuphupha uhlaselwa futhi kushone umuntu akukuhle ngokwengqondo.
Manje, kuye ngokuthi ubani ofayo, incazelo iyodwa noma enye. Isibonelo, uma umuntu ofayo engumuntu obalulekile kumphuphi, ke i-subconscious yakho ikutshela ukuthi udinga ukucela iseluleko ngento ekukhathazayo.
Uma, ngakolunye uhlangothi, umuntu ofayo engumhlaseli, isela, konke kuyashintsha. Esimweni esinjalo ikhuluma ngokuphela kwezinkinga ezikhona, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwabantu ababili ababeyizitha ngaphambili.
Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha inkunzi kuhlonyiwe
Uma ephusheni lakho okwenzekayo kuwukuphanga okuhlomile, lapha kuzoxhomeka kulokho okuphuphile noma okukhumbulayo.
Isibonelo, uma ubona ukugetshengwa kuhlonyiwe, kodwa akuwena okwenzayo, noma kuwusongo lokugetshengwa, i-subconscious yakho ikutshela ukuthi izimpahla zakho, lokho onakho, kuphephile nokuthi izimali , izindleko, amaphrojekthi, njll. Basendleleni efanele.
Uma kunguwe okushayayo, nakuba singase sicabange ukuthi kuyinto embi, empeleni incazelo ihluke kakhulu, kuhle ngoba kukhombisa ukuthi uzothola lezo zinzuzo zomsebenzi ubufunani.
Manje, kuthiwani uma ubhekana nalokho uhlomile? Kulokhu, uma umelana nalokho kugetshengwa, into evamile ukuthi ikutshela ukuthi kukhona abantu eduze kwakho abangakunika izinkinga. Kungaba ngenxa yomona, umonakalo, noma ukufuna ukukulimaza ngandlela thize.
Phupha ngokushaywa ngesibhamu
Ukuphupha uhlaselwa ngesibhamu akulungile nakho. Empeleni, kubonisa ukuthi kunezinkinga ezingokwengqondonoma. Isibonelo, ukuthi uhlushwa ukucindezeleka okukhulu, ukuthi kukhona ukucindezeleka okuqalayo, noma ukuthi isimiso sakho sithinta isimo sakho sengqondo.
Isixazululo kulokhu silula, ngoba Kusho ukushintsha kancane usuku lwakho nosuku ukuze uthuthuke, ikukhuthaze futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuthi uqhubeke uzizwa ukahle.
Uma kungenjalo, lezo zinkinga ezingokwengqondo zingathinta impilo yakho.
Baphuphe befuna ukukuphuca kodwa behluleka
Izikhathi eziningi abantu abathuli lapho bephathwa kabi futhi lapho benza okuthile kithi, siyasabela. Yilokhu okungenzeka ephusheni lakho. Mhlawumbe uzithola usesimweni lapho ubanjwa inkunzi, kodwa esikhundleni sokubambisana naleso sigebengu, ubeka impi kuze kube yilapho ungayifezi inhloso.
Uma lokho kuhlasela kungaqediwe, khona-ke umuzwa wakho omncane ufuna ukukutshela ukuthi izinkinga ziyeza. Kungenzeka ukuthi lesi akusona isikhathi sokusebenzisa imali, ukuthi akufanele uqale iphrojekthi, njll.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke kuhlobene nezimali zomuntu (noma ezingeni lochwepheshe); isizathu sokuthi kungani ngaleso sikhathi kufanele uhlaziye futhi uze uvumele isikhathi sidlule kancane.
Ukuphupha ubanjwa inkunzi ngommese
Incazelo yokuphupha uhlaselwa ngommese empeleni ayilungile njengoba kwenzeka emacaleni adlule. Uma ubona into efana nale ephusheni lakho, umehluko nalezi zangaphambilini kulowommese. Lifana nentukuthelo, ulaka futhi lisikisela ukusikwa. Kusho ukuthini?
Ungathola "ngaphambi nangemuva" empilweni yakho. Ngokwesibonelo, ngoba uzolahlekelwa umsebenzi; ngoba uzolahlekelwa umholo wakho... Ngamanye amazwi, kuyibika lokuthi uzolahlekelwa okuthile ngokomsebenzi noma ngokwakho.
I-subconscious yakho ifuna ukukutshelani uma uphupha inkunzi ekhaya?
Ake sithi uphupha ufika ekhaya uthole ukuthi ubanjwe inkunzi. Lokhu kungaba yingxenye yempilo yangempela, lapho kwenzeka ephusheni kusho ukuthi kukhona okungenzeka ukuthi ulahlekelwe empilweni, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuzophinde kuvele.
Manje futhi kungabonisa ukuthi kukhona abantu abathile eduze kwakho abangajabule ngezimpumelelo zakho, kodwa ngokuphambene, futhi laba bazoba izitha ngomzuzwana othile.
Enye yezincazelo ezinikezwayo iqiniso lokulahlekelwa ngokwezimali. Akusho ukuthi ngeke ululame, kodwa kuyakuxwayisa ngokuthile okuzayo.
Ukuphupha ugetshengwa emzini womunye umuntu
Incazelo yokuphupha ngokuhlaselwa kwendlu yomunye umuntu izoncika ohlotsheni lwendlu. Futhi kungukuthi, uma umnikazi wendlu ehlobene nawe (umndeni, umngane, umuntu omaziyo...) bese ikutshela ukuthi lowo muntu usenkingeni futhi udinga ukwesekwa nguwe ukuya phambili. Ngokubona kwakho, kuyakwazisa ukuthi siyeza isikhathi lapho kufanele uqine futhi uthole lowo muntu omthandayo phambili.
Uma umi eduze, noma ucasha, kubonisa ukuthi unobuntu obubuthakathaka kakhulu futhi awuthandi ukubhekana nezinkinga, ngisho nalapho ungaba ikhambi labo. Kunalokho, uma wenza okuthile, kuyosho ukuthi ungakwazi ukwehla usebenze ukuze usize abanye.
Kanti kwenzakalani uma kubanjwa inkunzi emzini womunye umuntu ongawazi? Ikutshela ukuthi udinga ukwenza ushintsho empilweni yakho njengoba isimo sakho sengqondo kanye nemizwa yakho kungekona okufanele kakhulu futhi kufanele ume futhi ubone ukuthi indlela oyithathayo ngempela ikufanele yini kakhulu.
Njengoba ubona, ukuphupha uhlaselwa akukubi njengoba ungase ucabange ekuqaleni. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi ngeke uvuke kahle kakhulu, ngoba ukuhlaselwa akuyona into engafunwa yinoma ubani, kodwa okungenani ezimweni eziningi incazelo ilungile futhi iwuphawu lokubikezela okuhle.
