Wanna uyazi Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ulwandle? Ukuphupha olwandle imvamisa kuyinto ejabulisa kakhulu. Amabhishi angaba ngamatshe noma isihlabathi. Lezi zakamuva sezindala njengoba izinhlabathi ezizakha sezivele zacutshungulwa. Isithombe solwandle sihlotshaniswa namaholide, nokuziphumuza, nomsebenzi wokuzilibazisa sonke esifuna ukuwenza lapho kufika ihlobo (noma nganoma yisiphi esinye isikhathi sonyaka). Lesi sifiso singaveza amaphupho ahlobene.
Kujwayelekile ukuthi yingqondo yakho ezama ukukuthumela umyalezo, nokuthi ihumushe ukuthi kungani uphuphe amabhishi. Kepha ngeke kube yilokho kuphela: kuzofanela futhi ukuthi uthole futhi uhlaziye umongo uqobo, kanye nesimo sakho samanje. Ngeke kufane ukukuthola ephathini lolwandle ebusuku, kunokuthi uma kukhona i- tsunami phakathi kolwandle. Kunezincazelo eziningi ezingaba khona - futhi lezi yizona ezidume kakhulu.
Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ulwandle?
Kunezizathu ezintathu ezinkulu zokuthi kungani singaphupha olwandle. Akukhona ukuthi babodwa, kepha amaphupho angaphezu kwama-90% anamabhishi ahlobene nesinye sezizathu ezi-3.
- Ngokuvamile ibhishi lisho ukuthi sifuna ukuphumula kancane futhi hamba uye eholidini. Iphinde ikhombe isidingo sethu sokukhipha izinkinga ezingqondweni zethu, noma izinsuku ezimbalwa. Kungenzeka ukuthi sicabanga ukuthatha uhambo lokuya endaweni lapho kunolwandle khona. Kulokhu ungafunda kabanzi mayelana ne- ukuphupha ngokuhamba. Yisixazululo esithandekayo sokulwa nengcindezi. Uma kungenzeka ukuthi ubusekhaya isikhathi esithile esiyisidina, ingqondo yakho ingakubuyisela leli phupho. Mhlawumbe kufanele ufune ezinye izinto ezintsha ozozijabulisa ngosuku lwakho.
- Abanye ochwepheshe bayakuqinisekisa lokho ukuphupha ngamabhishi ahlotshaniswa ne- umqondo onamandla okwenziwa, maqondana neqiniso lokuthi amanzi olwandle ahlala ehamba. Ungahle uhlale wenza izinqumo ezibalulekile futhi ungalokothi uvumele ukuqapha kwakho nganoma yini. Unesibindi ngemibono emisha futhi unobuhlakani obukhulu bokuqamba amaphrojekthi, noma ngabe ayinkimbinkimbi futhi angabeka engcupheni ezingeni lakho lezomnotho.
- Ekugcineni esinye isizathu esijwayelekile sokuphupha ulwandle sihlobene ngifeze inhloso. Kungenzeka ukuthi uphakamise ukuthi bakhuphule umholo wakho futhi ekugcineni bakwenzile, ukuthi ungathanda ukwenziwa ngcono kwezimo zabo zokusebenza, ukuthi ufuna umuntu ozoshada naye (ungafunda kabanzi mayelana ukuphupha ngokushada). Kulokhu, ukuphupha ibhishi kusho ukuthi isiphepho sesidlulile nokuthi manje ukuthula kuyaqala.
Yize lokhu kuyizincazelo ezintathu ezivame kakhulu, kunezinye eziqonde ngqo esizozichaza ngezansi:
Iphupho lolwandle lwasezulwini
Uma uke waphupha ngokuthola wena ebhishi eliyipharadesi lalabo abavela kumabhayisikobho anamanzi acwebile we-crystal nesihlabathi esimhlophe kangangoba ungantanta kuwo, khona-ke ukuqonda kwakho okukhombisa ikhono lokubona ubumsulwa kumuntu ngamunye. Kusho nokuthi ulungile ngokwazi izinhloso zabantu ngokubabheka nje. Incazelo ivamise ukuba nhle kakhulu, ngoba lokhu kuzokuvimbela ukuthi ungakhashelwa umuntu osondelene naye.
Iphupho lolwandle lwesihlabathi esimhlophe
Ngokuqondene nesihlabathi esimhlophe kusho ubumsulwa, iqiniso lokuthi abantu abakangcoliswa yimvelo yabo.
Iphupho lolwandle ebusuku
Ukuphupha sisebhishi futhi kusebusuku kusho lokho uzizwa uthanda ukuphuma. Ufuna ukubona abangane bakho futhi, uhleke ezingxoxweni zabo futhi, uzwe umoya wasolwandle, ubaleke emsebenzini noma ezifundweni kancane. Ngamafuphi, udinga ukuzijabulisa okuncane.
Ngiphupha ibhishi elingcolile
Ingabe ibhishi belingcolile? Ibhishi elingcolile lingahunyushwa ngokuthi yindlela okhulelwa ngayo umphefumulo wakho. Uma kwenzeka lokho awuphilileUkuthi wenze okuthile ocabanga ukuthi akulungile komunye umuntu, kungahle kube yisakho uqobo esikwenza uzisole. Lapho ulwa necala, ukungcola kudlula emqondweni wakho, bese kuphuma kube yiphupho elibi. Ngakho-ke, unesifiso sokwazi okwengeziwe nge ukuphupha ngodaka.
Nginamaphupho amabhishi angenawo amanzi
Kungenzeka ukuthi ibhishi elingenamanzi livele ephusheni lakho. Amanzi asobala asidlulisa ukuthula ... kepha uma kwenzeka engenalutho kuzosho lokho isizungu siyakuthatha. Uma wehlukana nomlingani wakho esikhathini esithile esidlule, kungaba yisikhathi esihle sokuxhumeka kabusha, ukuthola umuntu omusha ozogcwalisa impilo yakho.
Iphupho lolwandle olunqunu
Wake waphupha olwandle olunqunu? Umuntu onqunu uphathelene ne- uhlamvu oluvulekile ngezindlela ezahlukene. Kungenzeka ukuthi awukholelwa ekubeni nomlingani oyedwa (unkosikazi oyedwa) nokuthi ucabanga ukuthi ubudlelwano obubodwa kumele bube nendawo yabo ukuze busebenze. Amaphupho anamabhishi anqunu ahlukahlukene kakhulu.
Uma uke waphupha ngokufana ukuphupha olwandle noma olwandle (funda imininingwane engaphezulu mayelana nokuphupha kolwandle lapha), singakuthokozela uma wabelana ngesipiliyoni kumazwana ethu. Ngakho-ke, abanye bazokwazi nokuhumusha iphupho lakho.
Ividiyo yencazelo yokuphupha olwandle
Uma lesi sihloko mayelana kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ulwandle kube nentshisekelo yakho, ngakho-ke ngiphakamisa ukuthi ufunde ezinye izindatshana ezihlobene esigabeni samaphupho esiqala nge incwadi P.
Sole ngebhishi elalinamatshe amancane kodwa esihlabathini babebonakala bephuma emanzini amanzi ahlanzekile. Ngibe naleliphupho ehlobo. Futhi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule ngiphuphe ngolwandle olufanayo kepha ngingenamanzi
Ngiphuphe ngisesogwini lolwandle futhi kuza igagasi
Futhi ngokungazelelwe kufane nokuthi babeke ikhefu kakhulu
Ngoba umhlaba wonke ubelokhu uhamba kodwa ulwandle lwama, kufana nokuthi sebeke ikhefu kuwo
Ngavuka ngikhathazeke kakhulu
Ephusheni lami yonke into ibimpunga futhi bengifuna isigebengu salokho